I've been off this site during the pandemic, but am vaccinated now and am updating. While I am still open to finding something long-term, I'd like to find this spanking connection. If you can meet my needs, I will meet yours. Let's see if we can find some mutual interests. Please be local so we can meet in a safe way.
I'm not easy to describe or to fit into any prefabricated box. Much of my professional life has been about service to others and important causes. I hope to the extent that I am remembered, it will be as someone who left the spaces I was in better than I found them. I've not been afraid to challenge either myself or the status quo. So I believe I have consistently become both smarter and wiser through my life and have that to offer along with kindness, empathy, and understanding. I've been fortunate to travel and live abroad and still have places I want to see.
D/s is at my core and a lifelong interest. I'm safe, sane, and consensual and I know what I want and what I'm doing. I'm open to those at all experience levels as long as you are sincere and honest.
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My Ideal Person:
Please don't contact me if you're a scammer. I've been on the Internet a while and I can usually spot you quickly and you just waste both our time. I'm putting on my Master's/Dom hat here to provide some rules:
1. Don't ask me what I'm looking for in your first message. I have provided more than enough info here and a Q&A section. That just tells me you didn't read anything. 2. Tell me what in my profile made you contact me. I'm not asking for a term paper, but a couple of sentences. You can ask clarifying questions. 3. Don't ask me to go to Hangouts or personal email in your first or second message. There's nothing we can do there that we can't do here. You are just sending up a big red flag about your authenticity.
I am looking for someone who is intellectually strong, has a life or is actively building one, but enjoys being sexually submissive often. Someone who appreciates the power exchange dynamics in a relationship. I've liked the mentor or "daddy" role and would be open to that again if it appeals to you. I am looking for someone into being spanked.
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