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Jag_60 60 M
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Rebound Romances   7/19/2018

After talking for mpnths and negotiating limits and who would host the scene, suddenly she disappears and communication ceases. Two weeks I get a urgent message notifying me, she met someone, but was not what she was seeking. I was more shocked when she cordially asked were we still meeting. I dont have a lot lf hard limits, but I do not encourage submissives who are disrespectful to their Dom by ...


2 Comments, 43 Views, 4 Votes ,4.80 Score
Jag_60 60 M
84 Articles
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Sobriety or your submission.   7/9/2018

If you found the perfect Dom or Domme, would you still shower him/her with your servitude if he/she were an alcoholic or would you just say no. Alcoholism is considered a disease and would you think you would be abandoning your one, if you did not stick with them on their journey to recovery or would you just say no. In general alcoholics want what they want, when they want it and would you be ...


2 Comments, 23 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
Jag_60 60 M
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Help   7/5/2018

Sorry members having problems posting here and elsewhere on the site, and alt is of know help in fixing the glitch.


1 Comments, 5 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
multipurposegirl 33 F
3 Articles
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why does no mean my loss   2/18/2018

why does no mean my loss


9 Comments, 66 Views, 11 Votes ,4.10 Score
multipurposegirl 33 F
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why does no mean yes   2/18/2018

why does no mean yes


3 Comments, 53 Views, 5 Votes ,3.14 Score
blkgrp2007 43 G
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Gay/Bi Men   9/24/2017

At what point to you get rude with the pushy gay men? i usually just give a simple No Thanks.. But some just can't take NO... I'm sure the women deal with this all the time. Thanks


0 Comments, 31 Views, 8 Votes ,3.48 Score
Polite rejection   3/11/2017

Have never suffered with too much ill feeling over being rejected, although do how the arrogance of how some deliver it. Currently if I want to tell someone they are not my type, I have found that it softens it or puts it into perspective to say that they are simply not my 'flavour'. Wondering if that sounds crass? but it seems to make sense to me. Sound like Volvo's some like Porches, some like ...


3 Comments, 45 Views, 12 Votes ,5.10 Score
masterfull40 52 M
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Safe Word   1/11/2017

Do you think its best as a submissive and a dom to always agree on a safe word, before things progress?


4 Comments, 41 Views, 11 Votes ,4.48 Score
How do people not understand?   12/9/2016

I've been with so many people in the past that their partners never understand a simple stop. I understand during BDSM to need to ask if they actually want you to stop (sincerely) since it could be part of the play, but I'll never understand why some people just can't... GAH


1 Comments, 32 Views, 6 Votes ,3.65 Score
Should I just walk away?   7/14/2016

In the beginning, it was agreed upon "no permanent marking". Writing with a sharpie, fine, some bruising/redness, no issue. Two days ago, I'm informed that next week I'm to get my nipples pierced. So Master can attach weights and enjoy the look. He also wants my clit pierced after my nipples are healed. I'm bout okay with this, because I file that under permanent marking. I informed him of this, ...


13 Comments, 157 Views, 21 Votes ,4.86 Score
SirStephen08 53 M
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Manners?   2/6/2016

Why is it that some people simply don't employ them?

Doesn't cost anything, what's the problem?


12 Comments, 71 Views, 16 Votes ,5.77 Score
SirStephen08 53 M
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Safe Sane Consensual   2/1/2016

If you cannot bring yourself to say NO.

If you cannot accept hearing NO. (& comply with it).

You should not be involved with anyone. You are dangerous.

Seek help. Learn.


4 Comments, 43 Views, 11 Votes ,5.97 Score
hailey4daddy 37 T
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Why do men think they can verbally assault anyone that identifies themselves as a sub?   12/27/2015

Maybe some like it but I don't think "come hear you dumb cum slut." is a great way of starting a conversation. Why would anyone respond to that? I've been nice enough to ignore and not reTALIATE OR report these individuals who believe being dominate means being a jerk, confrontational or just plain rude. Anyone else have comments about this. How would you handle it?


