~Saturday Sway
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Posted:Dec 16, 2023 2:23 am
Last Updated:Dec 21, 2023 1:32 am 22249 Views
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* Not Dark Yet ~ Bob Dylan ~ Time Out Of Mind
* I Put A Spell On You ~ Nina Simone ~Four Woman
* Destroyer ~ The Kinks ~ Come Dancing With The Kinks
* Paul Revere ~ The Beastie Boys ~ License To Ill
* Dessert Rose ~ Sting~ Brand New Day
* The Rain Song ~ Led Zepplin ~ Houses Of The Holy
* Bright Lights ~ Matchbox 20 ~More Than You Think You Are
* How Can You Mend A Broken Heart ~ Al Green ~ Let's Stay Together
* Losing My Touch~ Kieth Richards ~ 40 Licks
* Angel ~ Dave Matthews Band~ Everyday
Not Dark Yet ~ Bob Dylan ~ Time Out Of Mind
Shadows are falling and I been here all day
It's too hot to sleep and time is running away
Feel like my soul has turned into steel
I've still got the scars that the sun didn't heal
There's not even room enough to be anywhere
It's not dark yet, but it's getting there
Well my sense of humanity is going down the drain
Behind every beautiful thing, there's been some kind of pain
She wrote me a letter and she wrote it so kind
She put down in writin' what was in her mind
I just don't see why I should even care
It's not dark yet, but it's getting there
Well I been to London and I been to gay Paree
I followed the river and I got to the sea
I've been down to the bottom of a whirlpool of lies
I ain't lookin' for nothin' in anyone's eyes
Sometimes my burden is more than I can bear
It's not dark yet, but it's getting there
I was born here and I'll die here, against my will
I know it looks like I'm movin' but I'm standin' still
Every nerve in my body is so naked and numb
I can't even remember what it was I came here to get away from
Don't even hear the murmur of a prayer
It's not dark yet, but it's getting there
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Vulnerability ...
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Posted:Dec 15, 2023 8:16 am
Last Updated:Dec 17, 2023 12:44 am 22673 Views
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There is nothing easy about surrendering yourself to another person. Anyone tells you otherwise, tries to convince you that submission is a weakness, doesn’t understand the nature of strength.
If being a submissive was a switch I could flick on and off, I’m not sure that I would turn it on most days. Making yourself vulnerable is a terrifying thing. As humans, we spend our lives building walls to keep hurt. We construct mechanisms to defend us against vulnerability, hoping to protect our hearts. But, as FDR famously said, “Courage is not the absence of fear, but rather the assessment that something else is more important than fear.”
To be submissive is to invite someone behind those walls. To cast off your armor, lay down your weapons, and crawl into the arms of another person, trusting that they will not betray you.
To submit is to choose each day not to recoil, to not construct new walls, or draw your weapons. It doesn’t mean that we aren’t scared. It doesn’t mean that some days it won’t be the hardest thing we do. But it does mean that each day we choose submission over fear, not because we are weak, but because we are strong.
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~Saturday Sway “Storytellers” Playlist
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Posted:Dec 9, 2023 6:10 am
Last Updated:Jan 1, 2024 5:04 am 22239 Views
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* Piano Man - Billy Joel
* Atlantic City - Bruce Springsteen
* Fast Car - Tracy Chapman
* Biko - Peter Gabriel
* The Hurricane - Bob Dylan
* Father & - Cat Stevens
* Living For The City - Stevie Wonder
* River - Joni Mitchell
* Cat’s In The Cradle - Harry Chapin
* If You Could Read My Mind - Gordon Lightfoot
Atlantic City ~ Bruce Springsteen
Well, they blew up the chicken man in Philly last night
Now they blew up his house, too
Down on the boardwalk, they're getting' ready
For a fight, gonna see what them racket boys can do
Now there's trouble busin' in from outta state
And the DA can't get no relief
Gonna be a rumble out on the promenade
And the gamblin' commission's hangin' on by the skin of its teeth
Well, now everything dies, baby, that's a fact
But maybe everything that dies someday comes back
Put your makeup on, fix your hair up pretty
And meet me tonight in Atlantic City
Well, I got a job and tried to put my money away
But I got debts that no honest man can pay
So I drew what I had from the Central Trust
And I bought us two tickets on that Coast City bus
Now, baby, everything dies, honey, that's a fact
But maybe everything that dies someday comes back
Put your makeup on, fix your hair up pretty
And meet me tonight in Atlantic City
Now our luck may have died and our love may be cold
But with you forever I'll stay
We're goin' out where the sands turnin' to gold now
Put on your stockings, baby, 'cause the nights gettin' cold and
