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Sirforher2018 46 M
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How long has it taken you to be comfortable with your Dom as the submissive? Females...   2/4/2019

Establishing a D/s relationship takes time to build up trust, chemistry and the ability for a sub to let go. How long has it taken you to get there?


0 Comments, 5 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
kk4q69 58 M
1 Article
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Subs Are Born Not Made   11/23/2018

I very fortunate in having vast and varied experience at sharing the D/s experience with female subs who are truly authentic in their sexual submissiveness. Authentic subs are submissive at their core. They don’t to be trained to be a sub. It is as natural as breathing to them. They already know and feel it inside. The authentic sub simply needs to be brought to and express her natural and ...


0 Comments, 25 Views, 6 Votes ,1.94 Score
Mrslittlebrat55 55 F
1 Article
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Spanking is needed in every relationship   9/13/2018

I feel that to buld a good relationship must have good communication an trust an have a good sense of humor.i have always felt that there should always be spanking in a lasting loving relationship


16 Comments, 139 Views, 37 Votes ,5.52 Score
Jag_60 60 M
84 Articles
Score 1.7
Day off Desires   9/12/2018

I was stunned when I read a response yesterday encouraging a Dom not to be frustrated at the lack of responses to e-mail he was sending to a sub because the average communication last six days. What happened did they get the seven day itch and and had to find someone else to fawn over. I dont know if there is any validity to the number but if true wtf. After all, isnt it women who are always ...


1 Comments, 38 Views, 11 Votes ,3.73 Score
Bondagefreak76 42 C
1 Article
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Introducing wife to D/s relationship   9/8/2018

It's been a rough ride introducing my wife to bondage/BDSM much less living in a D/s relationship. I don't think they come more vanilla sex type then my wife was when we first got together. I'm the first to choke, smack even ass much less face, and calling her name's like whore during sex. When first brought up she didn't think she would like it but would try it. She has came ...


5 Comments, 81 Views, 15 Votes ,3.13 Score
men and there cum and go thing even when they blow   5/26/2018

just trying to figure this alt out never done crazt things with alt people


1 Comments, 40 Views, 17 Votes ,3.13 Score
curiousfun2025 33 M
6 Articles
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New Beginnings   3/5/2018

What is the key to setting limits with new partners?


4 Comments, 41 Views, 17 Votes ,3.69 Score
footlicker1214 66 M
4 Articles
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Looking for a "relationship"?   2/13/2018

Am I the only thinking that this site is for fun and pleasure? I know i'm here to satisfy my fetish and that's it. Shallow?, maybe but it is what it is. Doesn't mean I don't want to give a partner some pleasure. Ideally I get to worship the bare feet of a woman (or women) that actually like a man to worship their feet. A little permitted exhibitionism and maybe some ...


5 Comments, 37 Views, 8 Votes ,4.41 Score
yoursNmyneeds 66 M
4 Articles
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How I met my lover. Part 2   1/21/2018

After the hour long of fucking me, I took the condom off then proceeded to clean his cock and take any cum that was left. It tasted so good but I wanted more of it. We laid there for a while kissing and hugging one another getting aroused cocks getting hard again and to my surprise he started to suck my cock. Oh what is this. I don't believe he's sucking my cock. I stood up him getting on ...


1 Comments, 75 Views, 12 Votes ,4.74 Score
yoursNmyneeds 66 M
4 Articles
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How I met my lover. Part 1   1/21/2018

Thought I would clean my car as the winter has taken a toll on it. Opened my garage door, vacuum in hand and bucket of water to wash my car. After it was washed I opened the hood to check some fluid levels. I heard someone ask if I needed help. I turned and it was a man say in his 50's. I said just checking the fluid levels. When he approached me I immediately got aroused by his statue. He ...


2 Comments, 78 Views, 12 Votes ,4.74 Score
AlphaLthr 71 F
42 Articles
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Early Stages of Online Relationships   12/22/2017

Something catches your eye about their post... You may like something they said, perhaps the site has told you he was the match for you, or maybe the smile said this is a genuine person, I want to get to know... <br><br> What is online is often so far from the real person that you can’t begin to imagine, later, when you look back, what was the connection in the first place... One ...


3 Comments, 118 Views, 22 Votes ,4.33 Score
Dawn   11/14/2017

i heard a car leave but was too sleepy to really wake up. i was asleep on the stone fireplace with my arms down on the floor. i woke up feeling Her foot on my arm, squeezing it against the stone floor as though She was putting out a cigarette. It hurt. my knuckles were ready to bleed. When i woke up, i tried to remove my hands but She wouldn't let me. <br><br> She was standing ...


1 Comments, 54 Views, 10 Votes ,3.98 Score
dirtygirlAline 46 F
6 Articles
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doggie lover please   10/29/2017

filthy k9 girl needs sexy guy


16 Comments, 328 Views, 42 Votes ,6.55 Score
OLD_WHITESLAVE 64 M
3 Articles
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Memories that now make sense   9/2/2017

When I was a young boy, there was a married Woman nearby and they lived with her Mother. She was around 30s, attractive, both her and the mother were well dressed and made up always. When they went out, the woman and her mother would walk together chatting, he would walk about 3 yards behind them being ignored. On the return from shopping, he would be walking behind them carrying the bags. I ...


2 Comments, 103 Views, 11 Votes ,2.79 Score
gamarriedcouple 52 C
139 Articles
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Is it worth it?   8/11/2017

Wearing this chastity cage between my legs. Waking up early in the morning as I get a painful woody telling me I need to go to the bathroom. Living my life now as a chaste husband. There are times I ask myself is this all worth it.

Then I look at my wife. My beautiful and gorgeous wife. Then, like last night, I see her in bed with someone other than me. I watch another man pound his cock ...


2 Comments, 72 Views, 9 Votes ,5.14 Score
Touch_You 62 M
13 Articles
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Chinese whore slaves   7/3/2017

I want to tell you about a young slut whore I met in Shanghai. First time I met her she was 17 years old. She was tiny with small tits and a nice mouthwatering body. I met her in the street where she approached me and tried to sell her services. I turned her down and told her that she should join me for her own good and to learn how to behave. She reluctantly accepted and she joined me to my ...


1 Comments, 141 Views, 23 Votes ,2.89 Score
Touch_You 62 M
13 Articles
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Chinese whore slaves   7/3/2017

I want to tell you about a young slut whore I met in Shanghai. First time I met her she was 17 years old. She was tiny with small tits and a nice mouthwatering body. I met her in the street where she approached me and tried to sell her services. I turned her down and told her that she should join me for her own good and to learn how to behave. She reluctantly accepted and she joined me to my ...


0 Comments, 74 Views, 11 Votes ,1.11 Score
Touch_You 62 M
13 Articles
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Chinese whore slaves   7/3/2017

I want to tell you about a young slut whore I met in Shanghai. First time I met her she was 17 years old. She was tiny with small tits and a nice mouthwatering body. I met her in the street where she approached me and tried to sell her services. I turned her down and told her that she should join me for her own good and to learn how to behave. She reluctantly accepted and she joined me to my ...


0 Comments, 34 Views, 6 Votes
Touch_You 62 M
13 Articles
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Chinese whore slaves   7/3/2017

I want to tell you about a young slut whore I met in Shanghai. First time I met her she was 17 years old. She was tiny with small tits and a nice mouthwatering body. I met her in the street where she approached me and tried to sell her services. I turned her down and told her that she should join me for her own good and to learn how to behave. She reluctantly accepted and she joined me to my ...


0 Comments, 44 Views, 6 Votes ,1.09 Score
DADDY4slaveslife 40 M
5 Articles
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honesty   7/2/2017

What is everyone's opinion about finding out someone's true self, and their honesty. I can usually tell from the small blub they leave on the IM page


0 Comments, 17 Views, 6 Votes ,1.94 Score
The first night   6/15/2017

The door was locked. i tried knocking a few times but She did say She was leaving and that was over an hour ago, so i did not really expect anyone to answer. i started looking for another way out. There must be a fence gate. She must have assumed i will finish making notes and leave.

i see that there is one gate where the tall black metal fence meets the house and what seems like another ...


5 Comments, 67 Views, 12 Votes ,4.04 Score
Want It To Last!   6/5/2017

To me if you want a relationship to last, you need to take the time to get to know one another. If that means only chatting/texting at first for awhile then so be it. Next start talking on the phone , put a voice to the other person, if everything still moves forward then find out when would be a good time/place to meet. Some where public so both can feel more comfortable, relaxed.


0 Comments, 24 Views, 10 Votes ,4.18 Score
Why Africa or Asia?   6/2/2017

Seems odd someone posting in africa or asia in variety of language when looking. Picking a language seems easy unless not serious.


0 Comments, 8 Views, 4 Votes ,1.69 Score
whiplash43 75 M
471 Articles
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COWBOYS RIDING THE RANGE DAY AFTER DAY   6/1/2017

I was hired last year as a cowboy to ride the range of my bosses many acres seeing that the cows are safe and keeping them on his range. I had never done it before but i loved being out in the wild alone where i could do as i pleased. One day after a few months i was tired and i hitched my horse to a tree i set up my camp as i planned on staying the night. I finally laid down in my blankets with ...


0 Comments, 46 Views, 7 Votes ,3.04 Score
HBk422 43 M
1 Article
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bdsm masterss   5/20/2017

I willing to do what ever you want When You are wthit me


0 Comments, 15 Views, 3 Votes ,2.94 Score
She got to know me...   5/13/2017

We must have talked for almost an hour. i was standing the whole time. Even though we had just met, She did not hesitate to ask about everything, where i grew up, my family, my friends, when i moved there, my past girlfriends, my job, everything. For some reason, i answered them all. She did not introduce Herself or say anything about Her - not one thing.

The table next to us freed up ...


1 Comments, 52 Views, 11 Votes ,5.04 Score
She got to know me.   4/29/2017

Let's go down to the cafe and talk She said almost as soon as i sat down. What i began to notice about Her was that She didn't seem to wait for a response, She didn't seem to ask. As soon as She said that She got up, picked up Her coffee and Her purse and started leaving the table. i wasn't sure if She wanted the book i had found for Her which was on the table along with Her notebook and another ...


1 Comments, 33 Views, 5 Votes ,4.77 Score
How did it all start?   4/15/2017

It started several years ago. i first met Her at the city library. It was quite busy that day and She was seated at a table by the window. It was a cold day, cloudy and wet outside. The downpour had stopped but it was still drizzling outside.

I remember it was cold and not too comfortable in the building, perhaps as I was still a bit wet. I noticed Her first when an employee walked to ...


2 Comments, 44 Views, 5 Votes ,4.77 Score
Takes Time   3/21/2017

It takes time to build a long term relationship. You have to get to know one another, build trust and honesty, just like with every other relationship. For me I like keeping things online for awhile. Who ever I am chatting with , I let them decide when to move to either texting or phone. Make them feel more comfortable, especially if they are new to the lifestyle.


