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softslave00 33F  
450 posts
12/1/2018 12:51 pm

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12/10/2018 8:30 am

Today's males never get good sex because they have a mentality of the welfare recipients


This post is a response to Mr. Arero who left a comment on my previous post.

My wonderful Mr. Arero, we humans are made in a certain way. Men are made to create wealth, to protect their women and children, and to run things. Only a small minority of women can do that. The majority of women simply are not equipped physically and cognitively to compete with men. The genders are created very different and our roles are very different. We, women, are made to provide mental comfort and sexual pleasure for our men so they can go out into to the world and produce, create, rule, be fruitful and multiply. Ours is a supporting role. Now, if a woman wants to go out into the world and compete with men for their type of activities, i am all for her and will support her right to do so.

This is NOT what i find appalling in our society today. What is monstrous is the absolute refusal of the majority of males to take the responsibility of being a MAN. A great number of the today’s males expect their women to work full-time and pay for the half of the bills. They also demand that we provide sexual services and mental support services to them. These beta males expect to be supported, fucked, pampered, and respected without earning these VERY expensive and time-consuming services. i am not even touching on the fact that everything which has to do with the childbearing and caring for young kids falls squarely on the shoulders of women.

We, women, have been abused terribly by this neglect. During the, so called, Patriarchy men had a duty to love, protect, and support their families. Today’s males have a mentality of the welfare recipients. They want something for nothing. If you calculate the cost of the mental support, sexual favors, and domestic services an average woman is expected to provide for a male, the average male simply does not make enough money to pay for it. Just thing think of what it would cost if a male had to hire a prostitute for sex, hire a psychologist for regular sessions, hire tutors/babysitters for the children, and hire a maid to keep the house clean. No wonder that a great number of women simply use the beta males as disposable sex toys by not caring to give them the respect and the good sex.

Now, those exceptional MEN, who understand the beautiful balance of men and women playing different positions while being on the same team, get the best of us. These wise men understand what it costs to get the best things in life and they don’t look at it as an unfair burden like beta males do. They are willing to pay the full freight to have a wonderful life. These exceptional MEN get the best sex, the most beautiful loyal females, healthy and smart kids, larger income, and happy life 😊

softslave00 33F  
462 posts
12/2/2018 12:36 pm

    Quoting CowboyRam:
    Wow, you have distorted view of the world. Now just tell me how many families have been started just because two people got together for no other reason than to have sex; the answer is a lot. Now I know several couples that just barely get by with two incomes, and it has nothing to do with him being lazy. Oh I guess he would work two jobs and never see his wife; that would not be fair to her either. The last time I checked a relationship was more of a joint venture with both contributing something to the relationship. I would also could say that most men would love to be in a position where they bring home the bacon and their wives not have to work. So let's not say that a man is lazy just because his wife has to work. In an ideal world that is how most men would like it to be, but we don't live in an ideal world. I am not saying that the woman should come home and do all the household chores, and then give her man sex just because that is what he wants. If she works, then he needs to also pick up where he can.

    Now on another note, if a woman does not want to have sex it should be her choice not to, and she should not be forced to. If she is forced to, then that is wrong and against the law. Besides if there is no enjoyment from both participants what is the point of them having sex.

    Just like I said before, there is more to a relationship and just sex. Both have to put something into the relationship in order to get something out of it. It is a give and take world.
I think you are a descent compassionate man. Because of that, you cannot imagine the moral depravity of some males when it comes to the ladies. My point is that when a man decides he wants to have a wife and children, he should make sure he can afford the privelage. It is inhuman to expect a woman to work, to pay bills, to take care of the house, to care for kids, and to provide support and sexual services to her husband. This is why so many ladies dis the beta males and marry the welfare system. Most males marry to have exclusive rights to our pussies. Marriage is FIRST about erotic intimacy and that fundation is used for the formation of a family. Without sex there is no fundation. Now, the exclusive rights to a willing female is a very expensive commodity. The male sexual services have no such value. There is no parity between the genders. It is a man's job to provide, protect, and keep happy the mother of his childern. This is how humans have behaved since we were created. Your generation decided to throw us, women, out into the cold. We are not equipped to compete with the male gender for our place under the sun. No one protects us anymore. And i wish it would change. A woman can bring so much happiness to a man if he loves, supports, and protects her. My post is just a cry for help. Nothing more than just that. American MEN, please stop treating us like garbage. Please love us again


