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dollcd 39T
783 posts
8/23/2019 11:43 am
advice from female dominants


I dont know if I will get any responses to this question but I thought I had to try and see if anybody would give actual advice.

If I am at a bar, how do you tell if someone at the bar is dominant (and you know what I mean). and even if I have the feeling they are, how do I hint at the fact I am submissive?

I am very good at talking with people, once we get talking, I am just very shy at first. I am far to nervous of making myself look like an ass lol.

Are there indicators to kind of look for or is it more just go and possible make a fool of myself lol.

THank you in advance for any responses.

Kisses,
Courtney

dollcd 39T
397 posts
8/23/2019 11:44 am

Please be respectful, I am looking for helpful comments not to be made fun of because of this post.


olderdaddy_63 68M

8/23/2019 12:42 pm

If you are the right type of bar it should be obvious


drmgirl622 68F  
25884 posts
8/23/2019 1:00 pm

I think body language can tell you quite a bit.......


lowrider2014 63M
94 posts
8/23/2019 1:37 pm

Be respectful, talk intelligently and try to be a good listener. The right Mistress always seem to know


Aislin 39F  
8605 posts
8/23/2019 2:00 pm

    Quoting  :

yeah, exactly what you said

although, I am curious about what is, the "right type of bar"


I am aroused by my own darkness and there is no cure.


Aislin 39F  
8605 posts
8/23/2019 2:05 pm

I never discuss such things at a bar thinking it is definitely a risk however when I do want to rid myself of attentions usually my friends I am hanging with will blab out, I am evil and I will do evil things.

Maybe a munch is safer for such forward conversations but either way, be yourself safe.


I am aroused by my own darkness and there is no cure.


MissCesca 53F

8/24/2019 5:24 am

I don’t really have any good advice for you as I would not go to a bar to find a submissive, unless, of course, it was a slosh or a kink club. Then, as another poster mentioned, it would be fairly obvious. But I’m not looking for a casual fling- is that what you are looking for in this question? I have always found it useful to identify like minded places on sites like this one and connect through there.


Gowron 69M
3089 posts
8/24/2019 6:54 am

A guy told me once he spotted me as a submissive because I kept my knees always together and my hands on my lap. Not sure it works for everybody.


9161003 67T

9/7/2019 2:13 pm

Joking comment follows. If you end up with a cock in your mouth,you have foun a dominant......


dollcd replies on 9/8/2019 10:26 am:
LOL, i am well aware that may be where i end up


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