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skorpius18 67 M
4 questions
Score 3.9
Accessing members' photos - 2/19/2020

Is anybody else unable to access members' photos on their profiles? i have been getting the page, the pinwheel of destiny, but then a blank page. This has been going on for about three days. A friend sent me pics from her album, but all i could access was a white screen. i am a paying gold member, so i'm a bit confused about the whole thing.

11 response(s), 8 votes
Locked4You061 59 M
3 questions
Score 4.7
My First - 2/19/2020

My first time experiencing BDSM was kind of a surprise. I was dating a seemingly vanilla Spanish Woman and one day she tells me that she was not satisfied with our last sexual experience and that I had to be punished. I asked what she meant and she said that because i came too fast in her, she was not happy and that my dick needed to be punished. I was a little scared what she meant by that. ...

6 response(s), 7 votes
MistressAynya 60 F
1 question
Score 2.5
Beauty of My Night - 2/19/2020

I want to bring you within the depths of My abyss see the throne where I write with the blood of My muse in the black of night <br><br> All that come pay homage for entering My kingdom, My domain <br><br> The blackness of Night sharpens bringing all sensations to the surface darkness kindles awakens the imagination <br><br> Silently Silently the senses ...

1 response(s), 6 votes
Tongueuser44 53 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Did I miss a message or memo - 2/14/2020

How come you can't check up on your top fans on the website or app I tap on them and get redirected and then a white screen. <br><br> Did I miss something?

8 response(s), 24 votes
albanynycouple51 58 C
17 questions
Score 0.0
have you been to green door swingers sex club in las vegas ? - 2/8/2020

hi we going this thrusday feb 27 and seeking info on the club and its bondage play area hows the club and others who go? thanks for any n all info and input
...

17 response(s), 31 votes
SinPerdition 37 M
6 questions
Score 0.1
Anal prep - 2/8/2020

Hello everyone! I am interested in what kind of prep work people are doing before having a session where anal will take place. I am particularly interested in when people are eating/not eating, how far in advance they are having enemas/anal douche and any thing else that ensures a good clean session. Thank you in advance, and have a great (and kinky) day! xoxo

22 response(s), 32 votes
fattedick 61 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Panties - 2/5/2020

Why do women like men in panties?

9 response(s), 23 votes
JoYng_Dom 25 M
1 question
Score 0.0
How to earn points ? 01 - 2/2/2020

ignore this ... I for the

27 response(s), 33 votes
Niklaus_I 41 M
1 question
Score 0.4
Points here, points there, points everywhere... 01 - 2/2/2020

come and go.... ! Give and receive them. Here and there and everywhere. Thank you

30 response(s), 29 votes
penectme 49 M
1 question
Score 3.6
Fake automated emails or scam? - 2/1/2020

So before it seemed if gold members sent emails you could read them and at least know if they were real or just another cut and past scam. It also allowed you to know if Alt was legit or just all bots. This also allowed gold members to send some messages to all the other members even if they could not reply. Right now I am seeing several emails getting scrambled and replaced with junk . This is ...

14 response(s), 29 votes
Tight_Laced_M 41 M
4 questions
Score 0.1
Friend requesting - 1/31/2020

Is it rude a friend request without asking recipient first?

19 response(s), 21 votes
luvtobind2 52 M
1 question
Score 0.0
How do "TIPS" work? - 1/31/2020

Been looking around on the site and can't find any info on how the "TIPS" feature works? If anyone has a clue, please share. <br><br> Thanks!

11 response(s), 17 votes
Tight_Laced_M 41 M
4 questions
Score 0.1
High Heels - 1/31/2020

Men and heels, yes or no? Oh, I mean at least 4 inch heel, prefer 6 inch with heel cut off so more of a toe boot really

10 response(s), 16 votes
Tight_Laced_M 41 M
4 questions
Score 0.1
Time for uploads to be approved - 1/31/2020

Does it take more time to approve if you upload more at once? Is it best to upload single photos or simply batch upload?

7 response(s), 18 votes
Tight_Laced_M 41 M
4 questions
Score 0.1
Is there an advantage to being a top fan? - 1/31/2020

I am currently on a journey to become a persons top fan but does it really make a difference?

8 response(s), 22 votes
Yoki44 44 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Are there any real Mistresses in this site? - 1/29/2020

Based on the last few months that I am a member of this site, I never came across a single Mistress that was not trying to scam me, so I'm wondering if there is any "real" Mistresses in this site?

17 response(s), 26 votes
W1ll1878 33 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Lost - 1/28/2020

I have been on the site now for over a year. I have had no luck at all. I mean I have talked to to some women on here but , no luck in finding what I am looking for. Let alone meet some one that’s not a bot . What am I doing wrong ?

16 response(s), 18 votes
SexyPerth 71 M
3 questions
Score 0.0
For female subs - 1/27/2020

What are your expectations re financial arrangements if you live with a Dom / Master? Is it usual for such a person to work for employment? <br><br> Thanks

4 response(s), 19 votes
SexyPerth 71 M
3 questions
Score 0.0
Question for experienced male doms - 1/27/2020

What are the usual financial arrangements for a live in salve / domestic servant? <br><br> Thanks

7 response(s), 7 votes
SexyPerth 71 M
3 questions
Score 0.0
Question for experienced male doms - 1/27/2020

Has anyone ever brought a female from another country, and if so what were the financial arrangements? <br><br> Thanks

1 response(s), 1 vote
juanstud 49 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
Monday curiosity - 1/26/2020

What was your best orgasm like and who was it with?

7 response(s), 13 votes
juanstud 49 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
best time - 1/26/2020

Do you prefer at night, in the morning, mid-afternoon, or NOW?

5 response(s), 6 votes
Aislin 35 F
5 questions
Score 0.0
Another question ....for you point lovers.. - 1/26/2020

And please give your very first thought as mine was...omg!, wtf? and like that song from Prince Karm, "Later Bitches" <br><br> So anyway, there I am replying some emails and all of a sudden I get that little box that says, this person flirted with me and when looking at the picture there is a sexy man holding a huge gun wider than of those ...

21 response(s), 19 votes
chcds 42 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Should a sissie show his face in a profile - 1/26/2020

Should a sissie show his in profile picture yes or no

7 response(s), 5 votes
Aislin 35 F
5 questions
Score 0.0
So this is my situation.... - 1/25/2020

Why are my videos always violating Alt's terms and conditions such as the recent one of me just walking my subject around in circles like a and okay said tried to hump my leg but it's not like real animal but the human type beast. <br><br> surely human pet is not taboo. And, now that I think about it for some reason Alt will not allow my pegging ...

29 response(s), 20 votes
Jenn1759 36 F
1 question
Score 0.0
worthy sub? - 1/24/2020

how can i get a worthy sub i can train the way i believe is right?

16 response(s), 29 votes
Locked4You061 59 M
3 questions
Score 4.7
What if... - 1/24/2020

What if I told you this was all and there really AREN'T any real people here...?

10 response(s), 7 votes
Newu21 23 M
1 question
Score 0.0
What's an ambassador - 1/22/2020

Just wonder what's an ambassador on here how do you become one and what does it do for you

10 response(s), 13 votes
FREDY323 52 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Latinos - 1/19/2020

If there's an magazine about Latinos

11 response(s), 15 votes
differntstrokes 58 M
10 questions
Score 2.2
PROFILES I VIEWED - 1/18/2020

Only recently I became aware and started checking this section on the site. <br><br> I have to say that I am flabbergasted at the amount of profiles on there that I have NEVER looked at. <br><br> I understand that if the cursor passes over a profile, or I view them on the cams or IM, it registers, but there are profiles of people in other countries that do not even appear ...

23 response(s), 36 votes
bbcinorlando 35 M
1 question
Score 0.0
ORLANDO LADIES - 1/13/2020

any orlando ladies enjoy creampies and anal sex?

13 response(s), 25 votes
Dwtp 55 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Read profiles - 1/12/2020

Do gold members every read the profiles they message? I ask for local people or some one willing to come to me. I get messages from all over the us!

20 response(s), 33 votes
readytogo12399 60 M
1 question
Score 0.0
new to this - 1/12/2020

sorry ask but what is a

10 response(s), 17 votes
mture4rotty 45 M
6 questions
Score 0.0
dk - 1/12/2020

looking to see what new and what its kinky and see if woman want to get dirty and nasty and try new thing let me know ladies if you are interested in starting something new

5 response(s), 11 votes
Bumtingler 60 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Use of everyday articles......or bespoke dildoes? - 1/11/2020

I am curious to know what fellow BDSM aficionados feel about the merits of using everyday articles rather then the use of designer dildoes. In the past I have enjoyed using fruit and vegetables, kitchen items, toys, and obviously bottles and cosmetic containers. I have also missed this up, with dildoes of various shapes and sizes! <br><br> For the most part, I have had the best ...

17 response(s), 20 votes
Aislin 35 F
5 questions
Score 0.0
On being "Cuckold" ? - 1/11/2020

So anyway, I do have a serious question about the word "cuckold" and yes, forgive me if I am spelling it wrong because I am always thinking, I am. <br><br> I went to Berlin, Germany with another member from this site and sincerely, enjoyed an amazing time with a few flaws, that reminded me, I am not perfect. <br><br> ...

24 response(s), 34 votes
Locked4You061 59 M
3 questions
Score 4.7
How many - 1/10/2020

How many have you had?

22 response(s), 20 votes
Aislin 35 F
5 questions
Score 0.0
For male slaves... - 1/8/2020

Why would an owner find you pleasing and why do you want to be owned? Yeah, I know it's a simple question really but I have been such, I know what I dreamt about and what it actually was and so I guess I am interested with the male prospective I guess you can say. <br><br> But anyway for some points earn them and talk to me about what slavery means to ...

41 response(s), 36 votes
Aislin 35 F
5 questions
Score 0.0
I have a question..... - 1/8/2020

Can you tell me a very dirty story and I do not want a long one. If you do not know any stories maybe a good dirty joke or knock knock games. ...

32 response(s), 30 votes
mture4rotty 45 M
6 questions
Score 0.0
wtf - 1/6/2020

whats different between here and other site...... are there any other site better then this site let me know if anyone know better site then this one

22 response(s), 28 votes
boatsman11 59 M
2 questions
Score 0.8
Moods - 1/5/2020

Is there anything with more changeable moods the us humans ?