5 Comments, 76 Views, 10 Votes ,6.17 Score
salesman58 60 M
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seems easy but...   12/14/2015

Wish I had the chance to say no to some of the ladies here, but more often is men looking for another man that do not take NO very easily. Why don't some read profiles?


2 Comments, 35 Views, 12 Votes ,4.39 Score
MissLoveParty1 37 F
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Not Interested   4/16/2015

What do you think is the best way to tell someone you're not interested? Especially if it's someone that you probably will see somewhere and don't want an awkward situation?


8 Comments, 116 Views, 15 Votes ,4.36 Score
woodboy1981 38 M
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why?   1/28/2009

If i told somebody no thanks already and keep asking me for sex? what can i do? that peson dont leave me alone. and im sick of it.i dont like to use violence or be rude with people but at this point i feel like if im gonna exploid.


3 Comments, 89 Views, 7 Votes ,2.79 Score
soulstrands 61 F
3 Articles
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The Sun, the Moon and the Stars, and I said no thank you   11/28/2008

I was recently approached by a Dominant that offered me potentially everything. Several homes in amazing locations, a connection to nature and life around them, boats, cars, lake, city, prestige, a private dungeon, freedom to spend, shop, primp, live what could be seen as the life of Riley.

His letters to me were so far and away from the norm I receive, they caught my attention and ...


11 Comments, 444 Views, 27 Votes ,6.29 Score
SirPain_Sadist 67 M
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Subs and no thanks   7/3/2008

Some subs seem to think that they have no right to refuse a Dom/Master/Mistress. They are unaware that they are not automatically property when a Dom talks to them. When a Dom does talk to them, they should take the time to listen VERY carefully to what he is saying. Be sure you understand what it is that the Dom is asking of you. Be sure that the Dom is offering what you seek. When you do ...


2 Comments, 218 Views, 27 Votes ,7.55 Score
blueeyedgirl70 48 F
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Already had a problem   5/4/2008

I've been a member here less than 24hrs and I've been extremely polite to each and every response I've recieved yet one member asked for my YM ID after our first email. I politely told him that I don't give out my YM ID's (I leave them off my profile for a reason) as I've had problems on another site in the past. He immediately emailed me back and rudely informed me I must be of lower ...


7 Comments, 360 Views, 30 Votes ,6.67 Score
Maxkat12 47 F
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Life is Short...   11/2/2007

Time is Precious!~

If I don't feel a connection, I don't feel like I should have to explain that.

I DON"T KNOW YOU! Until I do, NO "No Thank You's" coming!

This is the internet, Guys ARE CREEPY! If I get the Creeps from you, You are going to be blocked if you keep bugging me! End of story. call me a bitch, I don't care.


5 Comments, 267 Views, 31 Votes ,3.43 Score
no thanks   3/9/2007

I think it's just being rude not to reply to someone that's taken the time to respond to your profile. ON the other hand there is too many random hits and fake, (maybe people paid by this site) emails that it starts to piss you off. If it's a genuine email I reply each time. There are many ways to say no thanks but the best is thanks for your interest but no thankyou.


2 Comments, 70 Views, 5 Votes ,4.12 Score
norann 47 M
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random hits to your profile   2/13/2007

Anybody else wonder what contributes to some of randome visits to your profile? Of course it is flaterring but curious as well when somoeone for very far away drops by for a look.


7 Comments, 173 Views, 7 Votes ,2.79 Score
tieguy1253 30 M
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Saying no is perfectly acceptable   12/1/2006

Nothing is as maddening as when someone that you've started a diolague with makes you have to figure out that you're never going to meet. It is okay to say no. We've never meet, and probably never will. Don't let me down easy. And please, give a response to an email. Even one of those quick canned ones they offer here. It's frustrating wondering if you've read you mail or not. If ...


