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Domme looking for all kinds of REAL subs. No fakes.
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Last Visit: More than 3 months
Member Since: January 19, 2012

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Information:
Gender:   TS/TV/TG (Transvestite)
Birthdate:   June 26, 1953
(70 years old)
Astrological Compatibility
Lives in:   Lowell, Michigan, United States
Relocate?:   Yes
Height:   5 ft 10 in / 177-180 cm
Body Type:   Athletic
Smoking:   I'm a light/social smoker
Drinking:   I'm a light/social drinker
Drugs:   I use some recreational drugs
Education:   Some college
Race:   Caucasian
Sexual Orientation:   Bi-sexual
Speaks:   English, Latin, Spanish
Hair Color:   Brown
Hair Length :   Short
Eye Color :   Brown
Glasses or Contacts :   Glasses


LifeStyle
I think about ALT lifestyle:   All the time
Role:   Dominant
Level of Experience:   Whole adult life
Dress:   Casual
Social Orientation :   Moderate
Safe Sex:   Yes
Demeanor:   Assertive

Personal
Facial Hair: None
Body Hair: Shaved
Body Decorations : None
Male Endowment: Average/
Average
Circumcised: No
Breast Size: 38 / 85 B
Genitals: Penis
Marital Status: Divorced
Have Children: Yes. We do not live together.
Want Children : No
Occupation: Retired
Religion: Catholic




   
70 year old TS/TV/TG (Transvestite) in Lowell, Michigan, United States Looking For: Men, Women, Couples (man/woman), Couples (2 women) or Trans