15 response(s), 16 votes
atong4u 69 M
5 questions
Score 0.1
Messages - 1/4/2020

Just wondering if others get messages in Spanish ? I don't read it or speak it but my messages only show up in Spanish Was talking to a lady then her message was suddenly in Spanish ??

12 response(s), 19 votes
Bigrd12 21 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Give up yo Number or something - 1/4/2020

Anyone know if someone wants to duck

19 response(s), 15 votes
Bottomslut00 54 M
3 questions
Score 0.0
piercings - 1/3/2020

whats the best piercings for bondage

16 response(s), 17 votes
_Torque 42 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Satisfaction - 1/3/2020

What is most satisfying in D/s relationship ?

20 response(s), 21 votes
mture4rotty 45 M
6 questions
Score 0.0
Making - 1/2/2020

what are going to do for this new year any ideas for this year anyone come up with good ideas to kick off this year

12 response(s), 13 votes
mture4rotty 45 M
6 questions
Score 0.0
its here - 1/1/2020

2020 that was fast will see what i going on here and see if we can start new and see if this site has any changes

12 response(s), 16 votes
xsimplesex 52 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Ice, or Snow ... - 12/31/2019

Is there anyone on Earth that prefers ice, over snow?? <br><br> Ice ... I hate thee ...

20 response(s), 16 votes
rott654321milfs 45 M
4 questions
Score 0.0
2020 its here - 12/31/2019

seen like 2019 came fast and was gone that fast year fly here but looking forward to what 2020 bring to this site

12 response(s), 12 votes
rott654321milfs 45 M
4 questions
Score 0.0
taboo - 12/29/2019

is taboo something that woman like and want to try there alot of taboos what is your favarite and what turn you on the most about kinky sex

29 response(s), 24 votes
looking4slave15 44 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
2020 happy - 12/29/2019

does anyone have plan for 2020 its a new year what are we looking to do for 2020

13 response(s), 13 votes
sagelostprophet2 65 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
If you had one SEXUAL desire awarded to you in 2020 - 12/28/2019

If you had one SEXUAL desire awarded to you in 2020 what would it be? <br><br> I mean something you always wanted to do but haven't had the opportunity yet. Maybe due to lack of willing partner or because you were too shy to ask.

31 response(s), 26 votes
fares70 42 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Happy year is ready for the new year - 12/26/2019

To be ready in the new year. I hope that you will get everything you need and look forward to awakening your deep, dark, suppressed and enjoyable fantasies in the new year and happy birthday to all.

10 response(s), 27 votes
sagelostprophet2 65 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
If you were totally new to ALT - 12/24/2019

If you were totally new to ALT and this was your first introduction, would you even stay here a day?

32 response(s), 42 votes
mture4rotty 45 M
6 questions
Score 0.0
Losing points - 12/22/2019

seen like when you get points for free..... its not free you earn them by posting.... its not giving you that, s free..... and when you the points with other its taken away seen like this site is using people for points and using them get more people .... point is that the points are fake they just it get more people get costumer.... your points are less they don;t work and the ...

25 response(s), 53 votes
TallleggyJenny 47 M
1 question
Score 0.0
A Christmas party full of potential humiliation - 12/22/2019

I'm looking forward Christmas night party in a lady friends house. I have been accused of stealing her underwear. Her friend will be there as well. I have stolen underwear from both of these ladies. I will be dressed in red lingerie and stockings and suspender belt that will be clearly visible at times. Would be a pleasure to to listen as they verbally humiliate me about underwear ...

15 response(s), 27 votes
Yourslavewaiting 49 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
How should a domme treat her slave - 12/20/2019

I have a ne owner, very early days. She has made it clear that I am just property her owned slave, I have accepted that, she's not my 1st owner. The issue I have is that although she has made it clear she will take lovers she wants intimacy with me, she wants me to hold her, wrap my arms around her, make love but understand that I can only sleep in her bed when invited etc, I'm confused ...

17 response(s), 22 votes
rott654321milfs 45 M
4 questions
Score 0.0
whats new - 12/19/2019

here looking to see what is new what woman are looking for and have in there mind when they first meet someone

12 response(s), 21 votes
Bottomslut00 54 M
3 questions
Score 0.0
Chastity - 12/16/2019

What's the longest time you have been locked in chastity

22 response(s), 29 votes
Blkdomboy 37 M
3 questions
Score 0.0
Safe words - 12/16/2019

Are safe words needed when there's a real connection between Dom and sub? Are they a good way to push limits without breaking trust?

34 response(s), 25 votes
Daddy2FuckUUp 60 M
3 questions
Score 0.9
Is it just me or is the website broken? - 12/15/2019

Even more than usual. Pictures aren't showing. Menus and pull down boxes are misaligned from the usual with options not working.

34 response(s), 52 votes
albanynycouple51 58 C
17 questions
Score 0.0
meet greet n freak get out n get it on or stay home - 12/14/2019

we going meet out local hotel lounge over drink then freak at hotel next to bar on sat dec 21 cuckold couples who love black dom bulls .will ya go or stay home
...

16 response(s), 34 votes
asianat2008 65 M
113 questions
Score 0.0
Sexual inclinations in women. - 12/12/2019

Women are more loving and giving and sharing in privacy. Why so?.Touch them and caress them in privacy accepting consent and they share openly and once aroused they wish for more sex and finallly penetration with moans. Any good experience can my friends share out of their encounters?..

15 response(s), 28 votes
sirbob2017 67 M
3 questions
Score 0.0
Anyone rlse having problems with search - 12/12/2019

When I try a search member, the site now no longer loads anything. Just the ads which dominates this site more and more. To make matters worse, I am a gold member also.

19 response(s), 26 votes
ballgag061 58 M
4 questions
Score 0.0
Alt IM - 12/9/2019

Well, alt IM doesn't work when you make the attempt yet they still you 10 pts for the effort. WTF??

51 response(s), 70 votes
ballgag061 58 M
4 questions
Score 0.0
Why? - 12/9/2019

Why do we do this? Odds are CLEARLY NOT in our favor of actually succeeding at whatever it is we're doing on this site...

14 response(s), 14 votes
kingfurtone 28 M
1 question
Score 0.0
NEW NEW - 12/6/2019

Need linking with women on here looking too be my slave

26 response(s), 27 votes
ballgag061 58 M
4 questions
Score 0.0
Anal Play - 12/6/2019

What sorts of devices do you enjoy using or having used on you or your partner?

34 response(s), 20 votes
MastROfPupets 53 C
10 questions
Score 0.0
How many ways has ALT completely fucked up this website? - 12/5/2019

How many ways has ALT completely fucked up this website? <br><br> There is basically not a single service or feature on this site that is not faulty or broken in some shape or form. <br><br> It has made this site a complete waste of time and not as it was intended originally.

44 response(s), 38 votes
ballgag061 58 M
4 questions
Score 0.0
Ballgag? - 12/5/2019

What type of ball gag do you prefer to employ?

22 response(s), 15 votes
Wntsome712 48 M
4 questions
Score 0.0
First time - 12/5/2019

Whats the best position for first time anal?

19 response(s), 18 votes
asianat2008 65 M
113 questions
Score 0.0
Sexuality in woman.... - 12/4/2019

Man and woman are natures partners in sex life. It is researched that woman does not leave a man if she truely loved him and vice versa. She submits to man for all his desires. My question is when they are under a safe roof who first tries to seduce and offer love and express love willingly?

9 response(s), 13 votes
sixtwotwoten 39 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Married submissives - 11/30/2019

Is it all right give a married woman what she is missing?

47 response(s), 39 votes
albanynycouple51 58 C
17 questions
Score 0.0
is it ok to get kinky on turkey day? - 11/28/2019

enjoying nice double stuff wife day, and wish all a kinky happy turkey day

48 response(s), 43 votes
kenn1957 62 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
Odd Question - 11/22/2019

I'm an older man with a non-functional cock. Would that be called a Dominant Cuckold? Or?

34 response(s), 57 votes
bicocksman 50 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Anyone else having issues with alt taking points for nothing? - 11/21/2019

Alt seems to steal points at any time has anyone else been having this issue?

75 response(s), 50 votes
Wntsome712 48 M
4 questions
Score 0.0
Why do we? - 11/21/2019

Seema we are all here for rhe points. Am sure its a pain but have o work in the rules o the site.

24 response(s), 28 votes
TimidJaneCD 68 T
14 questions
Score 0.0
CORSETS AND BLOOD PRESSURE - 11/21/2019

I recently was checking my blood pressure after putting on a tight corset and noticed that it made my blood pressure significantly higher . I took the corset off and my blood pressure returned to normal . I am curious how this might effect me if I wore tight corsets often or exerted my self to much when wearing a tight corset?

16 response(s), 19 votes
subfwbwanted82 37 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
daddy needs a lil girl ,milf,kinky,taboo ltr - 11/20/2019

with the many people on here real and fake it shouldnt be that hard find a ltr with the right individual.id love find a partner with very few limits that can please in ways no one else could or would do or allow

13 response(s), 25 votes
TimidJaneCD 68 T
14 questions
Score 0.0
CUM eating issues - 11/20/2019

Hello; After I eat cum a few hours later my stomach gets upset . Does anyone else have this problem and what can I do about it?

22 response(s), 36 votes
Wntsome712 48 M
4 questions
Score 0.0
Thoughts of the day - 11/20/2019

Sometimes we find fun. Sometimes we don't. But its all aboit the enjoyment of all the times between.

7 response(s), 19 votes
Wntsome712 48 M
4 questions
Score 0.0
Points points - 11/20/2019

Seems we are all looking for points anymore.

16 response(s), 24 votes
WantingWater 53 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Failed messages - 11/20/2019

Does anyone else find they are having points taken away even if the messages in IM aren't being delivered ? It's crazy !

19 response(s), 19 votes
Bull7092 49 M
1 question
Score 0.0
The New Guy - 11/19/2019

I am new to this life, I want to learn. I always thought that doing is the best way to learn. Although it's hard to find Subs that will allow a Dom that has no experience. and harder to find a Dom that will allow one to tag along. So whats the best way to learn????

7 response(s), 10 votes
ControlFrkNY 42 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Push Alt to bring back the 5 free messages a day? - 11/18/2019

Seems the site has gone downhill.

33 response(s), 37 votes
AlexDomBBC 51 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
REAL MEETINGS ? Safety and Success - 11/17/2019

<br><br> Lets hear some meet up stories and what safety ...

