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sweetnikki949 37F
87 posts
5/28/2018 10:12 pm
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MasterRobert19 60M
2 posts
5/28/2018 10:29 pm

I have never heard of such a thing. I think he was trying to embarrass you or get you to admit having anal sex.

When I was in Jr, High in the late 60s, girls who wore a leather anklet were thought to be sluts. We called them slut straps. Total BS!! Hope this helps.


sweetnikki949 replies on 5/29/2018 5:03 pm:
Thank you Master Robert, yes it does! I think ur right, he was prolly just trying to be funny. Slut straps is pretty funny too! ;-p

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lov2lickpussnass 58M

5/28/2018 10:51 pm

I've never heard of it either. Sounds like he was trying to get you to answer a question that he was afraid to ask.


sweetnikki949 replies on 5/29/2018 5:04 pm:
I think ur right Lov, thank u!!

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rosaenaluin 65F
10827 posts
5/28/2018 11:07 pm

Maybe that is what is going on in the vanilla scene.....when you go out, to a club....?

Or it is just his way to see how you react and it is his fetish only?
anal is sex, right?


sweetnikki949 replies on 5/29/2018 5:07 pm:
Hi Rosa Thank u for responding! Idk, maybe i'm just too gullible or something, I've asked a bunch of friends since then and no one seems to have ever heard it either. I'm thinking he just made it up for whatever reason

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RapeMasterDP 61M
13 posts
5/29/2018 1:32 am

Nope, never heard of this one... Probably his roundabout method of discovering (or failing to discover) your own views on anal.


sweetnikki949 replies on 5/29/2018 5:18 pm:
Thank u RapeMasterDp! hmmmm..... if that's true, now that i think about it like that, it prolly was a much better way to find out if i'm into anal than to just come out and ask me directly... that would have bene too awkward

slaaf85_91 61M
447 posts
5/29/2018 3:50 am

These are typical local and temporary habits that someone starts that go no further than a limited circle.

30 years ago I was told I had to wear a ring through my right nipple to show I was masochist. I had my two nipples pierced and I wear a ring at right and a bone shape metal at left. When I appeared with these in Southern France 1200 km away, nobody saw any meaning in my nipple jewels...

Being different from the majority of people as homosexual my pleasure is in being used by others...


sweetnikki949 replies on 5/29/2018 5:20 pm:
hi Slaaf! Thank u for responding!! Wow i had never heard that about a sign of being a masochist! I'm sure there's tons of things like that that are real, and are out there, but just regional like u said. Thanks!!

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Lickyourpussy480 54M

5/29/2018 4:12 am

I have also never heard of the link...as a matter of fact my experience was the opposite.


sweetnikki949 replies on 5/29/2018 5:23 pm:
Hi Lick
The opposite, really? That makes sense... I can see that, almost all the girls i know wear chokers at least occasionally, but most of them aren't into, or at least (like myself) don't admit to liking anal ;-p

Thank u Lick! <3

Mrdavid6623 65M
1518 posts
5/29/2018 5:36 am

Never heard that


sweetnikki949 replies on 5/29/2018 5:24 pm:
hi Mr. David,
Thank u for ur response!
<3 Nikki

heartofmush 55F
7884 posts
5/29/2018 5:45 am

i see the commentors are older than you, and you are younger than us. we have not heard of it, but maybe it is more of a common knowledge in your age range.

here is an example of what you mean: some years ago, not too long ago though, people used the term netflix and chill, as an euphemism for a booty call or late night nsa sexual encounter. i did not know what netflix and chill meant, and told a student that she looked tired and need to netflix and chill thinking it meant to watch that channel and sip something relaxing. she is twenty years old. she burst out laughing.

so, it could be, as someone suggested, he was trying to see if you are into anal sex, or it could be some trend that younger people know about.

i have not heard of it before, and i am also a fan of wearing chokers.

The cut worm forgives the plow. W. Blake, Proverbs of Hell


sweetnikki949 replies on 5/29/2018 5:27 pm:
hi Heart
that's a super good point!! most of my group of friends is in their late 20's and 30's.. It could totally be lie a teenage-20's thing that i just don't know about. I totally remember netflix and chill!! lol Thank u Heart so much for ur response!!

