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thussfar 36M
82 posts
2/8/2020 12:26 pm
Fake & Frustrations


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thussfar 36M

2/8/2020 12:26 pm

Been around here for about 2 month now. I have experienced more fraudulent accounts than I thought possible. Seems more and more that I become active the less actual people are on this website legitimately. The mail I do get is nine out of 10 times liars and fakes. Copy and pasted. I expect that to happen every once in awhile, but it seems that it has become the norm here lately. A true frustration of someone that wants to talk and meet people. Photos are constantly stolen and reposted. One that I found quite hilarious was someone who was photoshopping their head on other women bodies. It was clear as day. Someone actually took time and energy pretending they are something that they are not. Doing a piss poor job at best. Though blind men are eating it up like “yeah thats sexy I want to fuck that” blah blah blah BLAH! Desperation must be setting in. The worst is that men believe this. Its a true plague festering through this site. This is not the case to all thats on here, but its crippling to see. Seems the blogs are where the real ones are at.


jollygreenj1 66M
132 posts
2/8/2020 12:36 pm

Amen brother, just wrote an article on the same thing


RojalMeisje 38M/58F
8 posts
2/8/2020 12:46 pm



Patty


rope_n_cuffs 78M  
945 posts
2/8/2020 1:10 pm

Yup! Totally agree, but the one or two that you do actually meet that are genuine do make it all worthwhile. Mind, in my case that is about 5 over 8 years! Don't lose faith entirely, and temember that the real ones are bombarded with messages from hundreds, some as you say, desperate, and the odd genuine one.


lilthing04 47M

2/8/2020 1:20 pm

I assume any message I get on here is from a fake account. But sometimes you are just leaving comments on photos for the points.


pleasure2017 56M
59 posts
2/8/2020 1:55 pm

So true, fakes must outnumber the real ppl by at least 10 to 1


sissyslutvirgin 60M
15 posts
2/8/2020 2:15 pm

I agree entirely. Fakes and professionals touting for business disguised as 'ordinary'.


KN4QueenC 74M
2 posts
2/8/2020 4:06 pm

I have contacted 16 (!!!) "mistresses", so far, and EVERY ONE either wanted money, up front, or bailed out when I said I don't send money to strangers, and I need to MEET THEM, and establish a rapport, before we talk about spending my money................I have a real curiosity about the lifestyle, but I can't seem to locate a REAL Domme........I'm disappointed, to say the LEAST!


sickonez85 38M

2/8/2020 5:46 pm

The frustrations run deep on here these days.


ohioeagle 74M
2057 posts
2/8/2020 6:31 pm

There are more fakes and scammers than real people


Thaime2u 38M
9 posts
2/8/2020 11:02 pm

Blogs are where the real ones are at. I have had more scammers contact me here in a month than all the dating sites combined over a few years.


lighthouse4297 56F
1680 posts
2/9/2020 5:20 am

    Quoting  :

Thank you this is so well said this is precisely what we get


lighthouse4297 56F
1680 posts
2/9/2020 8:47 pm

    Quoting  :

I'm sorry are we not allowed to say anything? Or should we just shut up? Let me bombard your inbox with dick pics telling you in the first sentence without ever speaking to you. I want to fill you with my cum or how about this one. Come over a fuck my dog then I will fuck you. Is that better? Or how about I want to torture you with a cattle prod? Oh and I'll save the best for last will you cosign for a car for me? Because in reality despite my profile saying I'm successful I'm a broke ass mother fucker who can't get his own car because he actually lives in mommy's basement. But I guess we are fake....


ammoncleveland 64M/64F

2/15/2020 4:59 am

The only real chance you have to meet any women who are real and serious on here (and not a pro and there is not many of them) is to be lucky enough to contact a newbie within 48 hours or so. Send your email on the first line of an email and they should be able to see it and then hope for the best. You can include your pic and profile, but it is doubtful they can see it. They will be inundated by the many morons on here sending dick pics and they will be gone quickly never to return. Of course Alt will continue to use their profile. It is a very sad state of affairs here. The mainstream dating sites are much better and kink is much more mainstream so if you are really serious and just not time wasting, best to move on. We have a free gold so we do this for fun. Once it is gone, we are too.


TheGentleD0M 55M
4082 posts
2/28/2020 8:42 am

You are not imagining it, nor is your experience atypical.
I would say 90% of the females here are fraud/scam accounts or fake people misrepresenting themselves. If you do a little research, you will see that ALT is now giving GOLD accounts to the scam companies so their scam accounts can look more legitimate. Add to this that ALT charges you "points" to send an IM message - even when it is not delivered - and you have a very frustrating environment.

It's like Dirty Harry said, I don't know why I come here, "I really don't."


tgd


NiamhDub123 40F
7 posts
3/1/2020 6:16 am

Maybe if more verified?


thussfar 36M

3/1/2020 10:04 am

Honestly, the last few I seen that was verified were still scammers using popular pro dommes. Its not a bad suggestion though I have a new blog calling soon


ammoncleveland 64M/64F

3/1/2020 8:22 pm

This site is nothing but fakes and scammers if you are looking for women. There are a few bloggers and pros, but otherwise, total waste of time. Better to go to the mainstream sites and be honest with what you are seeking. Kink is much more mainstream now and you are simply wasting time here.



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