1 Comments, 17 Views, 4 Votes ,5.19 Score
Why is this hard ?   3/19/2017

Why do so many want to meet right away ? It takes time if you want a lasting relationship. Some say thats what they want, but need to meet and start right away.Only to find out all they wanted was the one meet, they lie and tell you what you want to hear.


1 Comments, 11 Views, 1 Votes ,3.70 Score
Brandalynna 34 F
7 Articles
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Would you be in to a Trophy Stepford or made in to one in to Submission?   3/14/2017

I know I am a Natural Stepford with the push up bra's and tight corset's but some what to go to the extreme. Being a kept Women for a man she cater to him out of her submission. She must submit to him fully in contract. Willing to be forced in to refinement and pleasure and marriage in contract. To cater and be under him as he guides and protects you must wear what he requires heels are ...


14 Comments, 191 Views, 35 Votes ,7.03 Score
Need4control2 52 F
1 Article
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My first holiday experience with my cuck husband   2/7/2017

I had met a lovely man a couple of times on my own and been chatting with him for several months from a swingers site so was very comfortable telling him personal things and happened to mention I was in the costa del sol the last 2 weeks of september 2016. He said that he could easily take a flight and meet up. I thought about this for a while as I didn't want my husband knowing it was pre ...


5 Comments, 135 Views, 20 Votes ,5.68 Score
Son4mommy3 30 M
1 Article
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Son looking for a mommy   2/5/2017

Looking to find a mommy for a son.. how do I do so?? I will relocate to


0 Comments, 6 Views, 2 Votes ,1.73 Score
NettleStingers 55 C
1 Article
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Sensible Slaves   1/18/2017

First get to know about your potential Master and Mistress. Then allow yourself to be owned. It is a two way process, that proceeds on trust and honesty. That way is fulfilment and completeness. Have faith Slave!


1 Comments, 54 Views, 14 Votes ,4.90 Score
Vulnerability   12/9/2016

For those submissives reading this, what have been your experience with vulnerability, and how has that been handled by dominants, good or bad? What lessons would you want to pass on to dominants to guide them as they work with a submissive? What can a dominant do to help you be safe, and feel safe, so you can let go?


0 Comments, 31 Views, 3 Votes ,3.43 Score
whiplash43 75 M
471 Articles
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FIRST MEETS ON THE ALT SITE   12/7/2016

This lady of 28 sent me a message on the alt.com site and i responded even tho i cant give her what she really wants or i think that she wants. She sounds nice and said she would be in my town this week. I am waiting for her reply to my message to her telling her again what i cant do for her but i would still love to meet her and have her spank my ass for being a failure to her. I am in hopes of ...


3 Comments, 39 Views, 6 Votes ,3.37 Score
Yamen337 23 M
4 Articles
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2 steps for better sex   10/8/2016

Get clear about what kind of erotic energy you want to explore.

Once you have a sense of what your authentic desires are, get clear about what kind of erotic energy you desire. Erotic energy is the motivation and intent behind any sexual act. A simple kiss, for example, can feel romantic or rough, depending on the energy you bring to it.

When you start exploring more intense ...


1 Comments, 20 Views, 3 Votes ,3.43 Score
MissLoveParty1 37 F
17 Articles
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Long Distance Relationship   1/2/2016

Has anyone travelled to meet someone from this website? How far? Was it worth your effort? How far would you be willing to travel?


7 Comments, 111 Views, 14 Votes ,5.38 Score
HerMastersb1tch 59 C
5 Articles
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Dominance.   12/10/2015

On another site someone made a post in our Group called HerMastersbitch, called "Dominance"

He talked all about dominance and what it meant, waxing lyrical about the lifestyle.

I replied as follows, your thoughts please:



For every action there is an equal and opposite reaction. This law does not only hold up in physics but in relationships as well. I was ...


0 Comments, 203 Views, 11 Votes ,2.05 Score
MissLoveParty1 37 F
17 Articles
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Long Distance Relationship   11/6/2015

I have a long distance relationship. He is in a place where he can receive photos but no nudity. I have great sexy clothes and costumes. I need suggestions for photos. What would create a really hot photo? What are your favorite poses and scenery? What visual images turn you on?


3 Comments, 66 Views, 4 Votes ,2.08 Score
HerMastersb1tch 59 C
5 Articles
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A rise to fame and fortune. (Well, fame anyway) Episode 2   10/27/2015

If you haven’t read episode 1 yet it would probably pay to as it sets the scene. So now I had promised her a letter. Could I be man enough to go through with it? What the hell, I had nothing and the worst I could walk away with was no less than nothing. I was a shift worker so I had plenty of time at home alone to myself. Did I think about my marriage as I set about writing to this woman? In ...


3 Comments, 195 Views, 13 Votes ,4.15 Score
MissySissyLynn 63 M
5 Articles
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How to be Treated as a Sissy Girl Slave   9/28/2015

Since I am looking for a relationship on this site I thought I should inform everyone on those details. What follows describes my former relationship after my wife accepted my cross dressing and became my mistress to continue our marriage as wife/female led together. We started that relationship Mistress/wife & Sissy/husband by trial and error. Because of frustrations on both parties she came ...


1 Comments, 268 Views, 5 Votes ,3.80 Score
VladVampireLord 45 M
5 Articles
Score 3.6
Still More Passive Aggressive Tips & Tricks Used by Dominants, Bratty subs, switches, kittycats etc.   4/13/2015

Still More Passive Aggressive Tips & Tricks Used by Dominants, Bratty subs, switches, kittycats etc.



Back by popular demand...



1. Accentuate The Negative - This relates to the beginning of a relationship where the other partner claims they are a victim, subject of misfortune or illness or just plain morose or mired in darkness. The typical response is to form ...


3 Comments, 179 Views, 7 Votes ,3.30 Score
VladVampireLord 45 M
5 Articles
Score 3.6
More Passive Aggressive Control Tactics Used By Dominants, Switches, Bratty slaves, and kittycats   4/13/2015

More Passive Aggressive Control Tactics Used By Dominants, Switches, Bratty slaves, and kittycats



The following are additional Passive Aggressive Control Tactics Used By Dominants, Switches, Bratty slaves, bottom toppers and kittycats

1. Mirroring - "Mirroring is a copying of the mood or affect of another individual so that they believe you have a profound similarity ...


0 Comments, 100 Views, 7 Votes ,2.79 Score
VladVampireLord 45 M
5 Articles
Score 3.6
Tactics Used By Dominants, bratty slaves, bottom toppers, & kitty cats to attempt & maintain control   4/13/2015

Tactics Used By Dominants, bratty slaves, bottom toppers, & kitty cats to attempt & maintain control



Below are ten (10) tactics used by Dominants, bottom toppers, bratty slaves, and "kitty cats" to attempt and maintain control mainly by passive aggression

1. The Golden Days or Upward Ladder - This is related to the beginning of the relationship where it is either a ...


0 Comments, 196 Views, 9 Votes ,3.43 Score
aldompdx 57 M
4 Articles
Score 3.9
How Control and Surrender are Different   3/28/2015

External control is when my partner delegates to me, the privilege of exercising authority on her behalf. That includes authority over her, and making decisions on her behalf, to the extent and degree permitted both in advance and in the moment.



Internal control is of myself, my thoughts, my actions and reactions, the balance and emotion of my feelings. It is the observation and ...


2 Comments, 132 Views, 6 Votes ,4.79 Score
MissLoveParty1 37 F
17 Articles
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New Friends and Fun!   2/28/2015

I joined this website for fun yet didn't know what to expect. My goal was to find people for real-life play. I am lucky to have been contacted by people who are sincere in their desires.

Regarding the world outside of the website, I am amazed at how quickly time spent playing in this lifestyle turns into friendships. I feel like I have so much in common with people whom I've met. I ...


1 Comments, 244 Views, 15 Votes ,3.90 Score
kittiiara 43 F
15 Articles
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Finding the right Dom   2/13/2015

I'm finding it extremely difficult in finding a dom who fits in with my lifestyle. I love being dominated during play time but outside of that I require someone who is able to treat me equally. I need a dom who respects my profession and who is able to love me as well as dominate me. My last master fell in love with me then was no longer able to dominate me it was beyond frustrating. Is finding ...


10 Comments, 427 Views, 23 Votes ,5.70 Score
Second chance   12/8/2014

Just an expression of thanks for dominant women who give a guy a second chance after he screws up an introduction. Cheers.


1 Comments, 25 Views, 4 Votes ,3.63 Score
Who does what even in Femdom   10/31/2014

It appears that in many cases it is up to the man to begin the communication and continue building the relationship from that start. That is, being the aggressor at the beginning of the relationship. Even in a female lead relationship.


3 Comments, 82 Views, 9 Votes ,3.00 Score
Lady2a 62 F
1 Article
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My Master...... How he makes me feel   8/28/2014

Feelings.......

When we first met I'd never been undressed by words alone before.........I couldn't fathom out how a stranger could make me feel so 'at home'. Several months later he still intrigues me. When we are apart, in the absence of his touch, smell and his sight, he has become the most vivid part of my imagination....... He makes me feel, understand, and in a way I never knew, ...


2 Comments, 145 Views, 15 Votes ,4.82 Score
MissJenandSlut 38 C
2 Articles
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Pride 2014 and the fun involved   7/8/2014

this is not an erotic story for the simple fact that it is not a story, these are the events of O/our Pride experience and yes it did strengthen our relationship. while some parts of this accounting do contain moments of erotic materiel that does not mean that the goal of sharing this is to have it be erotic. this slave merely felt like sharing something here rather than on O/our blog for a ...


0 Comments, 116 Views, 15 Votes ,4.20 Score
PervertedOne 65 M
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Taking a live in slave   12/27/2013

Patience.



The very first thing anyone wanting a slave should ask is 'what is slavery'?



When you define what slavery is to you, then you can express that understanding to others.



To Me a slave is Property. Yes an emotional bond because she is a human being as am I, but a girl is Property to be used. So I will 'feel' her emotions ...


0 Comments, 190 Views, 12 Votes ,5.27 Score
Doc_Sonar 60 M
21 Articles
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Do the Basic Laws of Life Remain Relevant…   11/2/2013



...Upon Entering a BDSM Relationship?

Suppose I said that, many of the traits we try to find in our fetish partners , we also look for in every potential partner? How true is that?

What if I sad that no one has ever 'miracled' themselves into an ideal relationship? Maybe Fate or Chance did their parts, but I wouldn’t count on it. It’s like Somebody’s ...



1 Comments, 71 Views, 11 Votes ,3.73 Score
Friends for over four years. Distance M/F Relationship   10/3/2013

a woman like my darling best friend brings such gratitude and gladness to my life every day and night. Her outlook is most positive. She gives me that push and incentive to open every new chapter of lifestyle learning and change as my days progress and as nights come and go. so many times in 2009, 2010, 2011, 2012, 2013, i plunged in to calling my Friend for training over the phone to keep ...