26 response(s), 33 votes
SinPerdition 37 M
6 questions
Score 0.1
Work outs for trans - 11/16/2019

Hi, <br><br> I came across a lovely tg person recently and we were wondering about exercise training plans. I figured using high rep low weight for legs, arms and maybe the waist (would love more info on developing slim waists) in order to get those areas slim and feminine. Then perhaps some heavier low rep work for butt and chest to become bigger in that area. <br><br> I ...

9 response(s), 13 votes
looking4slave15 44 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
points never work - 11/15/2019

here just waste of time trying massages and they never go through because they don t fucking work..... this site is here scam people and have you get more points. no here is taking this site that serious anymore people are afraid because they will loose point if they answer and people loose points just massage them with any responce

18 response(s), 20 votes
bob_Slave2 67 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Points would be OK if they worked - 11/15/2019

If you are lucky enough to connect on IM it sure wont be for long

19 response(s), 23 votes
cbtdesperation 42 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
Morning wood in chastity - 11/15/2019

For those who know... ow, it’d been a while! <br><br> For those who don’t being woken by your cock trying to get hard when caged isn’t very comfortable! <br><br> So really a question for the chastity twats like me and the gorgeous ladies who cage us how should we deal with the morning wood? <br><br> Ignore it and hope it goes? <br><br> Relish ...

10 response(s), 13 votes
subfwbwanted82 37 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
gloryholes - 11/14/2019

when i was a bit local store had gloryhole booths of course i tried them out for curiosity sake .. only once was there ever a woman in there which was sooo hot .. who enjoys them still and how much have you done? ive sucked, been sucked and since i wanted to try my first bareback anal i got fucked through the hole

14 response(s), 18 votes
bigcock18902 42 M
1 question
Score 0.0
people get what kick means? - 11/13/2019

just curious. seems like only way to comminucate here. wellcraft290

10 response(s), 19 votes
albanynycouple51 58 C
17 questions
Score 0.0
the best swingers club dungeon for group kink play. - 11/12/2019

we found a few on northeast one of our favorites is riplayground in providence ri.full dungeon in basement really hot. what are some other good 1s going? we do travel to clubs.
...

9 response(s), 16 votes
cbtdesperation 42 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
Give me an Alt team list of cbt abuses to beg for - 11/11/2019

One idea per post please, this will be going my Domme so let them rip!

8 response(s), 12 votes
Karenmars 33 F
4 questions
Score 0.0
Please give your opinion - 11/9/2019

What was your most embarrassing sexual experience? Have you ever fantasised about someone else during sex? <br><br> <br><br> If I ever caught you masturbating, would you stop or would you finish?

62 response(s), 53 votes
Karenmars 33 F
4 questions
Score 0.0
l need some funny answers - 11/9/2019

Where’s the weirdest place you’ve ever masturbated?

37 response(s), 29 votes
Karenmars 33 F
4 questions
Score 0.0
Give your opinion - 11/9/2019

What’s the best thing about our sex life? <br><br> What’s the shortest time it’s ever taken for you have an orgasm? And the longest?

20 response(s), 13 votes
Karenmars 33 F
4 questions
Score 0.0
How can you make a woman cum fast? - 11/9/2019

How would you make have an orgasm? Can you make cum with your tongue?

25 response(s), 26 votes
4rwl233 45 M
1 question
Score 0.0
finish - 11/9/2019

this shit started when this web site change it keep asking for 1 point now its 10 fucking points how do you go from 1 point 10 points talk someone its sooo fucked up the way they got this shit rig up

9 response(s), 12 votes
Bottomslut00 54 M
3 questions
Score 0.0
New chastity - 11/6/2019

Now that I have a new chastity how long should I keep it locked on

19 response(s), 17 votes
painter919 59 M
1 question
Score 0.0
points of view - 11/6/2019

does this site promote real or is it handy for golddiggers ?

19 response(s), 28 votes
gamertag 39 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Pictures ideas/suggestions - 11/6/2019

OK I don't have many pictures taken. So I am asking people for ideas or suggestions on what pictures I should add. Give me a style, scenery, and /or type of photo. If you want a specific pose then must send pictures showing the pose. Would like to know if perception of attractive style change the further away

12 response(s), 20 votes
Hhfhhfghh 28 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
Another question - 11/3/2019

How can I get a tranny come fuck me and get in relationship

7 response(s), 13 votes
Hhfhhfghh 28 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
My question is - 11/3/2019

How do you get a relationship here

11 response(s), 9 votes
dog4milfs12 43 M
1 question
Score 0.0
asking question - 11/2/2019

why do you have to come here is to ask a question. on how this site works its sucks because the point they have taken from you when this shit does not work

12 response(s), 15 votes
Newagenewstage 61 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Exhibitionism? Private Sex Clubs? - 11/2/2019

Hello all, My new sub is very into Exhibitionism and showing herself off. Does anyone know of any good, safe, class, private, sex clubs where we can fulfil this fantasy? Thanks very much!

6 response(s), 12 votes
gopats1 57 M
1 question
Score 0.0
IM woes - 11/1/2019

The IM system seems to be the biggest waste of time, points and energy!!!

26 response(s), 34 votes
masterwolf20 57 M
1 question
Score 0.0
hi dose every one have trouble with points - 10/30/2019

had to enjoy the site when fitting for points with ALT daily casuse the take what you already have for no reason

28 response(s), 25 votes
masterwolf01 57 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
why do we have to have stupid points ?? - 10/30/2019

can any one find a better way ?

20 response(s), 22 votes
EasyandFirm 57 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Points - 10/27/2019

It costs points reply an even it it does not work right. Does anyone else have this problem?

25 response(s), 27 votes
TimidJaneCD 68 T
14 questions
Score 0.0
Why are there so few DOMS on cam ???? - 10/27/2019

I'd like to see and hear a Dom use me on C2C . Do you think that would be a great way to introduce yourself???

18 response(s), 25 votes
WantANewPeg73 46 M
5 questions
Score 0.0
mental health and activities... - 10/25/2019

Have been stuck with sometime to think and one thing I haven't seen much about is dealing with mental health issues during activities...have you ever had any, dealt with any, etc....blah, blah...thanks

9 response(s), 18 votes
WantANewPeg73 46 M
5 questions
Score 0.0
For switches, how quickly can you go from being in one role into being in the other? - 10/25/2019

For switches, how quickly can you go from being in role into being in the other? I wonder because for , for instance, although I do enjoy being on the dominant side it takes a buildup of things get from the submissive side that dominant side. Is it like that for you or can you like take a 10 min break, smoke a cigarette, a joint, whatever and boom you can be in the opposite role? ...

9 response(s), 20 votes
WantANewPeg73 46 M
5 questions
Score 0.0
What is the greatest piece of advice you have ever received? - 10/25/2019

What is the greatest piece of advice you have ever received when it comes being in this sort of lifestyle or about sexuality at all? Thanks.

8 response(s), 14 votes
missingthey 61 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Saving 'notes' on hotlist ? - 10/24/2019

I often add a note to hotlist entries as a way to see the last time someone was online. ( Substitute for the old-now-missing 'last logged in feature' ). Its there until I refresh and then the notes are gone. Anyone else notice this? Maybe Im doing it wrong as a standard member.

6 response(s), 17 votes
WantANewPeg73 46 M
5 questions
Score 0.0
What music do you like to have playing during sessions? - 10/23/2019

So I was sitting here bored, listening to some music and I have just realized that certain songs, etc. have a way of bringing on certain memories and in some cases put me in certain moods to do certain things. It brought me to the question of what music do others like to have during sessions, I suppose many call them, and does that music do the same to you as it does to me when hearing it during ...

14 response(s), 18 votes
masterwolf01 57 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
dose every one have trouble with points . and other things on ALT sinse they made new changes ? - 10/21/2019

has any one else had trouble with alt sense the new changes . like viewing cams . to points .

29 response(s), 26 votes
rott654321milfs 45 M
4 questions
Score 0.0
hungry - 10/21/2019

like to eat after you had a good fuck........ sound kind of weird but fuck you burn all the energy you need to eat to fuck again

8 response(s), 19 votes
subles6 45 F
1 question
Score 0.0
IM messages . - 10/20/2019

Dont know if it true but someone said that it costs points to receive a . Anyone know if this is a fact . Thank you .

35 response(s), 39 votes
daddy_2_fuck_u 60 M
1 question
Score 0.7
IM - 10/17/2019

So it's 10 points to send and now it's charging 10 points to receive as well. Except when it tries to charge 11 points at first. AND how did I manage to start the day with 30, send 2 messages and then have 3 left an be unable to reply to a message sent me? Thanks for the great system and service

22 response(s), 28 votes
looking4fat 68 T
8 questions
Score 2.3
Positive Body Image ? - 10/17/2019

In the Group "Anything Goes" a poll has been posted asking how members refer to overweight females. Only two options were given; one positive and one negative. i chose the negative one, because it was closer to what i really think. (Check the poll to see my actual terminology.) However, it got me wondering about something that i have pondered for some time now. (Even though i have ...

18 response(s), 28 votes
Tom198502 62 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Denial of contact disciplined - 10/16/2019

Is denial of contact a form of punishment to a disobedient sub?

10 response(s), 40 votes
Ugly_Dumb_Slut 36 F
1 question
Score 0.0
Blocking - 10/16/2019

Is there an effective way to block other members from being able to contact you, tried the block link on profiles but it does nothing and still getting messages coming through.

23 response(s), 29 votes
CDEscape 46 T
1 question
Score 0.0
Music to Fuck to... - 10/15/2019

While music is not a necessity, it can be a kink, if you've got the right track. Maybe you even like to take some delicious dirty videos? What music do you add to the edited video ( the moaning and slapping sound of skin of course)? <br><br> So what do you think? Got any song suggestions to fuck to? Got a playlist to share? <br><br> *And to be clear, asking for music ...

10 response(s), 18 votes
PROMISCIOUS1 60 M
1 question
Score 0.0
add a freind icon - 10/15/2019

fellow alt followers, <br><br> When viewing members in the list mode, the add friend icon does not show on certain profiles. what's with this. Has the person already said they are not interested or been blocked ? What does that mean. thanks.

