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Trust We all know how essential trust is to a successful D/s relationship. It’s become so commonplace for me to trust my Sir that there are some things I can trust without question. I trust he has my best interest at heart. I trust him not to cheat on me, and even as insecure as I am I do not worry over this. I could go on, but there are a thousand ways trust is woven into our relationship. But the truth is that trust doesn’t always come easy. Trusting when he says he loves me as much as I love him, isn’t as easy as trusting him to stop when I say our safeword. Trusting when he says we’ll find time to connect when our schedules seem determined to tear us apart, isn’t as easy. Trusting when he asks me to believe the hard times aren’t permanent, well, you guessed it's…not as easy. I have to remind myself that this isn’t a blind faith. This trust was earned. I force myself to bypass fear and insecurity and see the reality. How can I trust that he won’t lie to me? I look back and I see a pattern of him coming to tell me even the hard things. How can I believe when he says he loves me but the words seem flat? I look at the actions. I let the thousands of actions speak when the words seem hoarse. Some days are darker than others. Seeing these things through a haze of insecurity can be difficult. But I chose him to lead. I trust him because he showed me I could. And I’ll try to see past my fears because it’s unfair to ask him to lead unless he can trust that I will follow. pleasurewhore~  "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.” |
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12/19/2018 8:38 am |
Feelings of insecurity is not a good thing. Yes, the D/s relationship is based on trust and more I would hope. If the Dominants kink is related to corporal or humiliating postures, I can see how feelings of insecurity come to the surface. You have offered and given your submission to Him. I can't find the words I am trying to convey. This is an important and heartfelt post. It is based on truth. I am just trying to say that I care. 
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Exactly why it works.... So awesome
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And that's the way it works. "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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