CowboyRam 53M
3514 posts
12/2/2018 11:52 am

Wow, you have distorted view of the world. Now just tell me how many families have been started just because two people got together for no other reason than to have sex; the answer is a lot. Now I know several couples that just barely get by with two incomes, and it has nothing to do with him being lazy. Oh I guess he would work two jobs and never see his wife; that would not be fair to her either. The last time I checked a relationship was more of a joint venture with both contributing something to the relationship. I would also could say that most men would love to be in a position where they bring home the bacon and their wives not have to work. So let's not say that a man is lazy just because his wife has to work. In an ideal world that is how most men would like it to be, but we don't live in an ideal world. I am not saying that the woman should come home and do all the household chores, and then give her man sex just because that is what he wants. If she works, then he needs to also pick up where he can.

Now on another note, if a woman does not want to have sex it should be her choice not to, and she should not be forced to. If she is forced to, then that is wrong and against the law. Besides if there is no enjoyment from both participants what is the point of them having sex.

Just like I said before, there is more to a relationship and just sex. Both have to put something into the relationship in order to get something out of it. It is a give and take world.

An ounce of doing is worth a pound of talk

Cowboy Up


softslave00 33F  
462 posts
12/1/2018 9:34 pm

    Quoting DomInMD1953:
    Today's males need you to work because the cost of living is so far out of hand it's extremely difficult to support a family on a single income. In the 50's and 60's it was much different. A gallon of gas was 25 cents instead of the $2.30 it is now. Bread was 15 cents a loaf and McDonald's was $1.00 for a full meal. If you don't like your job, quit it, don't get pregnant and above all, DO NOT get married. College cost about $1000 a year instead of over $250,000 it costs now. Yes, wages were lower, but they were more commensurate with the cost of living than now.

    I am a male who takes very good care of my submissive and to hear women like you bitch, pisses me off. If you don't like your man, find one like me who takes care of you, but please stop bitching about it.
Actually you and I are on the same page. Please, Sir, read my post again carefully this time. So you know, I have a man who takes a good care of me. Now, if you dont like hearing women bitch and complain, invest in a sex doll. It is unreasonable for you to expect for a flesh and blood female NOT to run her mouth sometimes. I hope you know what to do with us when we do LOL


softslave00 33F  
462 posts
12/1/2018 9:26 pm

    Quoting Raithiter27:
    I couldn't help but respond to this nonsense......First of all, I'm assuming you're not on board with the female "equal pay for equal work" crowd, along with feminism (which I considered dead a long time ago when women found out how hard it is to make a living alone). Second of all, it seems like women in the United States have grown lazy.....they refuse to cook, clean, etc for their man. THAT'S when your "feminism" kicks in........Why can't he do it himself, RIGHT? Normally, the guy busts his ass all day long to put a roof over your head, and that's the thanks he gets. And then, you wonder why he leaves you one day, thinking "after all I've done for him." Bullshit...what have you done? When it falls apart, you swear "it was all his fault." You refuse to accept any blame whatsoever. In case you didn't realize, I am very familiar with your type........lol. I went out of country to find a woman with them "good old fashioned values" that, believe it or not, kept marriages together! Try it sometime.......
Let me start by saying that playing a little victim is NOT attractive on a male. Children do that to get attention. Own up to your own shortcomings. Most American ladies DO NOT identify themselves as feminists. Neither do I. So Sir, grow up and own up and dont complain like woman LOL


Jag_60 60M  
796 posts
12/1/2018 7:39 pm

If you believe the majority of men lack the fortitude to be worthy of some earth quivering sex you or pther women provide, you can always switch over to the wonderful world of clit licking and maybe find another woman that shares your views about men, then you wont feel slighted.


likesmatureones 50M  
2693 posts
12/1/2018 6:57 pm

I will assume this is nothing more than click bait.

Your stereotyping whole generations of men with this rhetoric. Your post is very sexist and if they keep on this pathway, i for one will report them to the powers that be on alt.