Everything dies, baby, that's a fact but maybe
Everything that dies someday comes back
Now I've been lookin' for a job but it's hard to find
Down here it's just winners and losers
And don't get caught on the wrong side of that line
Well I'm tired of comin' out on this losin' end
So, honey, last night I met this guy
And I'm gonna do a little favor for him
Well I guess everything dies, baby, that's a fact
But maybe everything that dies someday comes back
Fix your hair up nice, make yourself look pretty
And meet me tonight in Atlantic City
Meet me tonight in Atlantic City
Come meet me tonight in Atlantic City
And meet me tonight in Atlantic City
(Tonight in Atlantic City)
(Tonight in Atlantic City)
(Meet me tonight in Atlantic City)
(Tonight in Atlantic City)
(Tonight in Atlantic City)
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Determination
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Posted:Dec 4, 2023 10:12 pm
Last Updated:Dec 7, 2023 8:51 pm 21508 Views
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Submission, and Dominance for that matter, while inbred, don’t come naturally. Now don’t mistake my meaning here, I believe submissives and Dominants are born this way, as much as people are born with blue eyes or brown. The innate desire to lead, or to follow, is not a choice, but the acts of submission and dominance are not innate, they are learned.
Take sex, for example, you can know that you want it, that it is something you need in your life, but learning to have fulfilling sex is a journey, not a single act. And so it is for D/s. You can take a submissive or a Dominant as your own, but that doesn’t complete your journey any more than losing your virginity makes you a master of sex. There is always more to learn.
And you know what? It’s not fucking easy. You’re going to screw up. Probably a lot. You’ll hurt the person you love and it’s going to be soul-crushing. They’re going to hurt you too, and you’ll probably be blindsided. You’ll learn and grow, and if you’re anything like me, sometimes you’ll look at the trail of mistakes behind you and you’ll wonder if maybe you aren’t meant for this after all. That maybe you aren’t really submissive because you seem to fail a lot, or that maybe you aren’t really Dominant because you seem to hurt your sub even when it’s the last thing you want.
But here’s the thing… Dominance and submission are innate desires, but learning to fulfill those desires takes work. Learning to serve your partner, fulfill their needs, and make sure that your own are met, requires determination and effort. Wanting something, truly deeply wanting it, even needing it, doesn’t mean you know how to get it.
You have to be willing to pick yourself back up when you fall. It doesn’t mean you weren’t made for this. It doesn’t mean you aren’t a ‘true’ submissive or a Dominant. It means that if you want it badly enough, you’ll muster the strength to learn.
~pleasurewhore
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I Tried Weed Lube , And Oh My God, Yes!
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Posted:Dec 3, 2023 4:10 am
Last Updated:Dec 11, 2023 3:23 am 19827 Views
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It’s easy to be skeptical about Cannabis Lube when you read reviews about Velvet Swing lube like, “OH. MY. GOD. It is amazing! I’m pretty sure we could achieve world peace if everyone had a bottle of this stuff.” Or reviews about Foria Wellness like, “While masturbating, I felt each sensation and touch was intensified, and I was more relaxed than I have been in a long time. f*** human partners!” Weed lube sounds like a gift from the gods, so I made it my duty to find out whether the claims were too good to be true. It’s a tough job, but someone’s gotta do it!
What is Weed Lube? What is Cannabis Lube? What is Marijuana Lube?
Before we get into our weed lube reviews, let’s go over the basics, shall we? You can use Cannabis Lube, Marijuana Lube, and Weed Lube interchangeably, but usually, people are referring to lube that is infused with THC. THC is the tetrahydrocannabinol found in cannabis responsible for getting you high. Now let’s get something straight, there are two kinds of cannabis lube: THC Lube and CBD Lube.
One thing’s for sure, cannabis lube, whether infused with THC, or just infused with CBD, is way more than regular lube. Weed lube isn’t designed to give you a head high (unless you end up consuming it, but why would you do that?) However, there have been mixed reports of some people not getting high at all while others report a mild high. Weed lube is designed to give you a better orgasm. CBD lube is the same thing, except it doesn’t contain any THC, and this is the factor that makes CBD lube legal in all 50 states.
Technically, this isn’t a lubricant per se because it takes some time to feel the effects; you have to actually apply it 15-45 minutes before any sexual activity so wait, now you’re thinking how do I use weed lube?
