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Do it with respect and face up to what you've done.... 1/13/2007
my Master just broke up with me this weekend and i'm
heart broken about it. It's not just the fact that He
left, its how and why He did it. A past ex slave/girlfriend
of His came back to town and He immediately dumped me to be
with her. This is from the Man who only a few days earlier
was telling me that i would belong to Him forever, that i
was perfect for Him, that He could see me ...
0 Comments,
137 Views,
71 Votes
,9.22 Score
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Try Honesty 12/30/2004
All my life I have had trouble ending a relationship. Being
a born pleaser, I never wanted to cause hurt. But now I am
going to admit something that I had a hard time even admitting
to myself: "a sharp wound heals much faster than a
jagged tear." Women have a tendency to not be able
to end a relationship smoothly. Fax is fax. They will go
six ways to sundown to keep from coming right out ...
3 Comments,
141 Views,
42 Votes
,7.93 Score
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response to ex-husband missed out... 10/12/2019
So why were you such a prude? It is funny all the sex people
talk about sex and the reason for infidelity but hardly
ever the solution to it or preventing it. You are a good example,
had you not been such a prude and been sexually active with
your husband, worked at sex with him, being interested
in it, being creative, playing, and having fun with it,
you could have notonly saved a ...
1 Comments,
98 Views,
58 Votes
,7.64 Score
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getting over the pain 4/22/2012
I have recently broken up with someone who was very dear
to me, for reasons that I won't mention..I find it very
difficult to make the transition from being this beautiful
"couple" to now being just "friends"..I
am at my wits end, trying to find the happy medium in which
to conduct this relationship..I miss him terribly, but,
can't continue either..the relationship has not
beneficial to ...
1 Comments,
81 Views,
19 Votes
,7.34 Score
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re : cheating in the bdsm relationship 4/22/2012
sorry to hear your troubles..
..it's plain that the experience has affected you
<br>
it just goes to show that a bdsm relationship has the same
rules as a vanilla relationship - honesty and communication.
<br>
trouble meeting bdsm partners ??
it's actually easier, with sites like alt.com - people
put up a sign saying this is what i want and all you have to
do is ...
0 Comments,
56 Views,
33 Votes
,7.19 Score
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Limbo 11/3/2007
I have recently come out of an ltr. Things were wonderful
until I had to deal with some difficult personal stuff in
my head. Then, I began to withdraw a little, I guess a little
down. During this period, my girlfriend, who I truly loved, decided
to end things as I wasn't giving her the attention she
wanted. She did this on the telephone, (shitty but true),
but gave me a month in case I ...
2 Comments,
71 Views,
26 Votes
,6.80 Score
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Making love by the head stone 2/1/2019
Making love by the head stone
The graveyard is a parable of
Where we are soon to belong
Dripping traces of life’s
Dead history
To many seems sick
I think this makes the spirits sing
<br>
Shh…………..
A new life being spawned
The silence so long
Orgasm prolonged
The ground is breathing
In it’s heaving
Becoming one with everything
<br>
Following down these ...
3 Comments,
109 Views,
37 Votes
,6.62 Score
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What a Bit@h! 9/24/2005
The day after i broke up with my ex she slept with my friend on a field.... do girls do this often or is she just a super bitch... i dont know?!
4 Comments,
88 Views,
39 Votes
,6.57 Score
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Dear S., I shall try to keep this brief... 5/6/2006
It is extraordinarily difficult to even break off a ‘temporary’
connection with someone and some pitiful snivelling part
of me feels that it must be even harder when that connection
has been a bdsm one …
<br>
<br>
Dear S…,
<br>
To use similar words to ones you wrote to me not so long ago,
‘I shall try to keep this brief and write as words
flow ...
1 Comments,
193 Views,
48 Votes
,6.56 Score
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The sooner the better saves hearts 4/18/2012
Always remember when you break up with somebody that you
can drag it out or wait, becasue it wont go away. You always
need to be honest and true to yourself and you partner. Thats
how I remain friends with all my ex's. But treating
them with respect and caring and being a friend even after
we've broken up.
<br>
If you've beenbroken up wiht, value their honesty
and their ...
0 Comments,
126 Views,
49 Votes
,6.23 Score
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re : Help me understand this! Why does he need more? 4/18/2012
well, it sounds very fishy to me..
..a d/s relationship is like a vanilla relationship - based
on honesty and communication.
<br>
considering the ratio of doms:subs, this won't be
the 1st sub to contact him or the last.
<br>
if he won't/can't explain to you what "needs
this for various reasons that he does not have to explain"
refers to, then he's not being honest ...
0 Comments,
80 Views,
13 Votes
,6.00 Score
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Living with your ex! 8/10/2006
My ex girlfriend and I broke up about two and a half months
ago. We noticed that we had drifted into a best 'friends
who cuddle' zone. We decided to end our relationship
so that we could put ourselves out there for others. We basically
only changed the title of our relationship and became flatmates
who still share a bed and cuddle and share all the bills except
we aren't sleeping ...
1 Comments,
133 Views,
11 Votes
,5.97 Score
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I love you but I had to let you go... 11/19/2007
I thought I will finally meet the man of my life. It all started
with exchanging e-mails then phone calls and finally we
decided to meet. He is 15 years older than me(I thought)and
he is really a gentle person. We made love on our first date
and it is really wonderful. He is a perfect gentleman and
I was really treated like a queen, he pampered me everything.
<br>
Then one ...
1 Comments,
117 Views,
122 Votes
,5.70 Score
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Being Released 1/16/2007
i write for therapy, i write for sanity and realize opinions
are only my own.....
<br>
<br>
Being Released
<br>
<br>
What happens to the heart when a slave is released by her
Master does it break does it feel relief or perhaps does
it feel numb to nothing at all? Only a few days ago, I was released
by a Master whom I thought I would ...
3 Comments,
282 Views,
19 Votes
,5.63 Score
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Who's got the BREAK UP HOW TO BOOK?? 12/6/2004
So you start your mental laundry list of why – at first you
resist even considering it because it feels so rotten,
so distinctly painful. But eventually, you get enough
items on this mental list. There’s that time, and that other
time, and the deep inconsiderate behavior. And perhaps
there’s all these times in your mind when you were made to
feel guilty and took the blame.