What they chose to do with your posting and acvount is up to them


softslave00 replies on 12/1/2018 9:53 pm:
My wonderful Speech Nazi guy, may I ask what you feelings are on the 1st Amendment?

arero 62M
253 posts
12/1/2018 5:48 pm

    Quoting msfunfor:
    hello darling ,
    woaa you got some heated responses .
    i send some lovins' your way as a counterbalance .
    you are doing well not to engage with the live-wires,,,,,,,

    be good
    M

    .
Well a voice of reason and compassion, but I would expect nothing less from you, M.

Horns in the mind are worse than on the head.


CowboyRam 53M
3514 posts
12/1/2018 5:28 pm

I think you are making a lot of assumptions here, and putting a lot of men into a category that they should not be in. I think the majority of men do want to take responsibility, and take care of the women in their life. Unfortunately it seems it takes two incomes to make the ends meet, so the woman also needs to work. In a perfect world the woman would not have to, but we don't live in a perfect world.

There is much more to a relationship than just sex, sex is a great wonderful thing, but is just a portion of what makes a great relationship.

An ounce of doing is worth a pound of talk

Cowboy Up


softslave00 replies on 12/1/2018 9:03 pm:
Dont you think it is unfair for a man to demand sexual and domestic services from a woman AND then demand that she also pay bills? Dont you think a man who does something like that is abusing a woman by using her as an unpaid ho and a sugar momma at the same time? Dont you think that if a man is to lazy to make enough money to support his family should not start one?

softslave00 replies on 12/1/2018 9:56 pm:
If a man does not make enogh money to support a family, he has no business forming one

MsEbonyAngela 52F  
142 posts
12/1/2018 5:08 pm

lol I laugh because as a counter I luv submissive men that worke, take care of all the bills, do all the household chores and provide lots of sexual pleasure. Yes, I'm the Queen and luv to fuck my slaves and give their tongue a true workout. Stop bitching and go after what you want n state it upfront.


softslave00 replies on 12/1/2018 9:04 pm:
God bless you my sweet sister!!!

foXXX_trapD 44F  
142 posts
12/1/2018 4:03 pm

    Quoting Silver_core:
    I can only question the males you choose to mix with.
Funny stance to take...are you over the owner of this blog in some way? Your comment sounds judgmental and with hints of something that might come from a parent scolding a child...very interesting of you. This alternative realm is supposed to offer freedom to its inhabitants instead of to further chain kinky individuals down by what others deem right or wrong for them. Furthermore, this particular blog belongs to one person, so it seems more appropriate that you might be respectful enough to save your judgmental questioning for a blog page owned by you and not another who is speaking their own truth. And that is my opinion which i stand on.

Be well..

when i care enough to write my very best©


Silver_core 51M  
201 posts
12/1/2018 3:27 pm

I can only question the males you choose to mix with.


bdst1 58M
658 posts
12/1/2018 3:11 pm

I think you're gender stereotyping.

Many strong, confident men are submissive (as are many strong, confident women). The beauty of equality is that people (and couples) are free fit into the roles and responsibilities they feel most comfortable with, without society dictating what those roles "should" be.

Personally, I think mental support and sexual pleasure in any relationships I want to be in are completely mutual and complementary. but I have no issues with you or anyone else wanting something different. Financial support depends entirely on talents, wishes and earnings of the two people involved (whatever their gender). And where one gender is disadvantaged (eg by the need to give birth) society rightly provides adjustments to ease the disadvantage and ensure as far as possible that everyone, irrespective of gender, has the ability to contribute in whatever way they want to.

How two people share work, pleasure, and domestic tasks is entirely a matter for those two people to agree. Problems arise when one person wants a 19th century style relationship and another wants a 21st century style one. Those two people should not be together. Sadly they often are. But I am not sure it is right to blame one or the other for failing to meet the other's expectations when that happens. Assuming society is equal then everyone has the right to play it how they want to.

what is definitely wrong is suggesting that men in general (or women in general) ought to fit into a particular role. And then being upset when one doesn't. We're all free to choose. That is the point of equality. Equality provides freedom to choose, it does not replace one straightjacket with another. Your idea of domestic or sexual bliss is someone else's nightmare and vice versa. And I think that variety is one of many things that makes people so interesting and unique.