0 Comments, 47 Views, 5 Votes ,3.14 Score
classactwilts 61 M
2 Articles
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humiliating Sarah, the first time   5/30/2012

All my stories are true unless stated.

I do have a few ideas of fiction I would like to write and will do, sometime. For example about a man who can’t pay his debt to me and the consequences he has to pay, his wife for a weekend.

Another, hopefully amusing as well, about a lady who goes to something like and meets the people running it. They agree to have her for a day to tie ...


0 Comments, 335 Views, 16 Votes ,6.66 Score
Brandalynna 34 F
7 Articles
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my new Group Stepford Women/1950s lifestyle any one can join.   5/9/2012

please join and enjoy....


1 Comments, 62 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
Feral_Felinity 60 F
2 Articles
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Temper, Temper, 'Master'!   10/26/2011

Well, the long-time mystery is finally solved. After 5+ years of correspondence, an unusual kind of poetic seduction & a seemingly endless list of tantalizing questions that had lingered in the atmosphere of the hundreds of miles between us, the distance was finally closed & we met face to face this past weekend.

It had to be. There was just something left undone ...



5 Comments, 234 Views, 16 Votes ,5.48 Score
WiredForthExult 54 M
1 Article
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Sensitive Dom?   4/6/2011

Hi and thanks for reading! Maybe you can help me? When I look at how I treat my "Toy" it feels like I am to kind... I enjoy the ideation of them being helpless and at my mercy! I enjoy satisfying their needs above my own.

Always believed that a "Sub" is the one that has the real power! Do you agree? They say how far they will go and when to stop!

What I am getting at is I feel ...


3 Comments, 178 Views, 15 Votes ,3.90 Score
QUALITIES OF A DOMINANT FROM A SUBS VIEW   4/21/2010

When choosing to gift your submission, what is the thing you look for above all else, if you had a top ten of traits, qualities you look for, what would be your number 1?


2 Comments, 410 Views, 11 Votes ,5.22 Score
QUALITIES OF A SUB FROM A DOMINANTS VIEW   4/21/2010

When choosing a sub, what would be your wish list, if you had a top ten of qualities, traits which would endear a sub to you, what would you choose, what do you look for, is it personality, lack of perhaps, inteligence, looks?

What is the number 1 thing you look for?


2 Comments, 307 Views, 10 Votes ,4.78 Score
If you dont grow you wither   11/24/2009

I have been on alt for many years and i have noticed the strongest relationships are the ones that grow and change. I think even after so many years there is still more to learn. Things change and change can be good.


1 Comments, 78 Views, 11 Votes ,2.79 Score
SirPain_Sadist 67 M
25 Articles
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How hard are you working on your relationship(s)   7/27/2009

Relationships are not something that just happen. They have to nurtured and given time to grow. It takes a lot of trust, truth, and understanding to make them work. Especially if they are poly relationships. Sometimes one member needs a little time with the primary member. No, not in the sexual or BDSM role, just a lunch together, talking. Going out for a walk or watching a movie. Each ...


0 Comments, 102 Views, 8 Votes ,3.48 Score
quedog2subpurr 65 C
1 Article
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Married & D/s   3/1/2009

Reading many clips on lifestyle relationships during my journey, it never came across O/our thoughts that it would have a negative impact on the relationship. Majority of the posting based marriage & D/s together as negative. In that it would have a negative affect or effect on the relationship. Feelings of such would hinder O/ones role and performance.

...


2 Comments, 124 Views, 3 Votes ,4.41 Score
subredcbrm 39 F
3 Articles
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A day in the life of a 24/7 slave   8/7/2008

It is rarely the big events that make a relationship, it is a million small touches, a million small submissions, a constantly evovling gift between two people that for me looks like this.

i am often asked by friends, both lifestyle and vanilla, what being a slave means, or what it looks like in the day to day. So here it is.

5:45 am...yes way before the sun comes up my day ...


5 Comments, 566 Views, 23 Votes ,5.93 Score
AJW1 49 M
5 Articles
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Slavery and Servitude   6/3/2008

Can a slave say no, it's a question to which I believe there is no definitive answer, but to Me the answer is simply no. Grins at this point the submissives go running to the door screaming red light and calling 911. Simply put slavery is putting the life in the hands of their Master and after that the slave should have two choices obey or leave, but rationally at times a third exists beg, and ...


1 Comments, 163 Views, 4 Votes ,5.57 Score
Submissive Etiquette- A better understanding...   5/21/2008

I have been in the lifestyle now for over 7 years. While I do seek long-term relationships with submissive I work with, my truest form of pleasure is the act of training; introducing a woman to her submissive side, and guiding her along the path of self-discovery.

The one question I seem to get most often for a new applicant is, Sir what do you seek in a submissive? Well, I have ...


5 Comments, 761 Views, 34 Votes ,7.10 Score
kad20072 38 M
179 Articles
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3 Simple Things that Men Wished All Women Knew   4/9/2008

1. Men are more sensitive than many people realize.

What most people don’t believe is that men are indeed more sensitive; they have harder time coping with break-ups than women do. Men are not biologically designed to have the full capacity of processing feelings like their female counterpart. Being this is the case, men tend to have a hard shell around their heart that keeps them from ...


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salisburycpl2 33 C
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new to this   3/31/2008

hi i am francesca i am 25 yrs old my fella is 21 , hes very intrested in a 3sum or 4sum altho no full swap being a nice gf and intrested in this anyway i said sure lets join up here and see how it goes so here is my 1st article and i will post more as it progresses salisburycpl2...


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Pairadoxak 57 M
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On relationships...   3/19/2008

Its been said that the biggest mistake men make going into a relationship is to believe that the gal will stay the same, and that the biggest mistake women make going into a relationship is to believe that the guy will change (in the way they want him to). Both are wrong, indeed somewhat happily so. To remain the same would be to become stagnant, and to change completely means that at some inner ...


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steelbreezz2 63 M
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Finding "The One"   3/16/2008

I'd like to discuss a long time frustration of mine- women only interested in finding "The One".

Seems like a whole lot of women, submiisve or otherwise, won't have even a conversation with a guy if he can't be deemed immediately "The One".

Now I realize that nobody wants to be used or have their little heart broken, but really ladies, you need to lighten up.

Finding ...


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youngdutty88 30 M
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getting back with an ex   2/11/2008

i was wondering wat are some ways to show or prove to ya ex that u fucked up and want to get back together. the fact is my ex says that i will always be in her heart damn i fucked up when i told her it might not work cause she moved so far. i need help. any suggestions


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MasterDFs 67 M
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The corner stones.   2/9/2008

I know that W/we A/all want to put the most wanted things out there to make U/us more wanted.But the first corner stone is to be honest.If that does not seem to be the best light to be seen in, readjust your focus.If you find the O/one you want and T/they find you, then T/they find it is a lie, Y/you will loose T/them!Another corner stone is dedication.To get what Y/you want may be easy, but ...


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Tall Ships, Shinning Stars, Brass Rings and Water Meter Covers   1/29/2008

Tall Ships, Brass Rings, Shinning Stars and Water Meter Covers.....

We all think that we know just what we want; just what we’d wish for if given a chance, but in actuality, how many of us get the opportunity to reach for that star shinning so brightly in the night sky or the magical carousel’s brass ring? How many get to board that tall ship and sail into our destiny?

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LilHotSexy1 53 C
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Out With Old In With New???   1/28/2008

I have recently started dating a guy who I like very much. He likes me too but we seem to have a situation that is causing us problems. He has a woman he's known awhile and she has an 18 year old daughter, they (the mom & him) were bed buddies before we hooked up, I found out he has been texting & calling both mom & daughter & not telling me so I didn't get upset, I am uncomfortable with this, ...


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LifeLessOrdinary 34 M
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new relationship, old habits, outdated thinking   11/24/2007

I recently entered into a relationship with a girl whom I have known a long time. She knows about my predilictions and not only accepts them but is willing to explore them with me. I couldn't ask for more. Yet, I seem to be constantly putting out feelers for other partners and feel jealousy at friends for their relations and hookups with a liberal smattering of "why not me" on the side. I ...


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dom4all51 62 M
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Honest and Trust   10/30/2007

I feel that these 2 things are important when building a relationship with someone. You need to be upfront from the begining otherwise the relationship will fall apart quickly.


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ColneaJoans 61 F
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First Contact Advice to a submissive man   10/23/2007

I just answered an alt message/email from someone who was attracted to me. Perhaps some of what I said will be helpful to other submissive men who are facing the enormous hurdle of getting a dominant lady to notice them.

Of course, a big MUST, is to read the Lady's profile carefully , and Her blogs or posts in the "Groups" on alt so that you know how to write something that might be ...


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MsLise 48 F
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Lay down Ground Rules   10/17/2007

You have met Mr/Ms Right or Sub/Slave perfect...Now the work begins for both sides. If you are master/mistress...lay down the ground rules for the relationship....be it short term...long term...causal...24/7 etc. Don't assume someone knows something ...but it in black and white and you have no problems...You choose the path that needs to be taken for the situation but never leave out some form ...


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GoddessKell 50 F
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Online Relationships   10/13/2007

Do online relationship really progress to reality?

In all the years I have been online seeking a partner in BDSM and D.s play I have yet to have longivity from being online. Of course, I have to say that I have met many good men and women, but no man has captured my time and attention enough for me to even remotely want to take it to the next level.

Do you think its because once ...


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TheVampmaster 51 M
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Understanding   7/6/2007

While building up a relationship it's very important to take two features into consideration.

1. Priorities are no the same, for man and woman, hence interest tend to vary, besides most man are not multitasking. While a woman can watch a movie and talk with a friend, if a woman approaches a man who is looking into a football game, he tends to either ignore the woman, or ...



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phatkat70 48 F
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First impression   7/5/2007

I am very real ...very domiant 24/7...I met someone online and spoke with them on the phone and they picked this quality right up from me....I met someone in person for the first time and just talked to them and they said the same thing....

Now....Why is it so hard for those who are supposed to be dominant to stay dominant when they are in a session? I have had so many subs/slaves say ...


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zennflower 56 F
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Aftercare...Why is it so important?   6/27/2007

zennflowerAftercare is the time taken after the scene that brings the sub back to the top out of sub space. It's where bonding between the Dominant and sub takes place or perhaps a better way of putting it is the re-enforcing of the bond between the two. Aftercare lets both know that for the two of them it's more than just play, more than just scening that the ...


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lamourita 53 F
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nurturing submission... I first posted this to the advice line perhaps it is better placed here...   6/20/2007

nurturing submission... I have dealt with this so often that I wonder what others think and how they deal with it.



You open up a dialog with a man. A man who considers himself to be a Dominant man. You live a distance away from each other and you begin to share thoughts and ideas and wants and needs and then the desires come up. He asks you to do things. Sexual things. All in ...


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ShogunMaster 62 M
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On Trust & Faith   6/14/2007

As those of you who have been checking in know, I have been giving this quite some thought and have come to quite the unexpected conclusion. You can also read this on my blog On Trust Faith. Read on!