7 response(s), 11 votes
prestonsub16 29 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Forced bi- fantasy or made up? - 10/14/2019

Are people who pursue or enjoy the kink known as 'forced bi' living out a fetish or kidding themselves about their true sexuality? Especially interested to hear from those who've gone through with it. <br><br> No judgements towards LGBT please, keep it friendly

16 response(s), 17 votes
kenn1957 62 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
Midwest Munches - 10/14/2019

Are they're any "munches" conducted the Midwest anymore? I'm from Wisconsin and they were always so much fun back in the 90's. I miss attending those. Met a lot of nice people. Bigg Kenn

5 response(s), 10 votes
tongueuser4 53 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
Made a mistake - 10/14/2019

I somehow Made a mistake and hit remove bid on being a top fan on a member, I was a fan but now I am not even listed as a fan. Any idea how to get ranking back.

5 response(s), 15 votes
9161003 63 T
5 questions
Score 0.0
Older sissy - 10/12/2019

How do i start to meet new folks to use me? I have been on this site for many years also the name bp2436. I was in Maryland and now in texas. I am older than my profile pic and not as cute. I want to start meeting again. I have met in real time in the past least times and a couple lasted for years. See lrdbalto for references. How can i start again with discrete contacts. I have limited ...

7 response(s), 16 votes
9161003 63 T
5 questions
Score 0.0
Older sissy - 10/12/2019

How do i start to meet new folks to use me? I have been on this site for many years also the name bp2436. I was in Maryland and now in texas. I am older than my profile pic and not as cute. I want to start meeting again. I have met in real time in the past least times and a couple lasted for years. See lrdbalto for references. How can i start again with discrete contacts. I have limited ...

0 response(s), 0 votes
9161003 63 T
5 questions
Score 0.0
Older sissy - 10/12/2019

How do i start to meet new folks to use me? I have been on this site for many years also the name bp2436. I was in Maryland and now in texas. I am older than my profile pic and not as cute. I want to start meeting again. I have met in real time in the past least times and a couple lasted for years. See lrdbalto for references. How can i start again with discrete contacts. I have limited ...

0 response(s), 0 votes
9161003 63 T
5 questions
Score 0.0
Older sissy - 10/12/2019

How do i start to meet new folks to use me? I have been on this site for many years also the name bp2436. I was in Maryland and now in texas. I am older than my profile pic and not as cute. I want to start meeting again. I have met in real time in the past least times and a couple lasted for years. See lrdbalto for references. How can i start again with discrete contacts. I have limited ...

0 response(s), 0 votes
mture4rotty 45 M
6 questions
Score 0.0
looking - 10/12/2019

here looking for a mature woman that is wiling to try and willing to meet i am here to see what new and what there to do and see and meet

15 response(s), 13 votes
differntstrokes 58 M
10 questions
Score 2.2
Cams - 10/10/2019

Cams appear be working again. I wonder for how long?

13 response(s), 29 votes
bigbossman192 71 M
1 question
Score 0.0
who is in charge - 10/8/2019

I want to know why this site doesn't allow members paying and non paying to view and make contact with each other. I thought this was a dating site for people of a particular mind set/

28 response(s), 42 votes
SensualMatureDom 65 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Vanilla vs BDSM - 10/8/2019

When and how did you come to accept you aren't vanilla?

25 response(s), 33 votes
looking4fat 68 T
8 questions
Score 2.3
Thanks for the Spam - DickWads ! - 10/8/2019

It's bad enough that the new owners are doing their best to scare off members, now a couple idiots who are trolling for useless points have decided to spam the magazine section. And the mag is one of the few things that still works and that Everyone can participate in. <br><br> And what will they do with those points? Go on the IM (which rarely works) in hopes of ...

15 response(s), 32 votes
MrMister00 38 M
3 questions
Score 0.0
Let's go for 3 - 10/6/2019

Ignore for a third time

24 response(s), 38 votes
MrMister00 38 M
3 questions
Score 0.0
I wanna play again - 10/6/2019

Ignore this post as well

10 response(s), 19 votes
MrMister00 38 M
3 questions
Score 0.0
I wanna play - 10/6/2019

Ignore this post too

5 response(s), 14 votes
Daddy4babygirl19 42 M
3 questions
Score 0.0
Intelligence of the site administrator - 10/5/2019

Do they not think that if the small things like the IM or cams worked better, more people would be more likely to pay , instead of leaving this site all together?

25 response(s), 31 votes
Daddy4babygirl19 42 M
3 questions
Score 0.0
2 can play part 2 - 10/5/2019

As you can guess, ignore this post as well as the last one.

6 response(s), 18 votes
Daddy4babygirl19 42 M
3 questions
Score 0.0
2 can play - 10/5/2019

Ignore this post, just trying to have this site be slightly function by point grabbing.

14 response(s), 14 votes
looking4fat 68 T
8 questions
Score 2.3
Halloween Playlist ? - 10/4/2019

It seems like this time of year every Radio Station plays "Monster Mash." But if you were going to make up a Halloween playlist, what other songs would you include? Here are the ones that i would put in: > --- "Excitable Boy" (Warren Zevon) --- "Werewolves of London (ditto) --- "Season of the Witch" (Donovan) --- "Witchy Woman" (The Eagles) --- ...

2 response(s), 3 votes
looking4fat 68 T
8 questions
Score 2.3
Cleanliness ? - 9/27/2019

How important is cleanliness to you. Is it "Next to Godliness?" Or, as in the Manga below (read it right to left - it's Japanese) does the smell turn you on? <br><br> i've never sucked a stinky Dick myself. But i've often wondered what i'd do if i pulled a Man's pants down and was assaulted a three-day-stink, or even an uncut cock with smegma. ...

44 response(s), 61 votes
patmahon2 62 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Why can't i view any cams - 9/27/2019

They all say Member has stopped broadcasting383

35 response(s), 29 votes
Carol218 69 F
4 questions
Score 0.0
Voting - 9/26/2019

Has ALT suspended advice line voting for standard members or is it just another glitch? I tried to vote on a couple of questions and I get the "thanks for your vote" but it doesn't show up on the vote count.

41 response(s), 48 votes
MastROfPupets 53 C
10 questions
Score 0.0
Do you think ALT should be reported for False Advertising and Fraud for overcharging credit cards? - 9/24/2019

There are many polls in the community section voted on by ALT users, that show that ALT advertising of paid services included with Gold or Silver membership such as IMC, Webcams, Points system, Editor and many other features are not functioning as intended currently. <br><br> What is even worse is users are reporting repeated charges to credit cards after cancelling membership which ...

48 response(s), 57 votes
severdad65 48 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Switching - 9/23/2019

Are mot ladies leaning towards submissiveness? Being in control is not of interest?

15 response(s), 28 votes
GN4Royal22pd7boi 58 M
3 questions
Score 0.0
Is there an alternative to ALT - 9/21/2019

Seems things are getting to the point where if you are not a paying member you can’t use this line. Is there a similar line out there that is not somrezstrictive. I liked the anonymity of this line but now you have tonuses a credit card and I refuse to do that. Help

48 response(s), 54 votes
ducker97 22 M
5 questions
Score 0.0
What are some of your kinks that aren't very popular, but they are very fun? - 9/20/2019

Just widening my mind of more things I don't know about.

22 response(s), 27 votes
ducker97 22 M
5 questions
Score 0.0
How did you figure out what you actually wanted? - 9/20/2019

Myself being Bi-curious, and curious about lots of things. what made you realize it's what you wanted, and not some filthy thought?

10 response(s), 27 votes
ducker97 22 M
5 questions
Score 0.0
What exactly are you looking for on this site? - 9/20/2019

Good question ask understand if someone is just wanting FWB, ONS, or a relationship.

14 response(s), 19 votes
ducker97 22 M
5 questions
Score 0.0
What made you want to sleep with a TS? - 9/20/2019

I want know because I still just curious, but I haven't gotten over the hump of doing it.

9 response(s), 15 votes
ducker97 22 M
5 questions
Score 0.0
Best way to get introduced into BDSM? - 9/20/2019

Just curious if anyone has any first time experiences help me understand better, and figure what I like. Or even tips of what makes it good for you?

5 response(s), 20 votes
insatiabledaddy7 55 M
1 question
Score 0.0
10 point to chat - 9/18/2019

it gets worse as wego along but so good to see so many fake profiles and bullshit -

40 response(s), 34 votes
Monk0102 72 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Live Member Webcams - 9/15/2019

Is anyone able to view "Live Member Webcams"? If so, what are you using to view (desktop, laptop, mobile)? Are you a Gold, Silver or Standard member? <br><br> For the past month or more, trying to all webcams results in the ""whoever has stopped broadcasting. Click here to see more members broadcasting". However, I sometimes see folks chatting on the right ...

31 response(s), 30 votes
TimidJaneCD 68 T
14 questions
Score 0.0
PISS ENEMA - 9/13/2019

Is there anything in that when absorbed in the colon that can harm you?

10 response(s), 17 votes
mtmyballs2 63 M
1 question
Score 0.0
50 Shades of Grey? - 9/12/2019

How can I spank or paddle a married sub w/o leaving marks for her husband to see. She wnats it badly

20 response(s), 17 votes
GN4Royal22pd7boi 58 M
3 questions
Score 0.0
What is your opinion of Frottage - 9/12/2019

present society what is your opinion of frottage? Acceptable? Unacceptable?

8 response(s), 8 votes
lavielascif 50 T
86 questions
Score 0.0
Golden Shower - 9/12/2019

, , , This old way of refreshment and powerdrinks are stil forgot? This is the time to explöre the State of Golden Nectar and find the ultimate way of life -pantha rhei! How you think about this idea? , , , ...

17 response(s), 16 votes
Blkdomboy 37 M
3 questions
Score 0.0
Instant Chat - 9/10/2019

Do all are still having problems with instant chat? Think it's worst when I message a user is using a computer when I'm on my phone and vice-versa, any ideas how to make it work better?

17 response(s), 28 votes
TimidJaneCD 68 T
14 questions
Score 0.0
Hair removal - 9/10/2019

Is there anything stronger than Nair for removing hair from crotch and legs?

11 response(s), 9 votes
WantANewPeg73 46 M
5 questions
Score 0.0
Heart or Mind? - 9/3/2019

So being somewhat new to this, I guess lifestyle as many call it....I wonder, to those of you in relationships, do you tend to follow your heart or your mind? I find a lot of the time I am stuck choosing between what my heart is telling me i desire and what my mind is telling me is good or bad for me. <br><br> Your thoughts....thanks.

