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12/5/2018 3:33 pm
A Very Sexy Beginning to BDSM World

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A Very Sexy Beginner's Guide to BDSM Words
What She Said
A Very Sexy Beginner's Guide to BDSM Words

BY SOPHIE SAINT THOMAS
October 25, 2017

Illustration by Cécile Dormeau
Me talk dirty one day.

The vocabulary of BDSM can be intimidating to newcomers (newcummers, heh heh). What is your domme talking about when she tells you to to stop topping from the bottom and take off your Zentai suit for some CBT? What, while we're at it, is a domme? So, let’s start with the basics: “BDSM” stands for bondage and discipline, dominance and submission, and sadism and masochism, the core pillars of kinky fun. Beyond that, there’s a whole language to describe the consensual power exchange practices that take place under the BDSM umbrella. At press time there’s still no “kink” on Duolingo, so here’s a handy glossary of some of the most common BDSM terms, from A to Z.
A is for Aftercare
Aftercare is the practice of checking in with one another after a scene (or “play session,” a.k.a., the time in which the BDSM happens) to make sure all parties feel nice and chill about what just went down. The dominant partner may bring the submissive ice for any bruises, but it’s important to know that aftercare involves emotional care as well as physical. BDSM releases endorphins, which can lead to both dominants and submissives experiencing a “drop.” Aftercare can help prevent that. There’s often cuddling and always conversation; kinksters need love too.
B is for Bondage
Bondage is the act of tying one another up. In most cases the dominant partner is restraining the submissive using ropes, handcuffs, Velcro, specialty hooks, clasps, or simply a belt if you’re on a budget.


msfunfor 57M
3165 posts
12/5/2018 3:45 pm

hello ,
a welcome addition to the holiday book deluge

be good
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America2018 56M  
26 posts
12/5/2018 4:03 pm

Looking forward to your next installment.


hermang67 51M  
349 posts
12/5/2018 4:15 pm

Great first post


VladVampireLord 44M  
12592 posts
12/5/2018 5:28 pm

You say that you really love me
I'm always on your mind
And you say I should be your lover
And we should spend some time
But I'm not persuaded that quickly
My heart has been broken before you see
So if you want to be my lover
You have to prove your love...

You can't escape the wrath of my heart...


cmasternow69 55M
17 posts
12/6/2018 6:54 am

That is a great start here to Blog


CawintShard 57M
578 posts
12/14/2018 4:29 pm

Very impressive. Great stuff. Looking forward to more!



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