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Uneed2servemee19 67M
119 posts
12/20/2019 10:41 pm

I feels bad for you! You. Never like to see someone in that kind of pain, I hope you heal quickly! You are doing exactly what you should be doing, letting friends & loved ones hold you up, support you, care for you! Go easy on yourself, pamper you, and enjoy the love of your friends.
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rosaenaluin 65F
10834 posts
12/21/2019 1:31 am

Take care of yourself, be kind, be sweet to yourself. Feel what you feel, that is mostly the way to heal, hard as it may seem.
Take your time, it is good to know you have your friends who support you.


eremcu 61M
795 posts
12/21/2019 3:28 am

When one door closes a new one has just opened for you.


rosebud12121 31M

12/21/2019 3:31 am

Theres plenty more in the sea x


davinacambs 61T  
830 posts
12/21/2019 3:49 am

Look after yourself - nobody else matters, and all your friends are here when you need to unload.

Thinking caring thoughts.

D xxx


Plzrmeister 67M  
10144 posts
12/21/2019 4:59 am

At a time like this, there is little anyone can say that will ease the pain you feel.

Words provide little comfort, yet I know this. One day you will look back and laugh.

Make Women Female Again


Daddyslilpunkin 47F
3470 posts
12/21/2019 5:37 am

This is a time of self care. Look after yourself until you feel a little healed. After that use those tools to help care for yourself completely.

Falling in love is the best feeling in the world and the absence of that love is the most crushing feeling of all. It is an opportunity to reflect on what you want in a relationship, who you are in a relationship, and to realize what you will accept and not accept in one. Heal, grow, and know there are always people who will love and support you, as you find yourself again.

You found parts of me I didn’t know existed and in you I found a love I no longer believed was real.


swede5569 74M
7 posts
12/21/2019 8:15 am

Sadly, your last boyfriend was a user and you ended up a victim. It’s admirable, that you chose to fully give yourself to another and devote all your efforts in his direction.
Hopefully, this will turn into an opportunity for you and maybe the events of the past will provide insight that will help you achieve your goal.
Put yourself first sweetheart and remember this one bit of advice.
All men are pigs.


ammoncleveland 64M/64F

12/21/2019 9:50 am

Being a Master is a difficult and full time job that requires commitment and stamina. Sounds like yours was not up to it, is probably a fake, and that is just plain wrong. You do not throw words like 'Master" and "slave" around lightly. It is also why the use of a contract should be considered during the initial period of say 3-6 months. Then both parties know exactly what to expect before there is a longer term commitment. My husband who is also a Master would never tolerate such behavior and his feeling is that these kind of actions bring shame on the rest of the true Masters. Not all men are pigs as was stated earlier, but you do have to be very careful and keep your emotions in check until you know for sure what you are getting. My Master extends his deepest apologies. There is no excuse for what you experienced.


jenny14 75T  
90121 posts
12/21/2019 10:02 am

Heartily

I am VERY sorry and hope things improve for you

A warm hug....


A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw

Jenny


steelcager 61M
1996 posts
12/21/2019 10:50 am

Sorry to hear that, but you have a lot of friends here that can relate to your situation as well as those who are longing to meet that special someone.

Time heals wounds, they say...


Dreamcatcher__ 87M
7020 posts
12/21/2019 12:08 pm

Obviously this experience must have been fulfilling for you in a number of ways or you would not treasure your time and your memories. At the same time you also know it would not be healthy for you to keep reliving it in your mind. Something in the relationship challenged your sense of self worth. That shouldn't have happened and is why you have to find a way to achieve a new relationship that allows you to feel what you felt but doesn't diminish who you are. It's not the way you felt that was wrong, it was who you chose to offer those feelings to. He was skilled in bringing out your slave nature, he just did not appreciate the value of what he had inspired and what he had to do to be worthy of it.

Never forget that you are a treasure and that there are men who are worthy of you. The trick for unicorn hunters is to find them before someone else does.

namaste~

dreamcatcher


JohnnyLightning 65M  
9548 posts
12/21/2019 8:09 pm

I'm very surprised sat you took that slave roll. Like it says on my medallion, to thy own self be true. Things are difficult now and you will heal in time.

I hear blondes have more fun. X

Howling at the moon and mal ad osteo.


simply_g 65M
48 posts
12/26/2019 9:39 pm

Raven,

i am so sorry
i know that 2020 will bring You some wonderful surprises and experiences!!

g


alwaysassertive 63M

12/27/2019 4:22 pm

You should burn everything he left and get it all out of your sight and let the memories fade. I know that sounds tough, but you're worth more than the value he placed on you. Believe in your worth. You can learn and grow from this. Someone will, see you as a treasure. You have lost nothing. I'm not wrong.


12inchkingfish 37M
49 posts
1/16/2020 6:49 pm

we love you are back stay forever



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