I know as well as anyone on here that alt has its faults; yet, it remains the most viable means of finding what I am looking forand what I am looking for is something quite special, quite exquisite. As much as I value this forum for having met several interesting friends in the lifestyle, most importantly I value it for having brought a truly wonderful, truly beautiful sub into my life. Unfortunately, despite our best efforts to sustain that relationship, the complications of the outside world brought our relationship to a conclusion after three fantastic years. Thus, I find myself again in search of the little one who can serve fully, and in her service bring the bliss of the full realization of our desires to both our lives.
In Ds/BDSM, I have enjoyed the most intense sexual experiences of my life, and I have brought the joy of that intensity to the lives of those who have submitted to me. Even in the short-term (and I do not dismiss the pleasures of a short-term relationship), the intensity of plunging a sub into the darkest corners of her psyche, taking her body and soul to the darkest edges of her existence, where pain and pleasure share the same space, then bringing her back to the surface, to know that she will be comforted and loved and adored, transcends any other sexual dimension. I am most interested in Ds/BDSM as avenues of transcendence; and what interests me most in this search is discovering the keys to sustaining that incredible intensity through a long-term relationship.
I believe fully that sex, like love or (without sounding blasphemous) religious faith, can transcend the merely physical to transport those thus engaged to a mystical level of being. I believe further that such transcendence is most accessible by the power of opposing consciences (for example, Dom/sub). For me, BDSM serves then as a path not only to the most intense, most powerful orgasms imaginable, but to a heightened state of sensual existence. And if the partners are truly in tune, that heightened state transcends the sensual to empower and enlighten every aspect of their life together.
If you think you are capable of such transcendence, I would love to hear from you. If you have the courage to face that point where your fear and desire merge, I would love to hear from you. If you choose to reach always for the extraordinary and disdain conformity, I would love to hear from you. Whether you are an experienced submissive who wants to dive fully into the depths of slavery or a novice just finding the courage to open the door into the tangled wonderland of submission, I would love to hear from you.
I am creative, intellectual, attractive, sophisticated, and passionate in all my pursuits. I seek someone who is intelligent, attractive, erotic, passionate, obedient, and talentedor someone who is capable of being educated to become all of the above for the attainment of our mutual pleasure. I enjoy D/d role-play, as well, but that is NOT a requirement. If you are interesting, intelligent, attractive, and disease-free and are interested in exploring the passion of Ds/BDSMwhether as a beginner nurturing a curiosity for the best the lifestyle has to offer or as a long-term devoteeI would love to discuss our shared interests and plan our mutual exploration.
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My Ideal Person:
I believe firmly that the term "sub" should suggest "substance" as much as it does "submissive." I find nothing of worth in dominating a woman who sees no worth in herself; and while I believe a Dom should support his sub to attain such belief by discovering more and more about herself through his guidance, she ultimately must take that step herself. I consider myself creative, intellectual, attractive, sophisticated, and passionate in all my pursuits; and at the risk of sounding arrogant, I believe I could enrich any woman's life. I thus seek someone who is intelligent, attractive, erotic, passionate, obedient, and talentedor someone who is capable of being guided and educated to become all of the above--to enrich my life. I enjoy D/d role-play, as well, and would love to introduce those interested to it; but that is NOT a requirement. If you are interesting, intelligent, attractive, and disease-free and are interested in exploring the passion of Ds/BDSMwhether as a beginner nurturing a curiosity for the best the lifestyle has to offer or as a long-term devoteeI would love to discuss our shared interests and plan our mutual exploration.
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