Put it in Writing...!
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Posted:Aug 29, 2023 11:48 am
Last Updated:Aug 30, 2023 5:05 pm 3254 Views
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Contracts are what come to mind when we think of written agreements. We see them as extremely important and useful documents which possess great legal weight.... So why not legitimize your D/s relationship by drafting and signing a contract that covers most of the angles......in the interest of clarity and avoiding confusion.
You set expectations and goals and the means to achieve them in a contract. It clarifies the extent of the dom’s power over the sub. On the other hand, it can also stipulate what the sub is willing to do and what lines should never be crossed. Determining the soft and hard limits within a power exchange relationship can be tricky for beginners. A lot can be lost in a verbal agreement. Putting everything on actual paper will most likely eliminate the confusion regarding who gets to do what.
They re sort of relationship guard.
They’re symbolic of the expanse and authority of the power exchange and not merely a noted-down articulation of its logistics. Your dedication to the kink reaches such incredible heights that you just have to put it in writing. It adds a bit more flavor to the experience, imparting more legitimacy to your dom/sub dynamic.
Have in mind that D/s contract or agreement is not limited to TPE, you can make it flexible on any level and any condition you seem comfortable with, You can be as vague or specific as you see fit, and can always re-visit and amend as you explore.
Always play safe...
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Common Misconceptions About Bdsm Practitioners
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Posted:Jan 14, 2023 7:51 am
Last Updated:Jan 26, 2023 12:03 am 4976 Views
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One of the most common misconceptions about BDSM practitioners is that these individuals are psychologically disturbed.
Through symbolic interaction it can be understood that the general public perceives BDSM practitioners as deviant and mentally ill.
BDSM practitioners are portrayed to have a lot of emotional baggage;
therefore, to non practicing individuals, people who practice BDSM have major psychological issues.
Due to this misinformation, the general public has created a negative image of the BDSM practitioners, and this image has lead the general public to fear BDSM.
However, it is important to note that BDSM is not rooted from abuse or domestic violence,
nor does participating in BDSM mean that one enjoys receiving abuse or abusing.
Report and studies has shown, that In contrary to common belief, people who practice BDSM are as psychologically healthy as the general population.
Thanks to porn, Fifty Shades Of Grey, and a lack of open discussion, BDSM has been thrown into the mainstream spotlight with a ton of negative stigmas and stereotypes attached to it. I’m here to tell you that there’s SO much more to it than “rough sex” or a manipulative rich dude and his Red Room of Pain. Practising BDSM is and should be empowering, healthy, consensual, and safe for all parties involved...
To my newbies; You’ve probably fantasied about something ~kinky~ at some point in your life. Follow your dreams. Turn that sh*t into reality. Research and play around with different types of toys, restraints, and tools, how to use them, and which ones are most appropriate for you and the type of scene you want to experience before you use them. Maybe start with lube and a blindfold or vibrator, then, if/when you’re ready, incorporate rope or a flogger or an automatic machine. Whatever you’re into...
Or look for an experienced Master/Mistress to guide and teach you into the lifestyle...its a great experience
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self discovery...
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Posted:Dec 13, 2022 2:25 pm
Last Updated:Jan 16, 2023 8:08 am 5494 Views
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In a company of ten, I might just be the only one that will be amazed and/or amused to an awkward situation or/maybe a {straight} answer that everyone else might agree to be "straight".
I like very dry humor. I don't like things that are over the top. I like subtlety. I like things that are nonchalant. I like characters that are sort of monotone and based in dark comedy....
Nevertheless, I respect boundaries as well as opinions as I agree that we are colleagues in this journey of inner self discovery,
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Subtle Thoughts....
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Posted:Oct 13, 2022 9:13 am
Last Updated:Oct 19, 2022 4:42 am 5689 Views
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Acceptance looks like a passive state, but in reality it brings something entirely new into this world. That peace, subtle energy vibration,..is consciousness....I did some travel recently out of the places visited; England gave me a chance to relate. It's a very individual country where people have a personal style; they don't all follow a trend. The subtlety and wit of England is incredible, and they are very creative... Compared to Australia which is not a country of articulate people, sophisticated people. There's too little subtlety. Men and women don't enjoy each other very much in Australia. I don't find very many men sexy in Australia. Of course, I'm married and out of it, but still....
I've learned by watching films that inspired me and people who inspired me. I love old school acting. I love subtlety, and I also love being spontaneous, and that's really what works for me.
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