How to use Weed Lube?
Applying lubrication is pretty straight forward, simply apply to your nether regions and wait for it to work. Foria’s directions state, “apply 4-8 sprays directly onto the clitoris, inner and outer labia, and inside the vagina.”
Cannabis lube is different from regular lube because you have to wait for the effects whereas regular lube works immediately. Regular lube does not have the same active ingredients as cannabis lube and is just used to lubricate, not enhance. Sure, cannabis lube provides the same lubrication as regular lube, but there’s so much more to it. You just have to be patient. Despite what you think, waiting can be sexy. Foreplay anyone?
Just remember that it may take 15-30 minutes to feel the effects of cannabis lube. In some cases, it may take an hour or longer because it all depends on several factors, including age, weight, and tolerance.
Why don’t I just smoke a joint or eat an edible before sex?
Cannabis lube is designed explicitly for pinpoint effect. Rather than experiencing a head or body high, cannabis lube is localized to where you apply it. If you smoke or vapeor take an edible, it won’t be the same. Period. They won’t cancel each other out; on the contrary, they may complement each other if you choose the right strain.
Will I get high?
CBD lube won’t get you high. In contrast, marijuana lube, or any lube with THC, may get you high. Some people report feeling a bit high while others don’t report feeling anything.
There are a few factors that will determine whether or not you’ll get high: the potency of the THC, your weight, and your body chemistry. Even if you feel the psychoactive effects of THC, they will be significantly less than what you would feel than if you smoked or consumed an edible or tincture.
There’s one exception: if you use THC lube and someone performs oral on you, that person will get high. Consuming the lube is inevitable and is basically the same as taking an edible.
So, should I buy weed lube or a CBD lube?
Weed lube and CBD lube are quite different. For one, CBD Lube is legal in all 50 states as long as it is derived from American hemp and does not contain any THC. On the contrary, THC lube is only available in areas that have legalized cannabis for recreational use. The major difference is that CBD is non-psychoactive and won’t get anyone high.
While THC and CBD both come from the cannabis plant, they produce two different effects — THC gets you high; CBD gets you relaxed. Let me put it this way, taking CBD Lube is like driving a Mercedes Benz while taking weed lube is like driving a Ferrari.
From my experience and other reviewers, THC lube has more pronounced sexual effects where your orgasms are intensified and multiplied. In comparison, CBD lube enhances the sexual experience by relaxing you and getting you in the right headspace. CBD lube has also been reported to ease painful sex.
Choosing between weed lube and CBD lube is a matter of personal preference. If you find yourself getting stuck in your head with performance anxiety or general anxiety, CBD lube is the better choice. If you’d rather heighten sensation, weed lube is the better option.
Is marijuana lube for guys?
Yes, someone with a penis can use marijuana lube, but it will work much better in the rectum than on the penis. The rectum is much more absorbent than the penis. If you’re only intention is to use marijuana lube for your penis, you will not feel the same effects as someone using it on their vagina or anus.
Weed Lube Reviews
First, you should know that I’m a skeptic. I begrudgingly did this review in the name of science. I didn’t do it as an excuse to get off during work, I swear. I tried to be as scientific as possible. I took it the same time each day, used the same toy, and followed the instructions.
Now for the good stuff…
Orgasm By Dani Pepper
The best weed lube I tried, hands down, has to be the Orgasm Enhancer by Dani Pepper – an AAXLL Brands Company. Surprisingly, this was the last product I tried, but it makes first on my list. By the time I tried Dani Pepper Orgasm Enhancement Oil, I felt like a pro. I felt like I knew what to expect, but holy crap was I wrong. I was very turned on 10 minutes after applying it. I felt the same warm, tingling sensation but felt a little extra. I don’t know how to explain it other than my body felt super responsive, and my skin was very sensitive in a good way. I felt really in touch with my body and comfortable with myself and my sexuality.
I was feeling intense pleasure. That’s the only way I can describe it. It’s like my mind and body opened up. I was entirely in tune with myself, and every second was euphoric. It made me want to call in sick the next day and have a marathon session.
My orgasm literally made me cry. It was the most amazing thing that I had ever felt. I don’t know whether the other lubes I tried had primed me for this, but it was the best orgasm that I’ve ever had. This was the epic, earth-shattering orgasm everyone was talking about. I’ll let you fill in the blanks, but my orgasm was explosive, to say the least. The second and third were tremendous and unexpected but warranted. This experience was easily my best with any lube.