...
0 Comments,
177 Views,
15 Votes
,5.58 Score
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How many times must we do this? 6/6/2007
Have had several Doms/Masters in the short time I've
been on Alt./Coven The hardest thing to remember is how
to not listen to the "sweet nothings"!I am a
sub. Just a warning to A/all please keep your eyes wide open..don't
cave. I think you should know each other a long time..like
in 6 months to a year..not a few months as some do. Self included.Lowers
her head... if there is one lie ...
2 Comments,
509 Views,
9 Votes
,5.35 Score
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paths 8/12/2008
on two different paths we entered this life
our paths came together as husband & wife
In that beatiful forest your love made me see
just what I had all around me and what I could be
we walked down the path listening to nature's grand
chorus
always confident and hopefull for the future before us
as I looked into your eyes and on went these years
I never ...
1 Comments,
82 Views,
8 Votes
,5.33 Score
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blue story 10/5/2006
have you ever felt that by talking to someone you never met
before, that he is so special.... have you?
have you ever felt sometimes being surrounded by others
24/7 that you are so lonely, haveyou?
did you wish sometimes to close your
eyes and never be able to open them again, did you?
have you ever imagine yourself elsewhere, far far away
from where you really are, haveyou?
...
6 Comments,
207 Views,
23 Votes
,5.23 Score
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treat with respect 6/12/2006
My pet peeve, when it comes to relationships, is people
who do not treat others with respect. If two people are in
a monagamous relationship, and one of them wants out, that
person should tell the other one, "hey, we're
through." In words, not by sleeping with another
person. Any comments?
3 Comments,
232 Views,
23 Votes
,5.23 Score
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RE: Getting over the pain 4/22/2012
Been where you are....This is just advise take it or leave it...Shrugs...
As hard as the break up was bet. the 2 of Yyou it is now time to sit back, review things for awhile, discover for yourself what went right or wrong, store it in the back of your head, and then pick yourself up & move on...
Yeah, Easier said than done...Probably the biggest change you can make for yourself is get in ...
0 Comments,
79 Views,
4 Votes
,5.19 Score
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online fantasy 4/17/2007
why is it that there are so many pretending to want more than
an online fantasy and when you try to meet them they say it
is just more fun to keep it a fantasy thing and they never
intended to really meet anyone?
isn't there enough folks that want that? instead of
trying to trick those of us that want a real relationship?
6 Comments,
92 Views,
10 Votes
,5.18 Score
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oh lala 7/27/2018
Earn points by simply using our site and use them toward
upgrades, prizes, and even cash. <br><br>
The most effective ways to earn points are to encourage
other members to become your Top Fans, send you virtual
gifts, or by broadcasting your webcam. Members can tip
you points for a great show! Try some clever approaches
in your profile text and communications to gather Top Fans
and ...
4 Comments,
57 Views,
24 Votes
,5.06 Score
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What now 10/12/2019
I had been a faithful submissive for a long time My dom stated
that he loved only me but could not commit to a steady relationship
of living together (not marriage ) He has now dumped me once
again and i feel so empty, hurt, and fearful to trust any
man to get too close to me again. As i am a loving person this
is very difficult for me. I live a long way away from anywhere
which makes it ...
3 Comments,
286 Views,
10 Votes
,4.98 Score
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When your Sub chooses to take off her collar 1/16/2007
Hmm, should I not be phased, or be emotionally hurt by my
sub walking away? I was, and am. but why, this deeply? I think
it is because in any solid relationship. Well let's
break it down. Why? Hm I was told I was not consistant, I was
not strict enough, and hard enough to truely break her down
to the level of submission she felt she needed. Hmm and yet
she asked to be collared, not ...
2 Comments,
160 Views,
16 Votes
,4.89 Score
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Slut Style!! 7/3/2014
I've been dating Jackson for 2 months now but I have
decided he's to boring in bed and I dont want to keep
sleeping around with his mates behind his back anymore.
So this morning after he left for work I thought I should
give his dad a heads up about what I planned to do. My boyfriends
dad is 63 and a retired alcoholic pervert that constantly
grabs my ass when I walk past saying things like ...
0 Comments,
123 Views,
8 Votes
,4.87 Score
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Its so hard 4/8/2005
Why Is it that its so hard to break up and try and find another
person why cant it be easy I wish it was anyone have any suggestions
on this
1 Comments,
53 Views,
13 Votes
,4.82 Score
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Closure - When enough is enough!! 6/26/2006
“You learn that kisses aren’t contracts, even while in
the presence of their promises. You learn to build all of
your roads on today because tomorrow’s ground is too uncertain
for plans. You learn that even sunshine burns if you get
too much. So plant your own garden and decorate your own
soul. Instead of waiting for someone to bring you flowers.
You learn that you really can endure, ...
4 Comments,
246 Views,
22 Votes
,4.69 Score
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got dumped- need closure 2/7/2007
A few months ago someone from this site contacted me. I was
hesitant since I live in PA and he in LA. But I really liked
his profile and his note to me so I figured it couldn't
hurt to start a dialog. I was very drawn to him (I am a sub)
and after a short time gave him my telephone number. Over
time a few red flags went up but I was unable to really pin
them down...just kind of a funny ...
3 Comments,
333 Views,
15 Votes
,4.66 Score
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It's Never A Waste If You Learn More of Yourself 12/26/2009
I met the most wonderful Dom. We emailed and then chatted
on the phone and eventually came to play. Initially our
time together was sporadic due to work and his other social
activities. The more we talked the more we grew closer or
so I thought. Throughout the 1 1/2 years we were together
there were many conversations and alot of sharing. But
after all the time i realized that our time ...
1 Comments,
361 Views,
26 Votes
,4.64 Score
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Time does heal 12/6/2005
11 Months ago I sat red eyed and exhausted a very real and
dear D/s relationship had ended and landed me rather heavily
on my ass.. I hadn't done anything wrong.
<br>
I decided and it was right for me to back off from the scene
and concentrate on me and important real life issues..
<br>
We remained friends and communicated and then there came
a point when I took the ...