I have written in the past on Trust and have penned highly raved essays that sounded great with all the right words and phrases. We all hear that trust is one of cornerstones of this ...


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ShogunMaster 62 M
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How Well Do You Listen To You?   6/14/2007

How well do you listen to yourself? How closely do you pay attention to your "gut instincts"? How well do you take action based on this information?

These gut instincts were originally named as the information comes from our "gut" or power center. The seat of our life force, what in the East is called Chi.

We'd like to believe that what someone tells about themselves to be true. ...


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phatkat70 48 F
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Enhancing the bond   4/7/2007

I enjoy training subs/slaves to become toilets and lately I have found some subs not wanting to try at first but maybe later on they will try at least pee....I am always upfront about this fetish because I feel honesty is the best policy but I am tired of finding people who say the are into watersports and dont know what it is and then when you tell them they are like no I wont do that ....
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LordDreamWolf 41 M
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Gentleman Dom..Not just a myth   3/31/2007

Why is it that everyone seems to think Dom/me equals asshole?
From what I have seen it is because of "Master/Doms" thinking that the role they take gives them the right to abuse those they have pledged to love, honor and protect. I my self am a Gentleman Dom as are many of my Friends. I have the Utmost respect for all pets/slaves/subs and mates of any flavor.
I have learned in my ...


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The Boy's Best Birthday   3/16/2007

The boy and I have always enjoyed man smells and putting the boy on display. The first of October I go to the store and buy a 3 pack of grey pocket t-shirts in the boy's size. I wash it three times and dry it with dryer sheet to smell good. I put it in a box, write Happy Birthday Boy in purple crayon and give it to him at a steak restaurant. It has a sheet with it. "Every cum shot for the ...


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cccc04 40 C
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my take on building a relationship   2/16/2007

be 100 percent you want to start it before you begin it as the are full time work at the start so you dont have time to think about if there the perfect one because you need all the time you can get making it the perfect one


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SlaveSeeker_1
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How Can I Tell IF It Is Abuse? (for the newbie)   12/22/2006

Simply said. . . If It Is Not CONSENSUAL it is NOT BDSM --------------------------------------------- Here is a short checklist that can help you determine if you or someone is being abused.
Is it Consensual?
Is your partner in CONTROL of hirself?
Does your partner REFRAIN from Hitting you in anger?
...


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Downtown2006 37 M
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Proper Speech Equitete   12/13/2006

When courting a Domme, how should a new submissive act?
I was wondering, is there a proper speech etiquette when talking when a Submissive is talking to a Domme? I'm a little new, and I don't want to put anyone off. Are there any words I should not say, or be hesitant in saying?
Also, when meeting in public, is there a proper way I should act? Or should I just be ...


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DarkDesiresNYC 51 C
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Bonding and Spirituality in D/s   12/12/2006

Service is an essential part in many D/s relationships and it provides a natural way to bond between Master and slave (or dominant and submissive -- throughout this essay for simplicity, we will refer to the dominant as Master and the submissive as slave). However, most service is task and goal oriented. In other words, the slave is given orders to complete a set of assignments. It is ...


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MsPierced 46 F
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What it Means to be a slave   11/14/2006

I may have a different definition of a slave than most so I will explain that first. For Me, a slave is not someone who gives up their rights as human beings. A slave is someone that in many ways must be just as strong as their Dominant. Case in point. At a run, a Dominant may want to stay out late and play and may not have eaten. The slave must be the one who makes sure the Dominant ...


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MsPierced 46 F
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What it Means to be a Ma'am   11/14/2006

"Ma'am, all I want to do is be of service to You." Sounds familiar, doesn't it? But the real surprise to most people is that, in many ways, the Ma'am is in service to Her property. This contradiction in terms is the cornerstone of being a Dominant. I will be discussing Lifestyle, 24/7 Dominance and submission. These concepts don't necessarily apply to all situations or relationships, ...


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lillymax001 40 C
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trust   11/14/2006

i have given this some thought, and still havent come up with the right answer. Is there an right answer?? How do you let your gaurd down to trust someone? You hear of bad things happening all the time and that scares me, we play in a world that can be scary, but i think thats the fun of it. But can it be taken too far?


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colette77 41 F
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How soon is too soon?   10/21/2006

Do you think that you should give up everything all at once or space it over a period of time? I've thought about this from time to time. I'm an honest person really so I dont lie all you have to do is ask? So not letting someone know something about you seems decietfully almost. Not that you should give complete strangers your whole life story, but if you really think that this person is ...


2 Comments, 208 Views, 11 Votes ,4.10 Score
colette77 41 F
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Are Harems Okay   10/17/2006

Ive been wondering if people think that having many subs is okay? My Master has his little harem, I call them since I dont include myself personally in with them. Is that wrong...? im the jealous type so it took some getting used to. But I finally gave over control of those issues to him and asked what I needed and now I feel better....


3 Comments, 233 Views, 7 Votes ,4.06 Score
zennflower 56 F
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Sub Drop-a very real phenomena   10/13/2006

"Sub-Drop" Over my experiences in the lifestyle it has never ceased to amaze and frustrate me how many people understand what 'sub-space' is, but have no idea what 'sub-drop' is. The truth of the matter is I discovered what it was by experiencing it, and asking for help. I was asked if I was experiencing 'sub-drop' and after a long discussion I was both relieved and worried, to admit ...


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TwistedInstinct 58 M
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Sleep Deprivation training , a view on the STORY OF " O"   9/29/2006

this is a pat 2 of an explroration of "o"

Well how do you do it and why , depriving someone of sleep REMEMBER THIS IS A CONSENTING ACTIVITY .... NEXT I do not recomend doing this , i am fiction writer .. so do not fucking sue me ..you stupid motherfuckers!


If done totally for like 4 days a person enters a pyshcoes , so do not fucking do that .. this shit ...


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papabear_1969 49 M
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Looking For Info   9/22/2006

I am looking for consent forms, or anything of the sort. Trying to find forms and documents to havemy sub complete to see what she is willing to submit too and what she isn't. Still new at this and I haven't built up my library of knowledge yet. If you have any please help me.


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Simplyalbertaman 60 M
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Mind Over Matter   9/18/2006

SO YOU'RE LOOKING ..... Aren't we all and do we ever stop looking???? Ya right, lie to yourself if ya want but we all know the search never ends. We look because we can and we always carry that curiosity itch. Primary to our search is to find that person or people that blend into what satisfies us, our needs, our desires. Some times that's found in pleasing them or pleasing you or pleasing ...


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TwistedInstinct 58 M
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She is MY cunt !!   8/30/2006

She is my cunt


Look at the animal world , males battle each other to insure their sperm lives ! now females go to be protected by a strong male that has more than one female , in fact the scent of woman attracts females .
I had divorce court today , first time I have really seen my adorable lil 25 year old future ex wife in a year ..( dam this case ...


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At who's pace ?   8/18/2006

One thing that never seems to get any easier is suggesting to a prospective partner that the time feels right to meet. I find generally that if i take things nice & slow - going at the 'partners' pace, thinking this will help put her at ease, i get accused of not being Dom enough - whatever that is supposed to mean. If i suggest a meeting early on in the 'relationship' i then get ...


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jre1997 39 M
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How can you build a succesfull relationship starting with a computer?   7/24/2006

Is it even possible? How can you get away with it when some of the people you meet are married and want a discreet relationship? Sex only is good if you know that going in but not if you don't and are expecting something else entirely. I guess I'm just not good at weeding out what I don't want yet.


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GoddessKell 50 F
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TRUST, HONEST and INTEGRITY....   7/15/2006


Since I have been active in this lifestyle (8yrs) I have learned 3 important lessons in this wonderful lifestyle of BDSM and D.s; they are TRUST, HONESTY and INTEGRITY. I want to share this with anyone who will take the time to read what I have myself learned.
TRUST is an essential requirement in establishing a BDSM and ...


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UKblackman443 58 M
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Build yr play relationship by organising a hol or weekend break   7/2/2006

This is directed at those who are not in a primary relationship with their sub/dom partner. You may meet on an on -going basis but have no desire for LTR etc however I found that using the summer for a special scene really help bonds the play relationship.
I spent a week with a slave (attached to a vanilla partner) in Spain and we had heaps of fun we couldn't normally get up to ...


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Carl86 32 M
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Too much information too soon?   6/16/2006

Is it possible to reveal too much about one's self too soon in a relationship?
I'm the kind of guy that will answer you truthfully about anything you ask with little to no forethought about the repercussions my answer may cause. Despite my usual quietness, I'm not afraid to tell you what I think. But, there are times when I feel that I have said a little too much when it comes to ...


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GoldMan234 46 M
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How can you be sure about the other?   5/22/2006

I am wondering who else has been in this situation? You are with a dom/sub they are already in a full relationship that is not dealing with bdsm/alt, their other half does not know anything about what they are into. So here is my question; If they are not being true to the other half and telling them nothing or lieing to them, how can you completely trust what they are saying to you as ...


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GoldMan234 46 M
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How does a Dom decide when it is time to collar a sub?   5/22/2006

I am new more to the Dom side I have been chatting and getting to know a sub very well....I want to approach and collar her. My question is how do you know when the time is right? How do I know she is ready to be collared by me and that is what she is looking for?


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9inchblackhorse 36 M
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please help... any counsellors (a women's reply would help me more)   5/19/2006

I've got a very strange problem with my girlfriend... what do i do... please help...
i have a girl friend and she's really sweet and we both are in love for about a year now... we both get along very well and we understand each other perfectly... And most of all we both respect each other very much...
But my girlfriend is having some health problems... VERY COMPLICATED ...


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anenigmale 56 M
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Collars and Getting Over   5/5/2006

As I cruise thru this li'l playpen that is My life, every now and then, I find myself reevaluating, and sometimes even second guessing, my views about the most fundamental of my beliefs. Examining what my feelings were, are, and what, in fact, is still changing.. I had the opportunity of chatting with a lovely submissive the other night, and thought that the overall ...


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monaangel 56 F
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Master Takes Me to Santuary   4/29/2006

My Master has taken me to Sanctuary in Dallas and I enjoyed my self emensely.But boo hoo I was only there to observe others and didn't get a chance to receive my proper spankings or get tied up.Well he did make up for it when he brought me home and showed me how wicked and good he could be.The ideas I got from visiting Sanctuary were numerous, Someone took a lot of spankings and Yes the ...


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bubaby6 49 F
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COMPATIBILITY   3/29/2006

The Ultimate Union cannot be achieved without two compatible souls - one dominant by his nature and his desire and one submissive by his nature and his desire. These two people will have a powerful motivator that sends them, from different directions, toward the same goal. That goal is to find a person who will love them more than any other could or would. Love? Yeah, love! It is the cement ...


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Trip_RockCity 35 T
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First Kinky Experience with some one new   3/19/2006

The best thing for this is to both get drunk and say listen i like .... and not be shy...


