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6/1/2019 9:58 am

So going on a meet and greet..my pov as a 50 yr old man

So yeah im going on a meet and greet this sunday...gonna meet this domme at an Asian buffet and see how well we get along.

Now i will preface this post by saying I've been out of the loop for a few years/ havent been active in groups etc.
I was with my ex like a year ago, but that unfortunately never got to the groups,party stages..and honestly i don't think it was ever going there.

But im eager to get back in..but its hard going to groups as a single male sub..your sorta stick out..lol

So yes it would be great to go as a couple..

Okay so I'm meeting this woman...to which she has no pic on her profile...but isn't a player,is in groups,is known in the community etc.

Now some asshats is probably thinking dude..no pic..she must be...( well ill be nice and let the asshats complete their own thoughts).

To me this honestly isnt about a woman's age,looks or weight. It really is about two people having a connection and a deep desire for this type of relationship.
And no im not even talking about play. I really would enjoy being a woman's friend and have it blossom into a deeper loving relationship.

Now for a 50 yr old im not bad looking...I'm not like tom cruise..but I'm better than adam sandler/ dad bod guy..( not a knock on dad bod guy..but I look at some profiles of 40 yr olds dudes and they easily look 50).

Yet I'd say im not exactly prince charming either...and I'm not talking about looks..
When a guy gets a certain age society expects he has wealth,property, a nice car...this really is how men are judged. Most women don't care if he has a beer belly as long as he money for trips or great clothes etc. They are looking for that rich cowboy to ride off into the retirement sunset with

So yeah i got turned down by Dommes simply because I drive a ford focus. I know what it is like to be turned down.
So i dont judge women.

And yes i know im not everyones cup of tea..lol.. but read enough Domme profiles and they all basically are looking for a male that is me.
Hope that doesn't sound conceited..but yeah..they all want that male that is x,y,z and is into a,b,c and d.

Now the catch 22 is this woman is a part of the female lead relationship group...
So we will see how this meet and greet goes...we do click well scenewise..but she wants to see if we click vanilla wise.

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6/1/2019 9:59 am