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insatiabledaddy7 55 M
1 question
Score 6.3
10 point to chat - 9/18/2019

it gets worse as wego along but so good to see so many fake profiles and bullshit -

21 response(s), 14 votes
Monk0102 72 M
1 question
Score 16.4
Live Member Webcams - 9/15/2019

Is anyone able to view "Live Member Webcams"? If so, what are you using to view (desktop, laptop, mobile)? Are you a Gold, Silver or Standard member? <br><br> For the past month or more, trying to all webcams results in the ""whoever has stopped broadcasting. Click here to see more members broadcasting". However, I sometimes see folks chatting on the right ...

33 response(s), 25 votes
TimidJaneCD 67 T
11 questions
Score 2.6
PISS ENEMA - 9/13/2019

Is there anything in that when absorbed in the colon that can harm you?

12 response(s), 15 votes
mtmyballs2 62 M
1 question
Score 0.0
50 Shades of Grey? - 9/12/2019

How can I spank or paddle a married sub w/o leaving marks for her husband to see. She wnats it badly

16 response(s), 13 votes
GN4Royal22pd7boi 58 M
2 questions
Score 0.1
What is your opinion of Frottage - 9/12/2019

present society what is your opinion of frottage? Acceptable? Unacceptable?

9 response(s), 5 votes
lavielascif 50 T
84 questions
Score 0.9
Golden Shower - 9/12/2019

, , , This old way of refreshment and powerdrinks are stil forgot? This is the time to explöre the State of Golden Nectar and find the ultimate way of life -pantha rhei! How you think about this idea? , , , ...

15 response(s), 13 votes
Blkdomboy 37 M
2 questions
Score 5.5
Instant Chat - 9/10/2019

Do all are still having problems with instant chat? Think it's worst when I message a user is using a computer when I'm on my phone and vice-versa, any ideas how to make it work better?

18 response(s), 27 votes
TimidJaneCD 67 T
11 questions
Score 2.6
Hair removal - 9/10/2019

Is there anything stronger than Nair for removing hair from crotch and legs?

10 response(s), 9 votes
RandomKnight 49 M
1 question
Score 4.3
Hotlisting - 9/8/2019

What is it with people adding you to their hotlist but then making no further attempt to communicate and ignoring IMs (when they work)? <br><br> Do they hope you will become a fan? <br><br> What is the point?

25 response(s), 22 votes
WantANewPeg73 45 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Heart or Mind? - 9/3/2019

So being somewhat new to this, I guess lifestyle as many call it....I wonder, to those of you in relationships, do you tend to follow your heart or your mind? I find a lot of the time I am stuck choosing between what my heart is telling me i desire and what my mind is telling me is good or bad for me. <br><br> Your thoughts....thanks.

19 response(s), 17 votes
knott4milfs 25 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
taboo - 9/1/2019

looking and looking. for mature woman that are willing to try new kinky taboo. woman that are tired of the sex and old . one that want to spice things up and try and explore there limit. something that woman like to try and always fantasies about but never try it.

40 response(s), 34 votes
maxcat364 55 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Metal ahd glass toys - 8/30/2019

Do women prefer metal toys over plastic and rubber. I find metal amd glass to be more fun as you can heat and chill them

26 response(s), 31 votes
GN4Royal22pd7boi 58 M
2 questions
Score 0.1
Sub transforming to dom - 8/29/2019

When I joined this site I was a sub. I love to please. As time has gone on and I have interacted with others I find that I being in control And being a dom. It is still pleasing but in a different dynamic. <br><br> Is this possible? Am I wrong? Your thoughts!

18 response(s), 27 votes
Santinobello 37 M
1 question
Score 0.2
Are points being lost in conversation? - 8/29/2019

Points seem to be used up every time I chat? Anyone experiencing the thing?

42 response(s), 24 votes
Blkdomboy 37 M
2 questions
Score 5.5
Breath play - 8/28/2019

How far have you taken it?

10 response(s), 19 votes
Blksouldom 42 M
1 question
Score 0.7
Restrains! - 8/28/2019

What kind of restrains you find most efective, chains, cuffs, ropes, duct tape, etc..

16 response(s), 20 votes
SubTeddy0417 59 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Just gotta know - 8/25/2019

Really now how do u really ever know> I meam there are thousands of mistress' out there. Some claim to be mistress' or goddess' and all of them are always atleast one state away. So how does one who wants training go about finding a mistress without traveling . I am a good and loyal soul and without a doubt am a great candidate for slavery and . but I want not to have to because I ...

25 response(s), 27 votes
huey12345 47 M
1 question
Score 0.0
MO - 8/21/2019

where are the best swingers nights in MO?

6 response(s), 17 votes
Daddy2FuckUUp 59 M
2 questions
Score 2.7
Do you wish you'd gotten into kink earlier? - 8/18/2019

As a relatively late starter I often wonder how things might have been different if I'd started . Any thoughts?

60 response(s), 61 votes
Sherry551 64 F
3 questions
Score 0.2
WebCams - 8/16/2019

Is anyone else having problems viewing webcams" For the last week whenever I try to one it says they are no longer broadcasting. It is like that with every cam.

66 response(s), 53 votes
MastROfPupets 52 C
8 questions
Score 4.5
IMC wont work for you? There is another option, use our Group Chat, All ALT users welcome. - 8/10/2019

IMC wont work you? There is another option, use our , All ALT users welcome. <br><br> Join ALT Website Community Feedback , ALT Website Community Feedback <br><br> h t t p s : / / alt.com/intgroups/gi44948/acshow_group.html? <br><br> This group has formed because ALT Website services are failing. <br><br> We have a group room ...

39 response(s), 59 votes
Iluvsitwet 33 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
Chat messed up? - 8/9/2019

Is messed up for everyone else too? <br><br> Seems like most chats dont go through and there are no free chats anymore

49 response(s), 43 votes
Daddy2FuckUUp 59 M
2 questions
Score 2.7
Favorite Gag - 8/8/2019

Have you got a favorite gag? Either to use or have used on you. What makes it special? Personally I like ring and ball gags that encourage a lot of drool.

32 response(s), 56 votes
Srabon88 33 M
1 question
Score 0.0
why not give free im - 8/6/2019

why alt authority nor give free im again ??

43 response(s), 55 votes
asianat2008 64 M
110 questions
Score 0.0
A SEPERATED LADY...sending gifts and then blocking?. - 8/4/2019

A seperated lady createsid on social sites. Asks for friendship. Once accepted her friendship first she for a couple of days makes relation asking many details. Then she tells she is to send you some costly to you. You say no to . Then she tells as a token of love she is interested to send some alongwith her some undisclosed document and items and sends to the person concerned through ...

24 response(s), 31 votes
Mastermature4 68 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
Up Above the Fray - 8/3/2019

Have you done it on a old windmill platform? Climbed up the ladder and laid your lady down on that narrow wooden floor?

13 response(s), 23 votes
knott4milfs 25 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
why not - 8/2/2019

looking to meet and why would anyone not want to meet. the whole reason we are here is to discuss our kink and get to meet new people to try them soooo why not meeting and trying it

16 response(s), 23 votes
BuffButt 28 F
1 question
Score 0.0
Should i get married upon my interests or keep t as my hidden secret - 7/28/2019

Single afraid expressing her love for everything getting proposals for decent men only leaving her in ebony

60 response(s), 68 votes
kdom4whores2 60 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Free IM's Gone ? - 7/27/2019

standard members used to have 5 free IM's per day has this been removed as it wants to charge me points or upgrade to gold to chat on IM now even when its the only one I have done that day. Does anyone know if alt have changed this or is it another bug?

52 response(s), 49 votes
Mastermature4 68 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
Have you done it in a soft rain?? - 7/25/2019

Given that it’s a , but raining gently (no thunder)it can be quite erotic. It is similar to getting it on with a you’ve pissed all over and similar to a amply endowed with body lotion. Slippery is sexy.

14 response(s), 27 votes
67burak67 48 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
i dont understand - 7/23/2019

I'm not watching anyway... i don't understand

10 response(s), 18 votes
67burak67 48 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
i dont understand - 7/23/2019

" Standard Members May View One Video at a Time <br><br> Premium Members can connect to multiple webcams and enjoy unlimited access to profiles, email, photos and sexy video introductions. Upgrade now and get 6 months FREE! <br><br> Note: Standard members might need to wait 5 to 20 seconds after closing one webcam before they can open another. Upgrade now to get ...

2 response(s), 3 votes
TimidJaneCD 67 T
11 questions
Score 2.6
Cam Picture - 7/22/2019

How do I get a different picture that is displayed when I am on cam?

9 response(s), 17 votes
TimidJaneCD 67 T
11 questions
Score 2.6
Cam Picture - 7/22/2019

How do I get a different picture that is displayed when I am on cam?

1 response(s), 4 votes
TimidJaneCD 67 T
11 questions
Score 2.6
CAM BAN - 7/22/2019

I accidently banned a friend from my cam .How do I let him view my cam again ?

7 response(s), 14 votes
Iluvsitwet 33 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
IM always costing points? - 7/18/2019

Anyone else having trouble where it shows I have chats left but makes me use points each time?

63 response(s), 55 votes
retired425 57 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Cams - 7/18/2019

when trying to view a cam , it says I have to wait to view another cam, this message has popped up for several days now. Any way to clear it? Thanks

7 response(s), 15 votes
AlexDomBBC 50 M
1 question
Score 0.0
What is your fascination with Big Black Cocks ? Just Asking - 7/17/2019

What is the fascination with Big Black Cocks ? Black Superiority over whites ? TPE Ttotal Power Exchange ?

15 response(s), 18 votes
ropeloco 57 M
1 question
Score 0.0
so many scammers - 7/11/2019

this is my second time around on this site. years ago i met the love of my life on here, unfortunately she recently passed away so i thought i'd try again...so far it's been a total drag, the last three women who contacted me ended up asking for ..it sucks and i'm about ready to give up....is there anyone real on here or am i just fooling myself ?

41 response(s), 38 votes
BoundForceOrgasm 23 F
1 question
Score 0.0
Do you find the dik piks annoying? - 7/5/2019

Are dik piks what people want too see? Or do you wish that guys did not post this as their profile photo?

58 response(s), 56 votes
Lrd_Strap 62 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Fish ad - 7/4/2019

What is it with the HD fish ad?

6 response(s), 17 votes
MasterpMistressh 34 C
1 question
Score 0.0
Experienced Dom couple seeking a submissive female PET, any one interested? - 7/3/2019

How many real females and girly Sissy's who really want to try this? Be honest ?

14 response(s), 25 votes
NewGirlNYC 49 T
1 question
Score 0.0
Has Alt eliminated gold memberships for active profiles? - 7/2/2019

With the recent software upgrade gold status on my account disappeared, and, to my surprise and disappointment, it hasn't been returned, despite activity that would previously have resulted in that status being restored. <br><br> Was there a policy change, perhaps unannounced? Did something go wrong? <br><br> Where would one look for answers? (E-mails to customer ...

40 response(s), 33 votes
LuvPinkTaco 45 M
10 questions
Score 0.1
Way too many bots! - 6/27/2019

Seriously, am I the only one getting bombarded by the same exact message from different bots on here? stuff like "hey ALT.com now at gmA_ildot .." or "do you like BDSM..." or even I love oral but hate condoms..." It cannot be any more obvious or dumb yet it really makes the site and IM real irritating and drains the energy out of everyone.