0 Comments, 230 Views, 5 Votes ,4.45 Score
29m4perversegal 44 M
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Why people donth bother to reply   11/12/2006

I have often been thinking why people are so lazy when it comes to be polite on the net. Very often when i send someone an email, i dont even get a reply. How hard is it to simply say "no thanks, i am not interested" I know that some get a lots of emails. And of course the women in here maybe get tons of mails, but thats not an excuse to not reply, i mean if they get too many mails than ...


4 Comments, 249 Views, 15 Votes ,5.58 Score
BritishHawk 32 F
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Should I...?   11/9/2006

My "boyfriend", Paul, is very persuasive. Only recently have I finally given into him and had sex, but before that I had to resort to all sorts of excuses to say no. Did I have a good reason? No, not at all. I didn't want to have sex, but then, I was young and didn't know much. Every time Paul suggested it, I would feel embarassed and wonder what to say. My first thought was always, "Should ...


0 Comments, 385 Views, 9 Votes ,3.21 Score
colette77 41 F
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Why do some trolls cant take a rejection   10/21/2006

Ive noticed that most trolls can not take rejection. It makes me question..? Im always polite when someone approaches me but I can get really angry when they keep going on and on... so if this is you.. dont show women that you are desperate it is so unattractive... thank you


2 Comments, 230 Views, 14 Votes ,3.46 Score
Samegutt 45 M
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How to say no to a woman   10/6/2006

I meet this lovely and beautiful woman here on Alt.com. I am ready for sex, in all kind and ways, so was she.., but she was also ready for more; moving togheter in the same apartment etc. She want listening to me, I doesn't want a relationship. How to say "No"..!?


4 Comments, 374 Views, 8 Votes ,3.01 Score
Kaysler 35 M
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Male Obligations   9/23/2006

It seems the more and more I get into the lifestyle the more and more i notice that we (of the lifestyle) have a respect for one another. Top, bottom, male, female, doesn't matter limits are limits. Which is great but since i live in a small area i'm stuck looking for vanallia people to be aroung and date around with, and i think I've noticed that there is a great lack of resect it seems in ...


1 Comments, 159 Views, 5 Votes ,3.80 Score
GoddessKell 50 F
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Dont Take it personal....   6/10/2006

Dont take it personal when you meet someone and the "chemistry" just isnt there. The thing you have to remember is that 99% of the people you meet you wont get along with EVEN if they are physically attractive. The key to finding the right person is knowing that YOU want and need from a potential Dom/me sub/slave and then DONT SETTLE for anything less. When I am meeting someone whom I ...


1 Comments, 143 Views, 9 Votes ,4.07 Score
caiged 44 F
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"Lifestyle Manners 101..   5/24/2006

1. How to introduce Yourself to a perspective subbie/slave? Although the neanderthal approach worked back in the cave man days, it certainly has been updated in recent years a ....Hello and comment on a nice interesting profile will get you a far more amiable responce in the search for your perfect subbie/slave. and general conversation continues as You move towards number 2.
2. ...


1 Comments, 216 Views, 15 Votes ,6.04 Score
SubKrystinka 39 F
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will you be the slave for the rest of my life?NO THANKS   4/29/2006

Why people just dont understand when u refuse them and they are so angry about it.I just dont get it, or maybe i am a little bit stupid hehe


2 Comments, 226 Views, 7 Votes ,3.04 Score
Kelli_sJenn 38 F
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Is It Illiteracy or Just Ignorance?   1/10/2006

The thing is a lot of times, saying "No thanks" doesn't work. Men are particularly clueless. They troll. They stalk. They whine, wheedle, and lie their asses off just for the incomprehensible "flirtation" of showing you a picture of their penis as if that's all the allure someone wants in a relationship. Get some clues, boys! <br> When someone takes the time and makes the ...


