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CDEscape 49 T
1 question
Score 0.0
Music to Fuck to... - 10/15/2019

While music is not a necessity, it can be a kink, if you've got the right track. Maybe you even like to take some delicious dirty videos? What music do you add to the edited video ( the moaning and slapping sound of skin of course)? <br><br> So what do you think? Got any song suggestions to fuck to? Got a playlist to share? <br><br> *And to be clear, asking for music ...

12 response(s), 20 votes
Harryhardon4u 53 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
IM Chat - 10/15/2019

is the IM chat working? Does it takes 10points even when know delivery or contact?

34 response(s), 38 votes
prestonsub16 32 M
5 questions
Score 0.0
Forced bi- fantasy or made up? - 10/14/2019

Are people who pursue or enjoy the kink known as 'forced bi' living out a fetish or kidding themselves about their true sexuality? Especially interested to hear from those who've gone through with it. <br><br> No judgements towards LGBT please, keep it friendly

15 response(s), 21 votes
bicurious201905 69 M
1 question
Score 0.0
what is the best way to meet RL bdsm abusers? - 10/14/2019

Please can people advise me.

5 response(s), 3 votes
blue_dog11 62 M
1 question
Score 0.0
where is everyone? - 10/13/2019

No locals in my area?

14 response(s), 12 votes
9161003 67 T
5 questions
Score 0.0
Older sissy - 10/12/2019

How do i start to meet new folks to use me? I have been on this site for many years also the name bp2436. I was in Maryland and now in texas. I am older than my profile pic and not as cute. I want to start meeting again. I have met in real time in the past least times and a couple lasted for years. See lrdbalto for references. How can i start again with discrete contacts. I have limited ...

9 response(s), 18 votes
9161003 67 T
5 questions
Score 0.0
Older sissy - 10/12/2019

How do i start to meet new folks to use me? I have been on this site for many years also the name bp2436. I was in Maryland and now in texas. I am older than my profile pic and not as cute. I want to start meeting again. I have met in real time in the past least times and a couple lasted for years. See lrdbalto for references. How can i start again with discrete contacts. I have limited ...

0 response(s), 2 votes
9161003 67 T
5 questions
Score 0.0
Older sissy - 10/12/2019

How do i start to meet new folks to use me? I have been on this site for many years also the name bp2436. I was in Maryland and now in texas. I am older than my profile pic and not as cute. I want to start meeting again. I have met in real time in the past least times and a couple lasted for years. See lrdbalto for references. How can i start again with discrete contacts. I have limited ...

0 response(s), 1 vote
9161003 67 T
5 questions
Score 0.0
Older sissy - 10/12/2019

How do i start to meet new folks to use me? I have been on this site for many years also the name bp2436. I was in Maryland and now in texas. I am older than my profile pic and not as cute. I want to start meeting again. I have met in real time in the past least times and a couple lasted for years. See lrdbalto for references. How can i start again with discrete contacts. I have limited ...

0 response(s), 2 votes
mture4rotty 21 M
6 questions
Score 0.0
looking - 10/12/2019

here looking for a mature woman that is wiling to try and willing to meet i am here to see what new and what there to do and see and meet

12 response(s), 13 votes
differntstrokes 62 M
10 questions
Score 0.0
Cams - 10/10/2019

Cams appear be working again. I wonder for how long?

12 response(s), 30 votes
bigbossman192 76 M
2 questions
Score 5.2
who is in charge - 10/8/2019

I want to know why this site doesn't allow members paying and non paying to view and make contact with each other. I thought this was a dating site for people of a particular mind set/

28 response(s), 42 votes
SensualMatureDom 69 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Vanilla vs BDSM - 10/8/2019

When and how did you come to accept you aren't vanilla?

25 response(s), 34 votes
looking4fat 72 T
9 questions
Score 0.0
Thanks for the Spam - DickWads ! - 10/8/2019

It's bad enough that the new owners are doing their best to scare off members, now a couple idiots who are trolling for useless points have decided to spam the magazine section. And the mag is one of the few things that still works and that Everyone can participate in. <br><br> And what will they do with those points? Go on the IM (which rarely works) in hopes of ...

