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Am I living in reality with my ideas? 7/12/2009
Hi and thanks for taking the time to read this and maybe respond.
I've put up an ad seeking "employment"
as a housekeeper with benefits. I'm sure that's
far from being strange on this website but I do have a question,
whether or not I'm living in reality here or chasing
whatever.
I'm not in the BDSM scene nor anywhere around it. I grew
up in a Christian home. I've had my sexual ...
3 Comments,
107 Views,
3 Votes
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cock size 6/14/2009
guys, stop stop stop lying about your cock size. i am sick
of chatting with someone that swears they are uncut, nice
cock and it gets hard. well it might be uncut and it might
get hard but its only 4 inches when its stiff. what the hell
can i do with a 4 inch cock. absolutely nothing. nothing.
i have had it with guys that i have hooked up with that swear
they have a nice cock when its time to ...
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2 Votes
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how do i find a Mistress 6/1/2009
ive been on alt for 7 months . i used to get alot of contacts
but now i dont. is there a FEMDOM out there who would guide
and train me?
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0 Votes
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Outside of the box 5/16/2009
There is no such thing as a bad suggestion if the intent of
the suggestion is honorable; only a closed mind that is
wrapped up within itself would waste time in flaming another
that is acting in integrity and honor. It is the acceptance
of difference that allows us to to think outside of the norm
which is where we will find creative answers. What we are
now doing is not working, therefore we ...
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2 Votes
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Why training is more than behavior 5/2/2009
Within the time through my mid-30s I found that two prominent
parts of my life had always been in conflict. That was sexuality
and spirituality. Of course a large part of that was because
of the dogma of organized religion, which I have since thrown
off the yolk of repression.
Then in my 40s these two areas began merging into one and
continues to do so as time progresses. I believe it ...
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2 Votes
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Whats the best way 3/8/2009
What is the best way to tell someone your not interested,
without seeming like an asshole or a hypocrite?
6 Comments,
102 Views,
4 Votes
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A Easter Saga! 3/7/2009
Healed! A Revised Saga of He Is Risen! The Saga Continues…A Revision He Is Risen! By Nevin Jefferson
News item on the Internet: “Dozens of Greek and Armenian
priests and worshipers exchanged blows at one of Christianity's
holiest shrines on Orthodox Palm Sunday and used palm fronds
to pummel police who tried to break up the brawl”. So much for Easter cheer here gang! In light of ...
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Is it probably a Fake Profile? 1/9/2009
These are personal observations from actual responses.
I guess any of them could be real so I’ll protect the innocent
by saying “probably a fake.”
It is probably a fake profile if you sent an introductory
e-mail and you get back a “slave contract” and a request
that if you help relocate the sender from some place totally
unrelated to the location shown on the profile, they ...
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210 Views,
15 Votes
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work place relationship 1/8/2009
OK...I have grown to respect and appreciate a woman that
I ahve worked with for years . Recently I reached out to her
and told her I wanted to get to know her better. She's
amazing. Since I reached out to her we have been talking
and e-mailing regularly about a wide range of topics. The
more I learn the more I like about her. We're both married
so going further would be dangerous and right now I ...
2 Comments,
135 Views,
5 Votes
,0.86 Score
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First time for cock in ass 1/7/2009
I've had dildos, even some pretty good size ones. What
should I be prepared for if I'm going to take a real cock?
2 Comments,
299 Views,
11 Votes
,2.61 Score
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Burlesque Male Clothes 12/4/2008
Do any members have information or contact addresses for
'Burlesque Clothes' for men. My BDSM club have
a strict dress code and I don't want to be following
a dress code for the theme night and end up wearing a 'vanilla'
attrie.
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0 Votes
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Flight DelayHelp 11/1/2008
vacuumed wetness. His fingers stroked her thigh ever so gently; neither he nor she could feel the
touch, but sensed it. His sensual fingerprints glided
over her skin, sending a chill down her spine, which raised
goose bumps on her arms.
She smoothed her fingertips over his shoulders and down
his biceps that caused a tiny tingle at the base of his ...
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When Do Newcomers Become Isolated?" 10/24/2008
Thesaurus: isolate
verb
To set apart from a group: close off, cut off, insulate,
seclude, segregate, separate, sequester. See include/exclude.
adjective
Set away from all others: alone, apart, detached, isolated,
lone, removed, solitary. See include/exclude.
(Definition obtained from "Answers (.) c o m)"
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8 Votes
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Punishment For Slaves 9/28/2008
I'm currently training some sissy maids online, &
having trouble thinking of new punishments. Obviously a lot of the punishments I'd normally do
are impossible, since they live too far away from me.
Does anyone have any suggestions for punishments that
I can make them do to themselves?
5 Comments,
351 Views,
9 Votes
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Profile Photo 9/21/2008
Choosing a photo to go with your profile can be difficult
and sometimes daunting.
I feel that you probably get more responses with a photo.
Just for the reason that your willing to show yourself!
Photo's dont have to of your face necessarily, even
though "breast" photo's of women or "cock"
photo's of men can be boring , I think .
If you feel confident of your body, you ...
