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Email question about my first time in bondage
Posted:May 16, 2019 2:28 pm
Last Updated:May 17, 2019 9:45 am

Hello fellow kinksters.

Sorry I have been away for so long. It has been a real busy time in my life. All good just busy. So a week ago I had a great question about my first bondage experience. The woman was looking forward to her upcoming first rope bondage and wanted to know what to expect.

LOL, I told here to be sure she peed before they started.

So for clarity, during my first experiences, i was simply pinned down or had my hands pinned above my head. The inability to control what was happening made me so excited.

So the Dom i was seeing asked if i wanted to try rope bondage and see what it was really like to be completely helpless. I was excited and nervous at the same time. I had been intimate with him several times, so it was new still but not completely new. sounded dumb, I hope you understand I was not yet completely comfortable with him.

It was a cold rainy Saturday afternoon when i came to his house. He turned the heat so i would be comfortable being naked. I was warm but far from comfortably. I started to back out and he told he would give a safe work and he would stop any time. I agreed and took my clothes off.

He had a massive 4 poster bed in his guest room room. there were already 4 ropes tied with little nooses on each end on the four corners of the bed. Before i got on the bed, he place a ball gag in my mouth. I was truly dumb because there was no thought about how hard it would be to use a safe word with this huge gag in my mouth. I was very naive.

He had lay on my back across the bed so they he could tie and not have to move around the head or foot board. He placed a noose on my wrist and tied it to the post. He tied my other arm and puled them tightly so they were very secure. I was thinking how helpless i was moment when he put a noose around my ankle and spread my leg very wide. I panicked I was kicking with the other leg and trying to use the safe word. He finally tied my other leg wide apart and i was completely helpless and dripping wet. I wanted him to stop and let me go. However, he went ahead and fucked me in this position. I came when he entered me and once more before he finished. He took out the gag and I had relaxed so i felt better. He asked me if i wanted to quite or try other things and i went for other things.

We played until late at night. He tied me and retied me in different positions. When he was done i was exhausted but happy. It was safe but crazy. My limits had been stretched along with my mouth and vagina.

My best advise is to go slow and simple. The first time doesn't to be a circus act. Be safe and have fun.

Stay kinky my friends.

Snow in Chicago on another Saturday.
Posted:Apr 28, 2019 10:06 am
Last Updated:May 7, 2019 11:59 am

Mother nature is a real prankster. In the last 3 weeks, we have had snow on 2 different weekends and one 70 weekend. I am ready for this shit to end.

I am becoming a real bitch. I am usually sweet and easy to get along with, but this weather has beaten me down.

OK Mother Nature you Mother F@@@@r! Its own! Get your seasons straight or else!

Stay kinky my friends.

Anal Musings for Hump Day
Posted:Apr 24, 2019 10:37 am
Last Updated:May 1, 2019 2:37 pm

Greetings my kinky friends.

I received another email about anal sex. Why do guys love anal so much? I have a perfectly formed tight vagina. It is self lubricating feels nice and is made for fucking. Whoops i digress again.

The questions was how often does my Master fuck my fine ass.

Actually, not as often as you would think. He prefers me clean prior to anal so it is not as spontaneous as most would probably like. i also have a very tiny asshole. Master has a bit larger and thicker cock than most. He has to lube me and work it in my ass. Ramming it home is not an option. I will split in two and then require a trip to the emergency room. Not a pleasant experience. So probably only once a month or so. We fuck practically everyday.

Not we are bereft from anal . I own a number of anal plugs. Master loves putting these in me prior to sex. It also makes sex more intense for me. He also enjoys sliding a very slender vibrator in my ass. Its about the thickness of a pencil. He enjoys watching me squirm with it in me and loves fucking me hard with it on high.
Email Question about the punishment i receive
Posted:Apr 15, 2019 12:38 pm
Last Updated:Apr 25, 2019 4:35 pm

Happy Monday my Kinky friends.

I had a very interesting email and thought everyone might enjoy the answer.

You are a slave. How and when does your Master punish you? Does he ever beat and or spank you for punishment?

Great question. I am a slave to my husband and Master. I completely trust him to take care of and protect me. I rarely disobey him real or imagined. Some Masters make up imaginary transgressions in order to punish their slaves. Mine never has, however, i have been with others who did.

Punishment in my current relationship is very harsh. My Master knows me and knows what makes me tic, I am sure I have said he lives rent free in my head. If I do something he takes exception too, he ties my hands and ankles together, blindfolds me and places me in a walk in closet in out house in the dark. He leaves me there for a minimum of an hour. I hate it he knows it and it is quite effective.

I have rarely ever been beaten by anyone in a cruel way. A few times were close but my Master never beats me or whips me. My Master also knows i love to be spanked. Want to watch me get wet and cum without penetration, tie me, place me over your knee and spank my ass hard. I get wet thinking about it. You may think a red ass is a beating, but for me its foreplay. Punishment never equals foreplay in a true Dom/sub relationship. Also beatings are not normal parts of correction. That just may mean the guy is a sadist.

As i said my Master knows me. He knows i crave attention. Every notice how many pictures I have posted on here. Ever wonder why? The denial of his attention is my greatest fear and his greatest deterrent.

I will add I am rarely punished. He knows when i am being bratty that i just want him to play with me. Usually he does.

Stay kinky my friends.

You found a real man, How to keep him
Posted:Apr 14, 2019 9:48 am
Last Updated:Apr 15, 2019 12:21 pm

Ok, i wrote a blog about what women want in a man, I thought i should share some thoughts on how to keep a man. Mind you I have only had moderate success, however, it seems to be working.

