I am best labeled as a Daddy Dom (NOT a Sugar Daddy) with Master tendencies. It would be helpful to know what that means before contacting me. I am seeking a true submissive FEMALE (Bi or curious is a plus) for decadent experiences and where that might lead - I am looking for that special someone to be my inspiration & muse sexually, personally, and emotionally, a partner in life, and the lifestyle I can connect with on multiple levels.
I am not new to the BDSM lifestyle, but returning to the single realm after MANY years. If you are within a 4-5 hour drive and we can add things of benefit to each other stories, I would enjoy hearing from you.
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I hold the Dom/Sub relationship values taught to me 30 years ago….They are far from new, but worth knowing...
Dominate (or Trainer) should agree to care for the submissive to include the physical safety, emotional and mental well-being of the submissive as long as He/she owns or controls the submissive.
Dominate (or Trainer) accepts the commitment to treating the submissive with due respect as a submissive, (staying within any boundaries & abiding by safe words established) regarding training, discipline, punishment, physical, and emotional needs.
Dom reserves the rights and authority to use the submissive as He/she sees fit, accepts the responsibility to use His power to mold and shape the submissive, assist the submissive to grow in strength, character, confidence, and being, and to help her become a better woman in all areas of her life.
Experience and kink level is not a deal-breaker with me. I have been providing instruction most of my life so learning and teaching are natural. Still, if you have only watched 50 Shades of Gray, you should at least watch the original version of the story... The Secretary with James Spader and Maggie Gyllenhaal. Maybe try to read The Story of O, by Anne Desclos, and The Claiming of Sleeping Beauty, by Anne Rice, or at least get turned on by watching Upper Floor videos before jumping into the lifestyle.
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My Ideal Person:
Shy is fine but too timid to act on desire can be annoying … #1 Be Real #2 Be Honest #3 Be Sincere If you are not those when you approach me, don't bother slowing down to stop to even chat.
Perfect would be a respectful and submissive nympho that can act like a Stepford wife in the Vanilla world with enough of a brat side to keep things interesting.
Someone that can answer questions, can be respectful (Both in vanilla & BDSM worlds), willing to build trust, and willing to take a chance if the reward is worth it.
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