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msfunfor 57M
3164 posts
12/1/2018 2:00 pm

hello darling ,
woaa you got some heated responses .
i send some lovins' your way as a counterbalance .
you are doing well not to engage with the live-wires,,,,,,,

be good
M

.


softslave00 replies on 12/1/2018 9:14 pm:
Thank you! You are a REAL MAN sir

Raithiter27 35M
3 posts
12/1/2018 1:55 pm

They are willing to pay the full freight to have a wonderful life.......THAT comment was a dead giveaway. You want HIM to do it all.......gotcha.


softslave00 replies on 12/1/2018 9:14 pm:
What's wrong with that?

Dom4BedSlut 52M
13 posts
12/1/2018 1:53 pm

Men have bought into the 3rd wave feminist lie and have been made to feel guilty to embrace their masculinity thereby becoming neutered for all intents and purposes


softslave00 replies on 12/1/2018 9:05 pm:
Well said Sir

Raithiter27 35M
3 posts
12/1/2018 1:52 pm

I couldn't help but respond to this nonsense......First of all, I'm assuming you're not on board with the female "equal pay for equal work" crowd, along with feminism (which I considered dead a long time ago when women found out how hard it is to make a living alone). Second of all, it seems like women in the United States have grown lazy.....they refuse to cook, clean, etc for their man. THAT'S when your "feminism" kicks in........Why can't he do it himself, RIGHT? Normally, the guy busts his ass all day long to put a roof over your head, and that's the thanks he gets. And then, you wonder why he leaves you one day, thinking "after all I've done for him." Bullshit...what have you done? When it falls apart, you swear "it was all his fault." You refuse to accept any blame whatsoever. In case you didn't realize, I am very familiar with your type........lol. I went out of country to find a woman with them "good old fashioned values" that, believe it or not, kept marriages together! Try it sometime.......


verytallsub 38M
241 posts
12/1/2018 1:50 pm

lol, what a hopelessly outdated and moronic attitude.


arero 62M
253 posts
12/1/2018 1:36 pm

Like I said, we are never going to agree on lots of things. It's hard to even argue with you when I do agree with much of what you say. I've seen plenty of the beta welfare type males too and I would never expect a woman to support them. I also agree that traditional womens roles of caring and child raising are badly undervalued.

So, on to the bits I disagree with. During said Patriachy, men did have such a duty but many failed in it rather dismally. They drank away all their pay and then beat and abused their women and their kids. The women and kids were unable to escape this treatment and had to simply endure it. Men haven't changed much but women today at least have a choice. I reiterate that you are fortunate to have found such a patriarchal relationship that works well.

As for the cost of sex - a friend was divorced after 10 years together and it cost him $3 mil which was half the value of the farm that had been his father's and grandfather's. Even if he got laid every day for those 10 years it still cost him over $820 a pop, plus food and room and clothes and such.

Best wishes to you

Horns in the mind are worse than on the head.


softslave00 replies on 12/1/2018 9:07 pm:
I think you are thar rare specie most ladies go weakened for -- The Real MAN

DomInMD1953 64M  
115 posts
12/1/2018 1:35 pm

Today's males need you to work because the cost of living is so far out of hand it's extremely difficult to support a family on a single income. In the 50's and 60's it was much different. A gallon of gas was 25 cents instead of the $2.30 it is now. Bread was 15 cents a loaf and McDonald's was $1.00 for a full meal. If you don't like your job, quit it, don't get pregnant and above all, DO NOT get married. College cost about $1000 a year instead of over $250,000 it costs now. Yes, wages were lower, but they were more commensurate with the cost of living than now.

I am a male who takes very good care of my submissive and to hear women like you bitch, pisses me off. If you don't like your man, find one like me who takes care of you, but please stop bitching about it.

"Strong women submit. The weak ones just give in." Copyright © 1993, 2013 B. Michael. All rights reserved.


ohioeagle 69M
452 posts
12/1/2018 1:12 pm

And btw sex was maybe once a month


ohioeagle 69M
452 posts
12/1/2018 1:11 pm

I did support her and her kids helped with all the housework did all the yard work and got fucked royally when we divorced. The cheating slut got the house my car and all i got was $ 50000 plus debt. So much for being a good provider/team player


softslave00 replies on 12/1/2018 9:20 pm:
If she didnt break any laws, she was owed that money by you. Has anyone held a gun to you when you said your I-dos? May be you should have treated her better, then she'd be loyal to you. Women dont have affairs when their husbands take care of their emotional needs. I am sorry that she hurt you. Yet, I am tired of men playing little victims. Is not attractive


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