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rosaenaluin 65F
9906 posts
10/17/2018 7:50 am
I think, it is real funny!


I have this colleague, she is a great colleague.
She is a lesbian and lives together with her womanfriend.
i did not yet meet the woman friend, i have been to their house.

We do go out together outside of our job, go to events, little markets and such.

I always make the wrong kind of jokes, the other day, she was taking something out of a closet at work, i enter the room and say to her; hey! did you not already came out of that closet!?

She laughs real loud at my kind of jokes.
just a bit of teasing, nothing serious!

I also say, when some student is a bit slow, that we should use a whip on her, that will make her move!
After class ofcourse! when we evaluate the class and the students.

In my own circle it is totally accepted to say such things, every body makes such bad jokes, BDSM oriented jokes!

I told her i go to a meeting with friends, all the way in Rotterdam...
I think, she might have a gues about my orientation....

The other day, she came bursting into my house, her eyes were scanning the place.
she was really searching for something,
I really dont know what!

Because i hide things in plain sight, i have a big metal chain lying on the ground,
i have whips hanging on the lamp stands...

I have all kind of 'sort of'' kinky post cards hanging on the wall...
I have my BDSM books lying around....

But, since she is vanilla, she just does not "see" it.
Everytime she visits me, she is scanning the place.

She is too polite to just ask me right in my face.
I am secretely enjoying myself with her behaviour, wondering when and if she is ever going to ask me something....

The other colleague is always looking at my pendant, my VSSM sign.
Never asks anything, just study my pendant, getting a real red face, but never asks anything.
I dont ask either.

( i have had very, "open minded" friends, untill they found out about my orientation,
about me, being a masochist/submissive...)

All of a sudden, their "openmindedness" was gone!
I must be a sick pervert, fuck, to want thát. gone the friendship.
So much for OPENMINDEDNESS.

i dont trust and believe peoples "openmindedness". most of the time it amounts up to nothing.

It just sounds good, a way to boost your own ego, nothing else.

when you talk to likeminded (vanilla) friends, about how "openminded" you are, that you accept africans, lesbians in your work, shops, and such.
but never ever in their private life!

Next week we are going shopping together, she is alo a big fan of second hand, vintage shops, just out of a political viewpoint.
The madness with all the over production of all the stuff, we "think" we ...

I a new hat, maybe two.....
I really do! my hat has died on !

can use an other winter coat too, maybe.....
We'll see.

It will be a great day, together, having fun!

rosaenaluin 65F
10827 posts
10/17/2018 8:01 am

The strangest thing is, we both dont really like "shopping" for shoppings sake.

i always shop very goal orientated, i dont shop randomly, walking in and out of all kind of shops, not knowing what to buy, or buy all kind of unwanted stuff.
I know what i want and go for that!
fini!
after that we can have a great lunch!
And maybe we can do some window shopping later on...

Or i can take her to my piercing shop! WHAHAHAHAH!

I know this city very well, so i know were to go to.


slaveforyou365 63M  
4488 posts
10/17/2018 9:09 am



Slave rick


jenny14 75T  
90121 posts
10/17/2018 1:21 pm

rosa

Yes! "Openmindedness" is just a concept for some ! Liptalk!

But, YOU "walk the walk"


A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw

Jenny


drmgirl622 68F  
25880 posts
10/17/2018 3:39 pm

It's so nice to hear you have such a good friend......I'm sure you can learn from each other...….kudos to you for your acceptance.


rosaenaluin 65F
10827 posts
10/19/2018 12:28 am

Thank you, @ slave rick,


rosaenaluin 65F
10827 posts
10/19/2018 12:29 am

jenny, indeed; liptalk!
Its a very lonely walk, jenny......
thanks for visiting,


rosaenaluin 65F
10827 posts
10/19/2018 12:30 am

drmgirl,

You are sooo sweet, thank you,

I try to learn every day, something....



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