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msfunfor 63M
10617 posts
5/29/2018 5:51 am

hello nikki ,
i think it does indicate a procility towards bdsm activities .
as otheres have said his interpretation is mostly self-serving and trying to
lure you out into the open .
my guess : if you told him you were into this stuff he will right away ask for you
to 'perform' as a sub......

on a different note :
bikini season welcomes you !
.......and we would love to see some samples

be good
M

.


sweetnikki949 replies on 5/29/2018 5:32 pm:
hi Msfunfor
Thanks for ur response!! i do feel like there's a bit of bdsm-ness about chokers, i think about it a little when i put on one, just like when i put on a certain pair of my favorite heels with ankle straps ;-p

hehehe thanks for the welcome!! i appreciate it!! I do have a few pics on my profile.. maybe an update is past due!!

<3

Plzrmeister 67M  
10142 posts
5/29/2018 6:17 am

I call Bullshit...

I call Bullshit too.

Sort of like "So, what's your sign?" back in the day.

Way back in the day.....

Make Women Female Again


sweetnikki949 replies on 5/29/2018 5:34 pm:
lol gracias Plzrmeister!!

So, um... whats UR sign??? ;-p

delos2008 56M
88 posts
5/29/2018 10:45 am

I was not aware of this ...
starting today I will pay more attention to girls wearing chokers!


sweetnikki949 replies on 5/29/2018 5:34 pm:
heheheh Right!?! ;-p lol

Thank u Delos!! <3

DancingDom 74M
22475 posts
5/29/2018 3:16 pm

Not aware of this. But, many see the choker as a sing of submission and he may be award of such and connect the dots to more adventuresome sex for people who are submissive. But, I mostly think he was tying to get you to admit to being agreeable to anal sex.

like others have said, possibly it is something younger folks have adapted into their lexicon.

"One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"


sweetnikki949 replies on 5/29/2018 5:38 pm:
Thank u Dancing Dom! I appreciate ur input! U r totally 100% right about that btw, when i first met my bf one of the first things he gave me was a very cute, but sexy choker, we call it my "collar" even though it's not really a collar, and when i put it on i know i'm his!

Thanks DancingDom!

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tahimikbayani 53M
8008 posts
5/29/2018 6:49 pm

I've always found the choker as a dead giveaway for wanting anal sex. However, nothing truly is as definitive as her saying, "I am into anal sex." Or something like that...


sweetnikki949 replies on 5/29/2018 6:57 pm:
Lol!!!! Thank u Tahimikbayani! So u definitely have seen a possible connection between the type of girl who wears a choker and her proclivity towards anal sex?! Interesting... Well, I'm sure ur absolutely right about nothing being as definitive as a girl just having the guts to say "Hi, I'm Nikki and I'm into anal, how about u?" I'm not that gutsy, so i guess i'll have to keep on wearing chokers

msfunfor 63M
10617 posts
6/1/2018 9:01 am

hello again ,
how about some new pics for the blog ?
you in choker and strap heels with various bikinis inbetween

be good
M
(i come to gulfport quite a bit.......)


sweetnikki949 replies on 6/9/2018 12:46 am:
hi msfunfor
I do like to add a new pic for each blog. I think that can be arranged!! ;-p

doingitall4yu 66M
321 posts
6/12/2018 4:51 pm

No, I have never heard that before, but it is not hard to imagine groups where what one wears to group functions tells people what they want.
While I believe anal is becoming much more popular form of sex, we must sell 10s of million of these chokers. Just don't think that 10s of millions of women walk around saying "I want anal sex!" Like yourself, most women are more private about their preferred Pleasure of the flesh.

Like others, I think the guy was messing with you. Seeing if he could get a reaction from you, and If luck, maybe sex with you--anal, or other forms!!

Serve me!! It is what you crave! jdxafn at hot....


doingitall4yu 66M
321 posts
6/12/2018 4:53 pm

BTW, You are stunning, but I love the mask!! Stylish, beautiful!
Anyone know what it means if a woman wears a stylish, fashionable mask??
Any suggestions?

Serve me!! It is what you crave! jdxafn at hot....


sweetnikki949 replies on 6/16/2018 6:01 pm:
Awwwww thank u so much!!! That's so sweet of u to say!!

