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LordLobo_13 57M
63 posts
2/10/2019 8:10 pm
....{{{ the pillars of a bdsm – d/s relationship }}}....

I overheard a conversation where someone asked what the four pillars of a d/s relationship were…. I thought about this and looked at it…. how it applied to me and my relationships….. it was a simple answer…. it has always worked for Me, from the very beginning of my journey into this lifestyle…. the pillars we speak of are there….. for me there are five pillars…. respect, trust, loyalty, honesty and communication….

With open honest communication…. TWO build a trust…. a respect for one another…. a loyalty to one another…. this is the foundation I have always worked on…. and it has never failed Me…. or the one I was with at any given time…. and the one who holds my heart now….

this does not happen overnight…. as I am cautious about whom I let into my life…. I have been burned, hurt and tossed to the curb by some who I let in….. to get past My walls…. earn My trust…. earn My respect…. earn My loyalty…. some have attained this…. others failed miserably…. maybe I am too particular…. but it serves Me well.... for those who have attained this “privilege” it is either a blessing or a curse…. ask those who have…. chuckles…..

so, I ask…. where do you see things…. Lobo….



I lived in the darkness and was shown the light....


_ryleigh_ 38F  
60 posts
2/10/2019 9:38 pm

I totally agree my One..we have all these..it took time as we went through each step but it was with all that I have to be able to say ..I trust You..Have much Respect...Loyal with no reservations..Always Honest...maybe to much so at times...But yet the Communication has always just flowed..it is truly what makes this whole thing work..A ever lasting relationship..Strong as the pillars that built it ..unbreakable!


sassylilwolf03 102F  
6 posts
2/15/2019 8:15 pm

It is Great to see a Dom that understands the importance of the Pillars .. Thank you for sharing ……...



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