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And The Search Goes On! I've had a lot of men claiming to be Dom's but the one claiming to be a Daddy Dom that makes up his own protocol really made me gag. Even as a newbie there are meeting and greeting protocol. You don't push some by calling a lg/s esclava (slave). I felt tainted by being called slave when I am only a submissive/lg. I asked him not to contact me yet he did. I forced the fact that I am a submissive not a slave and apparently he doesn't know the difference. Especially when he said that is what I was here for, esclava. This predictor after only one thing and this time it isn't me. Beware of someone saying he's a Dom when clearly he is on a power trip or out to hurt someone. This is EnthrallLady reminding her ALT family to be safe most especially newbies like me! |
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Find the kind of person who matched your needs, desires, and overall is compatible. I suggest always to evaluate first on the day to day vanilla stuff. You do the questioning and let them reveal themselves. Never tell then what your preferences are, . Otherwise they parrot back to you what you want to hear. I have a hunch you will be fine. "One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"
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Great advice DancingDom!
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Beware this guy found his way into my mailbox. Sometime I feel like this could be a waste of time. Then I think of all the terrific people I've met and realize my life is now richer.
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Is this the guy who starts off by typing, "Greetings, sub"? I told him that all my friends call me Hoagie. He left.
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9/5/2019 5:18 am |
Good Luck alot of sickos out there . Found to people by accident not on this site .
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9/5/2019 6:08 am |
trippin
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9/5/2019 6:09 am |
Some people just don't get it. There is a BIG DIFFERENCE between a sub and a slave. Boundaries and respect must be honored and maintained at all times. I hope this doesn't discourage you from indulging your fantasies...
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No this guy said come here little girl in Spanish. I really loved his line that he makes his own protocols. It shows he has no idea about the ALT lifestyle.
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Yes from all the posts and replies to pic's, I think there are some very scary people out there and on here. It is refreshing to me to find out that I am not the only one that feels that way.
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9/5/2019 9:59 am |
I've only had a problem with one one person and she is a real psychopath. She even found me on Quora and followed me there, but hasn't contacted me there ...maybe she's given up.
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9/5/2019 7:29 pm |
Is this the guy who starts off by typing, "Greetings, sub"? I told him that all my friends call me Hoagie. He left.
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No he wrote in Spanish to "come here little girl." Then referred to me as esclava (slave) stating that was why I was here. No this guy had a personality of that put me off in more ways than one! I'm a kind enough person not to list his handle here.
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Caution is good...
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In my view, there needs to be a foundation for a building of trust. This takes time, so get to know each other on a personal level and look for compatibility first, then, if that goes well, everything else will follow naturally.
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