24 response(s), 30 votes
missionfreak 56 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Black Cams, how to get over this? - 6/27/2019

Hi all I can see are black cams, but others say that other free member are able to see cams. Are there some settings I need to change somewhere?

7 response(s), 19 votes
LuvPinkTaco 45 M
10 questions
Score 0.1
Instant Messages no Shows - 6/21/2019

For the past 2-3 weeks, it's been impossible to: 1) see your friends in the IM friends tab - but if you scroll down the list of chatters there they are 2) send a message, and reach the recipient - it just shows the message in the window with no status whatsoever <br><br> Thought it was just on my side but I tested it with friends sitting in the same room as me physically, on ...

47 response(s), 53 votes
Nylonsanddildos 48 T
1 question
Score 0.0
Anybody here ever meet up at show world in west babylon - 6/19/2019

Looking meet some guys for some fun at showworld

3 response(s), 17 votes
your_Master371 42 M
1 question
Score 0.0
More fakes than before? - 6/13/2019

Who else have noticed a rash of fakes on here, or those who say they are something when they aren't?

57 response(s), 47 votes
WetHornyHot10 41 F
1 question
Score 0.0
Cams In The Dark - 6/13/2019

Was hoping to check of web camera videos on , but all i getting is dark space on the screen. I am a standard member was wondering if anyone else was having this problem too?

40 response(s), 41 votes
nudepainter 54 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Barns ? - 6/13/2019

so am I the only one with a deep desire to be locked and used in a barn ?

14 response(s), 20 votes
albanynycouple51 58 C
13 questions
Score 1.8
into real time fetish ? - 6/11/2019

fetish night at riplayground providence ri this sat june 15. we going you cum ing?
...

9 response(s), 22 votes
atong4u 69 M
4 questions
Score 0.0
POINTS Disipering ?? - 6/9/2019

Just wondering if anyone else has seen their points drop ? I don't have a lot but when a third disappear over night and I didn't use them <br><br> .

30 response(s), 28 votes
juicyslut2001 62 F
6 questions
Score 0.0
Alt mail changes? - 6/8/2019

I don;t think I like the way Alt is displaying now in my . Does anyone know if there's a way to switch it back to the way it used to display?

20 response(s), 37 votes
experiencedsub 54 M
3 questions
Score 0.0
Need suggestions for a friend - 6/4/2019

A friend of mine had his prostate removed due to cancer. (Fortunately, the cancer is gone now.) The doctor told him he would still be able to get erections and have orgasms but just no cum. The doctor lied. His cock is never more than an inch long, and always soft. An erection is not possible for him, and certainly no satisfaction of any kind. <br><br> He wants to be useful to a ...

11 response(s), 23 votes
popeyej45 68 C
10 questions
Score 0.0
Daytona Beach - 6/3/2019

Headed to D.B. later this summer. Would appreciate any suggestions for adult entertainment--theaters, book stores, munches, video arcades, open minded bars or clubs---any advice is appreciated.

14 response(s), 30 votes
slavebob2018a 67 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Alerting all to the fakes - 6/2/2019

Being a non=paying member, how can you let others know about all the liars and fake I talkd to one who said she lived on a frm and in a certain city and reality was she lived downtown in Cincy. <br><br> Ither one is portraying themselves as a female and really is a male. <br><br> There has to be a way to alert all.

21 response(s), 31 votes
joeysmith126 47 M
1 question
Score 0.0
LOOKINGFORSEXUALHOOKUPS - 6/1/2019

weekdays top asseating, fucking, cocksucking

9 response(s), 23 votes
albanynycouple51 58 C
13 questions
Score 1.8
albany ny area couples n dom black men any seeking real meets? - 5/28/2019

putting a meet n freak out in albany ny this sunday afternoon june 2.we meet over drink then freak at hotel party room.any local dom black men n couples who love em seeking real time this sunday?
...

12 response(s), 23 votes
MrSolo1955 64 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Faces not asses! - 5/27/2019

Why? Why?? WHY!!! <br><br> Asses and nice and all but I'm here to meet new people/ pets. For me, the eyes really are the window to the soul and a smile, or lack thereof can tell me a million things about a person. <br><br> So How am I supposed to get to know you via your glutial muscles? Let me look into you! let me know a bit about the mind I want to mindfuck. That ...

22 response(s), 24 votes
candy_stickkk 34 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
Can i watch even ONE cam? - 5/27/2019

When i try to watch a member livecam i recieve a message that standart members can view only one cam at time but i can't watch even ONE. I 'm not watching any cams and it still writes that i can't watch more than ONE, when i don't watch any. Deleted coockies, history and even browser and still the same! Please give me some help what to do to watch that ONE cam i can watch when ...

18 response(s), 26 votes
candy_stickkk 34 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
Live Member Webcams - 5/27/2019

When i try to watch a member livecam i recieve a message that standart members can view only one cam at time but i can't watch even ONE. I 'm not watching any cams and it still writes that i can't watch more than ONE, when i don't watch any. Deleted coockies, history and even browser and still the same! Please give me some help what to do to watch that ONE cam i can watch when ...

9 response(s), 14 votes
KindDommexx 47 F
1 question
Score 0.1
Having account removed - 5/26/2019

A friend has had her account removed 5 times. Each time she starts again. It is after a time removed. These removals have always happened the day after she is contacted by a certain user. She does not respond as this user is known to her as a nasty man who threatens those who say "no" <br><br> On contacting the site she is put through t the abuse team and is told her ...

17 response(s), 38 votes
SinPerdition 37 M
4 questions
Score 0.0
How do you not be hairy? Lolz - 5/25/2019

Hello, <br><br> I have recently gotten into not being hairy and have experimented with a few different things such as shaving, waxing and hair removal cream. <br><br> I find shaving my chest and hair removal cream for my lower areas works well for me. Waxing was just a mess; patchy, unsmooth and itchy after. <br><br> What do you do to keep your bod sexy smooth? ...

8 response(s), 19 votes
U_N_Me 66 T
1 question
Score 0.0
posting an article - 5/24/2019

posting, but I seem not to be a member of a group. how do I do ?

4 response(s), 18 votes
daisymaytv 56 T
5 questions
Score 1.9
the usual chat request - 5/23/2019

<br><br> Hi <br><br> Now I have been around here for quite a few years now so generally know how the site dose and dosnt work. <br><br> I also know that as a non paying member (I recently lost my free gold) that you only get the chance to initiate 5 chats a day. <br><br> The other day I answered a chat request from a person I chat to on a regular ...

16 response(s), 23 votes
HerPlayToyForUse 31 M
3 questions
Score 0.4
How do you trust again after being ghosted by your Owner/Domme? - 5/20/2019

Recently I had an Owner just stop talking to me and blocked me out of absolutely nowhere. Nothing warranted this, neither of us had any problems leading up to this, this is not the first time this has happened but it is the one is having the most impact on my psychologically. It makes me think "what's wrong with me". <br><br> I'm tired of all the scammers and fakes ...

12 response(s), 17 votes
clampernipple 77 M
17 questions
Score 0.0
NIpple clamps? - 5/17/2019

Nipple clamps I can not without them. i now wrap them with many turns of rubber bands to make them pinch harder. i rub baby powder well into my nipples first to keep them from slipping off while pulling . Can i do any real damage. how will i know not to go too far. thanks

14 response(s), 20 votes
Carol218 68 F
3 questions
Score 0.0
Site freezing - 5/17/2019

Is anyone else having problems with the site freezing up when they log on? It is very annoying. If there was a different site to go to I would in a heartbeat.

18 response(s), 19 votes
asianat2008 64 M
110 questions
Score 0.0
Requests for money on social sites. - 5/13/2019

She meets on a social site. Within a couple of days She becomes and more friendly and send hot photos of her.In next week she appears sad and says that she is not happy. When asked she needs money and she needs to pay for the bills of hospital as her close relation had an accident and struggling for life. Hospital expenses are mounting and to foot the bills she asks for immediate help without ...

28 response(s), 33 votes
Handsomencruel 38 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
IM issues - 5/12/2019

Is it only me, or others have troubles too with IM not lading properly ? The interface is open, but the background remains bleak, I can't see the handles. I tried to access it with two different browsers, the result is the same.

18 response(s), 32 votes
Skeptic454 35 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Logged into someone’s account - 5/7/2019

This is extremely scary that I am logged into someone’s account and can see everything they have done. I didn’t nothing but try to log into my account. Thinking anyone and everyone should start looking at legal action cause all your info is compromised...

28 response(s), 46 votes
Carol218 68 F
3 questions
Score 0.0
Someone else's account - 5/7/2019

This afternoon when I signed on the page came up as someone else's. I signed off and back on three times before it came up as mine. Is this something I should be concerned about or is it just another glitch?

32 response(s), 39 votes
Boyo48 60 M
3 questions
Score 0.0
Password Won't Work - 5/5/2019

I've been using this site for years but for months now I can't get into it. It comes up INCORRECT PASSWORD. I try to reset, again INCORRECT PASSWORD. I got email from ALT. saying that someone else was trying to hack my password or some such thing. <br><br> I called ALL the HELP/CONTACT numbers and they were all answered by the same smug, condescending, TOTALLY USELESS AND ...

7 response(s), 20 votes
rxc4020 24 F
1 question
Score 0.0
Can’t get this fantasy out of my mind... - 5/5/2019

For a couple of years now, I’ve been playing out this fantasy when I masturbate. The premise is that I’m a waitress/hostess of a private poker party. Dressed in some gorgeous, slinky underwear. My Master is in charge of the party but everyone else is enjoying my “hostess” skills. At some point in the evening I sit on my Master’s lap whilst he gets me off under the table with his ...

29 response(s), 69 votes
popeyej45 68 C
10 questions
Score 0.0
female gangbang - 5/3/2019

Do groups of females ever get together and gang bang another female??

18 response(s), 38 votes
myDominaK 49 F
1 question
Score 0.0
Where are the physically strong men aching to submit? - 4/28/2019

There is a use for every body type in the BDSM world so why is it so hard to find a strong man strong enough to truly submit?

33 response(s), 53 votes
GirIsGirIsGirIs 22 F
1 question
Score 0.0
Why do men cheat? - 4/26/2019

WHY???????

56 response(s), 50 votes
steelwand 51 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
So many fakes - 4/25/2019

Hello everyone, I have been contacted by about 10 So called mistresses and masters. They claim they will only train you after you buy training toys from them or a so called email address. I don't really have a question but wanted to warn everyone and see if other people are seeing these types of fake people. One person said they wanted me to buy 6 kits(training items) and the total price ...

21 response(s), 35 votes
cevinslave4me1 40 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Any sl,ut women out there? - 4/21/2019

I'm here looking for a female submissive slave, someone near sl, ut...any of u interested???

18 response(s), 33 votes
jasonarg3333 34 M
1 question
Score 0.0
models? - 4/21/2019

Just wondering..seem to be finding a lot of members on here giving direct links to theirown cam sites which have to be paid for??any1 else finding this??

17 response(s), 26 votes
shute1 48 M
3 questions
Score 0.0
Ladies a ? 4u - 4/20/2019

Is my Cock good enough?just curious to what women think?]...

