My Ideal Person:
I'm not actively looking at the moment, I find the best things usually happen when I least expect it. Although I am interested in speaking and meeting new people of course, I see no point in anyone sending me a message from overseas with the expectation of meeting, I have no interest in anything long distance (I struggle to keep up with loved ones who are local!)

I'm not put off at all if you are married, but please don't lie about it, it doesn't matter as I will never be interested in you in a full time capacity anyway, plus no one likes a liar.

I don't have a subscription so if I don't reply to your messages it may be because alt wont let me, in fact sometimes I am not able to actually read some messages

Dominant only, I don't switch anymore, although I originally joined alt in 2000 with that intention, continually meeting males who are just too weak for me made me realise one of us has to take charge and that will be me

I can spot people who change their own preferences to suit who they are trying to impress, so please move on to someone who will fall for it instead of irritating me without reason. Just be yourself

I'm NOT looking for casual sex, so please do not bother sending a photo of your penis. I'm also not looking for a life partner/marriage, so again please move on to someone else if that's your goal

It is possible I sound grumpy and full of attitude with my profile, blame the previous idiots who have taken advantage of my good nature, you'll maybe have to work harder to get a chance of seeing how sweet I really am

From now on my only photos uploaded will be marked ones due to MY photos being found being used on another site. Seriously, how desperate?