19 response(s), 18 votes
maxcat364 53 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Metal ahd glass toys - 8/30/2019

Do women prefer metal toys over plastic and rubber. I find metal amd glass to be more fun as you can heat and chill them

25 response(s), 33 votes
GN4Royal22pd7boi 58 M
3 questions
Score 0.0
Sub transforming to dom - 8/29/2019

When I joined this site I was a sub. I love to please. As time has gone on and I have interacted with others I find that I being in control And being a dom. It is still pleasing but in a different dynamic. <br><br> Is this possible? Am I wrong? Your thoughts!

17 response(s), 30 votes
Santinobello 38 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Are points being lost in conversation? - 8/29/2019

Points seem to be used up every time I chat? Anyone experiencing the thing?

33 response(s), 26 votes
Blkdomboy 37 M
3 questions
Score 0.0
Breath play - 8/28/2019

How far have you taken it?

10 response(s), 19 votes
Blksouldom 42 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Restrains! - 8/28/2019

What kind of restrains you find most efective, chains, cuffs, ropes, duct tape, etc..

15 response(s), 21 votes
SubTeddy0417 60 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Just gotta know - 8/25/2019

Really now how do u really ever know> I meam there are thousands of mistress' out there. Some claim to be mistress' or goddess' and all of them are always atleast one state away. So how does one who wants training go about finding a mistress without traveling . I am a good and loyal soul and without a doubt am a great candidate for slavery and . but I want not to have to because I ...

23 response(s), 28 votes
huey12345 47 M
1 question
Score 0.0
MO - 8/21/2019

where are the best swingers nights in MO?

5 response(s), 17 votes
Daddy2FuckUUp 60 M
3 questions
Score 0.9
Do you wish you'd gotten into kink earlier? - 8/18/2019

As a relatively late starter I often wonder how things might have been different if I'd started . Any thoughts?

52 response(s), 63 votes
Sherry551 65 F
3 questions
Score 0.0
WebCams - 8/16/2019

Is anyone else having problems viewing webcams" For the last week whenever I try to one it says they are no longer broadcasting. It is like that with every cam.

63 response(s), 55 votes
marriedmaster70 49 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Help with sub wife - 8/11/2019

. I wouldn't myself an experienced , but I'm learning. My wife is submissive me and I am looking for some advice / ideas for more ideas of fun scenes explore. This is not a "kneel in the corning with your nose just touching the wall for an hour" or a "you fucking suck his cock you choke on it" type of /sub relationship. She is submissive ME sexually. She already ...

7 response(s), 18 votes
MastROfPupets 53 C
10 questions
Score 0.0
IMC wont work for you? There is another option, use our Group Chat, All ALT users welcome. - 8/10/2019

IMC wont work you? There is another option, use our , All ALT users welcome. <br><br> Join ALT Website Community Feedback , ALT Website Community Feedback <br><br> h t t p s : / / alt.com/intgroups/gi44948/acshow_group.html? <br><br> This group has formed because ALT Website services are failing. <br><br> We have a group room ...

31 response(s), 61 votes
Iluvsitwet 34 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
Chat messed up? - 8/9/2019

Is messed up for everyone else too? <br><br> Seems like most chats dont go through and there are no free chats anymore

41 response(s), 43 votes
Daddy2FuckUUp 60 M
3 questions
Score 0.9
Favorite Gag - 8/8/2019

Have you got a favorite gag? Either to use or have used on you. What makes it special? Personally I like ring and ball gags that encourage a lot of drool.

28 response(s), 57 votes
Srabon88 34 M
1 question
Score 0.0
why not give free im - 8/6/2019

why alt authority nor give free im again ??

36 response(s), 57 votes
asianat2008 65 M
113 questions
Score 0.0
A SEPERATED LADY...sending gifts and then blocking?. - 8/4/2019

A seperated lady createsid on social sites. Asks for friendship. Once accepted her friendship first she for a couple of days makes relation asking many details. Then she tells she is to send you some costly to you. You say no to . Then she tells as a token of love she is interested to send some alongwith her some undisclosed document and items and sends to the person concerned through ...

24 response(s), 31 votes
BuffButt 28 F
1 question
Score 0.0
Should i get married upon my interests or keep t as my hidden secret - 7/28/2019

Single afraid expressing her love for everything getting proposals for decent men only leaving her in ebony

56 response(s), 71 votes
kdom4whores2 61 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Free IM's Gone ? - 7/27/2019

standard members used to have 5 free IM's per day has this been removed as it wants to charge me points or upgrade to gold to chat on IM now even when its the only one I have done that day. Does anyone know if alt have changed this or is it another bug?

47 response(s), 50 votes
67burak67 49 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
i dont understand - 7/23/2019

I'm not watching anyway... i don't understand

10 response(s), 18 votes
67burak67 49 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
i dont understand - 7/23/2019

" Standard Members May View One Video at a Time <br><br> Premium Members can connect to multiple webcams and enjoy unlimited access to profiles, email, photos and sexy video introductions. Upgrade now and get 6 months FREE! <br><br> Note: Standard members might need to wait 5 to 20 seconds after closing one webcam before they can open another. Upgrade now to get ...

2 response(s), 4 votes
Finallymetime 54 F
1 question
Score 0.0
IM Not Working - 7/22/2019

A friend referred me to this site and we are both gold members, we tried to test the IM so I could learn how to use it, but I am not receiving any messages. <br><br> I have already, deleted my cookies and updated my preferences.. Is there something else I can do?

43 response(s), 46 votes
TimidJaneCD 68 T
14 questions
Score 0.0
Cam Picture - 7/22/2019

How do I get a different picture that is displayed when I am on cam?

8 response(s), 17 votes
TimidJaneCD 68 T
14 questions
Score 0.0
Cam Picture - 7/22/2019

How do I get a different picture that is displayed when I am on cam?

1 response(s), 4 votes
TimidJaneCD 68 T
14 questions
Score 0.0
CAM BAN - 7/22/2019

I accidently banned a friend from my cam .How do I let him view my cam again ?

7 response(s), 14 votes
Iluvsitwet 34 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
IM always costing points? - 7/18/2019

Anyone else having trouble where it shows I have chats left but makes me use points each time?

62 response(s), 55 votes
retired425 57 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Cams - 7/18/2019

when trying to view a cam , it says I have to wait to view another cam, this message has popped up for several days now. Any way to clear it? Thanks

7 response(s), 16 votes
AlexDomBBC 51 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
What is your fascination with Big Black Cocks ? Just Asking - 7/17/2019

What is the fascination with Big Black Cocks ? Black Superiority over whites ? TPE Ttotal Power Exchange ?

15 response(s), 18 votes
ropeloco 57 M
1 question
Score 0.0
so many scammers - 7/11/2019

this is my second time around on this site. years ago i met the love of my life on here, unfortunately she recently passed away so i thought i'd try again...so far it's been a total drag, the last three women who contacted me ended up asking for ..it sucks and i'm about ready to give up....is there anyone real on here or am i just fooling myself ?

43 response(s), 40 votes
BoundForceOrgasm 23 F
1 question
Score 0.0
Do you find the dik piks annoying? - 7/5/2019

Are dik piks what people want too see? Or do you wish that guys did not post this as their profile photo?

58 response(s), 57 votes
Lrd_Strap 62 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Fish ad - 7/4/2019

What is it with the HD fish ad?

6 response(s), 17 votes
MasterpMistressh 34 C
1 question
Score 0.0
Experienced Dom couple seeking a submissive female PET, any one interested? - 7/3/2019

How many real females and girly Sissy's who really want to try this? Be honest ?

15 response(s), 26 votes
NewGirlNYC 49 T
1 question
Score 0.0
Has Alt eliminated gold memberships for active profiles? - 7/2/2019

With the recent software upgrade gold status on my account disappeared, and, to my surprise and disappointment, it hasn't been returned, despite activity that would previously have resulted in that status being restored. <br><br> Was there a policy change, perhaps unannounced? Did something go wrong? <br><br> Where would one look for answers? (E-mails to customer ...

41 response(s), 33 votes
LuvPinkTaco 46 M
11 questions
Score 0.0
Way too many bots! - 6/27/2019

Seriously, am I the only one getting bombarded by the same exact message from different bots on here? stuff like "hey ALT.com now at gmA_ildot .." or "do you like BDSM..." or even I love oral but hate condoms..." It cannot be any more obvious or dumb yet it really makes the site and IM real irritating and drains the energy out of everyone.

23 response(s), 30 votes
missionfreak 56 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Black Cams, how to get over this? - 6/27/2019

Hi all I can see are black cams, but others say that other free member are able to see cams. Are there some settings I need to change somewhere?

7 response(s), 19 votes
LuvPinkTaco 46 M
11 questions
Score 0.0
Instant Messages no Shows - 6/21/2019

For the past 2-3 weeks, it's been impossible to: 1) see your friends in the IM friends tab - but if you scroll down the list of chatters there they are 2) send a message, and reach the recipient - it just shows the message in the window with no status whatsoever <br><br> Thought it was just on my side but I tested it with friends sitting in the same room as me physically, on ...

44 response(s), 53 votes
your_Master371 42 M
1 question
Score 0.0
More fakes than before? - 6/13/2019

Who else have noticed a rash of fakes on here, or those who say they are something when they aren't?

53 response(s), 47 votes
WetHornyHot10 41 F
1 question
Score 0.0
Cams In The Dark - 6/13/2019

Was hoping to check of web camera videos on , but all i getting is dark space on the screen. I am a standard member was wondering if anyone else was having this problem too?

42 response(s), 43 votes
nudepainter 55 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Barns ? - 6/13/2019

so am I the only one with a deep desire to be locked and used in a barn ?

14 response(s), 20 votes
albanynycouple51 58 C
17 questions
Score 0.0
into real time fetish ? - 6/11/2019

fetish night at riplayground providence ri this sat june 15. we going you cum ing?
...

9 response(s), 22 votes
atong4u 69 M
5 questions
Score 0.1
POINTS Disipering ?? - 6/9/2019

Just wondering if anyone else has seen their points drop ? I don't have a lot but when a third disappear over night and I didn't use them <br><br> .

30 response(s), 28 votes
juicyslut2001 62 F
6 questions
Score 0.0
Alt mail changes? - 6/8/2019

I don;t think I like the way Alt is displaying now in my . Does anyone know if there's a way to switch it back to the way it used to display?