3 Comments, 585 Views, 53 Votes ,6.80 Score
JTMRP2 49 M
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Propriety or Prudishness   9/10/2005

When it comes to male on male love....its strictly a matter of personal choice. I mean , most guys have had one or two.......a few or more Homosexual encounters in their time. (and) that is understandable. <br> However, I think a guy has to make some choices...........like- I am a regular Bi-sexual or I make a living fucking other guys -up the ass, (ect. <br> Now, ...


1 Comments, 222 Views, 6 Votes ,2.80 Score
DougErin 51,1940 C
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How to say "No Thanks"   9/9/2005

I've been in a lot of situations where things were offered. Whether its a lap dance or a 3rd helping of pie, when offered and your not interested, I've always found the best answer to be "No Thanks". Its simple and it works. Why do we always try to make life so complicated?


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SweetDenial 61 F
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After I was finished he said no thanks.   7/18/2005

I recently had a man write to me. This was the first e mail to me and this is how I said no in a different way and gave him a taste of his own crudeness. _____________________________________ I'm looking for a bit of help--special help. I'm thinking of having 4 guys over for a poker party but I need a bit of an edge. You could help me with this edge by assuming the role as my hostess ...


5 Comments, 1546 Views, 98 Votes ,8.00 Score
bound_sweetness 60 F
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I try to be respectful   6/30/2005

Even when saying, no thank you, since respect is important. One can not just say 'fuck off' .. well wait, one can but it's entirely rude. Instead i like to point out why i consider the whole effort a complete wash. It's actually a fairly good way of pointing things out if mistakes have been made. Things that people should consider.... i think it helps them in their searches. Sometimes ...


3 Comments, 231 Views, 19 Votes ,5.10 Score
usmcrara123 47 M
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Meeting and Declining Sexual Invitations   6/21/2005

Has anyone ever met anyone off of this site and changed thier mind about having sex with them because of false information or pictures posted on the site?


1 Comments, 569 Views, 15 Votes ,3.13 Score
needlesnpins 33 F
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Masochism without the sex   5/12/2005

I came here looking for someone to get involved in needle play with, not because it arouses me sexually, but because i like the how it feels in a "pain to know you are alive" way. I have been in the community as a voyeur for a year now, and the only thing that i have ever seen and wanted was to be pierced. I came to find a piercing artist who can maybe involve me in a show without going ...


1 Comments, 313 Views, 16 Votes ,2.25 Score
   2005-05-06

"SANTA, can Police seize my cell phone, if we take pictures of our doin's; this weeek-end with Tiffany, Ooopsie, Carmen and me, SANTA?" Just pretend to be 14yr. old, best "nigga-friend" of Tiff.;"DARBY" asked, as she continued to ride SANTA's pony, with girlish enthusiasm. The old Elf chuockled and shook his baldling head, and giving Darby a thank-you pat on her caramel coloured butt, he said. "New Hanover County Judge W.Allen Cobb Jr.Superior Court, in Wilmington, NC, ruled that arresting officers should have obtained a search warrant before viewing images from the camera phone of one Mr.ChristopherSnow, 26. Mr.Snow is charged by Wrightville Beach Police with second-degree sexual-offense and secret peeping-photographic image. A witness told Police that she had seen Mr.Snow taking pictures of an unconscious woman on the beach. An officer activated the phone and retrieved several immages, including one of someone pulling down the woman's underwear. A warrant was obtained the next day, and police contacted Sprint corporate headquarters, that provided copies of seven images including one of the woman's genital area. Judge Cobb wrote "THE SEARCH AND SEIZURE`Did not fall with in any aknowledged exception to the Search Warrant requirement under THE FOURTH AMENDMENT." "WOW, " jiggled just pretend to be 14, Darby. SANTA continued, "Police officers violatedMr.Snow's constitutional rights when they seized a camera-cell phone containing explicit images." "Judge Cobb's finding, could create legal precedant and serve as a reference point for future cases nationwide." [please excuse any typos, no Spell-Checker-will keep readers posted on further cases]


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Rainmaker44 62 M
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It's the same in vanilla...   4/28/2005

Courtesy and thoughtfulness SHOULD BE something that everyone practices, no matter what kind of lifestyle they lead...I will answer each and every message sent to me, whether or not I think we would be compatible...and yet, time after time, I get silence from those that feel we're not compatible...I understand that some people will get idiots messaging them, and they should be treated ...