4 Comments,
577 Views,
65 Votes
,4.64 Score
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a note to You 10/22/2018
things that could have been,
sometimes just aren't...
i have learned the world is
what i want it to be.
we are what we are and
what this life has made us.
this hasn't been easy, but,
it's made me much stronger
for that and many reasons
i thank you
my Mentor...i thank you for letting me find my way
and mend my wounds.
<br>
i hhope it brings happiness to you
...
1 Comments,
46 Views,
17 Votes
,4.54 Score
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be respectful but honest! 11/27/2004
the reason i'm writing this is because i had been chatting
with a slave who agreed to moved here from another country.
he lied to me, led me on by saying he rally wanted to be with
me and wanted to start a new life with me. i had told him from
the start that i wasn't into cyber that i was looking
4 a R/T slave. instead of him telling me the truth that he
was just a "player" instead he told ...
1 Comments,
59 Views,
30 Votes
,4.51 Score
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Talk 8/12/2005
My master and i have just been through the most awful 2 months.
And inever want to go throught it again.
We almost lost all that we had built up over 2 years. Just
because we didnt talk about the simple things that get so
easy get mixed up. So if u feel that its goin off the lines
talk to each other and stop it before u lose it all. We where
lucky and have managed ( i hope) to save what we ...
2 Comments,
333 Views,
24 Votes
,4.49 Score
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Question 2/1/2019
Just wondering whats the worst storie someone has giving
you for breaking up with you?
16 Comments,
282 Views,
22 Votes
,4.33 Score
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Love is... 4/14/2018
It is also true that the less love you have, the more depression
you are likely to experience in your life. Love is probably
the best antidepressant there is because one of the most common
sources of depression is feeling unloved. Most depressed people
don't love themselves and they do not feel loved by others. They also
are very self-focused, making them less attractive to others and ...
11 Comments,
87 Views,
26 Votes
,4.32 Score
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VANILLA SKIES OF PURPLE RAIN 11/25/2017
The vanilla skies were full of purple rain the day that MASTER
and I split. I was so hurtfully pained and saddened. The
man who filled my Vanilla Skies with my Purple Rain had taken
off his heroes cape. He had become a monster like those he
promised he was not like. Those who had tained my skies in
darkness, shades of dooming ebony. He lied, he snuck, he
had her--an intruder in my hearts place. I ...
7 Comments,
115 Views,
23 Votes
,4.30 Score
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Unfortunately, it's part of life... 10/12/2019
I was in a relationship with a man that I met on this site.
We were together for the better part of a little over two
years.
When I met him, he had just gotten out of a marriage that he
didn't want and he was in the process of filing for divorce.
At the time, he was England, but we both made sure that we
would get to speak to each other frequently and we would
send emails. ...
10 Comments,
304 Views,
36 Votes
,4.27 Score
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feelings are real!!! 10/3/2010
I've come to realize lately that even though a woman,
or man may be ok with a "no strings" relationship,
their feelings may be the very thing hiding the truth from
themselves, rather than them from you. If I could give any
advise it would be this...what you're partner says
and what you hear may have no bearing on what they mean! tread
lightly in the ever ebing and flowing tides of human ...
2 Comments,
120 Views,
14 Votes
,4.26 Score
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Where did you go? 10/20/2018
The other day I read a post by a lady who's Dom just up
and left her without saying goodbye...just disappeared.
Nor only is the a cruel way to break up but cowardly too. Hope
his balls shrivel up like a couple of raisins.
4 Comments,
143 Views,
49 Votes
,4.25 Score
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Trying to be someone i'm not..... 8/27/2005
This girl (wyld)just recently seperated from her Master
after being with Him and His alpha for 2 years. she found
that she was trying to be someone she just isn't. He
wanted a bisexual and wyld just isn't bisexual -- yes,
she is learning how to please a Man better than she had been
taught but wyld is -- and will always be -- lesbian. The break
up came after a month of fighting between wyld ...
0 Comments,
127 Views,
6 Votes
,4.22 Score
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Unspoken Words 10/12/2019
Forgive me my Lady for being such a dumbass
<br>
Why should I forgive you
<br>
You shouldn't
<br>
Damned straight
<br>
I implore my Lady, that You will find Mercy in Your will for
my wretchedness. Please don't leave me out here on
my own. Please don't leave me without hope.
<br>
You damned yourself fool. Did you know Me so little to ...
3 Comments,
413 Views,
28 Votes
,3.96 Score
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"Greivance and loss in D/s" 9/29/2021
Grievance and loss in a relationship is a feeling I have
felt before in vanilla relationships, but only just managed
to define and understand with Myself and with the help of
loved Oones but something I wanted to share here amongst
Oothers that may already understand or can be aware of.
And for Me it’s the loss of My first submissive after 2
½ years in a D/s relationship.
As ...
2 Comments,
86 Views,
14 Votes
,3.94 Score
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cheating 9/13/2005
If the relationship ended because of cheating, kiss it
goodbye, eventhough you might be lucky enough to get back
with the person the first mistake you make would send everything
downhill.... This draws a question to me, is the real reason
ppl cheat on eachother is because they are emotional unstable???
2 Comments,
196 Views,
6 Votes
,3.93 Score
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closure is 2/14/2016
giveing or reciveing closure at the end of a relationship
is so important , i can help heal both so as to not carry excessive
baggage or wounded heart into the next relationshp !
2 Comments,
90 Views,
11 Votes
,3.92 Score
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why is it so hard? 10/25/2005
i have no ideal myself however , there is a answer to this
question / need your feedbacks please people
1 Comments,
110 Views,
3 Votes
,3.92 Score
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what should i have done 1/11/2005
ya about 5 months ago i was in a relation ship with a girl that
was a total bitch to me...and not in a good way...she thought
she could do anything she wanted but if i did the same stuff
she was doing she would freak...like i was not alowed to
have any friends because she thought i was going to cheat
on her...theres a lot more stuff but anyway i ended up leaving
her in her home town and ...
0 Comments,
54 Views,
19 Votes
,3.92 Score
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Won't you die tonight for love? 10/12/2019
When I look at you I want to destroy your smile.
It sits on your face like a lie.
You look good, I want to know the truth about you.
I want to get close to you.
When I do, you see that I see right through you.
Your heart beats like a small bird.
You know me well.