Hmmmmm idk what a mask might say about the girl wearing it... I think it means she's either a sexy bank robber or a sexual superhero!! lol . Or, like the choker, it could just mean she's into anal!! heheh j/k

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DomNewToTown18 44M

6/15/2018 4:34 pm

I've not heard that one either...think he just wanted to know if you like to take it in the ass, babe....


sweetnikki949 replies on 6/16/2018 6:02 pm:
hi Dom
hehehe well he was a pretty good guesser then!! ;-p

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drtaz152 58M
17 posts
6/15/2018 4:39 pm

I've never heard of that ... and you do look very hot with it on !


sweetnikki949 replies on 6/16/2018 6:03 pm:
Thank u drtaz!!!

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BWC60313 45M

6/16/2018 12:42 pm

I never heard of that


sweetnikki949 replies on 6/16/2018 6:03 pm:
thanks. hey does BWC stand for big white cock?!? wow. ;-p

xntrick 59M
2927 posts
6/23/2018 10:29 pm

I never heard of that. My assumption is the woman might be a submissive first and foremost.
From my experience, most women aren't into anal sex so readily, and if they are, they aren't going to adverse that fact to the public.


sweetnikki949 replies on 6/29/2018 1:56 pm:
Hi Xntrick
yea ur totally right!! It took me a long time to really start enjoying anal... but I'm absolutely not gonna tell everyone I do. It's waaaaay too embarrassing! Well, I guess I'll tell everyone on here! hehe ;-p

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DomNewToTown18 44M

7/14/2018 3:12 pm

Nikki...Sometimes it's just what you "put out there".... That said, he could've just been horny..lol


sweetnikki949 replies on 7/25/2018 12:38 pm:
Hi Dom
Thank u for ur input...I'm sure he was horny, but are u saying u think maybe he could just tell that about me? When he first mentioned his idea to me, part of me was wondering if maybe a gf of mine told him I'm into it.... but I don't think I've ever admitted to liking anal as much as I do to any of my gfs... I've only admitted to "trying it". Idk, maybe I just give off an "anal" vibe? That doesn't sound like a good thing tho lol

<3 Nikki

LQQKing4painslut 64M

7/30/2018 5:19 pm

There is no connection between women who wear chokers and women who enjoy anal … that is total BS. Your "friend" was messing with you.


sweetnikki949 replies on 7/30/2018 6:26 pm:
yea I think ur right! I mean of course ur right, I just wasn't sure if that was like a thing guys thought that I just hadn't heard of before

Thanks!!!

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Plz2BNuPeg 71M

8/10/2018 6:37 am

Rubbish. Sounds like dime store psychology/contrived folk lore


DarqueDauphin 70M
60 posts
8/21/2018 12:16 pm

Nope, never heard of it.


sweetnikki949 replies on 9/24/2019 6:01 pm:
Thanks

Specialonehere 68M

11/3/2018 4:32 pm

Actually, Nikki..I have never heard that about chokers and anal sex.And personally, I don't think it is true either. But I could be wrong. I am more of a "don't judge the book by the cover" type of guy. That said...I DO LOVE ladies I see wearing chokers. They seem to set the lady apart from what you normally see...and that is exciting and enticing to me!


sweetnikki949 replies on 11/10/2018 1:30 pm:
Hey u! Thanks!! Yea I think we're definitely on the same page there! There just a such a great accessory, super fun, cute, and sexy.... maybe just like those of us that are into anal!?! lol ;-p

ruleenf0rcer 54M
1 post
1/27/2019 7:20 pm

i have never heard that or thought that. i have at times heard that girls with larger tattoos are into anal. i believe the idea is they like pain or would not have multiple or large tattoos otherwise and therefore would be open to sex that some find uncomfortable, particularly at first. also both are seen as naughty and counter culture. it is a psychological profile. i think the guy was searching for info and trying to get you to share. lovely ass that you have is only right you would share..


sweetnikki949 replies on 2/16/2019 12:15 pm:
Awwwww thank u so much Ruleenforcer!!!!! It's an interesting idea about the connection between girls' tattoos and anal sex! I don't have any ink but, to ur last point.... I definitely like to share!!! ;-p