0 Comments, 140 Views, 10 Votes ,4.58 Score
kinkyemailbird 40 F
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I'm a bit curious   3/10/2005

hey out there I'm not sure if this is the right place for this but can anyone tell me why most men on here seem not to be able to read? now I'm not a man hater, but as my profile states I'm looking for a girl here as, don't take offense, but men are somewhat easier to find in normal everyday life. but I keep getting hounded by pictures of unatractive mens privates and it's starting to ...


4 Comments, 857 Views, 50 Votes ,5.77 Score
eelk694u 65 T
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flakes   2/11/2005

why are there so many dishonest deceitful guys out there? I am very explicity as to what i give and want from a guy. Im a bottom tgirl and say so, but they lie about their desires and only want a BJ. Or they are a half-and-half XDreseer and look awful with their hairy bodies and terrible clothes. Im also through replying to non-photo members. all men are the same - only their ugly faces ...


2 Comments, 473 Views, 27 Votes ,3.56 Score
   2005-02-10

SANTA[DATELINE]PolicingVideoVoyeurs! [The FEDS join the battle against perverts with cameras] JOlene Jang was enjoying an outdoor festival in Seattle withherboyfriend when she felt uneasy by a creepy guy standing too close behind her. He was reaching into her backpack. When she confronted him, the man started to run away, but Jang's boyfriend tackled him and held him until police arrived. A pickpocket? No the man wasn't just a pickpocket he was using a small digital video camera to take pictures up her skirt. Her assailant pleaded that he was just taking the pictures for his own enjoyment. The courts thought different, he was convicted, began serving 38 days for violation of the State Voyeurism Law. However;the WashingtonState Supreme Court, overturned the verdict[Ruling: That Ms.Jang was out in public when it happened, she had no reasonable expectation of privacy.] Furious Ms.Jang became an outspoken activist, and finally the state rewrote the law [The space under a person's clothes private even in a public place.] SANTA has found out that currently 44 states have some kind of statute that makes video voyeurism a crime. A just-passed Federal Law could help sort out the problem of State's Laws with vague wording and First Amendment issues. [It is a crime to secretly photograph anyone onFederal Property or Military Bases.] Ms.Jang says, "I'm still wearing skirts, but i make sure that they're on the longer side." [SANTA says"Excuse.typos.no.SpellChecker."]


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ANOTHERSANTA 89 M
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SANTA;   2/2/2005

SANTA[UnDeadLine]RALEIGH, NC;I'mDead? SANTA.was.reading.Police-Blotter, Funeral-Obituaries, and Autopsy Rep- orts for a new "Article" when he came.across.a.MedlcalExamner's.cause of death:"UNDEAD!"return to Franklin Regional MEdical Ctr.Hospital. A mwdical examiner studying a body in the morgue was taken aback when he saw the man take a short shallow breath. ...