Thats why you can't handle me.
it hurts me to act the fool.
Pretend I don't see you for wot you are.
All of you ...
4 Comments,
270 Views,
20 Votes
,3.89 Score
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short and intense 4/22/2012
In the past two months our worlds have become intertwined
like nothing I have experienced.
I suppose you grew used to me letting my world revolve around
you, and yours mine.
Your selflessness and even self-destructive nature wasn’t
a problem since I was like an fledgling and needed everything
done for me. Now I have a strong desire to be able to do for
myself, as well as for you. ...
0 Comments,
176 Views,
26 Votes
,3.89 Score
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free as a bird 3/17/2020
Breaking up is meant to be one of the hardest things to do,
but after leaving a relationship and feelin free and floaty
light its hard when mutual friends are waiting for you to
crumble..
Its sad when the other person pol vaults into the nearest
open arms bed and runs straight back tellin you what a mistake
she was...
breaking up is all about what you really needed to do for
a long time ...
2 Comments,
111 Views,
13 Votes
,3.65 Score
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For that stubborn sub 1/30/2005
I finally thought I met my perfect sub. He was a lot different
from the type I was used to.At first we talked on the phone
every night then finally we started playing together.The
passion and desire we shared for each other was the greatest
I or he had ever felt.He was then sent back home for a month.
The promises he made well he didn't keep any of them.I
haven't heard from him in awhile ...
1 Comments,
185 Views,
13 Votes
,3.65 Score
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FICTION OF IMAGINATION 2/22/2021
Break up pain is a fiction of our imagination. At first it
feels like the hardest the heart is going to bear but think
deep and you will understand that you are the one hurting
yourself. Break up happens because one person fall out of love and
the other person still tries to hold on. what hurt most is
holding on to someone who already has their heart somewhere
else already. The day the feelings ...
18 Comments,
204 Views,
98 Votes
,3.64 Score
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Getting him back i needed him so 10/12/2019
His name was Maxamilian Wood. His friends called him Max,
Maximus or Maximum. I prefer Max. But, Maximum is humorous
when used with my last name. Anyway, the following is the
story of how I a long time exgirlfriend my name Baby came
back into His life after dissappearing.
<br>
My mind was a million miles away. The bar seemed like a good
idea when I left the house. But, I just sat ...
2 Comments,
129 Views,
9 Votes
,3.64 Score
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A girl with fire, can't be around a drip like that!!! 1/4/2007
Following on from a previous article named free as a bird,
i really wanted to follow it up with some helpful advise.
This is for anyone who might have just come accross this
article. some bored housewife or lonely soul, who's
only escape was to join alt. Someone who's deep down
habouring a need to deflect from the norm but is themselves
trapped in what shell of a body the inhabit or ...
3 Comments,
506 Views,
9 Votes
,3.64 Score
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the battle rages inside me 4/8/2005
I am slowly getting over the break up of myself and my ex owner
. I never have been one for a good break up , never once was
i rational or calm when my emotions are steped on . But this
sets up a major conflict with in myself . My ego and pride
and self worth precive the danger the rejection abondoment
and the only thing that part of me wishes to do is strike back
to defend myself. I know ...
1 Comments,
103 Views,
4 Votes
,3.63 Score
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Think 10/12/2019
Do you ever get the feeling that you are being strung along?
Dragging you by that string to your death? by wasting your
time with bullshit and lies that feel good? Do you ever get
that feeling? DO YOU? Ever at all?
Do you think you'll be here forever? Do you think that
wasting time is losing time? Do you ever think wasting time
is gaing on your death? Not daeth that doesn't touch
you, ...
2 Comments,
264 Views,
10 Votes
,3.58 Score
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blessing in disguise 6/3/2017
Breaking up can be a blessing. I recently was dumped and
after the heart ache found ALT.COM and have opened my world
up to new horizons. I have always dreamt fantasized about
BDSM and most likely would have never tried it but now have
the freedom to explore. Why not life is short
1 Comments,
67 Views,
25 Votes
,3.57 Score
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Betrayed & used 4/8/2018
i was in a 4yr realationshp with a married man who was not
my Hubby but my Hubby knew about Him& let me visit Him.
He was my roleplay Daddy. It got very intense. Due to the
physical distance 2hrs dirve away, it was more of a mental
than a physical relationship. Then last year He decided
He was a sub not a dom. That He wanted to be dominated by a woman.
Whilst We were together We were always ...
6 Comments,
145 Views,
27 Votes
,3.56 Score
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Is it my fault? 10/12/2019
Perhaps i should have seen it coming. Started this relationship
with a very strong bang and it ended just as quickly. Living
in two different areas doesn't help either and that
is what really started this whole break up. He was a very
determined man, but once his ego was brused that's
it the world was ending.
<br>
my daily journal was starting to get rather depressing,
the ...
1 Comments,
183 Views,
17 Votes
,3.55 Score
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New poly relationship, jealousy issues caused breakup 5/15/2012
I pretty much had to get out of my relationship with my Master,
as I felt I was being neglected. I was depressed, blamed
others for making me this way, when in truth I just pushed
myself out of somewhere that I want to be. I told my former
Master that this type of relationship wasn't after
the fact that I allowed the other girl to move in.
I am now in a partial hospitalization program, ...
4 Comments,
200 Views,
17 Votes
,3.55 Score
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Confused ... as always. 3/30/2005
Generally i just think I'm a sucker.
been played more times than I can remember. it gets to thepoint
where they all just meld together into one big confusing
mess.
It get's harder as I get older... 33 yrs old and I've
never actually experienced a loving relationship. it
tends to put you off of ever finding what you really need.
My last relationship lasted 5 yrs. the longest I've
had. ...
2 Comments,
256 Views,
20 Votes
,3.51 Score
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Three Song set at the Strip Club 1/17/2008
There was a Gentlemen’s club just down the street called
Mario's . I was looking for some excitement and was
in the need to let off some ‘steam’. As I pulled into the parking
lot, two beautiful young ladies were standing outside
having a smoke with barely enough clothing on for a snowy
night in New England. As I walked by to enter, we exchanged
hellos as one of the two ladies, a ...