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justsomeone_29 45 M
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How to make your gf into a Dominatrix :)   3/5/2006

Hi What was the best way to gradually transform your gf from a normal girl to a fun domme? Any ideas on the matter, please share.


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OmahaSir 57 M
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The elephant in the Bdsm Living room   2/28/2006

When helping others one of the technigues used is helping the person or group discover the " elephant in the living room". An elephant in the living room is something that is either not stated openly and much less discussed. And one finds this elephant by looking for the tell-tell signs of it. The elephant in the BDSM community is the dehumanization of submissives and or slaves by those who ...


1 Comments, 195 Views, 6 Votes ,3.93 Score
UKblackman443 58 M
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Fem slut Living with a vanilla partner   2/4/2006

I have a submissive fem friend who enjoys slut play, going to swing parties, playing with her Master twice a month etc. Her live in partner (sexual voyeur) used to find players for her but has been less involved of late. Recently he's decided she should stop seeing her Master as he's worried they are becoming too intimate. She says she needs this in her life, something her partner can't ...


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MMasterMMM 64 M
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North Coast CA Masters & slaves   2/3/2006

People living the Master/slave lifestyle benefit greatly by communication with others in the same lifestyle. The needs and concerns are quite different than those in the D/s or M/s lifestyle, although there is definitely some overlap. <br> There is a National Organization called MAST--Masters And slaves Together--that seeks to facilitate this communication. There is a chapter in ...


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BobWRuns 67 M
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Guide to Establishing Dominance Over a Male   1/31/2006

Guide to Establishing Dominance Over a Male 1/29/06 <br> This is intended to provide a guide in establishing and maintaining dominance over a male which can lead to development of a modern day slave. It is a process that can be used to develop dominance over a natural submissive applying to be a slave or an unaware, vanilla, non-submissive. How long it may take and ...


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yooperman2001 66 M
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Going Too Fast -- Slow is Better!!   1/29/2006

It's strange, sometimes, when we come to a place like Alt. We come here with some preconceived notions about great sensual and sexual thrills, but often leave our common sense at the door. We tend to forget that, behind every nick or handle we find on this site, there is a real life person behind it. <br> I know that most guys fantasize about the slutty woman who'll drop her pants ...


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A girl told me   1/29/2006

Sucking her finger as told she just pulled from her asshole means, so your into me we will continue on.


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domcouple11 44 C
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DOMCOUPLE   1/8/2006

YOU SCREEN MY PLEASURE )!


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The first step is completey up front and clear on your wish.   12/30/2005

A femdom private life relationship is what most seek.and at extreme femdom level top dollar, at firt but regulars should get discont.On line or in person if she is very willing to take you as descibed, start a new relatioship.


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NathaninDC 70 M
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New Group - Naughty Schoolgirl Memories   12/2/2005

come by and visit


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Doc_Sonar 60 M
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Opening Doors...   10/4/2005

"I Don’t Share...usually, " an acquaintance said. A shame, that - or is ‘too bad’ a better statement? <br> Not that the friend never disclosed, just rarely did, almost as if it were as precious and as worthy of care as a secret treasure. While there may be many other roots, I feel a major one is a fear of vulnerability, which many see as weakness, or being seen in a less ...


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DRGINGER 67 M
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False Starts   9/28/2005

I am wondering if many people on Alt experience frustration. I sent a message to a couple that lives close by and explained it was always my dream to interact with a male/female couple. That very same day I recevied a message back from them. It was very inviting. They wanted to establish friendship first, which I always like to do before plunging into more physical events. In my first ...


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BobWRuns 67 M
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Guide to Establishing Dominance   9/10/2005

Guide to Establishing Dominance 9/10/05 To be an Owner, you have to establish and maintain your authority or dominance as the Owner and the slave's recognition that they are a slave to you, their Owner. Rarely are you in a committed Owner/slave relationship at the beginning of the relationship with your desired slave. And, you will probably never get your slave without ...


4 Comments, 2652 Views, 122 Votes ,3.49 Score
JTMRP2 49 M
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ASS TRAINING (part 2)   9/10/2005

HIGH HEEL's <br> High Heel shoes are a must for anal devotees on special occassions.......because they speak of anal servitude and being a butt themselves. They increase the erotic nature of the femine submissive form- and arouse in male'es feelings of favor and admiration. Like chiderall'es slipper- once a women puts on high -heels she feels like a queen-----a queen of sexual ...


0 Comments, 374 Views, 9 Votes ,0.86 Score
letitbe 67 M
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What i have always known and yet it still got to me becareful   9/1/2005

My goodness you would think by looking at my profile and as long as i have been a slave if anyone in this world would know better it would be me. Yet here i am being a dummy and telling anyone who reads this becareful as you can get sucked in and not realize it and all of the sudden you end up with being in a very bad spot in your life. i can't memtion any names but some of the people ...


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letitbe 67 M
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What in Earth is a Pure Trust slave Realtionship w/his(er)Owner   8/21/2005

i never heard of no limits until maybe 10 or 12 years aod to be honest. i have found (3) different Dominate Females and all True Dominats's those i think who where born with an extra gene as i was and is why i am as submissive as i am although i am afriad they did not realize at the time i was who i am and they where who they are.So even though i begged all of them to come and claim me ...


1 Comments, 123 Views, 6 Votes ,2.51 Score
JTMRP2 49 M
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PREPARATION FOR THE SLAVE ASS   8/19/2005

To trian a slave ass takes a lot. First one must be willing to do the job.............every ass starts out-- OK- "I, m a ass"....but to be prefected each ass must undergo- specialized training. In order to accomplish slave training the master must be prepared to take the steps, bare the expense and work diligently to accomplish his or her goals.


1 Comments, 320 Views, 10 Votes ,2.39 Score
letitbe 67 M
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This is Part II of my life Story with how i became a slave   8/17/2005

First i send the warmest of my hug's to males or females Dominate or submissive with the hope it light your path and help you find not only what you search for but what your heart searchs for as well to those who where kind enough to take the time and read part one of how i became a slave. i would really like to thank those of you who took the time to vote as it is only because of this i am ...


0 Comments, 251 Views, 3 Votes ,0.98 Score
letitbe 67 M
5 Articles
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For me it started Very Early in my life with a childhood friend   8/10/2005

i guess all relationships start at some point or another but mine started if i am really to think about it around 9 or 10 years old with my childhood playmate who late became my girl friend and then my Mistress and then my Wife. So i guess we will start at the beginning and if you folks want to hear more let me know and i will continue (but understand i have changed names and places as ...


1 Comments, 181 Views, 8 Votes ,5.33 Score
lookupinme 47 F
1 Article
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what is happening ?   8/9/2005

As I am very new at the internet and new to Alt, I am having trouble understanding my feelings..I have been single no sex for a while, I am finding myself really caught up in this life.thats what I am here for, but really talking deep.its all I think about..since I joined, just a question I would like others thoughts on is it easy to get caught up in the new excietment of this life style ...


1 Comments, 332 Views, 9 Votes ,4.49 Score
WhoWillWhipMy 46 M
1 Article
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Finding the right one, but they leave you just before!!!   8/6/2005

I have noticed a lot on these websites that a person can find a good match, but when it comes time to meet, they lose all confidence and leave without a word or tell you that you are unworthy of their time. I'm extremely careful with what I show and do online, and also really look into a person to make sure they are safe as well. But you get past this point and however long it had taken ...


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Doc_Sonar 60 M
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How Do We Keep the Music Playing?   7/19/2005

How Do We Keep the ‘Music’ Playing? <br> I feel it’s typical to enter into relationships with tough expectations and demands. However, as time goes on, the loved ones can drift away. <br> <br> 1) Be respectful and mindful of one and the other. Although the Golden Rule is an excellent beginning, to the extent you are able, try treating your partner the ...


0 Comments, 141 Views, 6 Votes ,4.22 Score
bound_sweetness 60 F
2 Articles
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Looking for a good relationship   7/1/2005

Forgive my insertion of opinion here but, .... so many people here have voiced disappointment with the failings of a relationship and maintaing it... so .. here's what i think. What many seek is M/s (Master/slave or Master/submissive) not D/s as strictly defined.Yes, sadly it is true. Most toppy type dominants are just bossy people who get off getting their own way in what is typically a ...


3 Comments, 673 Views, 44 Votes ,5.24 Score
hazard71 70 M
6 Articles
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my ex is now my s-ex slave - part 5 - a visit from an old friend   6/18/2005

The next morning I was awakened with a kiss on the cheek. She sat there smiling and asked if I would like sex before breakfast this morning. I said "Yes, but I have to go pee first". Then I said "Come and I'll let you hold it for me". When I had positioned myself at the toilet, she grabbed my cock and squeezed hard. I told her that it wasn't a fire hose and ease up, just hold it gently. ...


0 Comments, 354 Views, 4 Votes ,2.86 Score
Lady_Aurora2005 67 F
1 Article
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Long Distance Relationships   5/31/2005

Being in a long distance relationship, takes two people that believe in trust. When I speak of trust, it must engulf your entire relationship. Every day I send an email and talk on the phone with my loved one. Sometimes I feel so good after hearing him and other times my heart aches more not having him with me. We never take our love for granted each time we spend together we jam a month ...


3 Comments, 1068 Views, 70 Votes ,7.17 Score
hazard71 70 M
6 Articles
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my ex is now my s-ex slave - part 4 - she's finally ready   5/27/2005

The next week devloped into a routine, she'd lay on the matress and cum for me morning, noon and night. Then one evening I told her that I expected her to cum more than just the one time. She looked at me with a puzzled look on her face. I told her that she is capable of cuming multipal times in one session, but that she would have to do it herself. She said "Master, I thought you were ...


0 Comments, 400 Views, 6 Votes ,3.65 Score
Glory4U 59 F
1 Article
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Several signs of poor doming   5/22/2005

So, I am a sub and proud of that. I have several tips for other subs in separating the real Dom from the posers. <br> <br> 1. The Dom meets and greets you one time with no intention of playing. <br> <br> 2. You agree to safe sane limits <br> <br> 3. You understand and agree to what you can provide from the ...


0 Comments, 1601 Views, 122 Votes ,5.12 Score
hazard71 70 M
6 Articles
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my ex is now my s-ex slave - part 3 - Still in training   5/20/2005

The next morning I got up early again to contemplate the day. Then fixed breakfast again, an omelet for me and a bowl of cereal for her, then woke her up by banging 2 pans together again. This was going to be the ritual for a while or at least until I figured that she was ready to go on to the next step. <br> She was laying on the matress in front of me playing with herself for ...


0 Comments, 346 Views, 7 Votes ,3.30 Score
hazard71 70 M
6 Articles
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my ex is now my s-ex slave - part 2 - training   5/13/2005

When we got into the house we were very tired from the ride home, so I showed her to the back bedroom, told her that she could use the bathroom next to the bedroom when ever she needed but for now that was the only 2 rooms she was to be in unless otherwise invited. I went to the front room and sat on the couch, to contemplate the situation for a while. <br> Over the years we'd been ...


