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aliljaded 53F
23949 posts
2/15/2019 10:11 am
Patience

There is a time after the cuffs are fastened, the blindfold in place, the last knot tied, when we must practice a discipline that neither of us is particularly good at. A time when our anticipation and excitement are at their zenith when all we want to do is devour and be devoured. This is the hardest part of all.

For it is not the things that come next that are the real challenge for us, you and I. We know what we like and what we want, the pleasures and pains, the murmurs and cries. These are the reason we are here. We do not cringe at the spankings and floggings, the pinch of the pegs, the pleasing and denial. We do not shrink from fears of the unknown or concerns over harming or being harmed. No, in those places we are at our most comfortable, for we have absolute knowledge, faith, and trust in each other.

The part that challenges us most, the thing we have to work the hardest to succeed, is the waiting. Calming the breath. Slowing the pulse. Giving time, time. This is the hard stuff. Being in the moment. Not anticipating. Not needing. Not preordaining. Just the two of us, separate in body and space, merged in thought and intent.

We know where we are going. We know what we want. Now is the time to savor exactly where we are. Here. Now. Us.

Patience.



Caption © For The Love of a Submissive, 2013


"Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”


DOIT2IT3 54M
36 posts
2/15/2019 4:57 pm

Patience is a virtue and anything worth the wait is great. Great read!


drmgirl622 68F  
25884 posts
2/15/2019 3:07 pm

oh.....that anticipation......hard yet delicious


keithandrew1967 56M

2/15/2019 10:38 am

great read while i sip my coffee ty


aliljaded 53F
8847 posts
2/15/2019 10:16 am

Anything worth having is worth waiting for.

"Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”



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