12 response(s), 19 votes
BigBeachGuy 49 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Why does my partner only achieve orgasm when tied up? - 4/19/2019

When I was in a relationship a while back, my partner always enjoyed being tied . Basically, sex always involved rope, handcuffs or restraints of some sort. She was anything but submissive outside the bedroom, but always seemed unable to achieve orgasm without being restrained in some way. <br><br> When we had "vanilla" sex she enjoys it, but when she was tied, she always ...

19 response(s), 31 votes
submanbxl 63 M
5 questions
Score 0.0
Is it just me? - 4/19/2019

i have to admit i find it flattering being hotlisted by P/people. However, when the people hotlisting are other subs looking for a Dom, i do tend to feel a bit confused. What part of my nickname and profile aren't they getting?

11 response(s), 16 votes
keithbyrd 47 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Is cbt, leashing, dangerous - 4/8/2019

Wondering if leashing the balls and or cock is possibly damaging or not. How tight is too tight, is there any thing to watch out for. Doing it off and all for some and no problems but always wondered and still sometimes nervous as to length of time, etc. Any advice or stories or even fun thing to try?

33 response(s), 34 votes
obedicer 53 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
Attached but looking, am I frowned upon? - 4/5/2019

OK so I've been on here a while and tried to interact and be nice & friendly but so far have had no real interest or interaction. So I'm wondering is it my profile or is it that I'm married? There are many reasons why attached people might be on here, for me it's because I have a need that I can't get at home, don't want to change things and so am looking for a ...

40 response(s), 43 votes
LuvPinkTaco 45 M
10 questions
Score 0.1
Member activity on the main page - 4/3/2019

Anyone experiencing the members Activity section on the main page not loading up with member's statues and comments? It seems for the past days the section just never loads.

27 response(s), 47 votes
SinPerdition 37 M
4 questions
Score 0.0
ED meds - 4/2/2019

Hello! <br><br> After a couple of awkward encounters I began getting a bit of performance anxiety. So I decided to take Cialis. I took 20mg and found my performance was extremely good (I received positive feedback from her too i promise lol). <br><br> I was able to get very hard multiple times over a 24 hour period and felt very enthusiastic about sex. In addition to that ...

12 response(s), 21 votes
looking4fat 67 T
4 questions
Score 3.3
Testicle Torture: yea or nay? - 3/31/2019

A few weeks back, i participated in a discussion in one of the Groups titled; "Women Kicking Men in the Balls." It included some "gifs" taken from Porn Vids on the subject. And while the actions portrayed seemed painful, they were also (like almost all Porn) contrived. <br><br> The General Consensus of the Group was that Real Ball Kicking could/would be very ...

31 response(s), 36 votes
shute1 48 M
3 questions
Score 0.0
Is there anybody out there? - 3/30/2019

Just curious...I really haven't got out and tried to find a partner mainly because I'm tired of being let down..I cum in an out of here on the weekends, but I know I'll never find anyone here for me?right??

22 response(s), 24 votes
obedicer 53 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
BDSM Contracts, yes or no? - 3/27/2019

What are peoples views on BDSM Contracts when meeting a new partner? I find even with a sexual play scene as a one off, having some sort of agreed limits, preferences is useful. Particularly interested in the views of Sub females?

31 response(s), 50 votes
BuilderSir 54 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
nipple piercing - 3/24/2019

I am curious mostly from women but for men too. not many women respond here but anyway: How does having the nipple pierced feel during play? for the women? for the man? For the women how does it feel getting it done? and is there any special feeling about it in general?

17 response(s), 27 votes
plztongueme 61 F
1 question
Score 0.0
Dom how to become one - 3/24/2019

how would i go about being a Dom and what is the Sub supposed do or be made do any help is appreciated and would love and older Sub in Missouri or Arkansas

24 response(s), 44 votes
stefancassie69 41 C
1 question
Score 0.0
Question for bimale - 3/23/2019

Does anyone else fantasize about eating their wife's pussy while getting fucked deep in the ass

28 response(s), 45 votes
Truckee911000 57 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Fakes and Scammers - 3/23/2019

Why doesn't Alt do more to eradicate fake profiles? Is there no sort of vetting process?

14 response(s), 25 votes
BuilderSir 54 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
tongue piercing - 3/20/2019

For those men who have head from someone with a tongue piercing how was it? how did it compare to non pierced?

15 response(s), 19 votes
SinPerdition 37 M
4 questions
Score 0.0
Collaring - 3/16/2019

I was in a discussion where a slave was asking a domme if he could be collared by her. This got me on to thinking on the subject of collaring ... <br><br> Doms/Dommes; please can you let me know what you would like from you subs/slaves before they are collared and what conditions you would require of them there after? <br><br> Subs/Slaves; what would you like to have ...

10 response(s), 28 votes
MasterGrog 78 M
1 question
Score 0.0
is this the place... - 3/9/2019

to advertise dungeon equipment available?

29 response(s), 29 votes
slave10162 62 M
1 question
Score 0.0
I like your opinion for my first time being a master role - 3/8/2019

Johns master #1 March 2019 <br><br> She addresses me as Master or Master John She cannot speak unless spoken permission Or she gets a paddle on her but or string around Her nipples with a clothes pin. <br><br> 1 stand in the middle of family room take off your clothes touching your Breasts Pussy turn around, lean forward, spread your legs Take both ...

29 response(s), 26 votes
98percentsub 47 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
Initial Introduction Mistakes - 3/5/2019

You browse until you find someone to your likin Write them a letter. Or flirt. Or list. Sit back and wait. Surprise - they respond and they actually sound like real people. You happily write back. And NEVER hear from them again. What did you do wrong? Thoughts?

26 response(s), 34 votes
98percentsub 47 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
How best to detect fakes - 2/25/2019

I have written to a number of contacts on this site who purport to be this or that and waste valuable time before it finally becomes obvious they are total fakes. I would be interested to hear how some of you deal with this all too common problem.

45 response(s), 42 votes
1988desire1988 30 F
1 question
Score 0.0
where are my slaves ? - 2/21/2019

im here just looking for submissive slaves, any of u intrested ???

37 response(s), 98 votes
Jag_60 60 M
21 questions
Score 0.0
Cheapskates? - 2/12/2019

I am amazed at the amount of complaints about not being able to view messages or profiles when you can simply purchase a membership. Nothing in life is free and purchasing a membership to pursue your kink seems !Ike a small price to pay to pursue what you seek. It seems to me if your unwilling to acquire an opportunity to meet other like-minded people then how enthusiastically will you be in ...

52 response(s), 67 votes
SinPerdition 37 M
4 questions
Score 0.0
Group Dynamics - 2/9/2019

I have been lucky enough to meet a great Domme! <br><br> However, I am not sure what is the usual protocol in a group dynamic (I have a reasonable amount of one on one experienced but groups are new to me). <br><br> I was shocked recently when another Domme wanted me to follow her orders. I was still with my Domme and felt very uncomfortable. My opinion was that I have ...

33 response(s), 40 votes
Grimfangdango 24 M
1 question
Score 0.0
How do I read messages as a free member? - 2/8/2019

I get messages from time to time and want to read them, see what they're saying and figure out if they are fake or not. However, there doesn't seem to be ANY way to do this without buying a membership. <br><br> Am I missing something or am I wasting my time being here?

30 response(s), 58 votes
baudeight 77 M
3 questions
Score 0.0
tattooed tongue - 2/7/2019

does anyone have any information on the tattooing of the tongue as a mark of ownership or even if it is done. The question has been raised as to the tattooing of a male slaves tongue with the ace of spades and BBC its right ass cheek would receive the same mark.

9 response(s), 32 votes
Carol218 68 F
3 questions
Score 0.0
Friends - 2/6/2019

I have noticed several times that if I get a friend request and do not either accept or reject right away, they are added to my friend list without me accepting them. <br><br> Has this happened to anyone else?

21 response(s), 45 votes
bootlckboy39 46 M
2 questions
Score 0.4
Comfortable Femdom vs kink - 1/24/2019

What makes you feel Femdom is comfortable vs just a closet kink? <br><br> Some say it is how you handle in public while other how the day to day goes.

10 response(s), 33 votes
whiteklan70 61 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
Do you laugh at.. - 1/21/2019

When you visit a chat room and look over the room rules and mods do you laugh when you see that both the moderator and the mods sub or Dominant are fakes . Or do you like most on this site get into the role play and not care if the site has been ruined by fakes , fools , and morons so hard up they even invent their Owners or sub/slaves

20 response(s), 40 votes
whiteklan70 61 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
those banned - 1/19/2019

After entering a room and watching out for the wolf droppings . I was attacked for calling a female by part of her username , her online owner was also upset by my use of the name . I made some sarcastic remarks to the 102 year old owner of said sXXt and she banned me. This is no big loss however as most of the 102 year olds on line slaves are as fake as their owner. One good thing though. I did ...

16 response(s), 36 votes
GoodDom128 64 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
Orgasms - 1/19/2019

I had a lover once that loved to give Blowjobs. She could Orgasm when I ejaculated in her mouth. Is this unusual or common for some Women?

29 response(s), 47 votes
TravlFunTm4U 59 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Is it wrong to masturbate to someone's profile picture you haven't met? - 1/18/2019

Is it wrong to masturbate to someone's profile picture you haven't met? Asking for a friend

28 response(s), 38 votes
FunJim65 54 M
1 question
Score 0.0
What kind of dungon are people looking for? - 1/17/2019

I'm thinking of building a dungon. Not sure what kind of walls to have. Wood walls or rock? How light or how dark. And no, I'm not thinking Fifty Shades. What are peoples thoughts.

21 response(s), 25 votes
tastetester61 57 M
3 questions
Score 0.0
How To Catch A Travelling Sub. MK2 - 1/14/2019

For some reason alt decided to remove my previous question here. I have mailed them asking why without reply. I can only assume it was an error on their part, so I'm reposting it. __________________________ Hi All, Some years back I luckily managed to convince a sub to meet up with me and accompany me while travelling in the US (I'm from Australia). I played the role of a daddy dom, and ...

5 response(s), 6 votes
shute1 48 M
3 questions
Score 0.0
Uhh..don't know about this place - 1/12/2019

Are there any women on here that actually meet??love to have a beautiful woman 1on1 or mff 3sum.i just hardly ever see any women on here anymore..and there certainly not close by. Lol

5 response(s), 7 votes
tastetester61 57 M
3 questions
Score 0.0
How To Catch A Travelling Sub. - 1/11/2019

Hi All, Some years back I luckily managed to convince a sub to meet up with me and accompany me while travelling in the US (I'm from Australia). I played the role of a daddy dom, and she my . I had complete control over her, down to even giving her spending money. I played a very parental role, controlling everything we did, at the same time doing everything I could to give her a great time. ...