0 Comments, 471 Views, 9 Votes ,4.49 Score
hazard71 70 M
6 Articles
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my ex is now my s-ex slave   5/7/2005

After 16 sexless years of marriage we had a million dollars in cash and assets. but I was tired of my right hand, I had to have the closeness of sex. One day I recieved an offer of a job tending bar in a town 350 miles across the state. I jumped at the chance and withdrew $2000, packed a few clothes, jumped into my old beat up pickup and left my nun wife for new horizons. <br> It ...


1 Comments, 582 Views, 16 Votes ,2.10 Score
Usually the next day   3/13/2005

I will never forget my first real girlfriend in high school, after I spent most of the night thinking she was asleep with my face in her panty covered ass, and sucking her asshole.The next morning forever changed me, I realized I do have a female counterpart, that is a girl who is into recieving oral sex only and lots of assworship.U see she woke me up by sitting on my face, telling ...


0 Comments, 2236 Views, 80 Votes ,0.07 Score
milkmyts 52 F
2 Articles
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Adult Nursing   3/10/2005

My very first experience with adult nursing happpened quite by mistake. I had, had a miscarriage so my breast were leaking. the person I was dating came over to see how I was feeling. I mentioned to him that my breast were milking and he said that he had always wanted to try that. I removed one of my breast and allowed him to suckle ( I've always had a thing for having them sucked). It ...


1 Comments, 2470 Views, 139 Votes ,5.64 Score
dajokerishuge 37 M
4 Articles
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What about smokers?   3/7/2005

Why is it that the everyday smoker does not have his/her option of discretely acknowledging that they have a hidden pleasure that is a lifestyle in it self? I have not heard a valid reason why it should not be considered a lifestyle choice and given the ability to know whether or not someone will match them more completely. Is there any hope of change?......


0 Comments, 374 Views, 10 Votes ,1.19 Score
Baby Do you have A Hard Limit?   3/1/2005

Ok Ok, so it's a bad start to an important subject but hey, I'm a lecturer and a Dom. What do you expect? lol <br> Seriously though, you need to have thought out a "Hard Limit" list, i.e. a list of things that you simply do not wish to participate in. It's not all that difficult to write, and for your own sake and the sake of your Dom/me you should have it. Remember - anything ...


1 Comments, 370 Views, 13 Votes ,4.82 Score
S_she_S 49 F
36 Articles
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Thoughts of a sub, the response from the Dominant   2/6/2005

When I first saw you weeks back. I knew then I had to have you. The want and desire was strong. But not until I was within inches of you, feeling your heat radiating out, smelling the faint and underlying aroma of lust and need from you, was my control sorely tested as it has not been in so many years. While sitting talking to the people last night you passed and grazed your nails across my ...


0 Comments, 346 Views, 13 Votes ,6.00 Score
S_she_S 49 F
36 Articles
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Thoughts of a sub   2/6/2005

I sat here last night, thinking, always thinking, about what would happen if you, or I lost control and started to explore... Being that I crave your touch so badly, and you crave touching me so badly, beyond, for both of us, the comfortable yet tragically torturous yet.... So much needed caresses, mostly in passing or out of the habit of just what felt right at the time...But I so ...


0 Comments, 198 Views, 9 Votes ,5.14 Score
AcidSpikes 31 M
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question   2/1/2005

is it alright not to want any thing like for example i was laying in bed naked and my gf( at the time ) came over got naked to but we didnt do any thing i mean i didnt mind cause i have always thought as long as i get time with her im happy well im not so sure now she said thats what she wanted and stuff and she liked doing that well i found out that she started to get it some where else so ...


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ANOTHERSANTA 89 M
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"SANTA!^^I'M PREGNANT^^!"   1/25/2005

SANTA{DATELINE]PREGNANT?Dont.blameMe SNOW-WHITE;SANTA I'm still 5'-8" I was.118#(size 3 or 5)andwore, tight fitting jeans and.miniskirts. Now I weigh 163#(size 12 or 14), I've accepted my new figure but, my husband, Prince Charming hasn't. He continues to buy me expemive clothes (size 5), telling me to set them aside untl I can fit in them agan. Can I get my husband and ...


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ANOTHERSANTA 89 M
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SANTA;#1-LOOKOUT^SLAYAGE.TV(BuffyVamp.Slayerwebsite)   1/24/2005

SANTA[DEADLINE]Stake^TheUndead"Buffy SECRETSANTA;Rhonda Wilcoxis.finding out what is behind Buffy's Vampire' Sayer's Punch! "I was there from the first season , the name was goofy, it had to be really good or horrible, "said Rhonda , a professor of English at Gordon college in Geeorgia. The show.was.created.by.JossWhedon, and began ...


0 Comments, 39 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
ANOTHERSANTA 89 M
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"SANTA'S.HIDEAWAY.USE.TO.BE.CASTLEDRACULA?"   1/23/2005

SANTA[DEADLINE]FORRENT.DRAC.HIDEAWAY Nestled deep in the scenic heartof a Transylvania setting. All rooms have CountDrac.-sized beds. Room service is an extra monthly charge, with hot and cold maidenhead service at no extra charge if you choose to change the blood, semen streaked bed linen nightly. nurafora9cent ourly fee. Stay inour.moseleum like luxury suites, guaanteed vermin and ...


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ANOTHERSANTA 89 M
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"SANTA,What's.Grandpa.doing.in Iraq[War?]"   1/20/2005

SANTA[Deadline]Mosul, iraq, BaseCamp: SECRETSANATA was not aware that the government had resorted to pull- out all the stops and, recalling 50yr and older ex-GIs, such as Major John Nelson for duty in Iraq. He says he doesn't mind the troops under him calling him "Grandpa" and "Dad", and after all they are"whipper-snappers" in their 20's and he's 51. SANTA; has learned the ...


0 Comments, 61 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
ANOTHERSANTA 89 M
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"SANTA IF I WAS PRESIDENT I'D..."(AconcernedTeen)   1/19/2005

SANTA[DEADLINE]Freedoms.answer.ATeen SECRETSANTA.asked.severalteen-agers before and after the lastRe-election of The"PREZ", a simple questsion, what they'd do if they were President? Emily N., 18, of Tampa, Florida said- "When I am President I will remember several thing like;Reember what it was like to live with 2 hard working parents.eking out a living day by day, Remember In ...


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ANOTHERSANTA 89 M
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SANTA;"PREZ"^GEO.W.BUSH^AGENDA.2005:   1/17/2005

SANTA[DEADLINE]WASH, D.C."PREZ": SECRETSANTA;Both Federal and Local Govermnts will get tougher agressing individual rights, (that's.unprovok- ed). The machinery to implement exe- cutive Order Woman 490 which gives the President power to do any thing he deems neccessary for the welfare of the nation, which includes the destruction of all currency in the United States, and probably ...


0 Comments, 78 Views, 1 Votes
Miss_Nikki 43 F
5 Articles
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Learning Consequences   1/13/2005

THE PUNISHMENT <br> It was a deliberate attempt on my part to disobey my Princess. She had expressly forbidden this unhealthy type of activity and i, without much thought, had decided to do it. W/we had gone to supper, and had come home to my apartment. i excused myself, and 15 minutes later, She had walked in on me. Her eyes bore through my like daggers made of ice and ...


0 Comments, 681 Views, 34 Votes ,6.92 Score
heyyyyyyyyyy   1/4/2005

to paintbrushAdrift:you r so sexy and attractive, i like <br> u.


0 Comments, 105 Views, 8 Votes
phil56 62 M
11 Articles
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Need a woman.s advice   12/30/2004

First, Do women like men who are hairy or shaved? During the seventies and early eighties, it was "macho" if you were hairy, now I hear women say they like a man who is smooth. I see this often when gay guys are looking, but what about women? I was hairy (being Italian), but I have since shaved smooth, except the hair on my head)(the big one).Second, does size matter? I hear conflicting ...


3 Comments, 253 Views, 7 Votes ,2.28 Score
phil56 62 M
11 Articles
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Finding a Dom or Sub   12/30/2004

A place where you can have fun and possibly find what you are looking for, is at the New York Renisance Faire.There is the dramatic and romantic side to be satisfied here, as well as a hugh collection of people in leather and spandex, as well as women laced up in corsets. I am sure amongst some of those in costume are those living in the "alternate" lifestyle. If you have never been ...


0 Comments, 131 Views, 7 Votes ,2.02 Score
native_icon 67 M
5 Articles
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In The Beginning   12/23/2004

Many people have 2 lives. In the real world, they may be straight ordinary people and go about their straight ordinary day. Maybe even I am one of those people. who knows. <br> In here, we can be want we want to be. When we meet others, they only know the us that is here in this online family. <br> So when and how would one incorporate the two lives without disrupting ...


0 Comments, 276 Views, 28 Votes ,2.01 Score
R diamonds a girls best friend   12/21/2004

Can wealth and diamonds realy fill the void in someones (a dommes) soul. i think NOT! i think the jewels will keep the domme entertained for a while, not very long though...it cant compare the true power exchange...in my life, i believe in the power exchange, i have lived it. can anything else even compare? how long will it take her to venture out and find the one thing that does make her ...


0 Comments, 240 Views, 32 Votes ,1.74 Score
nikki_smiles 43 F
2 Articles
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If you really want to WOW your girl....   12/19/2004

I swear if you do this you will have her (or him) forever!!! <br> Purchase a dozen roses, go to your local arts and crafts store and purchase one silk rose. (You can get them looking so real!) Take one of the real roses out of the vase and place on her pillow. Add the silk rose into the middle of the 11 remaining roses. (Cut silk stem down if rose doesnt completely match, that way ...


1 Comments, 493 Views, 53 Votes ,5.59 Score
DarkDesiresNYC 51 C
2 Articles
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The Perfect Master - Misconception and Resolution   12/16/2004

Hello, <br> We thought that you might enjoy a short essay that we recently wrote. Any comments are welcome! <br> Happy holidays! Sir Eric <br> <br> The Perfect Master – Misconception and Resolution* <br> "You, the Master, are in charge and in control. You own the responsibility of your property - whether it is real estate, slaves or your ...


2 Comments, 408 Views, 32 Votes ,4.27 Score
jeszabelle83 40 F
4 Articles
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Begining...need advice   12/11/2004

I have been living with a man for almost 2 months now and care for him very much. I am quite submissive by nature and I am starting to see that he is a natural Dom type. We have great sex, stimulating conversation, and generally get along well with each other. My problem is that i do not know how to start a discussion about the Dominant and submissive rolls we are each already playing ...


5 Comments, 268 Views, 30 Votes ,4.02 Score
Sandy55555 68 F
2 Articles
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David, Will You Hurry Up And Please Me?   11/28/2004

He was just as needy as I and things seemed okay because we had stayed in touch and at least we had an understanding. Trust was there, on both side, to do the right thing. That is what is so magnificent about him, his sense of right and wrong plus a sensitive side, and the pure strength of his convictions. I enjoyed him sharing his sensitivity, which I am sure he sees as a weakness. On the ...