21 response(s), 37 votes
experiencedsub 54 M
4 questions
Score 0.0
Need suggestions for a friend - 6/4/2019

A friend of mine had his prostate removed due to cancer. (Fortunately, the cancer is gone now.) The doctor told him he would still be able to get erections and have orgasms but just no cum. The doctor lied. His cock is never more than an inch long, and always soft. An erection is not possible for him, and certainly no satisfaction of any kind. <br><br> He wants to be useful to a ...

11 response(s), 23 votes
popeyej45 69 C
10 questions
Score 0.0
Daytona Beach - 6/3/2019

Headed to D.B. later this summer. Would appreciate any suggestions for adult entertainment--theaters, book stores, munches, video arcades, open minded bars or clubs---any advice is appreciated.

15 response(s), 31 votes
slavebob2018a 67 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Alerting all to the fakes - 6/2/2019

Being a non=paying member, how can you let others know about all the liars and fake I talkd to one who said she lived on a frm and in a certain city and reality was she lived downtown in Cincy. <br><br> Ither one is portraying themselves as a female and really is a male. <br><br> There has to be a way to alert all.

21 response(s), 31 votes
joeysmith126 47 M
1 question
Score 0.0
LOOKINGFORSEXUALHOOKUPS - 6/1/2019

weekdays top asseating, fucking, cocksucking

9 response(s), 23 votes
albanynycouple51 58 C
17 questions
Score 0.0
albany ny area couples n dom black men any seeking real meets? - 5/28/2019

putting a meet n freak out in albany ny this sunday afternoon june 2.we meet over drink then freak at hotel party room.any local dom black men n couples who love em seeking real time this sunday?
...

14 response(s), 25 votes
MrSolo1955 64 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Faces not asses! - 5/27/2019

Why? Why?? WHY!!! <br><br> Asses and nice and all but I'm here to meet new people/ pets. For me, the eyes really are the window to the soul and a smile, or lack thereof can tell me a million things about a person. <br><br> So How am I supposed to get to know you via your glutial muscles? Let me look into you! let me know a bit about the mind I want to mindfuck. That ...

22 response(s), 24 votes
candy_stickkk 34 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
Can i watch even ONE cam? - 5/27/2019

When i try to watch a member livecam i recieve a message that standart members can view only one cam at time but i can't watch even ONE. I 'm not watching any cams and it still writes that i can't watch more than ONE, when i don't watch any. Deleted coockies, history and even browser and still the same! Please give me some help what to do to watch that ONE cam i can watch when ...

18 response(s), 26 votes
candy_stickkk 34 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
Live Member Webcams - 5/27/2019

When i try to watch a member livecam i recieve a message that standart members can view only one cam at time but i can't watch even ONE. I 'm not watching any cams and it still writes that i can't watch more than ONE, when i don't watch any. Deleted coockies, history and even browser and still the same! Please give me some help what to do to watch that ONE cam i can watch when ...

9 response(s), 14 votes
KindDommexx 48 F
1 question
Score 0.0
Having account removed - 5/26/2019

A friend has had her account removed 5 times. Each time she starts again. It is after a time removed. These removals have always happened the day after she is contacted by a certain user. She does not respond as this user is known to her as a nasty man who threatens those who say "no" <br><br> On contacting the site she is put through t the abuse team and is told her ...

18 response(s), 39 votes
SinPerdition 37 M
6 questions
Score 0.1
How do you not be hairy? Lolz - 5/25/2019

Hello, <br><br> I have recently gotten into not being hairy and have experimented with a few different things such as shaving, waxing and hair removal cream. <br><br> I find shaving my chest and hair removal cream for my lower areas works well for me. Waxing was just a mess; patchy, unsmooth and itchy after. <br><br> What do you do to keep your bod sexy smooth? ...

8 response(s), 19 votes
U_N_Me 66 T
1 question
Score 0.0
posting an article - 5/24/2019

posting, but I seem not to be a member of a group. how do I do ?

4 response(s), 18 votes
daisymaytv 56 T
5 questions
Score 0.0
the usual chat request - 5/23/2019

<br><br> Hi <br><br> Now I have been around here for quite a few years now so generally know how the site dose and dosnt work. <br><br> I also know that as a non paying member (I recently lost my free gold) that you only get the chance to initiate 5 chats a day. <br><br> The other day I answered a chat request from a person I chat to on a regular ...

16 response(s), 24 votes
HerPlayToyForUse 32 M
3 questions
Score 0.0
How do you trust again after being ghosted by your Owner/Domme? - 5/20/2019

Recently I had an Owner just stop talking to me and blocked me out of absolutely nowhere. Nothing warranted this, neither of us had any problems leading up to this, this is not the first time this has happened but it is the one is having the most impact on my psychologically. It makes me think "what's wrong with me". <br><br> I'm tired of all the scammers and fakes ...

13 response(s), 17 votes
clampernipple 77 M
18 questions
Score 0.0
NIpple clamps? - 5/17/2019

Nipple clamps I can not without them. i now wrap them with many turns of rubber bands to make them pinch harder. i rub baby powder well into my nipples first to keep them from slipping off while pulling . Can i do any real damage. how will i know not to go too far. thanks

13 response(s), 20 votes
Carol218 69 F
4 questions
Score 0.0
Site freezing - 5/17/2019

Is anyone else having problems with the site freezing up when they log on? It is very annoying. If there was a different site to go to I would in a heartbeat.

19 response(s), 19 votes
asianat2008 65 M
113 questions
Score 0.0
Requests for money on social sites. - 5/13/2019

She meets on a social site. Within a couple of days She becomes and more friendly and send hot photos of her.In next week she appears sad and says that she is not happy. When asked she needs money and she needs to pay for the bills of hospital as her close relation had an accident and struggling for life. Hospital expenses are mounting and to foot the bills she asks for immediate help without ...

27 response(s), 33 votes
Handsomencruel 39 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
IM issues - 5/12/2019

Is it only me, or others have troubles too with IM not lading properly ? The interface is open, but the background remains bleak, I can't see the handles. I tried to access it with two different browsers, the result is the same.

17 response(s), 32 votes
Skeptic454 35 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Logged into someone’s account - 5/7/2019

This is extremely scary that I am logged into someone’s account and can see everything they have done. I didn’t nothing but try to log into my account. Thinking anyone and everyone should start looking at legal action cause all your info is compromised...

28 response(s), 46 votes
Carol218 69 F
4 questions
Score 0.0
Someone else's account - 5/7/2019

This afternoon when I signed on the page came up as someone else's. I signed off and back on three times before it came up as mine. Is this something I should be concerned about or is it just another glitch?

34 response(s), 40 votes
Boyo48 60 M
3 questions
Score 0.0
Password Won't Work - 5/5/2019

I've been using this site for years but for months now I can't get into it. It comes up INCORRECT PASSWORD. I try to reset, again INCORRECT PASSWORD. I got email from ALT. saying that someone else was trying to hack my password or some such thing. <br><br> I called ALL the HELP/CONTACT numbers and they were all answered by the same smug, condescending, TOTALLY USELESS AND ...

7 response(s), 20 votes
rxc4020 24 F
1 question
Score 0.0
Can’t get this fantasy out of my mind... - 5/5/2019

For a couple of years now, I’ve been playing out this fantasy when I masturbate. The premise is that I’m a waitress/hostess of a private poker party. Dressed in some gorgeous, slinky underwear. My Master is in charge of the party but everyone else is enjoying my “hostess” skills. At some point in the evening I sit on my Master’s lap whilst he gets me off under the table with his ...

29 response(s), 69 votes
popeyej45 69 C
10 questions
Score 0.0
female gangbang - 5/3/2019

Do groups of females ever get together and gang bang another female??

18 response(s), 38 votes
myDominaK 49 F
1 question
Score 0.0
Where are the physically strong men aching to submit? - 4/28/2019

There is a use for every body type in the BDSM world so why is it so hard to find a strong man strong enough to truly submit?

35 response(s), 54 votes
GirIsGirIsGirIs 22 F
1 question
Score 0.0
Why do men cheat? - 4/26/2019

WHY???????

52 response(s), 50 votes
steelwand 51 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
So many fakes - 4/25/2019

Hello everyone, I have been contacted by about 10 So called mistresses and masters. They claim they will only train you after you buy training toys from them or a so called email address. I don't really have a question but wanted to warn everyone and see if other people are seeing these types of fake people. One person said they wanted me to buy 6 kits(training items) and the total price ...

21 response(s), 35 votes
cevinslave4me1 41 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Any sl,ut women out there? - 4/21/2019

I'm here looking for a female submissive slave, someone near sl, ut...any of u interested???

18 response(s), 33 votes
jasonarg3333 34 M
1 question
Score 0.0
models? - 4/21/2019

Just wondering..seem to be finding a lot of members on here giving direct links to theirown cam sites which have to be paid for??any1 else finding this??

17 response(s), 26 votes
BigBeachGuy 50 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Why does my partner only achieve orgasm when tied up? - 4/19/2019

When I was in a relationship a while back, my partner always enjoyed being tied . Basically, sex always involved rope, handcuffs or restraints of some sort. She was anything but submissive outside the bedroom, but always seemed unable to achieve orgasm without being restrained in some way. <br><br> When we had "vanilla" sex she enjoys it, but when she was tied, she always ...

19 response(s), 31 votes
submanbxl 63 M
5 questions
Score 0.0
Is it just me? - 4/19/2019

i have to admit i find it flattering being hotlisted by P/people. However, when the people hotlisting are other subs looking for a Dom, i do tend to feel a bit confused. What part of my nickname and profile aren't they getting?

11 response(s), 16 votes
keithbyrd 47 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Is cbt, leashing, dangerous - 4/8/2019

Wondering if leashing the balls and or cock is possibly damaging or not. How tight is too tight, is there any thing to watch out for. Doing it off and all for some and no problems but always wondered and still sometimes nervous as to length of time, etc. Any advice or stories or even fun thing to try?

33 response(s), 34 votes
obedicer 54 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
Attached but looking, am I frowned upon? - 4/5/2019

OK so I've been on here a while and tried to interact and be nice & friendly but so far have had no real interest or interaction. So I'm wondering is it my profile or is it that I'm married? There are many reasons why attached people might be on here, for me it's because I have a need that I can't get at home, don't want to change things and so am looking for a ...