11 response(s), 11 votes
antreas2015 34 M
3 questions
Score 0.2
hghahgthbfgb - 1/10/2019

hello how are you

29 response(s), 23 votes
Dillonandrew1 43 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Why is chat so restrictive - 1/8/2019

Don’t get me wrong I understand the commercial reason behind restricting chat points but really if it were less strict and increased would it not encourage the alt community more and make the site better and rank higher? What do the paying members think of that though?!ah

43 response(s), 46 votes
MrsBStrong 72 C
35 questions
Score 0.0
Why need a bull? - 1/6/2019

In many profiles people ask for a bull for the wife. <br><br> Every time I see this I wonder. In many cases soft hands and skilled fingers can give better orgasms than just a dick. <br><br> Many times I have made my slave husband available for giving erotic massages and nearly always the receiver got deep orgasms. <br><br> Don't people know skilled fingers ...

37 response(s), 64 votes
2old2run 66 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
May I say Thank You? - 1/5/2019

Hello, May I say Thank You to all of you that read and or made a comment on my question about does anyone read profiles. I have read all that have come in and Thank You. You have all made it very clear to me that there are some very wonderful people on this site. All of you have made my day by just answering my question. Hugs and THANK YOU. 2old2run

22 response(s), 26 votes
Masterdesiresyou 71 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Coutesy - Respect - 1/5/2019

I read all the time about how submissive members get upset about trolls and such....but let Me ask this group about My experiences as well.....I see an interesting submissive with possibilities.....as well as picks from this site. I write a very polite introduction. I include My profile. I make no demands. All I ask for, (in no direct timeline) is a simple response. Interested or not interested? ...

16 response(s), 17 votes
alicdunc153 35 F
1 question
Score 0.0
How to i get more points - 1/5/2019

Hey member, I am just here to accumulate more points but i don't know how

28 response(s), 45 votes
TrainTheO 38 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Is it just me or - 1/4/2019

Is it just me or are the scammers on site singe of the laziest in the world? Their profiles often read the same or are just horrible english. Usernames differing only in the random numbers attached to the ends. I mean come on scammers, at least put forth a heartfelt effort.

13 response(s), 26 votes
tastetester61 57 M
3 questions
Score 0.0
Who's having major site operational Problems? - 12/30/2018

So, after 2 years as a non paying member I decided to pay up in the hope that the major issues with this site had been rectified. Yeah sure, being overrun by scammers and fakes were still going to be here, that's just how this site operates. So, the site offers an upgrade deal whereby I pay for 12 months gold membership, and I get 18 months. However, when I check the auto renew status, it ...

17 response(s), 33 votes
albanynycouple51 58 C
13 questions
Score 1.8
meet greets n freak events partys - 12/28/2018

where can you find events meet greets partys . or post new 1s on this site ??

26 response(s), 32 votes
xextrax 51 M
1 question
Score 3.8
cock pics .. bad? - 12/27/2018

do, as i have a cock pic on my profile, i am wondering why women seem so off=put by the same..? <br><br> I do not mind nice pussy profile pic .. ..

35 response(s), 31 votes
masterbob0 52 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Safety in a relationship is it a weakness - 12/27/2018

how do you guys feel about a safe word between a don and a submissive, is it a sign of weakness from the do ?

16 response(s), 27 votes
Jag_60 60 M
21 questions
Score 0.0
Safeword Situations. and - 12/24/2018

Curious how many of you have actually used a "safeword" during scenes or play, if so what was involved in the activity that was so intense you were compelled to use it, and did your partner heed your stated desire to stop right away or did you have to invoke it more than once.

20 response(s), 29 votes
PraiseKek 33 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
What would you do in this catch 22? - 12/20/2018

Imagine that you're in charge of Alt. You can't afford to fix the site and members are getting pissed off. You start to cut costs to keep the lights on, but that only pisses more people off and now you have even less money to fix the place. You could: 1) Raise prices to fund an upgrade - but at the risk of pissing off your most valuable users and if they leave it doesn't matter ...

29 response(s), 24 votes
2old2run 66 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
does anyone read profiles? - 12/19/2018

Hello, I sure that this question has been asked a 1000 or more times on this site. But, I am getting emails from 20 to 38 year old ladies that want me to be their.. Master, Slave, Sub, for a LTR. They say nothing about being a friend, or someone to talk with. If they had taken the time to read my profile they would see that I am not looking to be a Master or Slave in a LTR. And they would see ...

44 response(s), 41 votes
Pippac 43 F
1 question
Score 0.2
"Fake views" - 12/17/2018

Hi guys, <br><br> I have a lot of men messaging me saying that I have viewed their profiles multiple times when I haven't. Some of these are guys I have turned down and understandably they find this confusing. Does anyone else have this problem? Girls is it the price I pay for getting free gold membership? Or is it just alt's way of getting us talking to each other? ...

30 response(s), 48 votes
daisymaytv 56 T
5 questions
Score 1.9
Alt down - 12/13/2018

<br><br> Hi <br><br> Did anybody else suffer ALT being offline on Thursday? All I kept getting was "Error 500 internal server error". Now its back IM is playing up again with only 21 members online and nobody local to the UK. Everybody is stateside. <br><br> Have fun and play safe <br><br> Daisy

37 response(s), 40 votes
arero 63 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Body Mod - 12/11/2018

Nurse has been learning suturing and of course she wants to practice so I get lines of stitches put in and taken out. Doesn't bother me (or turn me on either), but I got to thinking... <br><br> If one made a cut in two separate places, say the left and right forearm, then instead of closing each cut, sutured the two cuts together, presumably they would grow together and become a ...

5 response(s), 19 votes
vicki_new 47 F
5 questions
Score 0.0
Waxing frequency? - 12/8/2018

Hello everyone. <br><br> I choose to wax my pussy. My waxed says every four to five weeks. How often do you go? I feel quite hairy waiting a whole month between waxes. Granted the hair comes in soft and sparse after waxing for a while but I'm curious if other geographies wax more often. Thanks.

16 response(s), 40 votes
antreas2015 34 M
3 questions
Score 0.2
hghahgthbfgb - 12/8/2018

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5 response(s), 6 votes
tenderdom2 69 M
9 questions
Score 0.0
E mails - 12/6/2018

Recently the incidence of gorgeous girls with a year or so of membership mailing me in ALT has risen markedly. That would be nice but they have a common practice of demanding my email address before we have a serious conversation. I believe they are scammers who want to send me a nasty link and I send them on their way. Anyone have any experience with these types? Am I being overcautious?

16 response(s), 28 votes
looking4fat 67 T
4 questions
Score 3.3
Strange Things male "subs" Do - 12/5/2018

Genetically male subs, no matter where we fall in the spectrum of submission, tend to be, well... odd. We don't really fit well in "normal" (whatever that is) society. But some things that many of the guys (i won't call them Men) who aspire to submit do on here are so illogical that they make me shake my head in wonder. For instance; <br><br> 1- When they ...

16 response(s), 22 votes
subzero98 42 M
1 question
Score 0.0
World AIDS Day - 11/30/2018

December 1st is World AIDS Day. <br><br> It is a reminder that HIV and AIDS are still with us and much work remains to be done. It is a day to bring about more awareness and to help raise funds for research and education among many other things. <br><br> Looking at unaids organisation website I found both disturbing and promising statistics which I would like to share: ...

15 response(s), 14 votes
tmorn321 40 F
1 question
Score 0.0
Are there any serious people out here - 11/28/2018

I cant believe how many people on here(women since that is what i seek) are so full of BS. They commit to meet then dont show or disappear. One of these days will get one to meet

46 response(s), 52 votes
borris998 57 C
1 question
Score 0.0
Trouble with Instant Messenger - 11/27/2018

Hi just wondering if anyone else if having issues with Instant Messenger. Located in Qld Australia, its not working to our normal filters.: Is anyone else having issues?

46 response(s), 49 votes
Jag_60 60 M
21 questions
Score 0.0
Tusseling with Tits - 11/27/2018

Binding a pair of tits until their stripped of oxygen is a breathtaking experience. I have observed some rather unique and intricate imaginations to restrict breast that are spellbinding. My question is do you prefer harnesses, hemp or nipple clamps decorating your tits to quell your desires for pain/pleasure. Im sure there are other methods and tools that are equally enjoyable and im all ears.

9 response(s), 18 votes
EmkcuFzlp 53 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Who has had prostate orgasm? - 11/25/2018

No other stimulation , just prostate massage

15 response(s), 30 votes
LuvPinkTaco 45 M
10 questions
Score 0.1
Kinkiest of all? - 11/24/2018

Who are the kinkiest people of all ? I'll keep it just in the US but feel free to tell of others Are they on the East coast or the West Coast? More so the South or North of country? Did you notice they are even kinkier and pervier in the Midwest.. or in New England .. or in La La Land ? A lot said it all depends on the warmer weather, social and financial conditions etc etc... What say you ?

5 response(s), 24 votes
Jag_60 60 M
21 questions
Score 0.0
Newbie vs Tenured - 11/17/2018

In a moment of honesty would you prefer a sub/slave that is new to the lifestyle or one that has years of experience and why? Oh and for those who think it does not matter, please explain.

20 response(s), 39 votes
whiplash43 75 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
WHATS UP RUBBER DUCK - 11/15/2018

YES LET ME KNOW IF YOUR RUBBER DUCK IS NEEDING A GOOD WASHING AND DRYING BY LIPS. I AM IN LIVINGSTON, COUNTY IN MICHIGAN AND AM IN NEED OF BEING USED ONCE IN AWHILE. SO PLEASE ANSWER THE QUESTION OF WHAT IS UP RUBBER DUCK.

6 response(s), 27 votes
albanynycouple51 58 C
13 questions
Score 1.8
Spankgiving you getting or giving ? - 11/15/2018

its the month of spankgiving are you getting or giving......

31 response(s), 45 votes
Cigarass 61 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Define ,, what is a sissy ? - 11/14/2018

, , I know there are several types of sissy's. Wonders what you think a sissy is and what makes them so good or bad ? curiosity is not a fetish

7 response(s), 23 votes
baudeight 77 M
3 questions
Score 0.0
unconsicous use - 11/11/2018

are there any down sides or dangers to being fucked while unconscious other than being penetrated without a condom?

17 response(s), 32 votes
chokin4950 69 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Cuckolding - 11/6/2018

I'm not sure why but for the past couple of years I've had an incredibly intense desire eto share my wife with another guy. I'm not sure where this came from but all I have to do is think about it and I get hard. I'm not sure how to approach this but I want to carry it forward. Suggestions??

21 response(s), 32 votes
lavielascif 50 T
84 questions
Score 0.9
Facesitting - 11/6/2018

Well buttpluged and facesited? Who experienced about this submission? ...

13 response(s), 34 votes
loveofadventure 63 M
5 questions
Score 0.0
Punished - 10/30/2018

Nobody I know likes to be punished. If you do, good for you. <br><br> What types of punishment are best or worse in your opinion

13 response(s), 39 votes
solelicker1213 67 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Re-kindling very old friendships - 10/29/2018

I've been thinking about contacting an acquaintance from a log time ago. She and I were pretty hot for one another, but life got in the way. I know no one knows the particular situation but do you think I should contact and express some new found kinks for fun?

21 response(s), 14 votes
advent43 63 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Upgrades - 10/27/2018

Hey Peeps, I just finished a few months of free gold and decided to check out the upgrade . What I found was odd, there is still a silver upgrade as well as the more expensive gold. Odd because the other various sites that I'm aware of no longer offer a silver membership...I suppose the only question I have is the gold really worth it? I don't exactly hang out here, but what of adding ...