As a bonus, Orgasm by Dani Pepper is sourced from sun-grown cannabis cultivated to organic standards. It is also independently tested for purity.
Another thing that you have to consider is that this is an oil-based lube, so it can’t be used with latex condoms or specific toys. It also may be messy and hard to wash out of sheets. However, it is all-natural and has a pleasant smell. Out of the three THC Lubes that I tried, I’d recommend Orgasm by Dani Pepper Next time you’re at a cannabis dispensary in California, remember to look for Dani Pepper Weed Lube.
Foria Pleasure
I decided to try Foria Pleasure as my first foray into cannabis lube because it’s arguably the most famous THC Lube out there. The only ingredients listed are weed, coconut oil, and love. It doesn’t say whether they used Non-GMO love, but I decided to risk it.
That night I was already primed and turned on. I had been thinking about this assignment for days, so I had some pent up “stress” to relieve. I decided to use the full eight sprays directly on my clit, inner and outer labia, and inside my vagina.
I usually need to watch porn to get me started, but this time, I felt really aroused within 15 minutes. Playing felt sensational. I was so relaxed and felt wetter than I had been in a while. My session lasted longer than I had anticipated. Even though I felt like climaxing, I was able to hold on and keep enjoying myself. It felt as though I was feeling more sensations than usual.
When I did orgasm, it was long and strong but not as epic as I had anticipated. I don’t know whether I bought into the hype and built it up too much, but for how long I was masturbating and for how good I was feeling, I thought I was going to experience something different. Don’t get me wrong, it was a really good orgasm, but it was missing something. It was a little anticlimactic.
There are a few other things that you should know before trying Foria Pleasure. There is a slight cannabis smell that may be off-putting if you’re not used to it. Like Orgasm by Dani Pepper, it is also an oil-based lube, so it is not safe to use with latex condoms and certain toys. The cleanup may be messy as well.
Velvet Swing
Velvet Swing was founded by sexual activists and educators Mistress Matisse and Chelsea Cebara and is the first water-based marijuana lube. Their formula contains both THC and CBD at a 3-to-1 ratio as well as other cannabinoids and other terpenes.
I used the recommended ten pumps half an hour before I was supposed to play. I wasn’t feeling particularly frisky when I applied it, but to my surprise, I felt warm and tingly down there, which got me in the mood.
This time the orgasm came quicker. Again, it was stronger and longer than what I’m used to but wasn’t something I’d describe as earth-shattering. However, I did have a second orgasm. It wasn’t as good as the first, but it was delightful and a pleasant surprise. According to the company, “THC dilates the smallest capillaries, which increases blood flow and heightens sensitivity, and can lead to longer, stronger orgasms.” I would say that that’s accurate.
Velvet Swing can be used in water and is safe to use with latex condoms and toys. You won’t feel a slimy, oily texture like oil-based lubes, and cleanup is easy. The only downside is that you don’t get the same glide as oil-based lubes. Plus, the lube itself doesn’t last as long as oil-based lubes, which is why I’d rank this third on my list.
CBD Lube Review
If you live in a state that has not legalized THC Lube, you can also try CBD Lube. Both THC and CBD Lube work the same way in the sense that they increase blood flow to the sexual organs, which means heightened sensation and minimal discomfort. It also means orgasms can happen more easily. Reviewers have even talked about decreased pain and increased desire.
In a study by Remedy Review, of the respondents who used CBD sex products, they said that there was a noticeable change in their sex lives including a decrease in anxiety, stronger orgasms, and pain relief.
Again, I tried three different CBD Lubes: Foria Awaken, Ignite CBD Lube by Kush Queen, and O by Dani Pepper. You should know that Foria Awaken is oil-based and Ignite CBD Lube and O Dani Pepper Intimacy Lube are water-based.
CBD Lube gives you a much more subdued experience relative to THC Lube. I felt mellow but still felt incredible, relaxed, and comfortable — my mind was free of distraction. The day’s stress melted away, and I was able to be fully in the moment.
While the warm, tingling sensation greatly improved my experience with THC Lube, this wasn’t that. I could stay in the moment and didn’t have to worry about deadlines or anything. I felt like I could play all night. My orgasm was still stronger and longer than usual. I suspect it was the mental clarity I had. I think the best word I can use for the experience is EASY. It didn’t feel like I had to work for anything; everything came naturally. When I did orgasm, I was shaking, but I felt relaxed.
