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Hhfhhfghh 33 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
My question is - 11/3/2019

How do you get a relationship here

9 response(s), 9 votes
isubmittoyouall 65 M
1 question
Score 0.0
what do you have to do? - 11/3/2019

Seriously want a dominant mistress from hell to dominate , humiliate , use anyway she pleases. What steps need to be taken to find a mistress around here?

9 response(s), 9 votes
dog4milfs12 23 M
1 question
Score 0.0
asking question - 11/2/2019

why do you have to come here is to ask a question. on how this site works its sucks because the point they have taken from you when this shit does not work

12 response(s), 16 votes
gopats1 61 M
1 question
Score 0.0
IM woes - 11/1/2019

The IM system seems to be the biggest waste of time, points and energy!!!

26 response(s), 36 votes
masterwolf20 61 M
1 question
Score 0.0
hi dose every one have trouble with points - 10/30/2019

had to enjoy the site when fitting for points with ALT daily casuse the take what you already have for no reason

31 response(s), 27 votes
sarahfr100 43 F
1 question
Score 0.0
Instant messenger - 10/28/2019

I have just joined and cant get IM to work, it takes me to the order page, anyone know how to make it work please

3 response(s), 4 votes
bicurious201906 69 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Do you think it is weird to like role play (I like it) - 10/28/2019

A long time ago I discovered my friend was fucking her father. Ever since then has fascinated me.

18 response(s), 26 votes
TimidJaneCD 62 T
16 questions
Score 0.0
Why are there so few DOMS on cam ???? - 10/27/2019

I'd like to see and hear a Dom use me on C2C . Do you think that would be a great way to introduce yourself???

15 response(s), 27 votes
knott4milfs 30 M
4 questions
Score 0.0
mate - 10/27/2019

looking for someone that is what i want is something you got to keep looking tell you find it and you will know when you find it you will be surprize

12 response(s), 13 votes
WantANewPeg73 50 M
5 questions
Score 0.0
mental health and activities... - 10/25/2019

Have been stuck with sometime to think and one thing I haven't seen much about is dealing with mental health issues during activities...have you ever had any, dealt with any, etc....blah, blah...thanks

10 response(s), 18 votes
WantANewPeg73 50 M
5 questions
Score 0.0
For switches, how quickly can you go from being in one role into being in the other? - 10/25/2019

For switches, how quickly can you go from being in role into being in the other? I wonder because for , for instance, although I do enjoy being on the dominant side it takes a buildup of things get from the submissive side that dominant side. Is it like that for you or can you like take a 10 min break, smoke a cigarette, a joint, whatever and boom you can be in the opposite role? ...

10 response(s), 23 votes
WantANewPeg73 50 M
5 questions
Score 0.0
What is the greatest piece of advice you have ever received? - 10/25/2019

What is the greatest piece of advice you have ever received when it comes being in this sort of lifestyle or about sexuality at all? Thanks.

8 response(s), 17 votes
WantANewPeg73 50 M
5 questions
Score 0.0
What music do you like to have playing during sessions? - 10/23/2019

So I was sitting here bored, listening to some music and I have just realized that certain songs, etc. have a way of bringing on certain memories and in some cases put me in certain moods to do certain things. It brought me to the question of what music do others like to have during sessions, I suppose many call them, and does that music do the same to you as it does to me when hearing it during ...

15 response(s), 19 votes
Naughtysub4uruse 52 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
IM - 10/22/2019

Has anyone else experiencing IM now costing 20 points ?

26 response(s), 29 votes
rott654321milfs 44 M
4 questions
Score 0.0
hungry - 10/21/2019

like to eat after you had a good fuck........ sound kind of weird but fuck you burn all the energy you need to eat to fuck again

11 response(s), 20 votes
sosb22 25 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
POINTS - 10/19/2019

i want to know why is that you have to for this fucking points to talk to people its like they charge you for everything fucking thing you do here you want to talk to someone its points you want to massage it points everything is a fucking point what in the fuck do you have to for points where you can get it for free.......... and why do you for points where this site and massenger if ...

