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rosaenaluin 65F
9906 posts
10/9/2018 3:51 am
Did i do something wrong?


Just a question to you all,
i need your wisdom on this one...
if you please....

Humor, boys and girls!! slightly serious though.....

So, once in a while some men contact me,
Giving me all kind of sweet compliments about my profile or my pictures..
I like getting compliments!

Sometimes i give back those compliments, because i can see, read that they did put in some energy and effort to write a nice profile.

So, we get to talk, it is a daily contact, all nice, nothing going on,
all very friendly,
Until i ask them about what they are doing here, what they search for?
What they need?
How they found out about being dominant and what that means to them?

I thought that are real nice, decent questions?

i dont ask them the length, versus width, of their dick or if the are circumcised....
i dont aks if they shave their ass...
I dont ask them how long they need, to recuperate after the first fuck..?

But, all of the sudden, after my questions, there is one big radio silence

nothing anymore
Not even a; no thank you, i made a mistake
you are not my type, kind of bullshit
no
nothing!

I hate that!
There is no closure... or is that the closure? huh?
rude!
Why dont they show that they have balls, for crying out loud,
man up!

Strange, indecent behaviour, at least to me.

I must confess i am not good at small talk, beating about the bush,
i want to know the facts, so to say.
i want to know, if there is a possibility that i might like him, as a human being, with his clothes on, if we have a match,
i want to talk, really talk, not exchange all kind of pleasantrys,

that is not so bad to ask for, is it?

rosaenaluin 65F
10827 posts
10/9/2018 4:02 am


Nsa2tie 68M  
640 posts
10/9/2018 4:31 am

I'd have said that's about par for the course. Most online conversations die at some point and many without explanation or closure.


olderdaddyforyou 68M

10/9/2018 5:16 am

Your question is legitimate Rosa. It seems the wannabes on here, Dom or sub don't know how to respond to that question


Mrdavid6623 65M
1518 posts
10/9/2018 5:28 am

Those are great questions that show a genuine interest in the individual. They should be appreciative that you’re interested in getting to know them a little better, and I’d hope that they would reciprocate.

That they don’t respond is a reflection of them, not of you!


Dreamcatcher__ 87M
7019 posts
10/9/2018 5:07 pm

I suspect they're afraid that if they answer thoughtfully and honestly they're going to be subjected to the inquisition.


rosaenaluin 65F
10827 posts
10/9/2018 11:43 pm

Dramcatcher,
How so? the Inquistion?
I dont like to waste my time on playvanillasexgames, i am also not interested in some juveniel socalled horny play talk...
.
i dont mind if he does not have much experience, it is how he holds him self that matters more...
If he has leader capacities that is already one point made... Or if he knows himself good enough to know what he needs and wants out of such M/s 24/7 Power/Authority Transfer dynamic.

The Inquisition?
Do you think soo bad about me? oooh.... too bad.....


rosaenaluin 65F
10827 posts
10/9/2018 11:45 pm

Nsa2tie,
That can be the case,
when conversations lead to nowhere, i always told such person that i dont think there is going to be a match, and ended that conversation, politely.
being polite does not cost you anything extra,

even when online.....


rosaenaluin 65F
10827 posts
10/9/2018 11:49 pm

IamMrZ,
I know!
You are right, you know, on the other hand, who wants to be treated like that and submit to such a person? I wont!
Thank you for your kind words,
But, being polite? is that not something we all learned from our daddy and mommy, kindergarten school?


rosaenaluin 65F
10827 posts
10/9/2018 11:50 pm

olderdaddyforyou,
thank you, sir, i needed that.


rosaenaluin 65F
10827 posts
10/9/2018 11:53 pm

Mrdavid6623,

I am so glad you tell me this, because, well, sometimes i can be a bit rough, in my communication, to say the least....


rosaenaluin 65F
10827 posts
10/9/2018 11:55 pm

Vlad, you are right,
in real life i would never ask any men questions about being dominant, or his amount of 'experience'...

Because the chance you meet a natural dominant is about 1 to 1000....
so... i wont bother vanillas with that.


rosaenaluin 65F
10827 posts
10/10/2018 12:02 am

Exhibitibi,
you know, i doubt if that are Dominants.. ? being a control freak is not a quality i search for in a dominant.

i think that is rather an unhealthy 'quality'... character trait...

Yes, i understand, i just want an opening for some real conversation about bdsm, their view, and not talk about the flowers growing in the garden of their neighbor...

So, if they are soo feeble, they are definitely not natural dominants, thats for sure.
I always appreciate you input, you make me think! i like that!


rosaenaluin 65F
10827 posts
10/10/2018 12:04 am

wetslavetoy; thank you for your wise words,


rosaenaluin 65F
10827 posts
10/10/2018 12:06 am

arero,
hahhaha, i knew already that years ago! sooo funny!
I am not interested in their dicks. i am interested in how their mind works...
Being DOMINANT, not a player.
thanks for the laugh!


rosaenaluin 65F
10827 posts
10/10/2018 12:16 am

angie, i too hate it, when this happens, cant stand it.

letting go is best.... breath deep!

they are not worthy of your attention anyway; they prove themselfs, time and time again, apparently.

Most women look for the fault by themselfs, in themselfs... it looks like that is ingrained in our species, gender.. some how,
get over that, and you are a winner!
Thanks for your visit,


brbckinu 67M

10/24/2018 8:46 am

Hi, hon. Such is life, if someone doesn't respond, really nothing you can do about it. Cherish the ones who do respond. Its not you, its them.


rosaenaluin 65F
10827 posts
10/25/2018 1:22 am

brbckinu,
Thank you for visiting my blog,

Thank you, for you sweet encouraging words,



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