1 Comments,
67 Views,
5 Votes
,3.47 Score
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end of a friendship 1/15/2013
My friendship with an amazing young woman I met here has
ended. While not a "relationship" I actually
felt more comfortable with her than with many of my girlfriends.
It was an email friendship, I guess a pen pal type thing.
That it was an email relationship let me open up more than
I normally do and I actually found it easier to open up. It
being an email relationship also was a ...
1 Comments,
125 Views,
14 Votes
,3.46 Score
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Why do women cheat and betray a mans trust??!! 3/22/2024
As the title says. <br><br>
If you are a woman and you meet a man and tell him that it took
you 53 years to find him and you decide at your own will to
delete your profile .He is happy with that and believes
you but tells you not to cheat or betray his trust at any given
time and just tell him that you want to quit then do what you
want after that But what you do is you keep growing ...
32 Comments,
261 Views,
75 Votes
,3.37 Score
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breaking up 6/11/2007
breaking up is never ez, especially when you love the person.
but sometimes you have to do what's right for you, which
means being open, honest, and upfront, because that's
what right for them.
2 Comments,
244 Views,
6 Votes
,3.37 Score
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Being the other woman 9/27/2006
Its been 1 month 2 weeks and 4 days.
The hurt hasn't gone away and has only lessened with
the help of alcohol and drugs. It not the right way but the
only way to make it through for me.
To be the other woman in a man's heart is a dreadful thing.
He may not be with her physically, but with his heart she
is always there. And then when she does come back you have
no hope of ...
1 Comments,
167 Views,
14 Votes
,3.30 Score
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Breaking tips for Dummies 101 11/26/2005
Number 1
<br>
U got to identify just wtf is going wrong in the relationship
once u know that u can work from there.
<br>
Number 2
<br>
Can the problem be fixed
if not u got be straight forward on it dont be like i need time
<br>
Basic tips for dummies
1 Comments,
242 Views,
7 Votes
,3.30 Score
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Time to Explore 2/27/2005
Ater bieng a couple for so long i thought she was my lover
and my best friend. Little did i know was about to happen
, after living in each others back pockets , trying to
buy the family home and thinking of bringing into
this world i awoke one morning to hear the words i do not love
you any more.To say i was not shattered was an understatment,
after realizing my life was turning on me i ...
0 Comments,
217 Views,
7 Votes
,3.30 Score
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Breaking up with your BESTfriend 10/12/2019
I just ended a relationship that never should have been
put into a position where anything short of family getting
physically harmed could effect it. He had been well WE had
been eachothers bestfriends for 9yrs or more. And we had
been through it all. We defined the meaning of truly being
a bestfriend. He saved my life more than three times. We
stood by eachothers side through everything. ...
2 Comments,
295 Views,
15 Votes
,3.28 Score
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Why breakup’s 2/29/2020
Hello All, In my experience as a dom.. I have ave very good lifestyle.
And still continue as well. However, had few instances
where sub moves out after the session or a good long relationship
and then never contacts or not yet n touch at all with any
of the doms. Is it that they are happy or they just quit? And
in another scenario other subs have kep healthy relationship
with dom after their good ...
11 Comments,
82 Views,
48 Votes
,3.16 Score
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trust is so important 12/21/2005
after searching on this site for many years not knowing
what i wanted, i had tried being the sub.but that was not
for me, i hated to be told and humilated.i decided domme
was for me, ifound a sub after many years of searching, he
messaged me one nite and insisted he would be my sub.i had
told him no several times i knew in my heart he was not for
me.i set him a task and never thought he ...
0 Comments,
158 Views,
13 Votes
,3.14 Score
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hurt 10/12/2019
I am sat here with eyes filled with tears my master/lover
has just ended our relationship after almost 3 years. I
feel such a mixture of things...but i feel so empty without
him and so very lost. My life wont b the same without him....
how can u go from loving someone with all u have heart soul
and body to chatty friends i dont if i can.......................
2 Comments,
213 Views,
6 Votes
,3.08 Score
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help... 1/18/2006
Hi, was married way too young. I was nineteen she was seventeen.
You guessed it got the girlfriend pregnent. What started
as an adorable though definetely casual fuck turned into
the only woman I've ever been able to say I loved.
<br>
Now almost twenty one, divorced. To make a long story short
she cheated and I became abusive. More than anything I feel
like I lost my virtue ...
4 Comments,
193 Views,
6 Votes
,3.08 Score
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HORNY AND BREAKING UP! 12/25/2019
Breaking is hard when you are used to fucking alot!
5 Comments,
63 Views,
41 Votes
,3.00 Score
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It Was Inevitable 4/4/2006
She was too young, and I noticed too late. Did I fail her?
<br>
Her long red hair glissed in the sun. Her playful smile and
sparkling eyes were captivating. Her ample breasts barely
contained as she danced around in that skimpy little Gypsy
costume. That was the day I met her. When she told me she was
collared I was more than disappointed, but pleased that
she respected her ...
3 Comments,
153 Views,
9 Votes
,3.00 Score
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Feelings you neve new you had till they come to the suface 9/8/2017
I had a master for 6 months but he does not use me because of
his other slave. but he is mor like a dad than a master I choose
to leave this weekend as I have listend to people who I should
not have listened to but im now scared that I have hurt him
so much as he has not spoke to me much. it huts so much knowing
I may have made a mistake I don't know hot to fix it as
I have done this before and ...
0 Comments,
88 Views,
25 Votes
,2.80 Score
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how to 10/3/2010
can you tell me how the saftest way to break up with a posesive
woman is with out her going crazy i need to do this in a proper
maner and need help i, m not in love and she is not what i, m
looking for in a sub i need a real sub please help me if you
can
10 Comments,
168 Views,
7 Votes
,2.79 Score
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secret lives brought to the open 10/8/2006
Anyone ever have to break up a relationship because one
or both of you were married or in a committed relationship
with someone who found out?
3 Comments,
199 Views,
7 Votes
,2.79 Score
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You only live once 8/23/2015
I know its a cliche but we only live once and the best way to
get over people is to either not care for them or move on quickly.
If people would just stay honest then there should never
be any reason for others to get upset. Usually dishonesty
and unrealistic expectations are the cause of breakups
dont you think? Although sometimes its not good for submissives
to think too much.