15 response(s), 35 votes
MNT44 55 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Are you just here for the points? - 10/7/2019

Make Alt Great Again

1 response(s), 0 votes
looking4fat 72 T
9 questions
Score 0.0
Halloween Playlist ? - 10/4/2019

It seems like this time of year every Radio Station plays "Monster Mash." But if you were going to make up a Halloween playlist, what other songs would you include? Here are the ones that i would put in: > --- "Excitable Boy" (Warren Zevon) --- "Werewolves of London (ditto) --- "Season of the Witch" (Donovan) --- "Witchy Woman" (The Eagles) --- ...

3 response(s), 6 votes
TwistedDesires10 58 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Hard limits with a slave. - 10/3/2019

Interested in knowing what other Masters hard limits are with a slave they owned.

0 response(s), 0 votes
Harryhardon4u 53 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
How many still have cyber sex?? - 10/2/2019

How many women out there , still have fun on line, while they pleasure themselves?

33 response(s), 38 votes
looking4fat 72 T
9 questions
Score 0.0
Cleanliness ? - 9/27/2019

How important is cleanliness to you. Is it "Next to Godliness?" Or, as in the Manga below (read it right to left - it's Japanese) does the smell turn you on? <br><br> i've never sucked a stinky Dick myself. But i've often wondered what i'd do if i pulled a Man's pants down and was assaulted a three-day-stink, or even an uncut cock with smegma. ...

39 response(s), 63 votes
patmahon2 65 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Why can't i view any cams - 9/27/2019

They all say Member has stopped broadcasting383

33 response(s), 30 votes
MastROfPupets 56 C
10 questions
Score 0.0
Do you think ALT should be reported for False Advertising and Fraud for overcharging credit cards? - 9/24/2019

There are many polls in the community section voted on by ALT users, that show that ALT advertising of paid services included with Gold or Silver membership such as IMC, Webcams, Points system, Editor and many other features are not functioning as intended currently. <br><br> What is even worse is users are reporting repeated charges to credit cards after cancelling membership which ...

39 response(s), 59 votes
dominateme6666 68 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Best way to find a mistress - 9/24/2019

Wish to be a sissy sub what's the best way to find a mistress?

8 response(s), 10 votes
severdad65 52 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Switching - 9/23/2019

Are mot ladies leaning towards submissiveness? Being in control is not of interest?

15 response(s), 29 votes
ducker97 25 M
5 questions
Score 0.0
What are some of your kinks that aren't very popular, but they are very fun? - 9/20/2019

Just widening my mind of more things I don't know about.

22 response(s), 28 votes
ducker97 25 M
5 questions
Score 0.0
How did you figure out what you actually wanted? - 9/20/2019

Myself being Bi-curious, and curious about lots of things. what made you realize it's what you wanted, and not some filthy thought?

9 response(s), 28 votes
ducker97 25 M
5 questions
Score 0.0
What exactly are you looking for on this site? - 9/20/2019

Good question ask understand if someone is just wanting FWB, ONS, or a relationship.

18 response(s), 20 votes
ducker97 25 M
5 questions
Score 0.0
What made you want to sleep with a TS? - 9/20/2019

I want know because I still just curious, but I haven't gotten over the hump of doing it.

5 response(s), 16 votes
ducker97 25 M
5 questions
Score 0.0
Best way to get introduced into BDSM? - 9/20/2019

Just curious if anyone has any first time experiences help me understand better, and figure what I like. Or even tips of what makes it good for you?

6 response(s), 21 votes
TimidJaneCD 62 T
16 questions
Score 0.0
PISS ENEMA - 9/13/2019

Is there anything in that when absorbed in the colon that can harm you?

14 response(s), 17 votes
mtmyballs2 67 M
1 question
Score 0.0
50 Shades of Grey? - 9/12/2019

How can I spank or paddle a married sub w/o leaving marks for her husband to see. She wnats it badly

19 response(s), 17 votes