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MissCesca 53F
142 posts
8/23/2019 7:26 pm
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years ago I began a relationship with my secondary partner I met here. At the time we were four or five cities apart- now we are for or five states apart. Regardless, we’ve maintained a vibrant and intense relationship, even though we see each other maybe three times a year.

Many alt relationships begin virtually and then a percentage transition to real time. Ours was the reverse. Has anyone else done this in a sustainable manner?

bfloored 74M
97 posts
8/23/2019 7:32 pm

I'm happy for you that it worked out, enjoy!


Malesub4online 38M

8/23/2019 7:45 pm

I’m sure it’ll work out Miss Cesca. They’re lucky to have you.


MissCesca replies on 8/23/2019 7:55 pm:
Thank you. I’m sure it will work out as well

jenny14 75T  
90273 posts
8/23/2019 7:47 pm

MC

Many years ago I met a friend here - we communicate warmly but see each other very rarely!

"where there is a will, there is a way"


A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw

Jenny


lickurassdeep69 65M
11 posts
8/23/2019 8:02 pm

no


alwaysassertive 64M

8/23/2019 10:36 pm

Nothing is impossible and there is no obstacle that's too great to overcome.

If I didn't really believe that I would have failed at the things that I was able to accomplish.
There is always a way. Self doubt is the killer.


MissCesca 53F

8/24/2019 1:51 am

My post was meant to find others who may be similarly situated as us. I appreciate all the words of encouragement and support but I assure you our relationship is sound. There is no impact on us due to distance; it would have been felt already. I just find it interesting that most long distance relationships did not evolve the way ours did, as we were real time first.


jaykay48 75M
11451 posts
8/26/2019 3:39 pm

It definitely takes someone special to maintain a long distance relationship for that long and still be sound and my hat is off to you. Maggie and I lived 70 miles apart and after about 6 months traveling back and forth was too much and we moved in together. Been together now almost 15 years.



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