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MsSwanger 30F  
7222 posts
12/5/2018 2:50 pm
I think a change would do you good.

Ever want someone to change?

Even "love" someone but prayed they'd change and You could be happy with them??

Ever look back and realize how happy You are that it didn't happen?

Journey into my soul.

brandygirasol 49T  
3308 posts
12/6/2018 6:36 am

The more things change the more they remain the same ... whatever that means!!!

MsSwanger replies on 12/10/2018 2:29 pm:
Maybe like a leopard never changes its spots

InderioMinx 49F  
15861 posts
12/5/2018 6:33 pm

Sometimes the "one that got away" was actually a narrow escape, we just didn't know it at the time.

Ars longa, vita brevis - Art is long, life is short

MsSwanger replies on 12/10/2018 2:29 pm:
Yes indeed I completely agree with you

DancingDom 69  
11247 posts
12/5/2018 6:08 pm

I don't want anyone, who I think needs changing. Because I long ago learned you really can't change anyone. They have to change themselves if they recognize they need changing. And, I sure as heck don't want anyone who thinks I need changing. Not that I am perfect, but entering into a relationship where major points of differences are simply not going to change me.

"One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"

MsSwanger replies on 12/10/2018 2:29 pm:
I am all for being with someone who pushes you to be a better person to be a better you but I absolutely don't want to be with someone that I want to change it is too much work and let's be honest it never works

VladVampireLord 44M  
12592 posts
12/5/2018 5:29 pm

You say that you really love me
I'm always on your mind
And you say I should be your lover
And we should spend some time
But I'm not persuaded that quickly
My heart has been broken before you see
So if you want to be my lover
You have to prove your love...

You can't escape the wrath of my heart...

MsSwanger replies on 12/10/2018 2:28 pm:
You know I will be in New Jersey tomorrow I will make sure that I am wearing some garlic to protect me

ina_scent 58F  
1053 posts
12/5/2018 5:29 pm

I have certainly been through this one, and the fantasy that "all they needed was ME to "make them heal and be better."

What you see is what you get

You can only expand the mind so far before it implodes...

MsSwanger replies on 12/10/2018 2:28 pm:
Yeah it kind of seems like a sick Obsession at some point doesn't it

hermang67 51M  
349 posts
12/5/2018 4:38 pm

Unanswered prayers

MsSwanger replies on 12/10/2018 2:27 pm:
It sure is sometimes you can't help but feel the hurt but when you get to look back at it and realize how wonderful it actually was for you even if it was a hard lesson to learn it is a good thing

drmgirl622 63F  
8551 posts
12/5/2018 3:05 pm

I can so relate to this...….

MsSwanger replies on 12/10/2018 2:27 pm:
I am forever grateful to have learned my lessons after the time have passed

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