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   2005-02-02

SANTA[DEADLINE]VIDEO.VOYEURISM: "SANTA, What.is.the.most.recentcase of "nonconsensual photograpy" with a video camera?" "That would have to be when Bunny Brunt was shopping at the Norolk Mall, in.Richmond, Va.for.prom.access-ories with her 18-year-old daughter Raquel when she noticed a man waving a.shopping.bag under Raquel's skirt. obviously, if wishing he could see up her skirt, if she were wearing panties, or maybe not, a blind shot of the teen-agers pusse^." "When Mrs.Brunt confronted him, he bolted. After she and another, custom er chased hin down in the Mall. Security found a secret, hidden, video camera vid.cam.in the shopping bag he had used to peer up Raquel's skirt. Arrested, it was found that he had also been up-skirting.several other-teens." "But, because of a loop-hole in Virginia's law, prosecuters were.only able to convict, Jeffrey Swisher of nonconsensual photography, disorderly conduct, to serve 10 DAYS IN JAIL!" inuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu "It's immoral, it's certainly wrong, but under the code, it's just not a writtn offence, "said Delegate John Cosgrove, who is sponsering a bill tyt would close the loophole in Virgina's law. We're trying to tight the code soo some pervert isn't able to up-skirt or down-blouse any one else." Similar effforts have played out across the coountry, as states struggle to to rewoord laws written before the advancement of camers technologyi led to a boom in digital voyeurism. The internet has fueled the erotic explosionof"up-skirt"or"down-blouse" into a search engine, and up to a million of Web sites have popped up. [SANTA is going for a coffee break, if any more of you readers are interested in what one critic of SANTA's Articles called-"SLUDGE"-req est "up-skirts #2]excuse any typos:


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Lady_DvL 63 F
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there was a time   1/18/2005

There was a time I use to answer a polite "no thanks" to all the mails I received (here or elswhere) beeing a woman and a Dominant one generate a lot of asking mails. Use to think I needed a special subcretary to answer all of them but never found the one *S* <br> This took me a enormous amount of time, maybe because I was more than polite and gave a little answer to every mail ...


2 Comments, 393 Views, 24 Votes ,3.93 Score
flash51167 49 M
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ID feel much better   1/10/2005

yes thats right if a person feels the message they recieved was not for them then a simple no thanks would do the trick. By saying no in a responceyou let the other member know that the site is not full of people who just want to show photos of them selves so to all those who respond NO THANKS THANK YOU FLASH51167


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ANOTHERSANTA 89 M
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[Another Santa ARRESTED]Touched.sex.11yr.oldElf:   1/10/2005

[DATELINE]ForestCity;ASantaAressted: AP: A-nother.Santa.was.charged.with .taking taking indecent liberties with one of his girl elfs. Davie.Cty sheriff's.said.that.the11yr.old.girl volunteer.elf.was.touched.inappropr- iately as soon as they left Forest City on the way to his house for a childrens xmas party, after gaining parents permission to travel with Santa. ...


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sweetdarkluv 59 M
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Time to be polite.   11/16/2004

I believe that any well mannered person has the time to be polite. Of course standard members are restricted to the number of emails they can answer. I understand that. Anyone who writes me gets a reply even if it is no thank you. I appreciate that people here are reaching out to people they feel may be kindred spirits. Take heart my fellow rejectees. Somebody's looking for somebody like ...


0 Comments, 94 Views, 30 Votes ,6.18 Score
NewestFlavor 58 F
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Sometimes it's just not worth it!   11/15/2004

I used to take the time to say no politely and it usualy ends up in the other person getting hostile over being rejected. If someone is across the country or IN another country I don't see the point of answering. It's silly to me and I don't have the time to be honest. Don't take it personally! Just my 2 cents..


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dayzlight 61 F
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How lovely we are not meant for each other   10/31/2004

WEll well well, of late i have had some pleasant experiences with saying no thanks. In a couple of letters i responded with...'i think You got the wrong idea about what i am looking for, but thanks for writing' or ' i am afraid that that is really not something i am interested in' or even 'now i know all about You, You have not even said why You wrote me, i do not think there is any hope ...


0 Comments, 132 Views, 17 Votes ,5.11 Score
VixenInSilk 47 F
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A polite response just saying No Thanks or Not My Type is nice   10/15/2004

Many times I respond to folks and saying 'not my type but good luck to you on Alt finding what you are looking for, that I am not interested' and I get back the nicest emails saying 'thanks for being nice enough to respond and I wish you the best too.' But it is sad that many don't do the same -- on the other hand, don't hold it against a standard member if they dont respond as Alt only ...