39 response(s), 43 votes
LuvPinkTaco 46 M
11 questions
Score 0.0
Member activity on the main page - 4/3/2019

Anyone experiencing the members Activity section on the main page not loading up with member's statues and comments? It seems for the past days the section just never loads.

26 response(s), 47 votes
SinPerdition 37 M
6 questions
Score 0.1
ED meds - 4/2/2019

Hello! <br><br> After a couple of awkward encounters I began getting a bit of performance anxiety. So I decided to take Cialis. I took 20mg and found my performance was extremely good (I received positive feedback from her too i promise lol). <br><br> I was able to get very hard multiple times over a 24 hour period and felt very enthusiastic about sex. In addition to that ...

12 response(s), 21 votes
looking4fat 68 T
8 questions
Score 2.3
Testicle Torture: yea or nay? - 3/31/2019

A few weeks back, i participated in a discussion in one of the Groups titled; "Women Kicking Men in the Balls." It included some "gifs" taken from Porn Vids on the subject. And while the actions portrayed seemed painful, they were also (like almost all Porn) contrived. <br><br> The General Consensus of the Group was that Real Ball Kicking could/would be very ...

29 response(s), 36 votes
obedicer 54 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
BDSM Contracts, yes or no? - 3/27/2019

What are peoples views on BDSM Contracts when meeting a new partner? I find even with a sexual play scene as a one off, having some sort of agreed limits, preferences is useful. Particularly interested in the views of Sub females?

30 response(s), 50 votes
BuilderSir 54 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
nipple piercing - 3/24/2019

I am curious mostly from women but for men too. not many women respond here but anyway: How does having the nipple pierced feel during play? for the women? for the man? For the women how does it feel getting it done? and is there any special feeling about it in general?

17 response(s), 27 votes
plztongueme 61 F
1 question
Score 0.0
Dom how to become one - 3/24/2019

how would i go about being a Dom and what is the Sub supposed do or be made do any help is appreciated and would love and older Sub in Missouri or Arkansas

23 response(s), 44 votes
stefancassie69 41 C
1 question
Score 0.0
Question for bimale - 3/23/2019

Does anyone else fantasize about eating their wife's pussy while getting fucked deep in the ass

30 response(s), 46 votes
Truckee911000 57 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Fakes and Scammers - 3/23/2019

Why doesn't Alt do more to eradicate fake profiles? Is there no sort of vetting process?

14 response(s), 25 votes
BuilderSir 54 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
tongue piercing - 3/20/2019

For those men who have head from someone with a tongue piercing how was it? how did it compare to non pierced?

15 response(s), 19 votes
SinPerdition 37 M
6 questions
Score 0.1
Collaring - 3/16/2019

I was in a discussion where a slave was asking a domme if he could be collared by her. This got me on to thinking on the subject of collaring ... <br><br> Doms/Dommes; please can you let me know what you would like from you subs/slaves before they are collared and what conditions you would require of them there after? <br><br> Subs/Slaves; what would you like to have ...

10 response(s), 28 votes
MasterGrog 78 M
1 question
Score 0.0
is this the place... - 3/9/2019

to advertise dungeon equipment available?

28 response(s), 29 votes
slave10162 62 M
1 question
Score 0.0
I like your opinion for my first time being a master role - 3/8/2019

Johns master #1 March 2019 <br><br> She addresses me as Master or Master John She cannot speak unless spoken permission Or she gets a paddle on her but or string around Her nipples with a clothes pin. <br><br> 1 stand in the middle of family room take off your clothes touching your Breasts Pussy turn around, lean forward, spread your legs Take both ...

28 response(s), 26 votes
98percentsub 47 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
Initial Introduction Mistakes - 3/5/2019

You browse until you find someone to your likin Write them a letter. Or flirt. Or list. Sit back and wait. Surprise - they respond and they actually sound like real people. You happily write back. And NEVER hear from them again. What did you do wrong? Thoughts?

26 response(s), 34 votes
98percentsub 47 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
How best to detect fakes - 2/25/2019

I have written to a number of contacts on this site who purport to be this or that and waste valuable time before it finally becomes obvious they are total fakes. I would be interested to hear how some of you deal with this all too common problem.

45 response(s), 42 votes
1988desire1988 30 F
1 question
Score 0.0
where are my slaves ? - 2/21/2019

im here just looking for submissive slaves, any of u intrested ???

39 response(s), 100 votes
Jag_60 61 M
22 questions
Score 0.0
Cheapskates? - 2/12/2019

I am amazed at the amount of complaints about not being able to view messages or profiles when you can simply purchase a membership. Nothing in life is free and purchasing a membership to pursue your kink seems !Ike a small price to pay to pursue what you seek. It seems to me if your unwilling to acquire an opportunity to meet other like-minded people then how enthusiastically will you be in ...

51 response(s), 67 votes
SinPerdition 37 M
6 questions
Score 0.1
Group Dynamics - 2/9/2019

I have been lucky enough to meet a great Domme! <br><br> However, I am not sure what is the usual protocol in a group dynamic (I have a reasonable amount of one on one experienced but groups are new to me). <br><br> I was shocked recently when another Domme wanted me to follow her orders. I was still with my Domme and felt very uncomfortable. My opinion was that I have ...

32 response(s), 40 votes
baudeight 77 M
3 questions
Score 0.0
tattooed tongue - 2/7/2019

does anyone have any information on the tattooing of the tongue as a mark of ownership or even if it is done. The question has been raised as to the tattooing of a male slaves tongue with the ace of spades and BBC its right ass cheek would receive the same mark.

10 response(s), 33 votes
Carol218 69 F
4 questions
Score 0.0
Friends - 2/6/2019

I have noticed several times that if I get a friend request and do not either accept or reject right away, they are added to my friend list without me accepting them. <br><br> Has this happened to anyone else?

22 response(s), 46 votes
bootlckboy39 46 M
2 questions
Score 1.7
Comfortable Femdom vs kink - 1/24/2019

What makes you feel Femdom is comfortable vs just a closet kink? <br><br> Some say it is how you handle in public while other how the day to day goes.

9 response(s), 33 votes
whiteklan70 61 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
Do you laugh at.. - 1/21/2019

When you visit a chat room and look over the room rules and mods do you laugh when you see that both the moderator and the mods sub or Dominant are fakes . Or do you like most on this site get into the role play and not care if the site has been ruined by fakes , fools , and morons so hard up they even invent their Owners or sub/slaves

19 response(s), 40 votes
whiteklan70 61 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
those banned - 1/19/2019

After entering a room and watching out for the wolf droppings . I was attacked for calling a female by part of her username , her online owner was also upset by my use of the name . I made some sarcastic remarks to the 102 year old owner of said sXXt and she banned me. This is no big loss however as most of the 102 year olds on line slaves are as fake as their owner. One good thing though. I did ...

16 response(s), 36 votes
GoodDom128 65 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
Orgasms - 1/19/2019

I had a lover once that loved to give Blowjobs. She could Orgasm when I ejaculated in her mouth. Is this unusual or common for some Women?

28 response(s), 47 votes
TravlFunTm4U 59 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Is it wrong to masturbate to someone's profile picture you haven't met? - 1/18/2019

Is it wrong to masturbate to someone's profile picture you haven't met? Asking for a friend

27 response(s), 38 votes
FunJim65 54 M
1 question
Score 0.0
What kind of dungon are people looking for? - 1/17/2019

I'm thinking of building a dungon. Not sure what kind of walls to have. Wood walls or rock? How light or how dark. And no, I'm not thinking Fifty Shades. What are peoples thoughts.

21 response(s), 25 votes
tastetester61 58 M
3 questions
Score 0.0
How To Catch A Travelling Sub. MK2 - 1/14/2019

For some reason alt decided to remove my previous question here. I have mailed them asking why without reply. I can only assume it was an error on their part, so I'm reposting it. __________________________ Hi All, Some years back I luckily managed to convince a sub to meet up with me and accompany me while travelling in the US (I'm from Australia). I played the role of a daddy dom, and ...

5 response(s), 6 votes
tastetester61 58 M
3 questions
Score 0.0
How To Catch A Travelling Sub. - 1/11/2019

Hi All, Some years back I luckily managed to convince a sub to meet up with me and accompany me while travelling in the US (I'm from Australia). I played the role of a daddy dom, and she my . I had complete control over her, down to even giving her spending money. I played a very parental role, controlling everything we did, at the same time doing everything I could to give her a great time. ...

11 response(s), 11 votes
Dillonandrew1 43 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Why is chat so restrictive - 1/8/2019

Don’t get me wrong I understand the commercial reason behind restricting chat points but really if it were less strict and increased would it not encourage the alt community more and make the site better and rank higher? What do the paying members think of that though?!ah

42 response(s), 46 votes
MrsBStrong 72 C
35 questions
Score 0.0
Why need a bull? - 1/6/2019

In many profiles people ask for a bull for the wife. <br><br> Every time I see this I wonder. In many cases soft hands and skilled fingers can give better orgasms than just a dick. <br><br> Many times I have made my slave husband available for giving erotic massages and nearly always the receiver got deep orgasms. <br><br> Don't people know skilled fingers ...

35 response(s), 64 votes
2old2run 66 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
May I say Thank You? - 1/5/2019

Hello, May I say Thank You to all of you that read and or made a comment on my question about does anyone read profiles. I have read all that have come in and Thank You. You have all made it very clear to me that there are some very wonderful people on this site. All of you have made my day by just answering my question. Hugs and THANK YOU. 2old2run

22 response(s), 26 votes
Masterdesiresyou 71 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Coutesy - Respect - 1/5/2019

I read all the time about how submissive members get upset about trolls and such....but let Me ask this group about My experiences as well.....I see an interesting submissive with possibilities.....as well as picks from this site. I write a very polite introduction. I include My profile. I make no demands. All I ask for, (in no direct timeline) is a simple response. Interested or not interested? ...

16 response(s), 17 votes
alicdunc153 35 F
1 question
Score 0.0
How to i get more points - 1/5/2019

Hey member, I am just here to accumulate more points but i don't know how

29 response(s), 48 votes
TrainTheO 38 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Is it just me or - 1/4/2019

Is it just me or are the scammers on site singe of the laziest in the world? Their profiles often read the same or are just horrible english. Usernames differing only in the random numbers attached to the ends. I mean come on scammers, at least put forth a heartfelt effort.