24 response(s), 29 votes
daddy_2_fuck_u 64 M
1 question
Score 0.0
IM - 10/17/2019

So it's 10 points to send and now it's charging 10 points to receive as well. Except when it tries to charge 11 points at first. AND how did I manage to start the day with 30, send 2 messages and then have 3 left an be unable to reply to a message sent me? Thanks for the great system and service

19 response(s), 29 votes
looking4fat 72 T
9 questions
Score 0.0
Positive Body Image ? - 10/17/2019

In the Group "Anything Goes" a poll has been posted asking how members refer to overweight females. Only two options were given; one positive and one negative. i chose the negative one, because it was closer to what i really think. (Check the poll to see my actual terminology.) However, it got me wondering about something that i have pondered for some time now. (Even though i have ...

24 response(s), 31 votes
knott4milfs 30 M
4 questions
Score 0.0
looking - 10/16/2019

anyone here like this new changes they made

13 response(s), 10 votes
Tom198502 67 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Denial of contact disciplined - 10/16/2019

Is denial of contact a form of punishment to a disobedient sub?

11 response(s), 43 votes
Ugly_Dumb_Slut 40 F
1 question
Score 0.0
Blocking - 10/16/2019

Is there an effective way to block other members from being able to contact you, tried the block link on profiles but it does nothing and still getting messages coming through.

24 response(s), 31 votes
CDEscape 49 T
1 question
Score 0.0
Music to Fuck to... - 10/15/2019

While music is not a necessity, it can be a kink, if you've got the right track. Maybe you even like to take some delicious dirty videos? What music do you add to the edited video ( the moaning and slapping sound of skin of course)? <br><br> So what do you think? Got any song suggestions to fuck to? Got a playlist to share? <br><br> *And to be clear, asking for music ...

12 response(s), 20 votes
Harryhardon4u 53 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
IM Chat - 10/15/2019

is the IM chat working? Does it takes 10points even when know delivery or contact?

34 response(s), 38 votes
prestonsub16 32 M
5 questions
Score 0.0
Forced bi- fantasy or made up? - 10/14/2019

Are people who pursue or enjoy the kink known as 'forced bi' living out a fetish or kidding themselves about their true sexuality? Especially interested to hear from those who've gone through with it. <br><br> No judgements towards LGBT please, keep it friendly

15 response(s), 21 votes
tongueuser4 57 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
Made a mistake - 10/14/2019

I somehow Made a mistake and hit remove bid on being a top fan on a member, I was a fan but now I am not even listed as a fan. Any idea how to get ranking back.

11 response(s), 15 votes
bicurious201905 69 M
1 question
Score 0.0
what is the best way to meet RL bdsm abusers? - 10/14/2019

Please can people advise me.

5 response(s), 3 votes
blue_dog11 62 M
1 question
Score 0.0
where is everyone? - 10/13/2019

No locals in my area?

14 response(s), 12 votes
9161003 67 T
5 questions
Score 0.0
Older sissy - 10/12/2019

How do i start to meet new folks to use me? I have been on this site for many years also the name bp2436. I was in Maryland and now in texas. I am older than my profile pic and not as cute. I want to start meeting again. I have met in real time in the past least times and a couple lasted for years. See lrdbalto for references. How can i start again with discrete contacts. I have limited ...

9 response(s), 18 votes
9161003 67 T
5 questions
Score 0.0
Older sissy - 10/12/2019

How do i start to meet new folks to use me? I have been on this site for many years also the name bp2436. I was in Maryland and now in texas. I am older than my profile pic and not as cute. I want to start meeting again. I have met in real time in the past least times and a couple lasted for years. See lrdbalto for references. How can i start again with discrete contacts. I have limited ...

0 response(s), 2 votes
9161003 67 T
5 questions
Score 0.0
Older sissy - 10/12/2019

How do i start to meet new folks to use me? I have been on this site for many years also the name bp2436. I was in Maryland and now in texas. I am older than my profile pic and not as cute. I want to start meeting again. I have met in real time in the past least times and a couple lasted for years. See lrdbalto for references. How can i start again with discrete contacts. I have limited ...

0 response(s), 1 vote