0 Comments, 106 Views, 45 Votes ,8.12 Score
You'd have to be crazy.   10/12/2004

How many times has a hot woman in a tight red dress approached you, brushed her blond bangs out of her blue eyes, curled her pouty lips up and asked you: do you come here often? Do you want to? <br> Now if this were to happen... would you turn her down? We all know that if you are a man, and you know that this blonde is not a man.... the answer is Huh NOOOO> <br> ...


0 Comments, 73 Views, 9 Votes ,0.86 Score
blueeyedylan 34 M
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Why can't they just say it????   9/23/2004

with a few girls that i have been with later i found out they just wanted to be friends. But they started it???? This not makes me feel bad but it also makes me wonder what i do to make them think that is the only way to be my friend? I think that is why i like it here. Don't have to worry weather you want to be my frined or not, just if you want to get it on, if a friendship happens out of ...


0 Comments, 31 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
blueeyedylan 34 M
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Why can't they just say it????   9/23/2004

with a few girls that i have been with later i found out they just wanted to be friends. But they started it???? This not makes me feel bad but it also makes me wonder what i do to make them think that is the only way to be my friend? I think that is why i like it here. Don't have to worry weather you want to be my frined or not, just if you want to get it on, if a friendship happens out of ...


0 Comments, 58 Views, 4 Votes ,2.86 Score
helplesshussy 40 F
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Submission brings a great deal of problems with being assertive   9/8/2004

I am a new submissive femme and getting more than my fair share of responses. the trouble is that i am happy to messege the Doms and i am not wasting time, i really do want to meet up with some of them, but some of them try to really pressurise me into a meeting the first time we talk and i find it very difficult to say no. Sometimes they want things that i am not ready for and sometimes ...


0 Comments, 82 Views, 16 Votes ,6.21 Score
S_she_S 49 F
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Reply to Hurting Feelings   8/31/2004

I too have seen much of this. When sent an e-mail no matter if I am interested or not, I write back cordially thanking them but respectfully declining. Why is it then these socalled "Dominants" come back with acidy remarks and hissing insults? One word: Immaturity. They've never truly grown up. Either within the lifestyle or outside of it. Same can be said for women however. ...


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IrishPrincess4 56 F
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Reply to Don't Bend Over   8/20/2004

Dear Tex944 <br> I think you're article was better suited for the "jokes" section of the magazine. <br> No true Master would ever speak so foolishly to His slave. Maybe a young guy to his girlfriend, but not a Master to His slave. <br> After reading some of your other articles and your profile, I've come to the conclusion, you are a young guy, ...


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lil_sub_kitten 34 F
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An amendment to "Hurting Feelings"   8/6/2004

in my previous article i expressed how some people are rude and hurtful to others and i said that some Doms dont realize they are hurting feelings, i had meant to say that both Doms and subs/slaves can be hurtful. i apologize to everyone. subs can also be known to write back and be hurtful at times, it is not JUST the Dom/Dommes that do. please accept my humble apologies for the oversight ...


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lil_sub_kitten 34 F
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Hurting Feelings   8/2/2004

sometimes a person will be disinterested in another and write back and be very hurtful. this is tasteless and tactless. if you do not like how someone looks or are just disinterested please just say no thank you. do not be rude. people have feelings, sometimes Doms do not realize that their words may hurt someoens feelings. but they do. its good to remember that everyone has feelings. a lot ...


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tex944 38 M
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Don't bend over   8/1/2004

I often had my slave complain when i give it to there in the ass, i hvae the answer just told her not ot bend over then!


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lookin4lotsofFun 44 C
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No Thanks to Toys, Anal, Bi-Sex, and more. Section 1 - Toys   7/4/2004

My wife & I tie one another up occaionally and when it happens the other knows it is no holds bar, meaning they can do whatever they want to do. It was the only way we could do the things "we" wanted even if the other was not gung ho. For example, my wife was not so much into toys, so I tie her up and play and play and play. She gets into into eventually but the beginning is slow. She ...