13 response(s), 26 votes
tastetester61 58 M
3 questions
Score 0.0
Who's having major site operational Problems? - 12/30/2018

So, after 2 years as a non paying member I decided to pay up in the hope that the major issues with this site had been rectified. Yeah sure, being overrun by scammers and fakes were still going to be here, that's just how this site operates. So, the site offers an upgrade deal whereby I pay for 12 months gold membership, and I get 18 months. However, when I check the auto renew status, it ...

15 response(s), 33 votes
albanynycouple51 58 C
17 questions
Score 0.0
meet greets n freak events partys - 12/28/2018

where can you find events meet greets partys . or post new 1s on this site ??

26 response(s), 32 votes
xextrax 51 M
1 question
Score 0.0
cock pics .. bad? - 12/27/2018

do, as i have a cock pic on my profile, i am wondering why women seem so off=put by the same..? <br><br> I do not mind nice pussy profile pic .. ..

34 response(s), 31 votes
masterbob0 52 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Safety in a relationship is it a weakness - 12/27/2018

how do you guys feel about a safe word between a don and a submissive, is it a sign of weakness from the do ?

15 response(s), 27 votes
Jag_60 61 M
22 questions
Score 0.0
Safeword Situations. and - 12/24/2018

Curious how many of you have actually used a "safeword" during scenes or play, if so what was involved in the activity that was so intense you were compelled to use it, and did your partner heed your stated desire to stop right away or did you have to invoke it more than once.

19 response(s), 29 votes
PraiseKek 33 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
What would you do in this catch 22? - 12/20/2018

Imagine that you're in charge of Alt. You can't afford to fix the site and members are getting pissed off. You start to cut costs to keep the lights on, but that only pisses more people off and now you have even less money to fix the place. You could: 1) Raise prices to fund an upgrade - but at the risk of pissing off your most valuable users and if they leave it doesn't matter ...

30 response(s), 25 votes
2old2run 66 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
does anyone read profiles? - 12/19/2018

Hello, I sure that this question has been asked a 1000 or more times on this site. But, I am getting emails from 20 to 38 year old ladies that want me to be their.. Master, Slave, Sub, for a LTR. They say nothing about being a friend, or someone to talk with. If they had taken the time to read my profile they would see that I am not looking to be a Master or Slave in a LTR. And they would see ...

44 response(s), 41 votes
Pippac 43 F
1 question
Score 0.0
"Fake views" - 12/17/2018

Hi guys, <br><br> I have a lot of men messaging me saying that I have viewed their profiles multiple times when I haven't. Some of these are guys I have turned down and understandably they find this confusing. Does anyone else have this problem? Girls is it the price I pay for getting free gold membership? Or is it just alt's way of getting us talking to each other? ...

30 response(s), 48 votes
daisymaytv 56 T
5 questions
Score 0.0
Alt down - 12/13/2018

<br><br> Hi <br><br> Did anybody else suffer ALT being offline on Thursday? All I kept getting was "Error 500 internal server error". Now its back IM is playing up again with only 21 members online and nobody local to the UK. Everybody is stateside. <br><br> Have fun and play safe <br><br> Daisy

37 response(s), 40 votes
arero 63 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Body Mod - 12/11/2018

Nurse has been learning suturing and of course she wants to practice so I get lines of stitches put in and taken out. Doesn't bother me (or turn me on either), but I got to thinking... <br><br> If one made a cut in two separate places, say the left and right forearm, then instead of closing each cut, sutured the two cuts together, presumably they would grow together and become a ...

5 response(s), 19 votes
vicki_new 47 F
5 questions
Score 0.0
Waxing frequency? - 12/8/2018

Hello everyone. <br><br> I choose to wax my pussy. My waxed says every four to five weeks. How often do you go? I feel quite hairy waiting a whole month between waxes. Granted the hair comes in soft and sparse after waxing for a while but I'm curious if other geographies wax more often. Thanks.

17 response(s), 41 votes
tenderdom2 70 M
9 questions
Score 0.0
E mails - 12/6/2018

Recently the incidence of gorgeous girls with a year or so of membership mailing me in ALT has risen markedly. That would be nice but they have a common practice of demanding my email address before we have a serious conversation. I believe they are scammers who want to send me a nasty link and I send them on their way. Anyone have any experience with these types? Am I being overcautious?

15 response(s), 28 votes
looking4fat 68 T
8 questions
Score 2.3
Strange Things male "subs" Do - 12/5/2018

Genetically male subs, no matter where we fall in the spectrum of submission, tend to be, well... odd. We don't really fit well in "normal" (whatever that is) society. But some things that many of the guys (i won't call them Men) who aspire to submit do on here are so illogical that they make me shake my head in wonder. For instance; <br><br> 1- When they ...

16 response(s), 22 votes
subzero98 43 M
1 question
Score 0.0
World AIDS Day - 11/30/2018

December 1st is World AIDS Day. <br><br> It is a reminder that HIV and AIDS are still with us and much work remains to be done. It is a day to bring about more awareness and to help raise funds for research and education among many other things. <br><br> Looking at unaids organisation website I found both disturbing and promising statistics which I would like to share: ...

15 response(s), 14 votes
tmorn321 40 F
1 question
Score 0.0
Are there any serious people out here - 11/28/2018

I cant believe how many people on here(women since that is what i seek) are so full of BS. They commit to meet then dont show or disappear. One of these days will get one to meet

46 response(s), 52 votes
borris998 58 C
1 question
Score 0.0
Trouble with Instant Messenger - 11/27/2018

Hi just wondering if anyone else if having issues with Instant Messenger. Located in Qld Australia, its not working to our normal filters.: Is anyone else having issues?

46 response(s), 51 votes
Jag_60 61 M
22 questions
Score 0.0
Tusseling with Tits - 11/27/2018

Binding a pair of tits until their stripped of oxygen is a breathtaking experience. I have observed some rather unique and intricate imaginations to restrict breast that are spellbinding. My question is do you prefer harnesses, hemp or nipple clamps decorating your tits to quell your desires for pain/pleasure. Im sure there are other methods and tools that are equally enjoyable and im all ears.

9 response(s), 18 votes
EmkcuFzlp 53 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Who has had prostate orgasm? - 11/25/2018

No other stimulation , just prostate massage

15 response(s), 30 votes
LuvPinkTaco 46 M
11 questions
Score 0.0
Kinkiest of all? - 11/24/2018

Who are the kinkiest people of all ? I'll keep it just in the US but feel free to tell of others Are they on the East coast or the West Coast? More so the South or North of country? Did you notice they are even kinkier and pervier in the Midwest.. or in New England .. or in La La Land ? A lot said it all depends on the warmer weather, social and financial conditions etc etc... What say you ?

4 response(s), 24 votes
JackDeviant 46 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Being a Switch ...or not? - 11/17/2018

The duality of being a Switch is sometimes difficult to come to terms with! Sometimes submissive and other times dominant makes it difficult for long term relationships, especially when most people in this community are either one or another permanently. <br><br> I was wondering if it would be better to try and stick to being either a Sub or Dom by subduing one side of myself. If I ...

7 response(s), 22 votes
Jag_60 61 M
22 questions
Score 0.0
Newbie vs Tenured - 11/17/2018

In a moment of honesty would you prefer a sub/slave that is new to the lifestyle or one that has years of experience and why? Oh and for those who think it does not matter, please explain.

18 response(s), 39 votes
whiplash43 75 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
WHATS UP RUBBER DUCK - 11/15/2018

YES LET ME KNOW IF YOUR RUBBER DUCK IS NEEDING A GOOD WASHING AND DRYING BY LIPS. I AM IN LIVINGSTON, COUNTY IN MICHIGAN AND AM IN NEED OF BEING USED ONCE IN AWHILE. SO PLEASE ANSWER THE QUESTION OF WHAT IS UP RUBBER DUCK.

6 response(s), 27 votes
albanynycouple51 58 C
17 questions
Score 0.0
Spankgiving you getting or giving ? - 11/15/2018

its the month of spankgiving are you getting or giving......

31 response(s), 45 votes
Cigarass 61 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Define ,, what is a sissy ? - 11/14/2018

, , I know there are several types of sissy's. Wonders what you think a sissy is and what makes them so good or bad ? curiosity is not a fetish

7 response(s), 23 votes
baudeight 77 M
3 questions
Score 0.0
unconsicous use - 11/11/2018

are there any down sides or dangers to being fucked while unconscious other than being penetrated without a condom?

18 response(s), 32 votes
chokin4950 69 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Cuckolding - 11/6/2018

I'm not sure why but for the past couple of years I've had an incredibly intense desire eto share my wife with another guy. I'm not sure where this came from but all I have to do is think about it and I get hard. I'm not sure how to approach this but I want to carry it forward. Suggestions??

22 response(s), 32 votes
lavielascif 50 T
86 questions
Score 0.0
Facesitting - 11/6/2018

Well buttpluged and facesited? Who experienced about this submission? ...

13 response(s), 34 votes
LuvPinkTaco 46 M
11 questions
Score 0.0
Honest curiosity.. - 11/3/2018

Before I ask, let me preface my question by saying "to each their own, whatever floats your boat". This pertains purely to the Relationship context and not the Artistic context (photography/audio/video, etc). What's the real difference between Sugar Babies, , Prostitutes and all the financially-driven companionship lifestyles? No no no, I am not asking why you chose to be or partake ...

10 response(s), 30 votes
loveofadventure 63 M
5 questions
Score 0.0
Punished - 10/30/2018

Nobody I know likes to be punished. If you do, good for you. <br><br> What types of punishment are best or worse in your opinion

13 response(s), 40 votes
solelicker1213 67 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Re-kindling very old friendships - 10/29/2018

I've been thinking about contacting an acquaintance from a log time ago. She and I were pretty hot for one another, but life got in the way. I know no one knows the particular situation but do you think I should contact and express some new found kinks for fun?

21 response(s), 14 votes
advent43 63 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Upgrades - 10/27/2018

Hey Peeps, I just finished a few months of free gold and decided to check out the upgrade . What I found was odd, there is still a silver upgrade as well as the more expensive gold. Odd because the other various sites that I'm aware of no longer offer a silver membership...I suppose the only question I have is the gold really worth it? I don't exactly hang out here, but what of adding ...

17 response(s), 26 votes
subforall69 62 M
1 question
Score 0.0
best way - 10/25/2018

What's the best way to find a dominate strict mistress or master?

19 response(s), 25 votes