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Most people would say I'm a mix of easy going and lively minded.
Physically I exercise ... but not enough, although remedying that with membership of a fancy gym that's really nice to go to!
I like going out a bit, usually to do things like live music, theatre, few drinks perhaps not getting wasted lol ... BTDT. Not really a party these days.
I like my partners to know what I like, I guess why I've come on here as that's up front rather than something to find out later. Not sure I fit the criteria for BDSM as I think liking sex is part of who I am and it just happens to include from time to time wanting to have my ass fucked hard, not that I'm adverse to some light bondage including having a switch side which I'm good with having fun exploring.
I love sex and am looking for a partner but not averse to no-strings/casual where there might be a sexual match but not in other areas.
In the bedroom I guess I'd be a mix depending on day/mood etc sometimes experimental, from time to time indulge my kink .. sometimes knackered and I or they may just need a shag. I prefer one on one but if it felt ok I wouldn't mind trying it with another person included.
I work in mental health, don't want to be doing that when I'm with a partner, but then again I'm probably way more aware of that psychological stuff than most guys. I also don't work too hard, I have enough to live a decent life, I earn reasonably well when I work, so I'm trying to have time to do other stuff .. that includes work on the house though lol! Have adult , grandkids too! The younger one lives with me as they're about to do an MSc.
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My Ideal Person:
I'm largely straight although I am not entirely against exploring sex with another man, although that would be sex and not "romantic". Here I have worked out my description "heteromantic-bisexual".
Looking for someone discrete because wanting a relationship which includes my kink is just a part of who I am rather than my lifestyle and its fine to have some private stuff in our lives.
I definitely have a kink ... loving being fucked up my ass with big toys and fisted.
I have some taboos, like not much pain. I'm not really turned on much (I don't think at least) by latex gear ... I mean I can look sexy I guess bot a taboo just not a necessity at all for me.
A great place to have sex is somewhere where I can be uninhibited and that's usually somewhere private and comfortable.
Don't do dishonesty about affairs etc.
Read my blog for a sexual fantasy where I get all the attention one night!
One night stands are ok, in fact can be great, but not really what I'm after.
Not really fussed about music during sex or a romantic evening, although not crap music lol! Have listened to Maggot Brain by Funkadelic though, erm I guess Sigur Ros might be good ... I'm labouring there though, like I said not really fussed.
Sensuality can be really important too, I give good massages I've been told, I love being given a good massage, doesn't have to end up being sexual, in fact can sometimes be better really long term foreplay like that. Touch sometimes in that lingering sensual enjoyment of touching or being touched can be amazing as part of foreplay. Foreplay itself is kind of necessary, although it can be having a great day together and then not needing foreplay later cos there's passion already there.
Ideally smart, well read, loves ideas, is an old punk, enjoys lives music (interesting/alt/punk), going theatre, cinema, events, festivals. Has a life they don't anything need much of my help to run/finance, has space for a relationship. Finds me sexy and from time to time wants to fuck my ass with huge dildos and swap to fisting me deep and then swap back to a massive dildos so my hole is huge wide open and sloppy because they like doing it and they know I love that kind of sated feeling. Know what they want too and are good with stating their needs generally.
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