19 response(s), 26 votes
subforall69 62 M
1 question
Score 0.0
best way - 10/25/2018

What's the best way to find a dominate strict mistress or master?

20 response(s), 25 votes
albanynycouple51 58 C
13 questions
Score 1.8
Where's Your ALT ? - 10/25/2018

where your alt kinky Halloween fun this year partys events hotel no tell house partys. going this year share em and get the word out for all the members.
...

18 response(s), 29 votes
Jag_60 60 M
21 questions
Score 0.0
Becoming a better Dom. - 10/22/2018

Most of everything I initially learned about the lifestyle came under the tutleage of a slave who I am eternally grateful. Like most discipline you can only become better at it through acquired knowledge. I have recently reached out to severeal submissives to gain insight into their views on being a good Dom. My question is do you seek out advice from submissives on this matter that you are not ...

21 response(s), 30 votes
loveofadventure 63 M
5 questions
Score 0.0
Ball stretcher? - 10/20/2018

What are your views on ball stretchers? <br><br> Do they work? <br><br> Are they okay for long or short term? <br><br> Has anyone here had them screwed on and want to talk about them? <br><br> I have a little dickie. I am locked in a tiny, one inch metal chastity cage. I have had three heavy stainless steel ball stretchers secured at the base of my ...

15 response(s), 32 votes
rtr877 60 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Can I use points to read messages? - 10/19/2018

Since I've let my gold membership lapse I've received 3 messages which I can't read. I have a 1000 or so points. Does anyone know if points can be redeemed to read messages? I see I can use them to email another member but can't find anything about reading messages already in inbox.

26 response(s), 33 votes
Benobo69 50 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Newbie advice - 10/15/2018

a newbie who is considering getting full membership but before I do I'd like advice on separating the fake from the real. I know all sites have their fakes, dreamers and scammers so any tips from all you real people out there would very much appreciated. Thanks in advance

24 response(s), 28 votes
bootlckboy39 46 M
2 questions
Score 0.4
Points lost ? - 10/15/2018

Should points be lost when some one is "unavailable to chat"?

15 response(s), 26 votes
JesterFun69 56 M
1 question
Score 0.0
What does cbt mean ? - 10/15/2018

Saw this in a profile n did not know what it means. Can anyone help?

12 response(s), 18 votes
donnhut 67 M
1 question
Score 0.0
sex with dogs - 10/13/2018

I bring this up because a good friend of mine was telling me she really liked getting fucked, never thought about it before

21 response(s), 34 votes
Bitch4Mommy 37 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Paying - 10/5/2018

Has anyone met someone here who has asked for money? <br><br> I do not have an issue with paying money however I do have an issue with getting ripped off! <br><br> If I pay someone what do you think the chances are that it is a scam? <br><br> Thanks

38 response(s), 48 votes
albanynycouple51 58 C
13 questions
Score 1.8
hell fuck halloween do you measure up ? - 9/28/2018

we enjoy hot theme Halloween sex partys, looking like get your spook on black night Halloween party albany ny area this year, wheres your theme sex halloween partys this year list em for others whom might like to go. boo

17 response(s), 37 votes
Grapevinemale 35 M
1 question
Score 0.0
D/s relationship - 9/24/2018

Has anyone found a lasting D/s relationship here or ever relocated a slave to be their property? If so please share your story and how you handle this situation below in the comments.

15 response(s), 24 votes
Jag_60 60 M
21 questions
Score 0.0
Ruined Relationships - 9/22/2018

How long does it take for you to overcome the misery of a failed relationship and resume dating. Do you immediately put the experience behind you or do you shroud yourself in a series of overprotective behaviors to ward off being hurt again, possibly alienating potential suitors who genuinely care about you.

13 response(s), 22 votes
gamarriedcouple 52 C
4 questions
Score 0.0
Viagra - 9/20/2018

My wife is keeping me in long term chastity. I am wearing a very small metal cage at the moment. Her and I have a play party to attend soon. She has said she wants me happy at the party. So she is getting some Viagra for me. I have not had Viagra while in this tiny chastity. In fact, I have never had or needed Viagra. Has anyone tried Viagra while locked in chastity. <br><br> I know ...

10 response(s), 34 votes
gamarriedcouple 52 C
4 questions
Score 0.0
Humbler - 9/20/2018

Anyone use a humbler on someone or have a humbler used on you. How did it feel and/or how did it look as used it on someone else?

12 response(s), 25 votes
loveofadventure 63 M
5 questions
Score 0.0
posting stories - 9/15/2018

I have tried to post a a few stories in the member article section and each time it says I am not a member of the group. What does that mean?

12 response(s), 19 votes
loveofadventure 63 M
5 questions
Score 0.0
cock whipping - 9/15/2018

How many males here have ever been forced to endure a cock whipping?

15 response(s), 18 votes
WildHedonist 43 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Virginia - 9/6/2018

Is there anyone here, currently active in Virginia?

14 response(s), 28 votes
NeedAPeg 45 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
Which are you looking for?? - 9/5/2018

So I have recently found myself thrust into a relationship that is to say the least challenging for various reasons....anyway, it has made me think about what I really looking for....so I curious what others are looking for... <br><br> So are you more someone seeking say 10 different experiences with the same person or are you more on the side of one experience with 10 different ...

21 response(s), 28 votes
Jag_60 60 M
21 questions
Score 0.0
Sharing Success Stories. - 9/4/2018

Scrolling through alt sucess stories with the exception of a few marriages, 90% of them spoke of a one time meeting or scene and seem to have occured years ago. I have read blogs and profile where submissives/slave have shared they have found their One, indicating its a longterm relationship. My question is would you consider being interviewed by alt to share your success story? If not why not.

5 response(s), 14 votes
LuvPinkTaco 45 M
10 questions
Score 0.1
Long Distance.. yay or nay? - 9/4/2018

Have you ever found yourself voluntarily or coincidentally involved or interested with someone whom time or distance would not allow you to see immediately (relatively speaking) ? Be it temporarily (while you or they are away and you just happen to start talking and be a match)... or more long term when one moves or meets someone across country... <br><br> How did you manage?

14 response(s), 30 votes
vicki_new 47 F
5 questions
Score 0.0
why silence? - 9/2/2018

I read a great deal of erotic stories and in many, the sub is made to be silent. Can you please explain why? I love the moans and gasps. Is it sometimes to find an easy reason to punish?

24 response(s), 46 votes
NeedAPeg 45 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
How do I even respond....how do you? - 8/23/2018

Now what my question really is about is how to respond to some of the messages I receive...as a submissive who gets messages such as..."Are you ready to bow down and serve me?" I have to sit and ponder what the proper response really is. On one hand, if the picture is really you, which I like to believe it is...the honor system here and all (naive I know), the sexual side of me is ...

26 response(s), 45 votes
atong4u 69 M
4 questions
Score 0.0
Stories I wrote - 8/23/2018

The stories I wrote have disappeared from my account? It shows I wrote them but they don't show up when I check . This happen to anyone else ?

7 response(s), 16 votes
PJAMESH59 58 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
jeevees slave - 8/22/2018

what is a jeevees slave?

5 response(s), 22 votes
Jag_60 60 M
21 questions
Score 0.0
Is patience your virtue? - 8/11/2018

Do you have a time frame to evaluate if a potential partner will work out before moving on, or do you have the patience of jobe and will engage them for an extended period of time.

15 response(s), 42 votes
LuvPinkTaco 45 M
10 questions
Score 0.1
Bot or Scam IMs !!! ENOUGH ALREADY!!! - 8/10/2018

What's with the sudden and recent bot message assaults on IM ?? Now, every few minutes we get a slew of fake profiles sending an IM asking "hey are you into bdsm..? ..." and whatever garbage auto phrases

30 response(s), 55 votes
loveofadventure 63 M
5 questions
Score 0.0
Male chastity question - 8/5/2018

This is a two part question. If your are a key-holder. How long would you expect your man to remain locked in chastity without any orgasm release. <br><br> Part two: How often would you, as the key-holder, require your man to present himself, so you can unlock the chastity. Temporarily of course. For inspection and cleaning.

14 response(s), 32 votes
MsCarla 56 T
68 questions
Score 0.0
NO Changes I see - 8/5/2018

I've been off the site for over a month but I see the issues are still here I'm glad I don't waste my money on this broken thing LOL.

16 response(s), 37 votes
CuteMuffin 37 F
1 question
Score 0.0
Automatic flirting? - 8/4/2018

I'm really sorry if this has been asked before. I used the search feature and had a hard time finding a clear answer. <br><br> I've only been here a few hours so far and my account says that I've sent out 3 flirts. But I haven't sent any at all. Is there a setting somewhere that flirts with people whether I want to or not? I'm kind of a shy person and I don't ...

22 response(s), 39 votes
MastROfPupets 52 C
8 questions
Score 4.5
ALT imc currently regularly fails to send text and photos during chat. Anybody Else? - 7/31/2018

ALT imc currently regularly fails to send and photos during chat for the past week. <br><br> Has Anybody Else who uses this site noticed the complete failures by the website providers?

12 response(s), 42 votes
Jag_60 60 M
21 questions
Score 0.0
No Fan. - 7/29/2018

With a push of a button I inadvertently became a top fan of a member who sent me a reply how she was opposed to me being on her fan list because she does not date black men. I will not name her because I am not into shaming others for their preferences. She raised a good point and my question is should top fans have to be approved by the member just like a friend request? If not why not.

18 response(s), 26 votes
Jag_60 60 M
21 questions
Score 0.0
Looking for Mr/Ms right. - 7/26/2018

What is your preferred method of finding what you seek. Kink searches or scrolling through profiles?

6 response(s), 19 votes
sssir2you 55 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Subscription - 7/26/2018

What is the real difference between the silver and gold subscription on Alt

6 response(s), 13 votes
LuvPinkTaco 45 M
10 questions
Score 0.1
ALT vs the other sites.. - 7/23/2018

A lot of members here are also on other sites pertaining to bdsm and various kinks. Which ones do you prefer most? Collar Space, or Fet Llfe or others I haven't heard of.. ?

36 response(s), 50 votes
Footservant18 53 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Superior Women's Feet - 7/20/2018

For women: do you prefer having your feet licked when they are right out of the shower or when they are stinky and or dirty?

10 response(s), 24 votes
Couple4Pleasure0 30 F
1 question
Score 0.0
MFM Encounters! - 7/20/2018

I just wonder how many other people are completely turned on by mfm encounters? Its always been a huge fantasy of mine. My boyfriend & I are both interested in the idea, and will hopefully find someone we both like eventually!!

23 response(s), 47 votes
Jag_60 60 M
21 questions
Score 0.0
Support vs Enabling - 7/14/2018

Alcoholism is pervasive in the vanilla world and basedon articles and post I have read it appears to have some roots in the BDSM community. There have been many cautionary tales of mixing alcohol and "play; My question is if you found the Dom or Domme of your dreams, would you still shower him/her with your servitude, if he/she were an alcoholic or would you just say no. Alcoholism is ...

14 response(s), 23 votes
SoliceFun 36 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Beautiful woman - 7/12/2018

A man approached a woman and said: I’ve lost my wife here in the supermarket. Can you talk to me for a few minutes? Woman: Why talk to me? Man: Every time I talk to a very pretty woman like you, my wife appears out of nowhere.

