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aliljaded 48F  
3738 posts
11/15/2018 8:50 am
What exactly do older men do better

Everything. Treat women respectfully. Earn and spend money. Travel. Eat. Fuck.

Older men have patience, in and out of the bedroom. Foreplay doesn’t start (or only last) five minutes after you get naked. With us, it often starts hours in advance and never really stops. We understand that your mind and your heart are the most important sexual organs and we know how to expose and nurture them.

Older men want to draw out your pleasure. Not simply so that you can have a bigger, better orgasm (and you will), but because they enjoy watching what they do to you, and how your body reacts. There’s no wham-bam-thank-you-ma’am.

Older men believe in ladies first, and often. Our goal isn’t to simply cum and be done. And even getting that one orgasm out of you is not a goal. We love foreplay, we don’t mind working hard for your orgasms — plural. We take pride when we provide orgasm after orgasm that leaves you shaking, breathless and weak. Personally, I like when you lose count. And believe me… I will make you count them out. I’ll even let you pick the number you want ahead of time. And then I’ll obliterate it, no matter which number you pick.

Older men, in general also have better control over their bodies, whether it’s experience or maturity… we take longer to finish. Older men can give you multiple orgasms, spend hours on foreplay, have sex as long as you want, changing positions fifteen times, and still not have an orgasm of their own.

Young men don’t necessarily grasp that the point of sex isn’t necessarily to get yourself off. For us, sex is about the connection, the intimacy, and the shared pleasure.

For me, cumming is nice, but it’s not necessary for me to have an absolutely amazing time. For me, it’s all about my ability to provide you with pleasure and my absolute command over your experience, whether it’s a quickie or a six-hour solid afternoon fuck session.

Try us. You’ll love us.

~ risuperman1967

"Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”

Suzy_Que 47T  
495 posts
12/10/2018 12:05 pm

At times, I enjoy the enthusiasm and innocence of younger men, but they can't compare with satisfying and being satisfied by older men.

tanyacheex4u 51F  
3 posts
12/6/2018 7:06 am

Older men all the Way for Me

ProfessorRetired 69M
9 posts
12/3/2018 1:30 pm

I've often written about the older men on other blogs. Here are a few tidbits:

"the "golden years" dispensation, has some unlooked for, unthought of and unheard of personality differences. Here are a few that I've recognized.
1) I *freely* talk to other people/strangers in public. i.e. Walmart, gym, etc.
2) I speak less and listen more. (this isn't antithetical to #1)
3) I am more free with my money and time helping others.
4) I am way more nostalgic.
5) I am more likely to allow a tear to flow than to hold it back in silence.
6) I am more vocal while making love."

A reader once offered these reasons she likes older men:
"Older men are:
1) more established and grounded
2) more financially secure
3) more appreciative
4) less self oriented both sexually and relationally
5) more experienced"

A very young lady from Europe added this:
"Older men will treat younger ladies with care and ready to take all responsibilities.
Older men are always want to be proud of you
Older men never plan to cheat on you if he really love you
I think they are more understanding, caring, show more love"

A Long time ago, a nurse told me this:
"Older men are more rooted and established.
Older men are more financially secure.
Older men are more appreciative in a host of ways.
Older men are less likely to seek their own sexual gratification before the woman's.
Older men are more experienced.

And yet it is quite difficult to find a younger woman to actually step out of the fantasy and into the reality in any sort of serious way.

ProfessorRetired 69M
9 posts
12/3/2018 1:12 pm

I just have to take a minute to thank you for your post here. I have often asked women who were looking for older men as to why. In high school I had a couple of teachers that I thought was hot but the thought of actual intimacy with them wasn't something I realistically entertained to any great length. And yet, I have long conversed and even a time or two met, younger women who did just that. They just never were very articulate as to why they preferred older men. By reason I figured that perhaps they either had bad father figures or no father figures while growing up and were subconsciously wanting to fill that void.

You have quite well describe some of the benefits of us older men. Thank you.

1acoach 57M  
1 post
11/26/2018 4:25 am

Lets hope is true, Im getting older very quick ! Seriously talking, my experience is that with the time, the sexual act of penetration properly looses interest as everything we practice many times its not the same as first time..., usually. Then comes the interest in bring out all those phantasies inside a woman brain that drives her crazy, feeling the empowerment of doing that and extending in lenght as much as possible !! ) I supose in some way is what a woman feels when we are young and we are a "testosterone brain (or reptilian brain as yo wish)", she feels totally empowered knowing our only "target"and playing with the situation specially the timing !! (oooohhh what so wonderfull days !!! Hahaha!).

MsSwanger 30F  
15775 posts
11/20/2018 3:08 pm

They have always "Got me" more.

Mentally, emotionally and so on and so fourth.