Profile for Mistress_Cosette
SENDING ME MESSAGES DOES NOT WORK. I am on Fet, Ts Dates and the friend finder for adults. I....AM....A....STANDARD....MEMBER....I...CANNOT....READ....MESSAGES. This is a dead site compared to many others like Fet. I cannot do squat on this site. Hello. This is to inform you that if you are not real, that you shouldn't waste your time by reading this. I did that for all you SLOW people that send me messages all the time. LOL...idiots. GO TO A SITE THAT DEALS WITH FetISHES.....Fet....Got it??? If you don't know what Fet is...then you are out of touch. My handle there is "Mistress_Cosette" and you can get on for free.... One of the questions I get asked by POTENTIAL subs who have already made a date with me is, "Mistress, what will you do to me?" I HATE THAT WITH A PASSION. It is a sign of a 100% fake. I will drop you like a hot rock if you ask me that. ARE THERE ANY REAL SUBMISSIVES OUT THERE? APPARENTLY NOT. This may sound QUITE RUDE...BUT... READ THIS PROFILE BEFORE YOU CONTACT ME. IF YOU DON'T WANT TO MEET...STOP READING NOW. Will I play? OF COURSE I WILL PLAY...ON MY TERMS, NOT ON YOURS. NO ONE-LINE INQUIRES OR COMPLIMENTS. I love to have sexual control of my subs and slaves for my pleasure USING THEIR FANTASIES. Edging a sub or slave to near-orgasm and holding them there with the use of their fantasy scenario is one of the things I love. Whether it's mild stroking with my hands of a sub or heavy beating on their butts, I love to use the sub/slave's fantasy for total pleasure control even if it involves pain for them. Whatever gets them off is what I like to use for my Total Power Exchange. If you don't know what Total Power Exchange (TPE) is, then you shouldn't be here in the first place. That's what gets me going and eventually gets me off. No, you don't get my pussy unless we happen to get married. I'm a virgin and will remain that way until I have that commitment, so don't get any ideas in that direction. Everything else is on the table except heavy scat, , animals, and branding. I do everything else that floats your boat for my pleasure. I don't know why I even write all this, because I'll get them anyway from fakes and flakes who just want to THINK they have a Domme on the other end and want to just masturbate at the thought...how weak. I don't mind friend requests, since it only takes one click to take care of that. I answer 200 emails a day and most of them are totally lame. Let's face it, most people are on here are just FANTASIZING, and they fantasize about having a dominant "Mistress." This wastes time that could be well-spent chasing a REAL submissive. (There are very few of them on these sites and the pursuit of them is like trying to find some rare gem...go figure) They act like a 14 year-old boy in puberty or they think they are getting away with cheating on their significant other by doing cyber-sex. (Wow...give up the relationship if you aren't getting what you want. It's just not worth it.) If you can't write MORE than one line, you are thinning the gene pool of intelligence, and you will CERTAINLY be ignored or blocked if you DO write JUST one line. Show me your brain, and I might be attracted to you. (demonstrate that you have more than two brain cells...I don't Domme dummies) I am Mistress Cosette, a dominant transvestite and I am not a pro, (you want a pro, then go see a pro and have yourself soaked dry) but have 40 years of experience in BDSM. I seek active submissives of all kinds for REAL situations where I am your Domme for a night... (ALL night...no quickies) or (under ideal conditions) your permanent Domme for life. I smoke cigarettes and there is NO COMPROMISE on that, (it adds several fetishes to my own sexual stimulation) so PLAN ON MY ENJOYING MY SMOKE ANYTIME AND ANYWHERE I SO CHOOSE. Get used to it, because it's been a deal-breaker in many situations and I'm sick and tired of people THINKING they can negotiate me out of it. It WON'T HAPPEN. I do it for extreme sexual enjoyment, (no I don't burn people with them...although the occasional ashtray has come along for me to use, but I don't demand that) SO...it's a deal-breaker IF it offends you or makes you sick. (although some have WANTED to be made sick by it...that's fine...lol). This is about respect for MY needs, and not yours. I don't do sexy chat, online dominance, or phone sex. I've listened to too much garbage and been treated far too rudely to do otherwise. I used to be very polite up until a few months ago, and it seems that I get trampled on far less when I take the rude path. I am not apologizing for it, I am simply explaining what has happened to me, and I am DETERMINED NOT TO LET IT HAPPEN AGAIN IF I CAN HELP IT. If it rubs you the wrong way, then we WEREN'T compatible in the first place. I CANNOT HOST AT THIS TIME. (Got that part?...good) There is a motel near me that still allows smoking and we can go there. That way, we can play. I've had 7500 "serious" inquiries in the last 7 years (actual phone contact, a meeting place and time set up) and all of them have cancelled or stood me up EXCEPT 434. That's a LOUSY percentage....I find it quite amazing that I was the #1 hottest T-girl on three different sites for the ten months I cammed a few hours a day and can't get a date for a meeting more than once or twice a month. Is it me, or are there THAT many fakes and flakes out there? As of this writing, I KNOW it's the fakes and flakes. The odyssey I have been on for the last 7 years chasing around the country has left me broke three times, without a car, and now living in a basement for the last 4 years.. It gets real old listening to pious platitudes about worship, devotion, and commitment from potential subs and slaves who simply want to fantasize about having a Mistress when all they want is to satisfy their masturbatory fantasies and waste my time to the tune of 600 site messages and emails a day. I actually try to be polite and answer them all, figuring that one day, that REAL one will come along and take me in as their permanent Mistress. Oh well, silly me, for believing what people say. I'd like to run into a situation SOMEDAY where there is a submissive out there who REALLY wants a live-in Domme for the rest of his/her days AND DOESN'T JUST TALK ABOUT IT. (I KNOW there most likely aren't, so I've pretty much given up on that idea) I will be GLAD to provide that, as long as I can keep autonomy in the relationship and live-in at YOUR residence, NOT MINE. You CAN'T come and live with me. I do not have the means to support you, and I don't own a home. Those incredible few that really want a situation like that will pursue me with vigor. Like I said...there are most likely none out there. At least I haven't found one yet. So, I play with people IN PERSON on a temporary basis. There are those that are "regulars" and they are the loyal ones, but it's getting old now, and my zeal for all of that is waning because of all the fakes and flakes. It drains me of the energy, and I'm on my last legs and am quite sick of it. BUT, I still bet on the 49-1 long-shot on these sites...at least for now. That will change very soon. I'm not going after you...YOU come after ME. I won't waste my time on you if I see you are not sincere, and I've been played too much not to recognize a fake when I hear one in their email. The sincere and real ones start with respect and continue the respect and courtesy for a REAL Domme. The D/s relationship can't work any other way unless you go see one of those pros. That's not how I work it. If you are interested, send a real photo or contact me with at LEAST a paragraph about your needs and intentions. While all the compliments are nice, please be courteous enough to be sincere in your approach. "Hey, baby" or "Hi doll" will get you NOWHERE. And DON'T ask "What would you do to me, Mistress?" That demeans me by making it seem like you are out shopping and I am a can of soup on a shelf. (also the sign of a fake) Save that for some idiot bimbo T-girl that gets off on all the attention. I get to interview YOU, not the other way around. MY way or the highway...your only choice...provided you are TRULY submissive. [if254 1]

My Ideal Person:
As I said before, I'm looking for a submissive who is a TV, cross-dresser, woman, or a male who will serve me and worship me. Couples are fine also. I am VERY demanding and will take over your life while we are together. I will brook NO disobedience or slovenliness in your demeanor. I do not suffer fools or phonies, and am very selective as to who I take on as a submissive. Start by writing a lengthy introduction and have it ready when I contact you after we have made the initial contact. Once I read it, and you have me interested, then I will go about the business of being your Mistress Cosette. Can you take it?


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