9 Comments,
184 Views,
13 Votes
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Finding a dom HELP!! 9/16/2008
I am a submissive man who sometimes dresses as a woman. I
need a dominate man to take charge and i need him to be part
nympho. I am submissive but 100% bottom too. I love to serve
a master sexually with my body. I not only need to serve but
need the sex of service as well. I use to have a master but
he died years ago now i need another. Sometime when being
analy used i can cum. it is a total turn ...
0 Comments,
97 Views,
4 Votes
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chastity 8/28/2008
definatly chastity is enhanced when done with someone
who has control over the key. brings a new dimension to it
3 Comments,
114 Views,
6 Votes
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Satisfying that bi-curiosity? 8/17/2008
I've always...for as long as I can remember...been
a little bi-curious. Has anyone got any advice on how best
to satisfy that curiosity??
5 Comments,
306 Views,
1 Votes
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HELP, in need of advice 8/16/2008
I really don't know what to do so any advice would be
welcome. A year ago this September my wife and I were invited
to a reunion. A group of about 15 couples that have summer
houses on a small northern lake. The party was great, lots
of booze and great food. Nobody was feeling any pain if you
know what I mean. I was outside talking with a few of the guys
when I excused myself to use the bathroom. ...
2 Comments,
180 Views,
2 Votes
,0.34 Score
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Pain Without Marks 8/10/2008
I need advice about how to inflict pain without leaving
marks that would have to be explained.
2 Comments,
285 Views,
4 Votes
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New to the lifestyle please read me. 8/7/2008
Hi everybody. Through different lifestyle groups i belong
to i've made my current mission to become as entrenched
in the lifestyle as possible as well as going on a crusade
to prevent the destruction and abuse of newbies who jump
in with both feet, in a frenzied state of mind with little
thought to their own safety leaving it all in the hands of
the Dom. Which, if he is the one you need to be ...
2 Comments,
172 Views,
13 Votes
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Grooming the Moderately Chastised Male 8/6/2008
Grooming the Moderately Chastised Male (or The Silky Smooth New You)
We've all read about Her, the relentless, omniscient,
large breasted Dominatrice who controls every aspect
of your sissified, chastised life including your appearance.
She forces you to get pedicures, manicures, and sends you
in for regular waxings or perhaps even laser hair removal
so that you are always smooth ...
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2 Votes
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Permanent Hair Removal 7/16/2008
Is it better to have a female slave's pubic hair permanently
removed if you intend to have her cunt pierced and tattooed?
Which method is better Laser or Electrolysis?
1 Comments,
146 Views,
2 Votes
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Jist lookin' 4 sum advice or tips for Daddy Dom/ role play? 5/26/2008
So me and my wife hav bn wantin' 2 do sum expermentin'
and we both mentioned the Daddy Dom/ role play
and decided 2 try it. We hav bn emailin' each other back
and forth, playin' our parts in the emails. And we were
just lookin' for sum advice or tips on how 2 move it from
email 2 the bed.
She feels a little silly, yet aroused, by callin' me
Daddy. She wants 2 do a good ...
1 Comments,
149 Views,
6 Votes
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Question about latex 5/17/2008
I am completely new to the conept of latex, and have a general
idea of how to put it on, though have not practiced yet. My
question is, once it's on, how do you get it off? Peel
it off? Is there a special substance to remove it? Is it painful?
I haven't done any of this yet and figured it'd
be best to do my homework on the subject before encountering
any unexpected surprises. All advice will ...
0 Comments,
92 Views,
7 Votes
,4.31 Score
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sex change 5/15/2008
im kellyg3 i need advice on where to get a sex change i want
a pussy but cant find a number so i can be seen. i live in CA
2 Comments,
102 Views,
4 Votes
,1.30 Score
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WHATS HAPPENED TO THE CAMS! 4/5/2008
Hi, Ive been on here for 3 years, the first year as a gold member
and for the last two years as a standard member. Recently
I have found that when ever I click on a cam on instant messenger
the window dissappears without letting me view. The only
cams that seem available are the ones that are in private
and so I can see them, obviously! What is going on? Is this
the normal level of service for ...
1 Comments,
132 Views,
3 Votes
,2.94 Score
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What do women prefer? 3/29/2008
Hi ladies... my wife's birthday is approaching in
April.
We've been together approximately 10 years and exchanged
many-a-gifts.
She doesn't like wearing bootyshorts (not too comfortable)...
she only has 3 pairs out dozens of panties and thongs. I would
enjoy seeing her butt in a bootyshort...
My question... should I purchase a variety of ...
4 Comments,
131 Views,
6 Votes
,0.80 Score
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On teaching in the lisfestyle 3/19/2008
I’ve written before on my predilections towards public
play. However, that runs a distinct second to my favorite
activity, teaching (unless, of course, the two are combined
– but that’s for a different day). I’ve been asked before
what it is that I get out of teaching, principally by my sassy
but by others that I have taught as well. Many have felt that
it is a one-way transfer, that the ...
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57 Views,
3 Votes
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Compromise 3/11/2008
I thought I'd pass along a couple of things I find make
life a lot easier. These are two things most people don't
seem to want to hear about: compromise and having realistic
expectations.
If you have a need for something and can't seem to attain
it, try to compromise. Maybe it won't be what you would
call perfect, but it will be close enough for you to experience
something similiar. Sure ...
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49 Views,
2 Votes
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