18 response(s), 45 votes
pervpussy 27 F
2 questions
Score 0.0
How do you enjoy anal? - 7/9/2018

What kind of lube do you use? How much? Do you get an enema every time before anal? Do you like to get fucked in your ass hard or getting slowly and easy gaped first? Do you like receiving or giving anal fisting? Do you have any anal tricks and tips to spare? <br><br> I moistly use organic coconut oil- as much as I can use at the time. I really like getting enema together with friends ...

24 response(s), 53 votes
Jag_60 60 M
21 questions
Score 0.0
Confirm or be Denied - 7/7/2018

With constant allegations of multiple profiles and scammers, should all members be required to get confimed ID when they initially register their profile and should ALT limit one proile per IP address?

22 response(s), 33 votes
SubEd4Lee 58 M
1 question
Score 0.0
movies on ALT - 7/7/2018

I need help from anyone explaining this to me...I pay an additional 39.00 US Dollars to access the movies on the site but yet the instructions they give doesnt work..The " Tab " they to use isnt even available..Any help at all would be appreciated...thanks..

13 response(s), 17 votes
MsSwanger 30 F
10 questions
Score 0.0
Explain how the alt gold works. - 7/4/2018

I keep getting free alt gold. <br><br> Cannot aee how the points system works? <br><br> Now no complaints of course. <br><br> Just curious

26 response(s), 43 votes
Btccu4 58 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Holding Back - 6/28/2018

This question is for men. <br><br> What is the longest time you have held back your cum, ....... on purpose that is? <br><br> <br><br> 1. Day(s) <br><br> 2. Week(s) <br><br> 3. Month(s) <br><br> 4. Eternity ? <br><br> 5. Other <br><br> <br><br> <br><br> Please elaborate, give ...

13 response(s), 26 votes
Wildrubia1000 31 F
1 question
Score 0.0
Can You Get Hurt by Been Fisted Real Deep - 6/24/2018

I Been Fisted By Women with Small Hands and No Very deep, Wonder if a big Man will Hurt My Inside, Thanks In Advance, Wildrubia1000

45 response(s), 56 votes
Jag_60 60 M
21 questions
Score 0.0
E-mail Alert - 6/20/2018

What if any etiquette do you provide to e-mail inquiries that are obviously outside your stated preferences. ie age, location, gender or kink.

15 response(s), 22 votes
shoor2pleaseUK 71 M
3 questions
Score 0.0
Cock pix... what do women think? - 6/18/2018

I am curious to know just how interested a woman is in seeing just cock pix of a guy? I always understood that they are not especially attractive on their own but so many guys post their cocks I wondered what a woman's view is. Like or not?

17 response(s), 32 votes
samanthasmith29 25 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Newbie! - 6/14/2018

Hey i am new to this! visit my profile and we can start the [COLOR darkredFIRE]!!! Wanna join me? samanthasmith2...

11 response(s), 28 votes
Jag_60 60 M
21 questions
Score 0.0
Stumped by Trump. - 6/11/2018

Most of us are unwavering in our beliefs. Would you let your opposition of President Trump stop you from being someone's Master, Dom, Domme, submissive or slave if they supported him.

30 response(s), 36 votes
Jag_60 60 M
21 questions
Score 0.0
Stumped by Trump. - 6/11/2018

Most of us are unwavering in our political beliefs would you let your opposition of President Trump stop you from being someone's Dom, Domme, Master or submissive/slave if they supported him.

0 response(s), 3 votes
albanynycouple51 58 C
13 questions
Score 1.8
where's your best skinny dipping spot - 6/10/2018

we have two favorite's the ledgers in wilmington vt and herring cove state beach p-town mass . where's yours

17 response(s), 17 votes
discreetfuninhou 41 T
1 question
Score 0.0
Does gold/silver member know free members cannot read their emails! - 6/10/2018

its great to get email but you cant even read it. so wait, whats the point of being a gold member, you can send a email but the recipient cannot read it? I can see they cannot respond but they should be able to see it! <br><br> Find some hints in the profile and contact the person outside the site.

27 response(s), 44 votes
Jag_60 60 M
21 questions
Score 0.0
BDSM acquaintances.. - 6/9/2018

I posed this question on my group and a limited sample size revealed by.respondents that less than 10% of their friends are aware of their involvement in BDSM. Is your participation in the lifestyle totally anonymous or do you have a circle of friends who are likeminded. If so what percentage do they represent?

13 response(s), 11 votes
vicki_new 47 F
5 questions
Score 0.0
Training Priorities: gags or anal - 6/5/2018

So I am going to tackle both eventually but which first and why! <br><br> Gags. I don't do well with gags. I have an aversion to having my jaw in a position the gag requires. Should I practice this away? Is it even possible? I always feel like I'm choking from the phlegm. <br><br> Anal. I haven't had anal sex. I'm not against t, but was hoping to find ...

20 response(s), 33 votes
albanynycouple51 58 C
13 questions
Score 1.8
americade motor cycle rally lake george ny - 6/5/2018

any black bikers or black clubs going to rally and looking to party while there?

2 response(s), 10 votes
mangotango 49 M
1 question
Score 0.0
How do you balance risk and safety? - 6/3/2018

Just looking for real life tips. I understand the concept of safe, sane and consensual, but that has also gotten in the way of exciting sex to some degree. I like to surprise my girlfriend sometimes, but if I have to ask for consensual sex, then that kind of ruins the surprise, and if I ask too much questions to gauge how she feels about a certain situation, that might give away the surprise too. ...

14 response(s), 23 votes
vicki_new 47 F
5 questions
Score 0.0
Training Priorities: gags or anal - 6/1/2018

So I am going to tackle both eventually but which first and why! <br><br> Gags. I don't do well with gags. I have an aversion to having my jaw in a position the gag requires. Should I practice this away? Is it even possible? I always feel like I'm choking from the phlegm. <br><br> Anal. I haven't had anal sex. I'm not against t, but was hoping to find ...

16 response(s), 37 votes
Jag_60 60 M
21 questions
Score 0.0
Banning Feedback. - 5/29/2018

On a site that promotes a free flowing exchange of ideas, even those you don't agree with have you ever used the block comment feature against another member and if so what was your reasoning.

22 response(s), 23 votes
MrGreatLay 58 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Swinging - 5/29/2018

My lady friend wants to start swinging. I'm cool with it. <br><br> Any swingers have any tips?

6 response(s), 14 votes
Jag_60 60 M
21 questions
Score 0.0
Points - 5/26/2018

I jokingly responded to another member a few days ago that points are useless unless your a non-paying member or want to purchase an ALT t-shirt. It got me wondering if members should be allowed to transfer the points they have accumulated to another member.. I contacted ALT and was told this feature is unavailable. My question is would you be in favor of having that option?

13 response(s), 31 votes
albanynycouple51 58 C
13 questions
Score 1.8
would you go meet greet n freak - 5/22/2018

this satnite in albany ny , couples bifemales and dom black men meet over drink, with after party get freak on party naked , would you go ? want too?

9 response(s), 35 votes
pervpussy 27 F
2 questions
Score 0.0
Any toy suggestion? - 5/22/2018

I usually masturbate with my hands, rubbing, fingering, fisting... I am really looking forward to get a nice little toy for myself... Maybe an anal plug? Got any suggestions?

35 response(s), 38 votes
Jag_60 60 M
21 questions
Score 0.0
Whats in a Handle - 5/18/2018

The old adage is a picture is worth a thousand words, but absent a picture have you viewed a handle so intriguing it provoked you to read the profile and/or contact that member? Examples would be interesting, but it might be against ALT terms of use agreement.

12 response(s), 26 votes
MsCarla 56 T
68 questions
Score 0.0
Anything different! - 5/18/2018

I finally got tires of the crap on this site and the fakes who inhabit it. While it was difficult I finally got from spending time on it everyday to just checking it once about every 2 weeks. So I'm wondering has anything changed ?? LMBO

12 response(s), 28 votes
MRex2018 62 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Anyone attending DomCon in LA next weekend (5.9 - 5.13)? - 5/7/2018

At the Hilton LAX

7 response(s), 19 votes
albanynycouple51 58 C
13 questions
Score 1.8
how many Tag members out there ? - 5/5/2018

how many others tag there profile pics too show 4 real n seeking too ?
...

6 response(s), 39 votes
balborius 55 M
1 question
Score 0.0
How come - 4/30/2018

That to them, you're just a freak, like me! They need you right now, but when they don't, they'll cast you out, like a leper! You see, their morals, their code, it's a bad joke. Dropped at the first sign of trouble. They're only as good as the world allows them to be. I'll show you. When the chips are down, these... these civilized people, they'll eat each other. See, ...

12 response(s), 36 votes
Jag_60 60 M
21 questions
Score 0.0
The dilution of Domination. - 4/29/2018

I am old school and value everyone's pursuit of kink. Maybe it's my age, but ALT appears to increasingly be more AFFish. To thosr gracious enough to reply. Do you want your Dom to be Sadistic, Deliberate or Delicate? And if you like multiple choice all the above.

16 response(s), 44 votes
sub2younow 57 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Profile pics - 4/28/2018

Just a quicky...guess that's why I am denied orgasm... Anyone else having their photos disappear? Was there one minute and then just a gif.

14 response(s), 29 votes
RoguesRabbit 54 F
1 question
Score 0.0
Anyone else have profile Problems. - 4/25/2018

I will keep this to the point, if I can. <br><br> You see RoguesRabbit up there, yes, but I have been trying to retrieve my old ALT profile (RoguesAngel ) for months now. Between living in two different places and not having my own PC , it was hard to get onto an adult site. I do not have a picture up yet because this profile is new as of today. <br><br> How do you know ...

18 response(s), 24 votes
SinisterBoss 49 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Vegas still a good stop? - 4/25/2018

I live about an hour from Vegas, and have met a fair share of people there from all over the country, but it seems not as many people are heading this way now. What does everyone think? Is Vegas still a hot spot for couples to come and have fun?

8 response(s), 17 votes
MrRopeWorks 62 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Profile denied, wtf? - 4/19/2018

I did an update to my profile following which it was denied. I can't see any reason for the denial and the more I look at it the more baffled I am. I'm hoping someone can help me out and tell me what is objectionable in the update. It reads as follows; <br><br> Another update - With all this talk of master/slave, training, etc. maybe I should clarify. I really don't have ...

25 response(s), 39 votes
albanynycouple51 58 C
13 questions
Score 1.8
rope coarse n hard , soft n silky - 4/16/2018

bound nice and tight, enjoy the rope soft n silky you ?
...

14 response(s), 27 votes
diavoloslave 57 M
9 questions
Score 0.0
She said i changed her???? - 4/11/2018

I am just a guy that is very playful and like to have fun when i am serving, i recently ran in to long past lady who i had a session with and had a great time with. She seemed to be very playful as well. We sat down to have a coffee to get caught up with each others activities, this when she said to me that i changed her as she doesn't have fun with most that she plays with and she gets to ...

11 response(s), 22 votes
fredbear4 56 C
3 questions
Score 0.0
Problems - 4/10/2018

We'd like to know if anyone else was having problems with this site last night or was it just us.