Journey into my soul.

CawintShard 57M
578 posts
11/20/2018 3:03 am


TheFirmhand_UK 57M
14 posts
11/17/2018 1:21 pm

Older men have a more refined arrogance, too. Experience has taught us our strengths and weaknesses, so we have both precision and confidence in our arrogance, rather than just being cocky. Not all Men, of course, but if we have to generalise...

aliljaded 48F  
1278 posts
11/16/2018 3:03 am

Like I said, this and so much more. Thank You all for sharing.

"Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”

asianat2008 63M
3889 posts
11/16/2018 1:17 am

You vibrated my thoughts what i often think of older man and older woman and you have now nicely pinned the thoughts in a beautiful narration here. Super blogpost my lovely frend.

Self-respect is the corner-stone of virtues.

nevelnudist 48M
8 posts
11/15/2018 11:29 pm

and fine prey she would be

tahimikbayani 47M
6054 posts
11/15/2018 7:05 pm

Seems you have sparked a plethora of Older men to comment.

"Yesterday When I was Young"-Roy Clark

likesmatureones 50M  
2698 posts
11/15/2018 3:54 pm

My 2 cents..older men are less penis men age we have problems in the bedroom and learn other ways to have pleasure.
So the focus comes off the penis and our pride gets wrapped up in how many orgasms can we give her/ can we satisfy her in bed.
This is why an older man would draw out his own pleasure in favor of hers..we still can be the man..even if we have problems in the manhood dept

Daddy2FuckUUp 58M
15 posts
11/15/2018 2:37 pm

Statistically speaking perhaps. Some older men are still crap at stuff.

CawintShard 57M
578 posts
11/15/2018 1:19 pm

They drink tea and appreciate it more than they once did.

Jag_60 60M  
807 posts
11/15/2018 12:54 pm

Excellent post but I think the thing we do best is listen.

evelyn_curious 59F  
16 posts
11/15/2018 12:36 pm

The experience of being taken confuses me at times. I am most alive when i'm being taken by Him... he takes what he wants... he knows that it belongs to him... yet he brings me to orgasm like no other.

He is wonderful to me, conversant and kind in public.. a normal couple. And then it changes simply by the tone of his voice and I know I'm about to be take.

So intoxicating.

I submit to others... He dominates me. There is a HUGE and wonderful difference and age has something to do with it... they are seasoned men... well thought and deep in experience. I love all of that.

Dreamcatcher__ 82M
5150 posts
11/15/2018 12:01 pm

I just spent a month with a woman who was my mistress (in the conventional sense of the term) when I was 43-46 years old. She describes the difference between then and now in almost exactly the same terms as the quote you found. She added, however, that the principal difference was that while the original experience was great, the older me got inside her mind and provided much more intense satisfaction. As you said... all this and more.

Vikingargo 62M
77 posts
11/15/2018 11:27 am

Thank you aliljaded for the observation and compliment. It is true primarily due to the patience developed throughout life. On the other side, one can weight in the balance the maturity of a younger man as to how patient he is.

Older women know this. Hence their experience can be a benefit for all. And younger women can learn more about themselves as well.

It's nature's way.

PunishmentMan4f 57M
4 posts
11/15/2018 11:14 am

especialy spanking is much better the older man get. i am 60 now ^^

Sirfaced 52M  
11 posts
11/15/2018 11:04 am

Wow, that nails it. Couldn’t be said any better than that!

zebhall 50M
17 posts
11/15/2018 10:37 am

Excite the mind and the body will follow... Like it is stated above... To watch her bodies reaction.... That look in their eyes..... The connection you feel when her mind has been stimulated.... You can feel their need and desire.... Nothing better....

arero 62M
272 posts
11/15/2018 9:45 am

My observation on alt is that what older men do more of (though not necessarily better I suppose) is comment on blog posts by younger women. When a 20-something (or 40-something) chick puts up a new post, the old farts are out in droves. Self included.

Horns in the mind are worse than on the head.

Nsa2tie 65M  
238 posts
11/15/2018 9:28 am

Should be mandatory reading for all younger women

Though I did put my back out thinking about this

CertifiedSub 27F
2 posts
11/15/2018 9:23 am

Older men are simply a lot more expeienced

CertifiedSub 27F
2 posts
11/15/2018 9:22 am

Made for a very good read x

shoeman2151 67M  
1 post
11/15/2018 9:08 am

This is a perfect description of how an older man loves to make love!

JJJayJr 71M  
131 posts
11/15/2018 9:04 am

I would like to think that you have described me perfectly.

aliljaded 48F  
1278 posts
11/15/2018 8:54 am

I've never dated anyone younger than me so I suppose I can only speak for older men. They are all this and more.

"Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”

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