1 Comments,
81 Views,
17 Votes
,2.70 Score
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toss me a life savoir 4/12/2005
I love a man who could care less and it hurts so much. I had
his and he left. And while I'm not sad for the baby,
he really would be a mess as a father, I'm so sad for me.
I wish there was a way to erase his memory from my body because
it hurts so much. On our first date he rubbed my ankles and
I was lost to him after that. And then we fucked and I never
got it so good as when he was ...
1 Comments,
203 Views,
14 Votes
,2.66 Score
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When ur the innocance victim, " How do you move on and be friends?" 10/12/2019
About a Year ago me and my ex broke up its cuz i never said I
love u. He told me it and I was speechless, but later that
week I find out he's at a friends house that i met online
and partied with. They become a item and date for awhile.
It doesn't work out so he comes back to me. As a fool i
did but to only end up losing him again to ur cousin/best
friend. By this time around I was ready to ...
3 Comments,
175 Views,
11 Votes
,2.61 Score
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Forever, doesn't mean FOREVER 2/1/2019
I dated the love of my life for over 2 years. I lived and depended
on him, but now it's over and I have nothing. the breakup
was completely my fault and had been a long time coming.
I now had to move back in with my parents with no car, no money,
and no job. I am screwed.
8 Comments,
514 Views,
27 Votes
,2.61 Score
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HORNY AND BREAKING UP! 2/16/2020
Breaking is hard when you are used to fucking alot!
14 Comments,
105 Views,
63 Votes
,2.60 Score
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I gotta hole in Me now.... 12/25/2004
She has been My life for 6 1/2 years, and a week ago Monday
Our relationship ended.She is everything to Me, the air
I breath...world revolved around making Her happy...but
alas after years of sexual deprivation...I just couldnt
take it any longer. I finally had to tell Her that I needed
to smell Her smell, and feel the touch of Her hands, the heat
of Her mouth on My....
Now We are still ...
2 Comments,
375 Views,
33 Votes
,2.60 Score
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Who is the worst in this relationship? 6/30/2021
I admit that I was wrong for sleeping with the other women.
Those where meaningless and done out of need of affection
that my wife wouldn't give. Each of the girls offered
to bring in a girlfriend or a sister into the equation. One
of them even invited me to be the only man at a bachelorette
party. I did turn that down, because I was going to get married.
I have regretted getting ...
1 Comments,
118 Views,
18 Votes
,2.58 Score
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So happy..........OMG what did i do 8/6/2005
I recently found the greatest man. We in a lot of ways were
very much alike. From day one it seemed so right and perfect
even though it may not have been the right time for us. Then
something beyond my control and his spilt us up. i know due
to it all he is angry yet i also know he still loves me. I love
him and want him back and I wonder since the fates were so
cruel to take him from me if ...
2 Comments,
545 Views,
25 Votes
,2.58 Score
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So... it's all over 3/17/2020
We were together for a year n a half. I found myself commplitelly
changed in this relathionship. The old me, the one who was
cheating on guys and was such a free spirit was gone. And,
no metter how perfect he was, and belive me, he was, i yust
couldn't relax and enjoy the whole thing. My cheatings
in the previous life, life I had before him, were a safe place
for me. Made me feal like I ...
4 Comments,
392 Views,
17 Votes
,2.56 Score
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DOMCOUPLE 10/12/2019
We prefer someone located close to us; however, would consider
someone willing to relocate to be with in a 24/7 relationship.
1 Comments,
242 Views,
7 Votes
,2.53 Score
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JUST ANOTHER THURSDAY... 6/22/2019
i've been in and out of too many relationships. I've
had my heart broken and have been disappointed as well.
Over the years, for my hearts protection, i've accepted
that peoplel just leave. In life or death, they're
here today and gone tommorrow. So i enjoy the time i have
with them. I just got out of a relationship in which i was
engaged to a woman. Thought she would be the one. Circumstances ...
2 Comments,
118 Views,
25 Votes
,2.47 Score
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break ups 3/14/2013
I know a few couples who start off with this life style, them
move into add others to their game, just to have them separate
some time down the track. As I am a sub, I wish to find a Mistress to serve 24/7 and to
only be a slave. i worry that it may turn into something more
on their part as it has done before, and in the end we went
our separate ways. Have other been here and how do you handle it
0 Comments,
54 Views,
3 Votes
,2.45 Score
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she beg for return 9/13/2007
i met a thai girl from a club , she is working as a pro. i book
her out a few night and slowly both of us fall in love with
each other . after a few weeks she went back to thailand and
i visit her a 2-3 trips and even buy ticket to let her come
to singapore 1 time every month . We have been 2gether for
nearly 2years . i dont mind of her past just wanna to love
her with all my heart . But ...
1 Comments,
164 Views,
8 Votes
,2.32 Score
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CRAZY WOMEN 11/29/2006
OH MY GOD AFTER A HELLISH 9 MONTHS IN A LOVELESS RELATIONSHIP
IM FINALLY FREE AND SINGLE BUT EVEN THO AM LOVING DA THOUGHT
OF MY FREEDOM AND HAVING COMPLETE CONTROL BACK IN MY LIFE
I STILL FIND MYSELF THINKING ABOUT WHAT SHES UP TO AND WHATS
SHES DOING, HOW LONG WILL THIS KEEP GOING ON FOR?
3 Comments,
322 Views,
8 Votes
,2.32 Score
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just brake up... 12/19/2005
So??? I just brake up??? Why r u just kidding, n saying it
was cool...But im crying...My heart is braking...
<br>
It hurts so much...
2 Comments,
240 Views,
8 Votes
,2.32 Score
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Safe Sex? 1/17/2006
Did you know 37, 000 Americans get infected with an std
everyday thats over 1500 people an hour. Basic facts before
u think about sex. Double up and contraceptives are ur best
friend.
<br>
<br>
Tips for people
0 Comments,
200 Views,
7 Votes
,2.28 Score
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Divorce 10/12/2019
I was with my husband/slave for 12 years and married 10 years.
On November 20, 2015 he told me that he did not want to be married
to me any longer and had stopped loving me 5 years ago. I think
it was do to the fact that 5 years ago my health went down hill.
