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CawintShard  
There is attraction in mystery.
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Member Since: April 24, 2017

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Information:
Gender:   Man
Birthdate:   August 12, 1961
(57 years old)
Astrological Compatibility
Lives in:   Pasadena, California, United States
Relocate?:   No
Height:   5 ft 9 in / 175-177 cm
Body Type:   Average
Smoking:   I'm a light/social smoker
Drinking:   I'm a light/social drinker
Drugs:   I don't use drugs
Education:   Some grad school
Race:   Caucasian
Sexual Orientation:   Straight
Speaks:   English
Hair Color:   Prefer not to say
Hair Length :   Short
Eye Color :   Hazel
Glasses or Contacts :   Contacts


LifeStyle
I think about ALT lifestyle:   All the time
Role:   Dominant
Level of Experience:   More than five years
Dress:   Casual
Social Orientation :   Moderate
Safe Sex:   Yes
Demeanor:   Assertive

Personal
Male Endowment: Prefer not to say/
Prefer not to say
Circumcised: Yes
Have Children: Prefer not to say
Want Children : No
Religion: Agnostic




   
57 year old Man in Pasadena, California, United States Looking For: Women

Profile for CawintShard
Life has never been a bore. Yet, I am not enthralled with the idea of spending fruitless hours here on the mundane. Notwithstanding, this site stimulates a dormant knack to write and explore one’s ability to develop a certain style and prose. Looking to see what’s out there in real time, exploring wants and needs is often quite unrewarding. People have told me that local scenes just do not deliver. So many stories of seeking and so many fruitless hours of time and good effort weave a carpet of utter failure strewn over the winds of time. How poetic! And unfortunately, the quest never truly seems to come to fruition. My observations into this realm have come to a single conclusion: there are many truths.

Some compatibility can be seen in the eyes, but one can forgo that. There is some attraction. It can grow. It can flourish. One can be disappointed quite often. That just makes the challenge all the more exigent. So ultimately, D/s is perhaps not the answer or more to the point, it is simply a myth depending on your philosophical state of mind. Sometimes you just have to turn the switch on. You never know. Prolonged use of straps and canes might just whip one into shape. The thought of disciplining the one who truly wants to be disciplined is a desirable passion.

So what is discipline in its most basic form? I suppose its purpose is to rectify and promote positive development in one’s manner, behavior and character. But where’s the passion in that? Concerning the dynamics in a D/s relationship, discipline should be dispensed firmly with affection and love and the disciplined person should feel comforted knowing that her forgiveness is accepted. But is goes much deeper than that. The intimacy of it all is at the heart of the matter.

Warm hands and bottoms make good bedfellows. Fetishes can come into play. An eager tongue exploring a curvaceous female sole can be very stimulating. In reality an image and a few words is all it takes to switch to the cool side of the pillow. If you one must spank use a good leather strap. Grammatical tense, punctuation and the like. These are things that do not concern me. But on the other hand, the one on the bottom might want listen carefully. Most rooms have four corners.

There is attraction in mystery. "I will not be a common man. I will stir the smooth sands of monotony." ~ Peter O'Toole. I think Peter means "eating pussy" and other mouth watering pastimes. [if254 1]

My Ideal Person:
My Ideal Person: The inimitable female sitting on the other side of the table might just personify the old adage that warm hands and bottoms do indeed make good bedfellows or fellow travelers into that secret realm. But then again, one must check the hourglass. Shouldn’t one?

A perfect match would be a woman who truly finds a D/s relationship alluring and attractive, especially if it includes imagining the sensations of the crop, flogger, paddle or hand spanking all handled with strength and authority yet simultaneously with care and a mutual passion. She would have an underlying need and desire to be disciplined and must be trustworthy and sincere about here own feelings in these matters. She would be intelligent and be up front and assertive about her sexual needs or desires or perhaps be very curious looking for someone compassionate to explore those D/s needs and desires. Perhaps she just wants to come in from out of the cold and feel safe and know there is genuine concern for her well being. She should feel totally free to communicate and just talk about her desires and needs and not feel inhibited by them.

I almost forgot. If she's into heavy impact play that would be nice.


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