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lookin4lotsofFun 44 C
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No Thanks to Toys, Anal, Bi-Sex, and more. Section 2 - Toys   7/4/2004

The next time I tied my wife up she was on her stomach and I licked her pussy clean, fingering the heck out of her. I had 3 fingers in her pounding her pussy as deep and hard as I could. I licked her anus ans she freaked out, then I did it again, same reaction, then I just buried my tongue in her tight forbidden litle hole and tongue ****ed the heck out of her. She involuntarily spread ...


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lookin4lotsofFun 44 C
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No Thanks to Toys, Anal, Bi-Sex, and more. Section 3 - Anal   7/4/2004

So only when I tie my wife up am I able to do wild and kinky things. So I tied her up again, she hadnt let me do her anally but one time until I force her to tied up. I tongue her out anally forcing her to suck me till I am leaking cum all over. After making her drink some of it I then toy around her anus with the head of my penis leaking cum all over it. She loves the feel of my penis ...


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lookin4lotsofFun 44 C
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No Thanks to Toys, Anal, Bi-Sex, and more. Section 4 - Strapons   7/4/2004

So here I have my wife tied up able to do unspeakable things to her in any manner or form I desire. So I eat her out bringing her to orgasm. Then I pound her pussy till she comes yet another time. I come all in her pussy and then make her lick me clean sucking my cock and drinking the rest of my cum and her pussy juice. I then lick her pussy clean of all her juices and at her request ...


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SexyLes4u 43,1943 C-2F
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Some People Have No Tact!   4/16/2004

I am finding that some people think I am being offensive when I tell them I am only looking for people who love BBW. Heres my point, I am very secure and I love who I am! Why should I settle for someone who just wants to fuck? If you dont love the chub..Im not the girl for you nor are you the guy for me. Dont be mad about it. Appreciate that fact that I am REAL!


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NHRetiree 83 F
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To Reply or Not   3/17/2004

I don't know why some men reply to your ad and then get upset when they are not answered. I am very explicit in my profile as to what I am looking for and also what I am NOT looking for. And yet men who are WAY outside my age parameters, are married, or are otherwise unsuitable seem to think I will bend those parameters and make an exception for them because they are so ...


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SSS_Stormie 58 F
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It is ok to say NO Thanks   1/14/2004

some Say that They Can not say No..But they can..Most Try to inimtidate others but how they use Words.always Be on Guard of Ones Who use Big Words to Throw you.With My Learnings.Ones that come at Me with Baby You wont Ever find another Like Me..is When I Run Fast and Hard..Know When To say No Thanks I will pass on That. One Dont have to Agree to anything That They dont Want too.


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LaceyDoll 64 F
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ITS NOT BEING RUDE   12/22/2003

First of all … A profile states specifics…or it should… as someone else stated in a post why would anyone bother to reply to a specific request? If you don’t fit the request? I know I don’t.. Why make a fool of your self and show how insensitive you are to the needs of others... Who wants some one who doesnt respect the needs of others?? Second… why post insults ...


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Does Commonsense go out the window?   11/1/2003

Surely the rules in the real time dating world are the same as a first meeting from a d/s chat site or a personals ? For example meeting a jerk in a d/s situation that has appeared to be a perfect person online, why does the disappointed person not say thanks but no thanks? What perception is there that this person who purports to be dominant has to be obeyed? Surely the disappointed person ...


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SwitchyKitty 44 C
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respond too just say no   10/22/2003

there is a difference is saying no thanks and just flat out being rude! It doesn't take someone using such language too get ones point across. Treat everyone like you would want too be treated yourself.


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danzeg 47 M
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Push LOVE BLIND   7/7/2003

I kept emailing this woman that thought I was sexy. I guess I wound up hurting my self-Cause she thought I was obbsecive? I was trying to email her , and she was a standerd member. I wished her all the best.BUT she thinks I am strange, sorry I forgot to have manners.


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