While the three CBD Lubes I tried were quite similar, I’d recommend O Dani Pepper Intimacy Lube because it seemed like I was more in tune with my body and felt stress-free. I fought with my mom and had a long day that day, so I wasn’t in the mood to play. This lube got me out of my own way, and I had a sensational night. I actually played longer than I had with the other lubes.
You can buy Dani Pepper CBD Lube online, but you have to hurry, it sells out pretty quickly!
Best Weed Lube – The Final Word
Out of the three lubes we tested, Dani Pepper stands out as the best in both the THC and CBD categories. The team at Dani Pepper has formulated something game-changing and I’m excited to see what comes next.
Generally speaking, THC Lube and CBD Lube affect your sexual experience differently than regular lubes. You won’t be paranoid or hallucinate. THC Lube only gets you high if you ingest it or use it in your anus.
Overall, these lubes amplify your sensitivity. You’ll feel a warm tingling with THC Lube within 10 – 30 minutes. With CBD Lube, you’ll feel content and relaxed; you won’t be in your head as much. The effects can last from two to four hours, so the chance of multiple orgasms is there.
The orgasm you experience from THC Lube is much different than the one you get from CBD Lube. Overall, it was easier to have an orgasm on both. The build-up on THC Lube was much more intense and most likely contributed to a more intense orgasm.
There are pros and cons to both water-based and oil-based lube. Oil-based lubes can’t be used with latex condoms or certain toys while water-based lubes don’t have as good of a glide and don’t last as long.
The best part is that some reviews report that marijuana lube helps with endometriosis and ovarian cysts. Explosive, pain-free sex is the holy grail. The only drawback is the wait time. Sometimes your engine is already revved, and waiting an extra half hour seems like an eternity. But you don’t have to do your taxes; you could manually stimulate yourself or, if you have a partner, you could, dare I say, take your time with foreplay.
So if you’re wondering whether you should try cannabis lube, my answer would be Yes! YES! OH, GOD, YES!
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7 Things to Remember When Getting to Know a Dominant
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Posted:Nov 29, 2023 12:33 am
Last Updated:Feb 15, 2024 7:05 am 20859 Views
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How many of you think that finding the kinky partner of your dreams is practically impossible?
Yeah, I know. With all the crazy, fake Doms out there or the people who seem too good to be true and then ghost out on you, it’s easy to get discouraged. Hopefully, you’ve done a self-check to make sure you’re not scaring them off. Now, maybe it’s time to think about how you approach a Dominant to make sure you’re picking a good one or finding one that’s worth the work and effort that go into having a successful D/s relationship.
First, a reality check.
I can’t give you a step-by-step checklist of what to say, what to wear, and what to do to find yourself the greatest Dominant who ever lived, EVER. We’re all unique individuals, and everyone is looking for something different. I’m not going to tell you to dress a certain way, speak a certain way, or do anything very specific.
Unless you’re looking for a play partner – which has its own set of best practices – you need to approach the search for a new Dominant like you would any relationship, vanilla or kinky. You’re people first, kinksters second (and for some people, kink is third, fourth, or even tenth of the list).
But, if you think all you do is find the fakes and posers or that every D/s relationship you have is doomed to fail, there are a few things you can try that may help you find a good, decent Dominant partner.
Get to know each other in a vanilla way first.
Shocking, right? For some people, proclaiming their kinky proclivities from the first moment is a must. For others, it’s not something they admit until much later. All of that is perfectly fine. Regardless of whether this potential Dominant knows you’re a kinky submissive looking for freaky things to be done to you, get to know them like you would anyone else.
Unless you’re the type to ask about a person’s sexual hard limits in every situation, you probably shouldn’t lead with that one even if they are Dominant. Find out who they are as a person first. D/s – for many of us – is a long-term relationship and power exchange. Who cares how kinky they are if you don’t like them as a human being first?
Ask questions.
More than just the questions you ask to learn about someone when you’re ready to discuss kink and D/s, ask a million and one questions. The good Dominants of the world aren’t scared off. Hell, they welcome it because it shows that you’re willing to communicate, that you’re curious, and that you want to learn as much as possible about them.
Dominants are not all-powerful beings in your life until you make them so (and until they agree to be that for you). You should know their limits, their fetishes, their likes, dislikes, and fears just as much as they should know yours. No, you’re not being too forward by asking questions. And never believe you’re supposed to sit quietly and let this Dominant make all the decisions. The good Dominants don’t want to do that – at least not until you’re in a negotiated and established relationship.