I had a minor stroke in 2012 and i had back problems that caused
me to not to be able to play with my slave.He also had a problem
with my ...
16 Comments,
192 Views,
44 Votes
,2.27 Score
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Does IM Play up for you. 3/6/2019
I have lots of trouble with IM..Here is a list of my issues..
* IM seems to crash.. * messages don't get through * I sometimes can't receive message from others in
IM * Point are not easy to get
What are your issues with IM ?
6 Comments,
65 Views,
37 Votes
,2.22 Score
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Best way to call it off with a Mistress? 12/16/2009
Is there an "offical way" to end it with Your
Mistress? Or is it like any other realationship?
3 Comments,
76 Views,
5 Votes
,2.16 Score
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Dumping an abusive Fiance 2/1/2019
I was engaged once and when I finally realized how wrong
she was for me, I took a couple of days to get my thoughts together.
I planned a time when it was just the two of us. I simply came
out and told her that I realized I wasn't happy and wanted
to end this before we each had any more invested in the relationship.
I expected her to be mad, and she was. I never let myself get
mad ...
4 Comments,
224 Views,
9 Votes
,2.14 Score
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Over but not 2/1/2019
I had been with mybf/fiance of nearly a year when he suddenly
chose to break it off. Truth is I asked him if we were breaking
up and he said yes, but it made him feel sad, so I hastily negotiated
for 3 months since then he’s been an interesting person
and I’m wondering if he really wants to see me or is he just
going through the motions. Should I just release him from
this relationship or ...
5 Comments,
176 Views,
9 Votes
,2.14 Score
|
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hows the best way to break up 1/21/2011
whats your opinion on the best way to end a relationship
with someone
3 Comments,
140 Views,
12 Votes
,2.09 Score
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should i call time 6/19/2019
hi should i call time on my relationship after 15 years im
the only one working i pay all the bills and she wont work
and is very lazy expects me to do all the cooking and that
after a 10 hour day work shift ive never got any money after
ive get payed she smokes so i have to cover that .........
13 Comments,
114 Views,
42 Votes
,2.08 Score
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To my dear Mistress 4/18/2012
This message I write, I know makes no sense to most people
it is meant for my Mistress. I still feel your control after
everything we have done to each other. I’m still
thinking about you and still feel owned and your property.
I am your slave at your feet where I belong, you are my queen
im ready. To be the slave you can be proud of .
Sincerely,
Slave 20000
0 Comments,
67 Views,
27 Votes
,2.08 Score
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Advice 4/13/2013
So i have been with this girl for about 6 months. I am no longer
attracted to her. Whenever we have sex its not the same as
when we first got together. Im not really sure how to tel
her without hurting her feelings does anyone have any suggestions
5 Comments,
123 Views,
10 Votes
,1.99 Score
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trying to get my point across to my ex 8/12/2008
I broke up with my ex about 8 months ago. we stayed friends
and it worked well up until about 2 and a half months ago i
broke up with him because i found that i liked him more as
a brother type then a boyfriend he's a good guy. around
christmas he started get really clingy and started telling
me how much loves me and stuff. and not too long after i asked
him to stop taliking to me and to leave me ...
2 Comments,
123 Views,
6 Votes
,1.94 Score
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The One that got away 2/20/2019
I read a post or a comment on this site i thought i'd get
something off my
chest.i met a cd in '06 when i joined this site and another, we
exchanged
emails he gave me his number, and i should have called but
didn't i'm
wishing i had. we had a few things in common crossdressing
and some other
things he looked hot and said he found me attractive.i called
him 4 ...
2 Comments,
70 Views,
29 Votes
,1.84 Score
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Pain turns to hatred 4/8/2005
I havent opened up to another person in a very long time .
And now that its over , somthing else is stirring inside
me . Its called anger , hatred the most vile and destructive
emotions inside me . It begs to be let out , to run free and
to protect me from the pain . I know i will feel guilty and
remorse if I follow through with the ideas running in my
mind . Its hard to fight a part of ...
3 Comments,
166 Views,
10 Votes
,1.79 Score
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Cheat or break up ?? 5/20/2005
hmmm... that's the question of the century but the
obvioust thing to do is to.......break up!!! don't
let it linger on any longer... if u do it once and get away
with it you'll probably think of it again...
0 Comments,
141 Views,
9 Votes
,1.72 Score
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Longest delay in a split 12/22/2004
This is my first article written, and it's not really
much. The last actual relationship I was in went on five
months longer than it should have and the chick never bothered
to dump me then. That was a lot of time wasted, wasn't
it?
1 Comments,
101 Views,
16 Votes
,1.36 Score
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love stinks 11/12/2005
i was seeing a woman for 8 months and things did not work out
and she does not want to let go and makes me feel bad about
it should i
1 Comments,
92 Views,
4 Votes
,1.30 Score
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To the Point 11/27/2016
Isn't being blunt the best way to go?
4 Comments,
57 Views,
17 Votes
,1.29 Score
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why is it so hard to do 11/20/2022
i just want to lead you on a journey because i need the points
to interact.
10 Comments,
114 Views,
83 Votes
,1.23 Score
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Experienced Advice 12/27/2023
I have been in many relationships over the course of my life.
Some short term and some long term, and have learnt many
lessons, not only from my own experiences but from those
around me going through similar things. <br><br>
Based on my experience I have found that a lot of people tend
to try and hold onto their EX in some shape or form. It might
be subtle or even direct, and in some ...
4 Comments,
67 Views,
44 Votes
,0.78 Score
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why it hurts 6/6/2022
or does it?
2 Comments,
30 Views,
24 Votes
,0.63 Score
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ffffffffffffff 7/27/2007
hhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
3 Comments,
55 Views,
7 Votes
,0.49 Score
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Strange encouter 10/22/2005
After meeting with a person i met, local bar...we had some
wild times, details arn't necessary; however this
person has become obsessive...I am not a sub, to be clear,
just wanted to know how anyone would handle breaking free
of this sexual hold?
2 Comments,
149 Views,
3 Votes
,0.49 Score
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dissapointed 4/2/2010
I came onto this site hoping to have a good time.Obviously
you women are sick depraved jumped up middle class or worse
truly evil middle and ruling class that worship lucifer
and selfishness.Or maybe you are just nasty full stop.I
mean you offer them everything on a plate
and they just treat you like dirt.I wanted to be a submissive
to some sick depraved cow.I mean you illuminati ........ ...