0 Comments, 257 Views, 44 Votes ,8.06 Score
magnon101 55 M
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HI   11/19/2004

I just create a new group at egypt area and i invite you all to join it.


0 Comments, 34 Views, 7 Votes ,3.80 Score
VABDSMCOUPLE 53 C
1 Article
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wen love play   11/19/2004

and want to hear from thers who didg this


1 Comments, 137 Views, 22 Votes
mistress_moyra 50 F
4 Articles
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From first chat to collaring   11/15/2004

Dear men, <br> Dominant or submissive, Master or slave, I believe there are a few things you need to know if you haven't figured them out all ready. <br> Level 1: If you are trying to start a relationship on Alt.com or any other BDSM site, firstly knock it off with the cock shots! Do you seriously think this is what is going to turn a Woman on (I'm sorry, but I ...


3 Comments, 442 Views, 182 Votes ,7.92 Score
love letter to my girlfriend   10/9/2004

Copy love letter to bambi Baby ive missed you so much ! its been so long since ive held you in my arms, I m looking forward to hold to you again, ,I remember our first kiss so soft and sensous and after I kissed your mouth was still opan ready for more so I kissed you again and you made sweet sound, so I tongue kissed you but you weren’t ready for that , just sweet sensous kiss, ,, mm it ...


1 Comments, 82 Views, 9 Votes ,3.21 Score
Paul_Cuddles 71 M
1 Article
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What a lucky guy I was   10/5/2004

I have been in a long term relationship and regretfully my partner died on June 2nd 2002. I met him when I was 15 and he was 40 and we had the most wonderful life together in a totally monogamous relationship for 40 years. When I was 20 I came to live with him and we had lived together in true harmony and love for those 35 years. We did not have much to do with the gay scene and we hated gay bars ...


0 Comments, 80 Views, 7 Votes ,5.33 Score
ratormo 45 M
4 Articles
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youngman/olderwoman   9/15/2004

I am a youngman and I am interested to date older women. Call it a fetish, but I really think that older women has a lot to offer compare to younger women. Here's a few : 1. OLDER WOMEN MORE CONFIDENT - THEY KNOW WHAT THEY WANT, WHETHER IT'S SEX OR COMPANIONSHIP. <br> <br> 2. OLDER WOMEN ARE FINANCIALLY STABLE - THEY DON'T DEPEND ON A MAN TO PAY FOR THEM, THAT MEANS ...


0 Comments, 89 Views, 7 Votes ,1.00 Score
IrishPrincess4 56 F
13 Articles
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Repy to Protocals   9/14/2004

Dearest Untamedspirit <br> Men will be men, however maybe the Dom/Master's you are finding yourself getting involved with are more of a polyarmorous mindset. If so, I suggest you have them read "Polyamory, The New Love Without Limits" book so they understand that it works both ways. <br> Nothing wrong with experiementing, as long is one is doing so safely and ...


0 Comments, 87 Views, 4 Votes ,5.57 Score
RE: The importance of sex in a relationship   8/27/2004

Sex is not the primary reason or motivation for a relationship, but within this lifestyle, sex does play an important part alongside the psychological and emotional well-being. Not all sex is intercourse/copulation! <br> Sex takes many forms from self and mutual stimulation to masturbation onto play and onwards. Many people are sexually fulfilled without intercourse and the sex ...


0 Comments, 49 Views, 29 Votes ,6.55 Score
YendorB 49 C
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Just a little not from a friend   8/25/2004

On Monday she gave each student his or her list. Before long, the entire class was smiling. "Really?" she heard whispered. "I never knew that I meant anything to anyone!" and, "I didn't know others liked me so much." were most of the comments. <br> No one ever mentioned those papers in class again. She never knew if they discussed them after class or with their ...


0 Comments, 79 Views, 23 Votes ,5.58 Score
Giantdom71 47 M
2 Articles
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How long is a peice of rope?   8/3/2004

It seems to me that everyone is rushing aboput in their daily lives. Is speed the essence of living? I believe that when entering into a bdsm relationship, that he time taklen to get to know yourself and that of your partner is crucial. If not enough time is taken to self acknowledge your feelings emotions, fantasies, etc then how can you be truthful and open with your partner? My ...


1 Comments, 51 Views, 22 Votes ,6.37 Score
Kaysler 35 M
5 Articles
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Stay on your toes.   8/3/2004

Relationships are in our hard-wired nature. Fourtunatly or unfourtunatly, however you care to see it. I am a young writter, but I have learned my fare share already. I also relize there is much still left to learn. Being the kind person I am I am going to share one of my harder learned lessons in relationship construction. Trust is something we all know we need in a relationship, ...


0 Comments, 229 Views, 17 Votes ,6.38 Score
intriqe89 47 M
4 Articles
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Confession   7/20/2004

Two women came into my life the same time about ten years ago. One I had had fantasies about all through high school, 4 years before. She could be elegant or sultry. She had that rare ability to be sophisticated and untouchable or come across as a disheveled wanton slut. Her personality was playful yet restrained and proper. I got the feeling she would never go against the rules or ...


0 Comments, 126 Views, 24 Votes ,6.20 Score
bigrock2350 45 M
1 Article
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The importance of sex in a relationship   7/16/2004

Is sex really that important in a relationship. I know that we That way the realtionship leave you nothing to desire.


0 Comments, 42 Views, 23 Votes ,2.89 Score
jeszabelle83 40 F
4 Articles
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race is an issue   7/13/2004

I am a young white woman who recently started seeing a black man and I am shocked by the reactions I have gotten from some people. He treats me very well and I enjoy being with him so why do some of my "friends" have a problem with him? I have heard enough nigger jokes in the last couple weeks to make me puke, and often they are from people who claim not to be racist. I know some people ...


1 Comments, 130 Views, 28 Votes ,6.73 Score
IrishPrincess4 56 F
13 Articles
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Response to Girlfriend from Hell   7/11/2004

Just read your article about your 16 year old "bitchy" girlfriend. Although 6 years is not a big year difference, your maturity levels are. Maybe it's time to move on to someone a little closer to your own age. 16 year old girls are known for their "bitchiness", you didn't know that?


0 Comments, 52 Views, 13 Votes ,6.50 Score
Malamasub 61 F
3 Articles
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Relationship Preventive Maintenance   7/9/2004

My hope is this text of information will aid people in their communications with other’s be it vanilla or in the D/s bdsm lifestyle to prevent needless and unneccessary hardships from interfering with their relationships. <br> I am speaking from personal observation and experience. <br> Integrity, in my opinion, is a key to life without regrets. Trust, is the ...


0 Comments, 78 Views, 11 Votes ,5.78 Score
daves_kat 36 F
1 Article
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reply to: how to say she's beautiful   7/5/2004

If it please you Sir. To tell a woman she is beautiful is nothing. But to show it, that is what matters. Hear it frim a woman. When you tell awoman she is beautiful and that you like to sleep on her boobs she talkes it at face value. When you take a nice long look at another woman passing by on the street you just erased your past 5 compliments. You must let it show that she is hot. If you ...


1 Comments, 647 Views, 97 Votes ,7.94 Score
masternslutsub 62 C
26 Articles
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B honest   6/26/2004

PLease when u meet someone new just b urself and honest. If u want to build its best way to start. Dont b something ur not........


0 Comments, 31 Views, 15 Votes ,6.35 Score
re: Wondering what to do   6/26/2004

I guess it all depends on where Y/you live, and how outgoing Y/you are. How about a visit to a club? Let Him watch what O/others do...maybe give a few pointers about what you would like. Failing that, how about a Munch? General discussion can help O/one to relax more regarding their feelings. If circumstances do not allow for these activities, why not suggest that He looks for an ...


0 Comments, 33 Views, 6 Votes ,5.64 Score
Ms__Darlin 63 F
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RE:Long Distance.   5/31/2004

Of course ...anything you want to make work, will work. I have been in a relationship with a sub that lives 2 1/2 hours from Me. We get together several weekends a month. (usually) and vacation together. Is it easy? No, it would be a lot easier if we could live together, but for now, we can't. When it is meant to be ...it will be and trust Me, worth every hour on the road. Enjoy ...


0 Comments, 71 Views, 18 Votes ,5.85 Score
fabiosmart1 68 M
2 Articles
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How to built a relationship for Standard Member   5/26/2004

At this time I haven't seen any member, but only very few profiles without photo. The only one thing that I can do is to receive winks (none for now) or see the album of my friend. <br> I seems a little few after severla days of navigation on this site. I think that should be better to adopt the method of FriendFinder, where is possible to see all people, but contact only the ...


0 Comments, 35 Views, 31 Votes ,3.53 Score
Kent_Couple2003 43 C
2 Articles
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Anyone Want a Threesum With a Bi couple ?   5/24/2004

Hi everyone, Our names are Michelle & Chris were 21/F & 28/M from kent england. Were looking for anyone who would be up for a threesum with us ?


0 Comments, 62 Views, 20 Votes ,5.93 Score
unknown_guy17 33 M
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re: no strings   5/18/2004

i totally agree w/ u. wmoen just play mind games. its kinda freaky actually


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Ropeaholic 54 F
2 Articles
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Dommes--take a break now and then!   5/15/2004

I'm a lesbian domme. I'm a hardass, with strict protocol, and my submissive and I are always in role. I plan elaborate scenes, and we play very very hard. <br> Last weekend, she asked to take me out on a vanilla date. She asked that we be out of role. I protested a bit for the fun of it, then accepted. <br> That Saturday morning, I received a dozen roses. Then, when ...


1 Comments, 122 Views, 22 Votes ,7.45 Score
Spankmaster42 57 M
6 Articles
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Every hour - on the hour   5/5/2004

Every hour, on the hour... <br> Having been really excited since You said You were coming to see me, i did all the usual preparations then selected a blouse and a skirt, thinking the shortest would be good… then waited. <br> The phone sang out a text… i removed my necklace and added the cuffs… ready… unable to settle… then it was coffee time, and soon after ...


0 Comments, 140 Views, 24 Votes ,6.65 Score
bidomlaura1983 35 F
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build it with fun Larry`s house is a mile in the sticks so it is secluded and   5/2/2004

I seem to love a guy in drag and all tied up. Is it cruel to make my boyfriend like that or is it a way of turning him on while I have total control?


0 Comments, 64 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
Xantho6969 60 M
2 Articles
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What do Women like???   5/1/2004

Ladies, when us guys post pic's what do you like to see???? I would love to know <br> X


0 Comments, 39 Views, 26 Votes ,4.00 Score
master_anguish 46 M
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Hard to find a mate   4/14/2004

I know this might sound like whinning, but is it getting harder to find someone that is compatible with you, specially if they are not in the same area? <br> It seems that we want relationships but aren't willing to make sacrafices (relocation, change in status, etc.). Maybe I am wrong but what is the opiion of you guys?


