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likesmatureones 55M
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5/15/2019 4:14 am
The empty vessel..your opinion


The more i read the more i learn.

I used to think i was a great guy...well certainly not a bad one. I am not a dick pic guy, i'm not into this to get laid, im not a do me guy, etc. Im not a noob..been in the lifestyle for 20 yrs.

I felt this alone seperated me from the herd. I was really wondering if i didnt fall off the world looks wise or maybe the lifestyle passed me by.. i never had to try this hard to meet someone in the past.

I always presented myself as a canvas..something for someone to create on...so i was always open to demoing or letting someone learn on me.
Hell i was always patient with new Dommes or those that wanted to explore

I got back into the lifestyle and ran into dommes that wanted a relationship. Seemed everywhere i turned all women wanted that.
I was sorta discouraged...i thought wow now they want mr perfect? Its hard enough to be a great sub..now i also have to fill the boyfriend role? I felt it added extra pressure..and these women would be extra picky..lol.

Im a nice guy,a sweet sub..but im not rolling in money...

I read this caption by a Domme on one of her pics..this is me paraphrasing it

She wrote about women not being the facilitators of your kink...that women really want one dude that will give her all his attention.
The guy must be a helper to her and unlighten her load.
But most importantly she is looking for that one sub to really invest herself in..

And it made me wonder if im not approaching this all wrong...instead of worrying about being mr perfect or living up to some high standardard..

I should become a simple empty vessel...
Imagine an empty coke bottle being filled with colorful sand at a states fair...
The bottle is empty..slowly the sands fill the space and creates a work of art.

A male that comes to her with no expectations or reserves

A male that she can fill with her desires and passion...and really unleash her artistic creative dominant being..

That's the greatest gift a sub can give.

I previously wrote one can be strong,empowered,confident, controlling in the vanilla world...
But i think vanilla people keep this in check.

And even in the lifestyle i believe some Dominants keep this in check.

I really think women desire the one...so she can fill him. She can take off the high heels,let down their hair and let her inner goddess shine

likesmatureones 55M

5/15/2019 4:59 am


giveitago2019 70M

5/15/2019 5:38 am

not a bad idea, i bet you'll get more responses.



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