40 response(s), 62 votes
curious_subNSC 65 M
5 questions
Score 0.0
Cum and GO or Stay - 4/10/2018

this question is for all After all the adult fun is over, do most host/hostess want you to dress and leave or start and chat like friends. The same question for the invitees dress and leave or stay and chat?

18 response(s), 26 votes
Realwildwon 50 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Looking for secluded outdoor locations in and around Los Angeles - 4/7/2018

Looking for a good, secluded location in the Los Angeles area to do a scene in. Someplace not readily patroled by law enforcement that a few largish props can be moved into without being noticed. Abondoned buildings, wooded areas, preferably some place that doesn't require a big hike on foot to get to. Ideas?

9 response(s), 12 votes
diavoloslave 57 M
9 questions
Score 0.0
Branding - 4/6/2018

over the i have been asked this question ....and was never sure 100% what it really meant...i really dont think about it much but am curious to hear your option of it? what your idea is of Branding would be?

15 response(s), 30 votes
albanynycouple51 58 C
13 questions
Score 1.8
april 7 2018 albany ny - 4/4/2018

any local events partys munchies this satnite in albany ny areas ?
...

5 response(s), 16 votes
Jag_60 60 M
21 questions
Score 0.0
Have your efforts at kink, play or LTR been helped or hindered by social media? - 4/3/2018

Social media allows us to be more provocative than real time meetings may. But do you find some profiles over the top or that you msy as Hillary (2x loser) Clinton) put it become the victim of bots.

10 response(s), 26 votes
diavoloslave 57 M
9 questions
Score 0.0
Curiosity of dungeons and if people use them? - 3/29/2018

Although i have been in this life style for many years, and been designing and making things for ppl for years i have never used or even been invited to public dungeon. My question is this....Do ppl still use them? or has it gotten to the point that ppl just dress up a room in there home. to suit themselves now?? i ask the question as in past few years i been getting request for more single item ...

13 response(s), 20 votes
TieOrBeTied 44 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
"Flirted with you" - 3/28/2018

You're a gorgeous looking 20- or 30-something young woman with a dozen Playboy-quality photos in your profile. You have well over a hundred "friends" and your Top fans have placed 1000+++ points in "bids" on you. <br><br> You're a proud Gold member with a VIP status. You could have any male on this site. <br><br> And yet, you choose to ...

9 response(s), 22 votes
MsCarla 56 T
68 questions
Score 0.0
Seriously? - 3/26/2018

Does any actually for a gold membership on this site? I've been a member for a long time. But in that time I've seen the quality of the members and the site go down hill and lately its been gaining speed like a snowball. <br><br> I have been a gold member but never a paid member. I've jumped through the hoops to be a gold member but I don't think its worth the effort ...

18 response(s), 24 votes
diavoloslave 57 M
9 questions
Score 0.0
Respect - 3/26/2018

In most relationships, mutual respect is a key factor in the success of that relationship. Would you say that in a Dom/sub relationship, its more or less and why?

8 response(s), 7 votes
LuvPinkTaco 45 M
10 questions
Score 0.1
Back to vanilla to bdsm ? - 3/25/2018

Did you ever swear off the alt/bdsm lifestyle after a bad experience or relationship and decided to settle for a more traditional vanilla relationship, only to find out you really couldn't and ran back to alt/bdsm ?

7 response(s), 18 votes
LuvPinkTaco 45 M
10 questions
Score 0.1
Your very First time - 3/25/2018

If you could do one and only one thing differently about your first time (sex and/or bdsm ) , what would it be?

7 response(s), 9 votes
diavoloslave 57 M
9 questions
Score 0.0
what was the deciding facter that turned you to this life style??? - 3/25/2018

My was when i was sitting in a bar having a drink when a lady i was having a chat with ask me why i liked looking at her feet... that started it for me

2 response(s), 4 votes
antreas2015 34 M
3 questions
Score 0.2
ise kala - 3/24/2018

ise kala

2 response(s), 6 votes
diavoloslave 57 M
9 questions
Score 0.0
What gets you off about being submissive/Dominant? - 3/23/2018

interested in knowing the parts your mind takes you when thinking of what interests you about being either submissive or Dominant?

12 response(s), 11 votes
clye22 59 M
1 question
Score 0.0
how does one clean out for anal sex - 3/22/2018

how does one clean out for anal sex

10 response(s), 15 votes
diavoloslave 57 M
9 questions
Score 0.0
Does dressing up for your roll help in the roll you play? - 3/22/2018

when your in play mode with your active partner/partners how important is it to you to dress the part?, does it help you play your part better.? does it help you get into your roll easier?

3 response(s), 3 votes
TieOrBeTied 44 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
As a straight sub woman, under what circumstances would you be interested in taking part in F/mf? - 3/22/2018

Title says it all really. <br><br> I've noticed that it is almost impossible to find a woman who would be interested in subbing/bottoming as part of an mf couple. I do realise that generally you like your men to be on top, but doesn't it sound like fun to at least try? <br><br> And if you did happen to be that rare unicorn who would indeed be interested, would you ...

4 response(s), 12 votes
diavoloslave 57 M
9 questions
Score 0.0
Is the a proper etiquettes for a submissive to approach a dominate here? - 3/20/2018

i just was wondering as a very social guy and one who likes to keeps things light and fun i always felt that there was. what is you option ?

19 response(s), 14 votes
diavoloslave 57 M
9 questions
Score 0.0
what is an exceptable pic to post facial or a full body shot - 3/20/2018

was just curious after going through hundreds of member pics which people here like to see more of?

12 response(s), 9 votes
unicornlover6969 35 M
1 question
Score 0.0
How big is too big? - 3/19/2018

I've always been well endowed and with a 11.6" i've often been turned down for sex, so ladies whats the perfect large size?

13 response(s), 22 votes
DecibelRating 104 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Groups and requests - 3/18/2018

Does anyone know if it's possible to send a request to another member to join a specific group? Much like you can do on Facebook? <br><br> If that functionality exists on Alt, I can't find it. <br><br> <br><br>

3 response(s), 6 votes
asianat2008 64 M
110 questions
Score 0.0
nipple kissing and sucking..... - 3/16/2018

In many porn clips nipple sucking and kissing are exihibited by loving partners. After kissing nipples the partners go down. What is Your lusty thoughts on them?

8 response(s), 24 votes
asianat2008 64 M
110 questions
Score 0.0
Pussy likings.... - 3/16/2018

Many of mature friends here watch porn clips to kill their lonely hours and appease their sexual needs. In this connection I am to say that porn stars show their hairy pussies and sometimes they are also clean shaved ones.....I am interested to know from you my senior experienced friends that whether it is good to have hairy pussies or clean shaved pussies during love making and for oral ...

9 response(s), 18 votes
Willywang 37 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Photos on profile - 3/16/2018

Does anyone know what “May not be seen by most members “ means on your photo uploads? Thanks!

3 response(s), 11 votes
albanynycouple51 58 C
13 questions
Score 1.8
leather n fetish wear makers , any good 1s that are members ? - 3/13/2018

any members make own leather wear gear ect, ? do tell n show your skill's. luv new finds to wear use .
...

10 response(s), 20 votes
artsymensch 64 M
1 question
Score 0.0
How many readers LIKE each blog? - 3/7/2018

At the top of each blog is a box with the word "like"in it. Obviously, you click on the box if you like the blog. That's very nice, but how do you find out HOW MANY "likes" each blog has received? Any clues?

5 response(s), 20 votes
LuvPinkTaco 45 M
10 questions
Score 0.1
Nudism on the East Coast - 3/5/2018

Have you been to any nudist beaches or camps on the eastern seaboard ? Which s did you prefer and would recommend ?

12 response(s), 31 votes
MrsStevens 62 F
2 questions
Score 0.0
Duplicate accounts? - 3/4/2018

Has anyone else noticed accounts with the same name but all lowercase letters on one account and Partial Uppercase on the second account? This has happened several times on here. Are fakes duplicating accounts?

14 response(s), 37 votes
curious_subNSC 65 M
5 questions
Score 0.0
Ladies watching men - 3/1/2018

Ladies do you enjoy watching and or directing 2 men together. Either in real time , on cam or in movies? If so what would you like to watch them do or direct them to do?

10 response(s), 38 votes
Lcd18 65 M
8 questions
Score 0.0
oral sex - 3/1/2018

What preparations do i need to do?, what does the other person need to do?NOTE i found the anal sex responses interesting so i thoght i'd ask the question about getting that first BJ.i've never had one so i'm curious.

10 response(s), 24 votes
popeyej45 68 C
10 questions
Score 0.0
regions?? - 2/26/2018

Now have noticed that when I hit on a category in a particular region I get profiles from all over the country instead of confined to that geographical location. Any advice or suggestions from anyone or is this just another shitty day in paradise???

8 response(s), 29 votes
MsCarla 56 T
68 questions
Score 0.0
whats' happening? - 2/21/2018

I've been out of the loop lately I was down for about 2 weeks dealing with a severe case of vertigo finally able to get up with out everything spinning

14 response(s), 20 votes
shortyjohnson 71 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
Pop up list of Friends online - 2/20/2018

Other than seeing Friends on IM, is there a way to see what friends are online?

7 response(s), 23 votes
chicagodom85 34 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Socks - 2/17/2018

Do you put your socks on before or after you put your underwear on? I normally go underwear, then socks, but recently have been debating if I am ready to make the switch and go socks, then underwear.

18 response(s), 24 votes
MastROfPupets 52 C
8 questions
Score 4.5
Any other ALT users been Tipped point that they did not get? - 2/13/2018

I was recently tipped 101 points that never made it to my account, it is recorded in my activity section but there is no record of the points given in the Gifts Received section. <br><br> Have any other users noticed this Major Failure in the ALT website to function as intended? <br><br> I wonder how many other users are having their points stolen by ALT management this ...

14 response(s), 28 votes
carl466 63 M
1 question
Score 0.0
young love old - 2/7/2018

When I was 12 year my body was much about sex, and yes the bi was there very much , but always mature got me going .this part is from Copenhagen i grow up there. One early summer evening always daylight to 2200, standing on the toilet opposite the park , a man at least 55 next to me smile and when i look down yes his cock like mine on half mast, i smile back notice how his hand was going ...

16 response(s), 43 votes
TimidJaneCD 67 T
11 questions
Score 2.6
Cam watcher delights - 2/2/2018

What would you like tto see someone on cam do for your entertainment ? What cam action excites you ? What cam action turns you off ?

11 response(s), 28 votes
MastROfPupets 52 C
8 questions
Score 4.5
ALT IMC Issues unfairly remove points from users. - 1/31/2018

Currently there are a huge amount of faults with the ALT IMC system. <br><br> Chats initiated do not connect. <br><br> Chats that do connect stop mid conversation. <br><br> Messages sent fail to reach destination. <br><br> Photos sent fail to reach destination. <br><br> The typing indicator shows who you are chatting with is typing but ...

12 response(s), 34 votes
MastROfPupets 52 C
8 questions
Score 4.5
Flirted with me,Confirmed profile, hot photo is it what it appears? - 1/31/2018

Flirted with me, Confirmed profile, hot photo is it what it appears? <br><br> Recently I have noticed this happen many times on my account. <br><br> When I message these so called confirmed ALT members, there is never Any reply from them. <br><br> Clearly they are Bots designed to steal your points. <br><br> Beware ALT users, profiles are not what ...

