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Common myths about D/s: Common myths about D/s: Dominants are naturally cruel people. submissives are naturally weak-willed "doormats." submissives are attempting to re-live childhood abuse. Women who are into D/s are nymphomaniacs, or indiscriminate sex partners. D/s is usually a case of "role-reversal" with people who have much power and responsibility in real life often preferring a submissive role. There is little or no factual evidence to support any of these concepts; submissives and Dominants come from a broad spectrum of society and most people into BDSM are very selective about who they play with. Considering the risks, this is not surprising. The idea that submissive women are sexually indiscriminate likely stems from pornographic fiction and the appeal of an insatiable partner who will do anything one commands. In real life this is rarely the case. There is no evidence that people into D/s or BDSM have any greater history of childhood abuse than the general populace, but as people who were abused as are more likely to seek professional help, these are the ones that professionals see and write about. The "role-reversal" myth likely stems from studies done in the 1950's which found that most of the in houses of domination were wealthy, powerful men. This is probably more due to the high fees charged in such houses (often $200-$5,000 a session) than a dearth of impoverished submissives. There are many poor submissives and wealthy Dominants. |
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