4 Comments,
151 Views,
14 Votes
,0.42 Score
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Harshest Break Up 6/14/2023
Most of us have experienced a harsh breakup in our lives.
No breakup is pleasant, but some are much worse or cruel
than others. <br><br>
My worst was being dumped by my Mistress at the time. We were
living together in my house and had been for about a year.
i had to go away on a two-week business trip and was in chastity
the entire time. When i got home i sort of expected a nice ...
1 Comments,
99 Views,
76 Votes
,0.33 Score
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SO SAD 2/28/2020
These are all slowly becoming nothing more that point grabs
7 Comments,
224 Views,
178 Votes
,0.29 Score
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Happens to us all 7/2/2006
... and I ran straight to here. Is that a bad thing? Should
I have waited longer?
1 Comments,
114 Views,
4 Votes
,0.14 Score
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Lost and found 12/6/2020
Looking this man here and his is
7 Comments,
201 Views,
146 Votes
,0.12 Score
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ITS HARD TO BEAK UP AND HORNY! 5/2/2020
HORNY WHEN ALONE AND NEED PUSSY!
1 Comments,
43 Views,
40 Votes
,0.04 Score
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NEED A MASTER NOW!!!! 12/26/2023
Just left a toxic vanilla relationship.... Now seeking
to be owned and stripped of any ounce of control.
10 Comments,
528 Views,
459 Votes
|
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Trust 12/26/2023
How hard is it to trust again after breaking up in the lifestyle
1 Comments,
227 Views,
212 Votes
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Trust 4/7/2023
How hard is it to trust again after breaking up in the lifestyle
0 Comments,
228 Views,
212 Votes
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Breaking up and horny! 3/17/2023
When u get alot of sex and end up breaking up?! How do you deal
with it?!
1 Comments,
50 Views,
42 Votes
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finding something better can be hard 3/2/2023
After 3 years. She wanted someone closer in age. So we stopped.
A few weeks later, she texted that she was happy and had found
someone. Last night there was a knock on my door. I opened
it and she came in. Said she was just close and wanted to see
how I was doing. I replied fine. She the went on how much she
likes her new guy and He was introducing her to everyone,
calling all the time, checking ...
9 Comments,
275 Views,
185 Votes
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A lot about ghosting 2/10/2023
I see a lot of ghosting posts here
0 Comments,
213 Views,
192 Votes
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Ghosting 1/6/2023
Is it ever okay to ghost someone? I hear anything over 3 dates
requires an explanation.
7 Comments,
903 Views,
817 Votes
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silk 11/16/2022
i love to facefuck
4 Comments,
396 Views,
358 Votes
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Breaking up and being horny 11/16/2022
The toughest things is being use to having sex constantly
and then stopping all of a sudden. What keeps everyone going
during times like this?
2 Comments,
186 Views,
156 Votes
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IT IS HARD 11/16/2022
WHO ELSE THINKS BREAKING UP IS HARD? IT IS ESPECIALLY HARD
WHEN YOU ARE HORNY LOL.
3 Comments,
526 Views,
484 Votes
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Breaking up 6/22/2022
It is hard to do, what does everyone handle it?
1 Comments,
259 Views,
234 Votes
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Ghosting 4/9/2022
Is it ever okay to ghost someone? I hear anything over 3 dates
requires an explanation.
2 Comments,
719 Views,
650 Votes
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Ghosting 11/6/2021
Is it ever okay to ghost someone? I hear anything over 3 dates
requires an explanation.
2 Comments,
623 Views,
539 Votes
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Ghosting 10/18/2021
Is it ever okay to ghost someone? I hear anything over 3 dates
requires an explanation.
2 Comments,
624 Views,
562 Votes
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Ghosting 8/28/2021
Is it ever okay to ghost someone? I hear anything over 3 dates
requires an explanation.
1 Comments,
537 Views,
460 Votes
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Ghosting 8/28/2021
Is it ever okay to ghost someone? I hear anything over 3 dates
requires an explanation.
1 Comments,
718 Views,
678 Votes
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Hard 12/17/2020
Breaking up is a hard thing especially when it comes out
of nowhere. I was talking with someone for over a year when
we were supposed to meet she stopped talking to me for 2 weeks.
Finally she talked to me saying we were going too fast and
she was scared. I found out later she was seeing another
Master and his slave let me know that. It took me a while to
get over her with lots of help from ...
2 Comments,
108 Views,
84 Votes
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Breaking up with someone is hard! 8/28/2020
I bring this topic up because I have been there and it is hard
especially when you stop having the sex you once did. Anyone
ever deal with the same issue?
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70 Votes
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What Should I Do? 3/29/2012
I want to break up with my gf that i love, to go and have sex
with whoever i want. Should i just do it behind her back and
stay with her so i can have more sex later on.
5 Comments,
101 Views,
8 Votes
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There is no reason to be in a real relationship with someone if you are on here 9/24/2006
Why in the hell do people keep their significant others around when you come in here and get all this great stuff. I dont care how bad you treat one another.. There is no reason to be with someone in a so called "real" relationship if you are on here doing this shit. I dont care how bad someone treats you...its nothing but complete death for your partner...finding out that no matter what you do ...
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85 Views,
15 Votes
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this is a test 7/2/2006
this is a test
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51 Views,
1 Votes
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Torn Apart 6/22/2005
I was seeing Master since November. I declared that I was
his right before Christmas. He would come and visit me every
single weekend, and bring gifts for me every time. He was
so sweet, yet, sooooo kinky and dirty to me. I enjoyed him
both as his slave girl, and as his girlfriend in our nilla
life. And yes, our relationship was more nilla then anything,
due to me having . It was a ...
8 Comments,
655 Views,
26 Votes
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2004-11-18
breakin up hurts n nastily painful.it doesnt matter who
dumped who, whether u r heart-broken or relieved its over...the
end of any serious relationship, means a dream is shattered......
it takes time for the sharp pain to recede...but eventually
you'll wake up one morning n forget to be miserable...
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