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ItalianDom246 44M

2/6/2019 6:20 am

It's a hot thought either way


sweetnikki949 replies on 2/16/2019 12:17 pm:
Hi Italian Dom!
Yea I totally agree! And I'll be honest, I think I start wearing chokers more often just b/c that's in the back of my mind! Not that I'm advertising... just maybe teasing a little ;-p

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Gveitoritakeit 57M
119 posts
3/1/2019 6:24 am

Just to be honest never heard that one before, but it is a great line to break the ice and attempt to find out if a woman is into anal. But I am very fond of women that wear chokers as well as always finding sexy everyday chokers, insisting that my sub wear one each day as a reminder..


sweetnikki949 replies on 3/2/2019 12:12 pm:
hi gveitortakeit
Thank u for ur reply! I totally agree with u! I think they're super cute and sexy.... and if there's a hidden meaning behind it between u and ur partner it's sooooo much sexier!!!

<3 Nikki

Mstreddings1 53M  
3 posts
4/29/2019 7:49 am

In my opinion I think chokers are hot, I like them and loop ear rings or lite dangling ones that accentuate the ears. However both of them bring attention to zones that I like to look at and nibble on.


sweetnikki949 replies on 8/11/2019 12:49 am:
Hmmmmm.... Mstreddings, I think u and me share similar opinions about all of that!!! And those are also zones I like to be nibbled on! Among others!!! ;-p

<3 Nikki

shute1 53M

9/7/2019 7:42 am

Hi Beautiful Lady. You are absolutely Amazing!


sweetnikki949 replies on 9/7/2019 12:43 pm:
Thank u Shute!!! Ur super sweet! It’s nice to meet u!!!
<3 Nikki

je65pr 58M
151 posts
9/22/2019 7:16 am

I never dated anyone that wore a choker, but fully 1/3 of them loved anal sex, and a couple of more would do it because I like it, so no connection for me. From my experience, are 1 out of three of all women into anal?


sweetnikki949 replies on 9/28/2019 1:48 pm:
Ummm idk, but maybe... initially I was in that category of girls who did it only b/c my bf wanted to do it. At the time it didn't feel good or turn me on, it just hurt. A LOT!! But my bf wanted it so he got it. But after not doing it for a while and then trying at again with a different bf, again, only b/c he wanted it, things were different. All of a sudden I realized I could handle it, it didn't hurt as much, and as my confidence in taking it grew, it started to turn me on more and more knowing I could actually take a pretty hard cock and even have pretty rough anal sex.... what can I say, confidence is sexy, and now, I've even experienced several huge orgasms strictly from anal... I NEVER would have thought that would be possible when I first tried it.

So idk if 1 in 3 girls are either into anal or at least willing to try it, most of my gfs talk about it but either tried it once and aren't into it or aren't super open to trying it, obviously I think there's a much higher percentage of girls on this site that are totally into it, but yea, maybe it's just something more of us should try and stick with for a while. I used to hate it, it would literally make me cry it hurt so much, but I'm SUPER happy I tried it again later on cuz I love it now!!! I'm still more of a vaginal intercourse girl but anal is definitely an awesome change up once in a while!! ;-p

Thank u for ur opinion Je!! ;-p

<3 Nikki

Chris4QAlli27 32M

10/16/2019 1:11 am


sweetnikki949 replies on 10/20/2019 8:21 pm:
hi Chris! Ur very sweet!!!!

Orlandoguy_1970 53M

3/8/2020 6:07 am

No, never heard that before. I just think that he was just testing you and how you felt about anal sex. Maybe to see if you would do it... lol.


sweetnikki949 replies on 3/15/2020 1:38 am:
yea, I'm sure ur right about that... the joke's on him tho b/c I would do it, just not with him! ;-p

abody4youse 70M

3/12/2020 5:19 pm

Well if that’s what he thought or conjured up,fine,your No Answer was Awesome..Because you know the truth. I know a lot of my partners Never wore chokers, Damn but anal sex with them was Out Of This World. And they loved it as much as giving and getting a good licking. Especially when my wife was alive,it was right up there with Breathing.....😂👌😊 Sweet Nikki anal sex is good anytime,anywhere,anyway you like,no risk of pregnancy either just a good anal orgasm to be had for the lucky woman. Loved your post woman🌹🌹🌹🌹👍👍😊


sweetnikki949 replies on 3/15/2020 1:39 am:
Awwwww thank u so much!!!! I'm so glad u liked it!!! It sounds like u and ur wife were great together!!!