1. Let the man be the man. Let him be in charge.
2. Be sexy all the time. Flannel Pjs may keep you warm, but will leave him ice cold.
3. Shut up every now and then and listen. I have noticed women, me included tend to be yammering idiots. Guys, dont mind some girl talk, but give it a rest. Focus on him.
4. When the big game is on, be quiet, cheer with him, serve him, be sexy in his favorite jersey. If his friends are over, you will become the cool girl friend. Bring him a beer without him asking.
5. Suck his dick without him asking. Master and I have a lot of sex. I also suck his cock every day at least once and sometimes more. If we shower together I suck his cock. He is watching Game of Thrones, I suck his cock. I wake him up with a blow job in the morning. When he comes home from the gym, sweaty and gross, i suck his dick. BTW, after guys exercise their libido is off the charters. The best sex i have ever had is with my Master after his workout.
6. Finally most importantly, if he ask you what you would like to do, make a suggestion. I think that makes men crazier than anything. Where do you want to eat tonight, Oh I dont care you chose. The I dont care part is what they hear.

Happy man happy life.


PS. I have been married 18 months now and with my master 2 1/2 years. My life is great. I focus on him and he takes care of me.
You want a girl like me you are going to have to be a MAN
Posted:Apr 11, 2019 11:24 am
Last Updated:Apr 21, 2019 8:28 pm

I get a lot of messages from men who ask how they can be with me and have a like me . I am sure they want t her cute and 's what they see as. So for men everywhere I will share the following steps to have any woman you want.

1. Be a man. Be strong, confident decisive. If we wanted a pussy we go be with another woman.

2. Take the lead. I have rarely turned a man down for sex. I have also had to nudge a lot of men to fuck. Watch some James Bond Movies. Be sauve and assume she wants to fuck. Deep kisses and being carried to bed are huge turn-ons.

3. After you fuck, don't fall asleep. A few minutes of cuddling and pillow talk will make her swoon.

4. Get her ready to fuck. Dear God, don't take your dumb stick and jam it in. Get her , with her, get her wet with desire. Then ram it home.

5. Don't ask her how you were in bed. 's a total buzz and if she tells you the truth you are going to break rule 1. If it only last a few minutes its ok. Btw, marathon fucking gets after a while.

Want take !

Stay kinky my friends.
I love to fuck and other musings.
Posted:Apr 5, 2019 9:18 am
Last Updated:Apr 11, 2019 11:20 am

Ok, I am going to put it out there, I love to fuck. I love everything about sex. The closeness, the feelings, the being free. So to all the guys out there, yep I am a slut. That doesnt mean i am going to be your slut anytime in the future.

A friend told me most women dont want sex. I was shocked. I think every woman i know wants sex. Sex is fun. Who doesnt want sex?

He believes most woman are mummified when it comes to sex. Mmmm. I am sorry I disagree. Maybe I am a weird exception to the rule. I enjoy sex. I have enjoyed sex since i was a very young age. I have enjoyed sex with men and women. I have also enjoyed sex with multiple men at the same time.

Yep, I know what you are thinking. The girls a slut. I am not sure what makes a girl a slut other some antiquated morals. Men may fuck as many partners as they want, and they are considered masculine and a stud. Fuck more than one guy in a night and your a slut if you are a woman.

Sluts unit for respect and sex! Girls rule and boys drool.

Stay kinky my friends.

Are you ready for my naked moon dance for spring?
Posted:Mar 30, 2019 11:00 am
Last Updated:Apr 9, 2019 9:38 am

I have decided to go to Buckingham Fountain tonight and Dance completely naked around the fountain to honor the weather Gods. I am hoping my mooning the moon will bring spring weather to Chicago.

I am ready for short skirts and tshirts. Who is with me? Let's all get naked for mother nature. Maybe she will stop being such a bitch.

Stay Kinky my friends.

Happy St Pats Day
Posted:Mar 17, 2019 8:02 am
Last Updated:May 19, 2019 10:4 am

Sorry i haven't written in a while. My work life is sucking the life out of me at the moment. The sheer panic in some of my clients voices as tax day approaches.

Motto " Plan ahead putzes." I digress. If they planned ahead they wouldn't need me.

So here i am nursing a hangover. One more Guinness beer last night was one more than i could handle. On the Uber ride home, I got to thinking about how we Americans and Irishmen have corrupted a Catholic Holiday.

St Patrick the father of Ireland was a priest. Do you really think he drank and celebrated debauchery? Probably not. Irish or not, I doubt if he was allowed to drink.

It's like Cinco de Mayo. The one time, the Mexican army defeats the French army at the battle of Pueblo. Americans through a huge party and drink Tequila. Interesting. Btw, of historical note, the French invaded Mexico because it defaulted on loans to the British French and Spain. But mostly because the French wanted to own some land in the Americas.

Stay kinky, drink green beer, and fuck like rabbits.

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Funday Friday Wisdom
Posted:Mar 1, 2019 10:10 am
Last Updated:Mar 10, 2019 8:37 am

Hello my deeply perverted fans!

Sorry I haven't been blogging lately. Its been a really hectic couple of weeks. However,
I officially declare today is fun day Friday. The weather is going to be cold and snowy and I really don't have anything I want to do.

So at 5 Pm CST, I am going to be at my home. I will shower and get pretty. I will put the collar around my neck and wait in the nude kneeling for Master to arrive. All of his favorite foods are ready for a weekend of sex sex and more sex. While you may think every day is like this, we too get busy with work and life.

Not this weekend. If all works out, I will be setting tenderly on Monday.

I hope all of you have a sexy weekend.


Stay kinky my friends.

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