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Losing Someone Grief can destroy you --or focus you. You can decide a relationship was all for nothing if it had end in death, and you alone. OR you can realize that every moment of it had more meaning than you dared recognize at the time, so much meaning it scared you, so you just lived, just took for granted the love and laughter of each day, and didn't allow yourself to consider the sacredness of it. But when it's over and you're alone, you begin to see that it wasn't just a movie and a dinner together, not just watching sunsets together, not just scrubbing a floor or washing dishes together or worrying over a electric bill. It was everything, it was the why of life, every event and precious moment of it. The answer the mystery of existence is the love you shared sometimes so imperfectly, and when the loss wakes you the deeper beauty of it, the sanctity of it, you can't get off your knees for a long time, you're driven your knees not by the weight of the loss but by gratitude for what preceded the loss. And the ache is always there, but day not the emptiness, because nurture the emptiness, take solace in it, is disrespect the gift of life Dean Koontz, Odd Hours "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.” |
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Embrace the grief always for it will bring comfort in days to come...….. "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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In time we find less grief in the losing . . and more enjoyment in the knowing, the loving and the time we had. Trust me the waves will still come and they will overwhelm you . . but you will come to embrace that because you know they are still a part of you that time cannot erase. "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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Thank you so much, my friend. "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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8/22/2019 7:23 pm |
It is helpful to read this. Music became painfully one stage y yesterday when the lyrics of , "You were always on my mind" were playing. Better to have loved and lost..😂
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8/22/2019 7:21 am |
In time we find less grief in the losing . . and more enjoyment in the knowing, the loving and the time we had. Trust me the waves will still come and they will overwhelm you . . but you will come to embrace that because you know they are still a part of you that time cannot erase.
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Embrace the grief always for it will bring comfort in days to come...…..
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If I could only call him ... . You know how it goes. "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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Profound grief is the price we pay for profound love. Whilst I wish I could escape the endless, empty yearning for her, the silence when I call her name and hope against hope for an answer that I know can never come, I would not trade a day of our love against an end to the sorrow I feel at her passing. My grief is a badge of honour of the love that I fell for her now, then and always. It has already been 7 years. "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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Profound grief is the price we pay for profound love. Whilst I wish I could escape the endless, empty yearning for her, the silence when I call her name and hope against hope for an answer that I know can never come, I would not trade a day of our love against an end to the sorrow I feel at her passing. My grief is a badge of honour of the love that I fell for her now, then and always. It has already been 7 years.
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If I could only call him ... . You know how it goes.
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Grief breeds strength!
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Grief comes in waves. Every time I think I'm past it, it rears it's ugly head once again. "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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