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Contacting me - IMPORTANAT please read So here we are, my first post to this blog. I consider this particular topic modestly important so I I'll be pinning it to the top of my blog as I start to create other entries. For those of you who are interested in contacting me, I thought I'd give you a little help in writing. Ok, so this post is going to be part rant, part helpful suggestions. What can I say, I'm a multi-talented girl. So, I'll start with the rant part. One thing that really annoys me is when someone sends me a message to contact me and it's a sentence or worse yet just a phrase. If you're not going to make an effort to impress me, why make the effort at all. I'm not saying one has to write a novel, but say something more than, "Hi there," or "I want you." Anyone who writes so little either doesn't really expect me to respond no matter what they write, an incorrect assumption I might add, or they don't respect me enough as person to be bothered with an honest attempt at contact. That is definitely not the way to get me to respond back. That ends the rant portion of this post. Now for something constructive. So, if you really want to contact me, and want me to respond you need to write more than a line or two. Lets face it there are dozens of things you can say in your first message. All it takes is a little thought. I'll give you a few possibilities to start you off. 1) You can start off with a little about yourself. I'm not just talking about your age, height, weight, hair and eye color. Though those are useful. I'm talking about things like what you like to do in and outside the lifestyle, your hobbies, maybe something about your personality. You may or may not have put this in your profile, but putting it in you message will make it more likely that I will go peek at your profile to find what you didn't mention. Not to mention increasing your chances of getting a response from me. 2) You can tell me what it is your looking for. How am I supposed to gauge whether I'm right for you (or you're a good fit for me) if you don't tell me what you seek: what you like? Hmmmm? I'm not a mind reader (and if I were I wouldn't admit it). 3) You can tell me some of the things you found interesting about my profile. What about my profile prompted you to to write? This also gives you a chance to say why we might be comparable. Neat, huh?  Now if you've done just that little bit, you have a first message that is at least 3 paragraphs, probably more. I know, it requires a bit of thought and effort, but let me tell you, I am worth it.  Actually, if you do just that much contacting most anyone on here, you'll be more likely to get their attention.Oh and one last thing that will get you noticed, use correct spelling and grammar (do not use text speak), and proof read your message before sending it. You shouldn't need to be too concerned about the space either. I've sent messages of 10,000 characters before on here, and to give you an idea of the space you have this post is a little over 3,000 characters with spaces. It doesn't have to be perfect, but it will show you care about how you come across. It's like taking a shower and putting on a clean shirt for a first date. It's presenting a good first impression.  See, I told you I would help. Everything I've said here doesn't just apply to contacting me. Anyone on this or other contact sites you're wanting to send a message to will be much more impressed by this than by, "Hey there, let's fuck." Really. Take care Bri |
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3/5/2019 11:23 pm |
no shame in being a bitch there is shame in not being considerate of those whom you are trying to contact. I dont respond to one liners being a Domme I dont jump though hoops the hoops are for those who enjoy jumping through them. If you want to catch my eye and have any interaction with me then act like it. Good post thank you for sharing your thoughts on the subject.
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10/19/2021 2:20 am |
hello this is just a short note going over what you have said it's a great read, loved going over it and is so true hope to read more from you over time hope you have a great day
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