<3 Nikki

ARomanticSadist 54M
1298 posts
5/17/2020 5:26 pm

If green M&M's make you horny, I suppose wearing a choker means you like getting fucked up the fudge tunnel!


sweetnikki949 replies on 5/18/2020 1:42 am:
lol... yea... I guess one is absurd as the other... but now that u mention it, I love wearing chokers AND green M&Ms!!! ;-p

Thank u Romantic Sadist!

CaroCuddles 39F
195 posts
5/24/2020 2:14 pm

Nikki, I've never heard that about chokers and doubt its true, but would say you are super hot babe.
Caroline x


sweetnikki949 replies on 5/26/2020 7:54 pm:
Awwww thank u Caroline! Ur so sweet! And I have to say ur a super hot chick urself!!!

<3 Nikki

Funtimezahead154 27M

12/8/2020 9:07 pm

I haven’t heard this theory, but every person has their own superstitions haha.


sweetnikki949 replies on 2/15/2022 7:55 pm:
that's very true! Thank u!!

Arkangel_Fire 57M
1068 posts
2/11/2021 9:04 pm

There are some beautiful necklaces with big letters that say sex toy, pet, anal, slut, slave, which one would you identify with today ???


sweetnikki949 replies on 4/17/2021 4:50 pm:
hmmmmm...... do any say Trophy Wife?!? ;-p J/k.... if I had to pick just one from the list u gave me... I'd say.....Sex Toy. (Sex Doll would be even better, I like that a lot! ;-p)

YourSweetLord 59M
8 posts
4/25/2021 3:22 am

Keep missing you. My ya ho o ma il is the same as my alt screen name. Drop a note. Yoursweetlord.


sweetnikki949 replies on 2/15/2022 7:55 pm:
Awwww I'm sorry. I know, I don't make it on as often as I'd like Hopefully we'll catch each other soon!

CappyC 104M
21 posts
2/12/2022 1:48 pm

The fallacy is is that say it were true that women who were into anal like to work chokers. But there are a huge unknown number of women out there that happen to like chokers and may be totally opposed to anal. So to broad brush that anybody wearing a choker is into anal is pretty much a sign of ignorance. So I'm sure there may be many out there who believe it but it's just not correct. There been numerous other so-called signs of somebody's sexuality or preferences based on attached to a piercing this and that crazy world out there LOL.


sweetnikki949 replies on 2/15/2022 7:53 pm:
that's a great point! Thank u Cappy!!!

KatCall100 58M
17 posts
2/14/2022 7:13 am

I've never heard this before you mentioned it. I think chokers are incredibly sexy, so I now just assume it's true. I've been slapped a few times. Thanks, Nikki!


sweetnikki949 replies on 2/15/2022 7:54 pm:
lol!!!!! Oops, sorry about that!! ;-p

jyahld 62M
337 posts
2/21/2022 3:20 pm

I have never heard that one before. I have had anal sex with many girls who loved it and none of them wore chokers.
x


sweetnikki949 replies on 3/19/2022 5:25 pm:
yea, I think the consensus is that guy just made it up...... I will say one thing, I've always loved chokers, with the right outfit I think they're super cute... I haven't always loved anal.... that took much longer to get used to

<3 Nikki

mr_invisible0 69M
104 posts
4/18/2022 10:25 am

Well sweetnikki I'd say exxxperimentation is definitely in your future


sweetnikki949 replies on 4/30/2022 10:35 pm:
o really???? well, I like the sound of that!!!

BigMerv22 53M  
172 posts
9/21/2022 10:11 pm

No I haven't heard this before but I'm definitely interested as I'm always looking for women who like anal sex. I definitely think that this theory bears further investigation. Thank you for bringing it to my attention.


sweetnikki949 replies on 10/30/2022 1:35 pm:
I think the consensus seems to be, the guy that told me this was just trying to work his way into my pants.... I assume near my back pockets ;-p, but hey, I'm always glad to help!! And what can I say, I've bought a whole lot more chokers since then!


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