Don’t be afraid to say no.
This person isn’t your Dominant – yet. You’re allowed to say no. You’re allowed to tell them you’re uncomfortable. You’re allowed to tell them that you’re not their submissive, and you don’t have to do what they tell you to.
Now, let me add a caveat. If this is someone you want to become your Dominant, I suggest being respectful when you tell them no (unless they were a total asshole, of course). Until you know they enjoy taming a submissive or dealing with a brat – and not all Dominants do – being polite is always a good idea. You can still be firm and get your point across while staying polite.
Expect to be treated with respect.
This goes along with that thing that some fakes do of demanding that you call them Master and bow to their wishes – and they usually do it all through a direct message on social media. It’s a little scary how often it happens, and how quickly they’ll turn into freaks the moment you say no. They’ll also treat you like crap if you say yes, by the way.
You have every right to demand respect. In the online world, it’s easier. You can block and delete people left and right. When you’re meeting someone face to face, it’s not always easy. Show that you have a backbone and that you won’t be pushed around or bullied. The good Dominants might be testing you and will respect you for it. The fakes and posers will call you mean names and slink back into their slimy caves. Every decent Dominant I’ve ever met treats all people with respect from the very beginning until they’re given a reason not to.
Push back when you’re uncomfortable.
So maybe you’re far enough along that you’re truly negotiating a potential relationship. Hell, maybe you’re even looking over a list of potential kinks and fetishes to figure out where your limits are and how you’re both compatible. When something doesn’t feel right, it’s okay (and really, it’s a requirement) that you say something.
Just because this person really likes the idea of knife play, and the idea makes you want to puke, doesn’t mean you have to acquiesce. Very rarely are two people going to like all of the same things. If the chemistry is good between you, you might not even have to agree on much at all when it comes to kinks and fetishes. But when your boundaries are being pushed past your comfort level and you’re not in a relationship yet, you have a responsibility to say something. When you’re in a relationship, you still have every right to say something too, for what it’s worth.
Don’t expect a Dominant to read your mind.
This goes along with that last one. Yes, many Dominants are very observant and can actually appear to be able to read your mind. They listen and watch and then react to your spoken and unspoken cues. It’s uncanny…I know. But they are not and have never been mind readers. Don’t treat them like they are.
Tell them when you’re uncomfortable. Tell them when you’re scared. Tell them when you’re freaking out because your mind is telling you that this has to be wrong, that your family would think you’re a freak, that you shouldn’t want to be submissive. There’s no way for a Dominant to help you deal with any of this if you don’t tell them.
Listen to your instincts.
We all get vibes or gut reactions to stuff, especially people. Oftentimes, we reject that little niggling voice that tells us something isn’t right. Or, when it seems too good to be true, we try to ignore the vibe that says this might really be a good thing. Don’t ignore that feeling – good or bad.
Whether you’ve just met someone or you’re in the early stages of your D/s relationship when something doesn’t feel right, pay attention. If you have to ask yourself (or others – as my email inbox can attest) if something is right or normal or okay, you probably already know the answer. D/s is a relationship, first and foremost. If you don’t like how you’re being treated or how the other person speaks to you or looks at you, that’s not a sign of a good healthy relationship. I always recommend communication first – in case it’s a problem of mixed signals and expectations – but after that, always go with your gut.
Look, I wish I could give you a checklist of what to say and do, or not say and do, to help you find the perfect-for-you Dominant. The reality is that this is a relationship between two people, first and foremost, and needs to be treated like it. Yes, eventually, you’ll talk about things you couldn’t imagine discussing in previous relationships (and not all of it will be sexual) and yes, this can be the most fulfilling relationship of your life – with the right person. But don’t let your desire to submit cloud your judgment. Find the best match for you as a person and then decide if they’re the right Dominant for your submissive self.
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In Dreams
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Posted:Nov 25, 2023 1:10 am
Last Updated:Feb 1, 2024 2:04 am 20408 Views
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She dreamt of you again last night.
Like a wicked villain, you’ve stolen all other thoughts and images.
Creeping into her subconscious, wrapping a strong fist around her heart.
Visions of rough hands tangled in silky hair, soft lips, and harsh teeth pressing into flesh.
Flashes of salt and pepper whiskers scratching tender skin and warm, seductive whispers fill the air.
Her body writhing and melting, relinquishing to your command.
Breathlessness and stars and bliss.
A beautiful memory of moments that should have never existed.
She longed for you again last night.
~filthykissesandwhiskeywords
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