17 response(s), 29 votes
cuzSHEsaidto 58 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
is it too hard to respond to an im? - 1/26/2018

Alt really makes it easy to respond with canned responses. Are you really that lazy? Are you rea;;y that full of yourself? Are you really that rude? Are you really that poor in the social graces that you don't know how to respond with a no thank you, Hi back or a simple CANNED response alt supplies you with? <br><br> If you can not respond how do you think you can be a good ...

43 response(s), 59 votes
cuzSHEsaidto 58 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
Taboo - 1/25/2018

What taboo or taboo's would you consider as a deal breaker or possibly something to interest you in that person?

19 response(s), 29 votes
wantingD 60 M
6 questions
Score 0.0
Points - 1/24/2018

I've been a member here for a pretty long time and I used to have a lot of points but now they're gone. Does anyone know what's up with that? Thank You!!

18 response(s), 33 votes
slopmyrim 41 C
1 question
Score 0.0
Advice??? How do you tell someone(s) - 1/24/2018

Curious as to the best way to let another know your deepest darkest most taboo thoughts if they have no clue about them. In most cases we have communicated these thoughts and such before even meeting others, but have run across a few encounters....seemingly out of the blue not planned on in which we had a blast and want to continue to have fun but not quite sure how they will react to what we ...

7 response(s), 21 votes
asianat2008 64 M
110 questions
Score 0.0
Getting comments on blogposts... - 1/23/2018

In recent months I have not got a single comment for the blog posts I made. I am a standard member. What could be the reason or ALT IS not allowing?.

13 response(s), 15 votes
MsCarla 56 T
68 questions
Score 0.0
Are all cheaters that Naive'? - 1/21/2018

Seems like lately I'm hearing from a bunch of married guys. They assume I'm going to invite them to my home and be discrete LOL.

13 response(s), 26 votes
victoria2012 47 F
11 questions
Score 0.0
How to ask for what you need - 1/18/2018

I met my partner on Alt 4 ago. I've switched in the past but found being sub the most arousing and so my search on here was for a Master or a Dominant. We hit it off immediately on so many levels and I expanded sexually to include his fetishes. Over time it's become clear he is a fetishist rather than a Master and whilst I've been happy to adopt these fetishes and supply them for ...

18 response(s), 40 votes
Simplyalbertaman 60 M
3 questions
Score 0.0
Secrets - 1/13/2018

Do you keep a secret affair on the side of a relationship? If yes what are the key ways you maintain it? If No, have you wanted to have a secret friend and been scared to act? Why?

14 response(s), 21 votes
MastROfPupets 52 C
8 questions
Score 4.5
Why would ALT charge points for an IMC chat that never connects? does this seem fair to anyone? - 1/12/2018

Why would ALT charge points for an IMC chat that never connects? <br><br> Does this seem fair to anyone?

20 response(s), 33 votes
differntstrokes 57 M
7 questions
Score 1.3
Would you? - 1/10/2018

It appears that there are many straight gentlemen on this site who enjoy being pegged by a dildo-wearing lady I was wondering if you are a gentlemen who does enjoy this, would you draw the line at being butt-fucked by an attractive, feminine pre-op transsexual?

15 response(s), 18 votes
VladVampireLord 45 M
4 questions
Score 0.0
How do I get rid of the Live Model Box On the Right Of The Screen? - 1/4/2018

I am getting overwhelmed by guys masturbating live and couples looking bored and it is distracting me as I sit semi naked in my underwear as I browse ALT thinking the nude jackoff models are laughing at me. <br><br> How do I get rid of this infernal live model box? I have put a newspaper over my Cam and am cutting out a piece of paper to stick to my screen. Other than that is there ...

19 response(s), 31 votes
sadie_123abc 53 F
2 questions
Score 0.0
Problem with updating privacy preferences - 1/1/2018

Recently I tried to update my privacy preferences. After hitting the 'update' button I'm taken to a blank screen. When I tried to go back and do it over, same thing. <br><br> It's not a big enough deal for me to contact ALT and even if I did I doubt the issue would be resolved. <br><br> This has been going on for a couple weeks now and it doesn't ...

10 response(s), 24 votes
curious_subNSC 65 M
5 questions
Score 0.0
initial chat conversation - 12/31/2017

Ladies and Gentleman What conversation subjects do you like to engage in during the first initial chat conversation? Are the any subject that are off limits? What subject matters are best saved for the second and after?

12 response(s), 21 votes
MsCarla 56 T
68 questions
Score 0.0
Happy New Year - 12/31/2017

Wishing everyone a Happy and Prosperous New Year

11 response(s), 23 votes
TpaM4F 45 M
1 question
Score 0.0
New Years - 12/29/2017

Is it too much of a cliche to be having sex to end the year and starting the new ? For some reason I have d this before and always get excited to do again?

11 response(s), 12 votes
TheFirmhand_UK 58 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Best way to verify potential partners - 12/28/2017

If you're wanting to meet other couples for mutual play, how does one sort out the genuine people from the pretenders? <br><br> Is there some sort of recommendation system, or a way of making negative experiences available for others to take note of? My impression is that a huge number of members are just here to satisfy their curiosity - and there's nothing wrong with that, ...

13 response(s), 28 votes
MsCarla 56 T
68 questions
Score 0.0
Merry Christmas - 12/24/2017

Merry Christmas to everyone!

12 response(s), 24 votes
asianat2008 64 M
110 questions
Score 0.0
Is it a healthy trend?.... - 12/17/2017

As we advnce in life with years, our experience is valued much and our sensual part that is horny feeling decreases seeing a woman and we rarely get excited seeing even a semi-nue woman. But it is seen that people with advancing age in their 50's and 60's do love to see porn on internet in their privacy.They do not go to women and rather prefer to see porn and satisfy their fancie. Is it ...

13 response(s), 31 votes
looking4fat 67 T
4 questions
Score 3.3
When searching for a Dom; how Zealous should a "sub" be? - 12/14/2017

Knowing that each Dom/Master/Top and each sub/slave/bottom is different, in general, and specific to this site: How hard should a sub work in pursuit of a particular Dom? <br><br> <br><br> Dom's do You want a sub to initiate contact? To beg to serve? Or to simply make it clear that he/she is willing to serve? <br><br> <br><br> subs, how do you ...

16 response(s), 30 votes
MsCarla 56 T
68 questions
Score 0.0
PVC dungeon furnishings - 12/5/2017

I've been trying to come up with an idea on how to make some light weight but strong portable dungeon furnishings. I've seen some made out of light weight alloy metals, but their usually expensive to make. Has anyone else tried or used PVC to make a cross or other pieces. How are they working out or did they fail?

16 response(s), 32 votes
asianat2008 64 M
110 questions
Score 0.0
Sex matters... - 12/3/2017

Man and woman driven by lust depend much on sexual intercourse. It is practical and useful to have fore play and kissing. At times man tongues pussy and heightens woman's desire for sex. But I have a quetion....Should woman also give blowjob?

12 response(s), 24 votes
HerPlayToyForUse 31 M
3 questions
Score 0.4
Why so many girls asking for "tributes"? - 12/3/2017

99% of the time I contact someone here and we start talking things always end up going south in the way of they want money or stuff off their Amazon wishlist. Everyone is either a bot or someone looking for suckers to give them money. <br><br> I understand there's such a thing as findommes but these are not that, these are thieves

8 response(s), 28 votes
HerPlayToyForUse 31 M
3 questions
Score 0.4
So many bots here - 12/3/2017

I came across a CONFIRMED bot today. As hard as it is to be a male sub here, it doesn't help wasting points to chat with people who end up being bots. How does a bot even get a confirmed status here?

12 response(s), 28 votes
tiedntugged 61 M
1 question
Score 0.0
self bondage - 12/1/2017

Are there any other guys out there , or T-girls that like to tie their balls up /and or cock rings or ball restrictors ??? Please look me up and let's chat

2 response(s), 13 votes
MsCarla 56 T
68 questions
Score 0.0
Limp Dick Submissives - 11/30/2017

I need some new CBT ideas for ing with sub that has a limp dick, He enjoys having CBT d but, he's small and has ED.

10 response(s), 20 votes
looking4fat 67 T
4 questions
Score 3.3
"Ask me anything" - 11/28/2017

We have probably all seen them, those profiles with almost no info but that say something like; "I don't know what to write, but I am an open book. Ask me anything." <br><br> For those with a short attention span, my multi-part question is: Have you ever asked one of these people (usually a male) a question? And if so, what did you ask? And did you get an answer? Was it ...

11 response(s), 29 votes
bob532009 65 M
3 questions
Score 0.0
spanking - 11/27/2017

I am looking for a girl that likes to be spanked. I am new to this and don't want to spank too hard or too light. How does some like me get started with a seasd lady. I don't want to disappoint.

13 response(s), 13 votes
Maxkat12 48 F
6 questions
Score 0.0
Any AAer's here? - 11/27/2017

I know it's personal but I could use some insight into what it's like being in the program. I got involved with a Dom who is less than a year in. (I know 1st year people aren't supposed to start any new romantic relationships.) He thought building a D/s relationship would help in His recovery (He's been on a journey of soul recovery for a couple of years and getting sober is a ...

10 response(s), 13 votes
Sandicarr4urn 24 F
1 question
Score 0.0
Girls drinking girls urine - 11/26/2017

I just wanted to know how many other girls out there have fantasized about or actually like to drink other girls urine. How did it start and did you like it.

9 response(s), 34 votes
roguesangel 54 F
39 questions
Score 0.0
Who here has used Catheters during a session and What do you have to Share? - 11/24/2017

My Dom and I are talking again about me being catheterized. I no longer have a fear of the catheter and how far it is going, I worry more about the balloon inflation and what size of French to use. <br><br> We have used sounds several times and so far no UTI, One person suggested using the same size French as what the catheter is, I am not sure if this is correct but it makes sense ...

6 response(s), 14 votes
QuieroPinkTaco 46 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
Most uncommon location you had sex - 11/24/2017

What's the most unusual or uncommon place you had sex, or even just been naughty?

11 response(s), 12 votes
Michael1165 61 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Women Pissing in your mouth - 11/22/2017

I would like to know if any other men have thought about this or have tried it? If you have tried it, then did it excite you or turn you off? Would you do it again?

10 response(s), 24 votes
sadie_123abc 53 F
2 questions
Score 0.0
Love in Threes - 11/19/2017

Have you ever had a M/M/F? <br><br> I was thinking back on a mmf experience back in my 20's and how it still brings a smile to my face. <br><br> I was living in Lake Tahoe at the time. It was the first time I had truly been out on my own. I was living in a 'Real World' situation (remember the MTV show?). Three men and three women. Late one evening as I was ...

12 response(s), 33 votes
roguesangel 54 F
39 questions
Score 0.0
Flirts and Hotlists what do they mean to you? - 11/14/2017

I know what flits and being hot listed mean to me, but what do they mean to you? <br><br> To me a flirt is a polite, "hi, how are you doing, " sometimes I flirt back. and more than once to the same person. The hot list to me is an ultimate compliment, I am sure we all like to be thought of as hot. Again I will at times hot list back but it is not an open invite to more. ...

31 response(s), 37 votes