0 Comments, 43 Views, 15 Votes ,4.97 Score
TheSorceress 54 F
3 Articles
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Building a Serious Relationship   3/23/2004

I've recently started coming back out of My sabbatical. That's a polite way of saying I was licking My wounds and now I think I've found out why so M/many come back. After the last time I got "burned", I swore I'd never return to seeking My one and only sub/slave. But I'm hoping that I am making some headway. I can understand why so M/many of My past F/friends have left. T/they felt ...


0 Comments, 263 Views, 70 Votes ,8.61 Score
topman2004 55 M
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In the beginning   2/10/2004

It was evening, a hot sweaty summer night in July. She was nervous, scared but inspired. She would finally speak the things that she dared not speak before. A desire to submit, a desire to be owned and taken over, it scared her to death, she always had been dominate. She needed the control to feel safe, she needed the security of being on top in every situation. She was sick of the ...


0 Comments, 55 Views, 27 Votes ,3.77 Score
Power2Burn 47 M
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Less is More   2/6/2004

My submissive needed some space, we're still a new couple, still learning and growing together. So now I'm finding myself remembering her face, her touch, those smiles and even her little pouts that I've grown so fond of over the past few months. At present we live apart, we each have full lives apart and when we're together it's very inclusive of the other. I've always been demanding, ...


0 Comments, 70 Views, 70 Votes ,9.06 Score
BeauKink 67 M
9 Articles
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P:ower exchange level two: restricted ongoing acquiescence   1/29/2004

Here, the agreement to play casually is extended. The playmates are agreeing in a spirit of mutual respect to continue to perform limited physical activites and/or limited role play together to the satisfaction of feach person's own needs. Neither is expected to perform any activity that does not give him/her pleasure or does not enhance his/her own fantasy. As an ongoing relationship, ...


0 Comments, 66 Views, 63 Votes ,8.09 Score
BeauKink 67 M
9 Articles
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Power exchange level three: provisional submission   1/29/2004

This relationship is characterized by sincere concern for the other's welfare and genuine fondness. Each partner is willing to devote some time and energy to satisfying the other's emotional and sexual needs. <br> Trust level: Each partner has made a genuine effort to understand the needs and motivations of the other. The submissive will not have any real emotional ...


0 Comments, 70 Views, 36 Votes ,8.33 Score
BeauKink 67 M
9 Articles
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Power exchange level four: The covenant of dominance and submission   1/29/2004

This relationship is characterized by deep emotional involvement and mutual devotion. Each partner desires to satisfy the other's emotional and sexual needs. Frequently, the dom and sub have fallen in love. They have entered a symbtiotic relationship. In some relationships, daily life retains some, or quite a bit, of the dom/sub flavor of the bedroom or parlor. "Master" is no longer ...


0 Comments, 76 Views, 102 Votes ,8.87 Score
BeauKink 67 M
9 Articles
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Power exchange level five: absolute ownership   1/29/2004

This relationship is characterized by the submissive's total adoration and obedience to her Master. The Master is the most important person in the slave's life. The desire by the sub to give obedience, deference, and deep devotion is absolute and constant. <br> Trust level: The slave maintains the conviction that decisions made by her Master are never to be questioned. There ...


0 Comments, 115 Views, 106 Votes ,8.15 Score
BeauKink 67 M
9 Articles
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Power exchange level one: conditional compliance   1/22/2004

This is an agreement to play casually (do a scene, or a set of scenes druing a weekend), the SM equivalent of a one night stand. The playmates are agreeing in a spirit of mutual respect to perform limited physical activities or role play together to the satisfaction of their own needs. Neither person is expected to perform any activity that does not give him/her pleasure or that does not ...


0 Comments, 49 Views, 47 Votes ,8.02 Score
MPCouple 64,1963 C
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When The Dominant Becomes Gravely Ill   11/17/2003

I have been enjoying the total power exchange for 20 plus years with girlfriends, renters, other slaves and wives. I had prepared for the day by not totally destroying the slave’s own fire as some desire but to control her. Besides I like the ones with “fire” not the ones who are so totally submissive that you have to tell them everything. I did that when younger and found out it ...


0 Comments, 783 Views, 95 Votes ,8.42 Score
Spankmaster42 57 M
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yvonne - diary entry 3   11/12/2003

Saturday 11th October 2003 <br> Wow… yvonne came round this afternoon… i love her visits now, though i still get nervous… i can’t believe she wants to do those things with me… but i’m not complaining… and Master says its okay so no worries… i have to get permission off Him though and that means He speaks to Yvonne too before the meetings and lets her know what ...


0 Comments, 123 Views, 21 Votes ,7.58 Score
penni4yrthts2 59 F
7 Articles
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Sweetsubbies' New Friends   11/9/2003

I was sent an email almost two months ago. Initially, I refused because I did not wish to partake with a Master/slave couple. But the slave encouraged the Master to send another email. That is where it began. We developed a friendship by emails and then by phone and last weekend, I drove three hours to meet her and to be a surprise for her Master. It was one of the best weekends I have ...


0 Comments, 168 Views, 20 Votes ,7.21 Score
Spankmaster42 57 M
6 Articles
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yvonne - the return visit   10/30/2003

Where do i begin? Goodness… the last time i saw yvonne was the time when we, well, explored each other… i’ve been too embarrassed since then to pick up the phone and call her, and even put her on block on msn… its been over a week now… but then she phoned me last night to invite me round today. i had no excuse to not go, and to be honest i wanted to see her again, just to see if ...


0 Comments, 145 Views, 36 Votes ,7.81 Score
yummymummy 61 F
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an offering to the internet gods   10/14/2003

One day in a moment of great emotion with my Master i uttered the words, “i wish i could give up an offering to the internet gods to thank them!’ my Master thought about this and then told me that i could do just that by writing an account of “the story so far” and posting it as an article on alt.com for all to see. This is that account. <br> <br> my story begins ...


1 Comments, 111 Views, 27 Votes ,7.76 Score
bondbaby 51 F
2 Articles
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Sweet Submission   7/22/2003

Flickering candle glow highlights the swirls of cigar smoke dancing in the warm air above the bed. Sweet sighs and moans melody the night. Her moist, soft sex exsposed at his firm command, "spread them Baby"....a dark and velvet hand encourages her to obey as his grip tightens around her ivory neck. Her eyes wait for breath as she trusts in his timely mercy. All her desires are ...


0 Comments, 92 Views, 60 Votes ,7.28 Score
sexyLT 48 F
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You took me where I thought I would never want to go !!!   4/30/2003

Well Dear you took me to a place I never thought I wanted to go … The first night after finding out that you had been with someone else on a date, you took me out to meet some friends then you took me home with you and you took me to a new level of pleasure. You laid me on the bed and started like always kissing me and caressing me, then you let go. You started pinching my ...


1 Comments, 126 Views, 73 Votes ,5.34 Score
2-16-03   2/16/2003

here i am before you naked in your eyes hoping with each kiss you would never see through my disguise i had been made to believe that no one colud love me for me the good and the bad first to the last no matter the cost no matter the past your eyes only see what they wanna see your heart makes the truth that you wanna believe passion just fade to xtacy you cant walk away from love...loving ...


0 Comments, 82 Views, 31 Votes ,5.16 Score
hope you find this one   1/22/2003

I'm sure if you this for you will know its meant for you. What is this we have done to eachother, I know im one misrebalble being without you in my life, can't help it miss what we had. Yes, ive made many mistakes and yes they have been corrected. I nstand tall and proud, just need you at my side, "my better half, my stronger half". I need my cubs to share our accomplishments. Everything ...


0 Comments, 80 Views, 30 Votes ,0.30 Score
My Awakening as her slave....   1/19/2003

I am a slave ....a born slave. She knew that the minute she laid eyes on me, for she was a Domme. The mere sight of this creature made my head just bow, for the first time I felt the need to serve. She introduced me to this lifestyle, she hinted...let me find my way. She is my Queen. I wasn't fit emotionally to serve such a superior being. I needed to earn her approval. My unstability at ...


0 Comments, 136 Views, 54 Votes ,2.97 Score
My Public Apology   1/16/2003

Need to apologize, for alot. See ive made terrible mistakes, for fear...fear of myself. Ive done alot of growing...thanks to you and thanks to who have shown me I am. Maybe it was a dream. It was an honest dream. I knew id make it up to you and if you let me ill show you. Yes I snap, but, you like it that way...you pull the right string and stad the same wound. I will always be yours, for ...


0 Comments, 216 Views, 45 Votes ,2.50 Score
I have loved!!!   1/15/2003

Yes, I have loved you, do I understand you?....some Do I love you? Yes, theres not a doubt in my mind. To love one is to give them time to grow, yes, I have grown. I told you I was proud of you, some yes, alot no! I thought you were different, perhaps, so was I. I wish you happiness, a waterfront property! For me its my family, you and my cubs. I guess we screwed up and ofcourse were ...


0 Comments, 73 Views, 18 Votes ,2.03 Score
I Have Loved   1/14/2003

Yes I have loved you, do I understand you?.....some Do I love you? Yes!! theres not a doubt in mind! To love one is to give them time to grow, thats what I have done. Darling, how I've grown. I told you I was proud of you, Some yes, allot no. I thought you were different, perhaps, so was I I wish you happiness, a waterfront property, Mine is my family, you and my cubs. I guess ...


0 Comments, 90 Views, 9 Votes ,4.49 Score
marking her as mine   1/6/2003

we had hung out a few times, to see if we clicked, but when we decided it was a go, i wanted to make a good first impression. i had to leave for work so time was short, after touching and kissing on her sofer, i commanded her to her bedroom, i had her remove her shirt and lie face down on the bed. I walked around her and started rubbing her shoulders and back, and carressing her hair.With ...


0 Comments, 118 Views, 71 Votes ,1.92 Score
_One_x2 44 C
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Searching for the my best slave   12/9/2002

There are things outside, in the world, that are timeless. Lessons are taught with experiences while discovering facts. There comes a time when we realize that if the only tool you are conscious of is a screw driver than the whole universe must be a screw ready to be screwed or unscrewed. Finding we are only tightening or loosening ourselves as well. Than we move along and glean a glimpse ...


0 Comments, 281 Views, 31 Votes ,6.79 Score
gintonik46 63 F
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You Should Not Give Away That Which You Value!   10/31/2002

I am very curious as to the reasoning for a Dom who insists on sharing his sub with his friends or/and animals. Why? When a submissive gives their all to a Dom/Master it is one very big deal! To trust another with your heart is giving a lot but to trust another with your physical safety, to let them have the power to advise you, to punish you and to use you at their will is an incredible ...


0 Comments, 179 Views, 165 Votes ,9.13 Score
ntxd4s 62 M
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What is a submissive?   4/17/2002

Are you really submissive? the person submitting the profile says he/she is dominant. You reply saying you are submissive. You exchange a few emails and the dominant learns that when you say you are submissive, you mean, you like sexual intercourse from the standpoint of being the bottom. The person writing you disappears. You wonder why. The answer is that being bottom does not make ...


5 Comments, 2199 Views, 314 Votes ,5.92 Score