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Ambitious Man For Committed Female-Led Relationship
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Member Since: August 14, 2021

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Information:
Gender:   Man
Birthdate:   May 21, 1964
(59 years old)
Astrological Compatibility
Lives in:   Roseville, California, United States
Relocate?:   Maybe/Yes
Height:   6 ft 2 in / 187-190 cm
Body Type:   Average
Smoking:   I'm a non-smoker
Drinking:   I'm a light/social drinker
Drugs:   I don't use drugs
Education:   BA/BS (4 years college)
Race:   Caucasian
Sexual Orientation:   Straight
Speaks:   English
Hair Color:   Salt and Pepper
Hair Length :   Medium
Eye Color :   Blue
Glasses or Contacts :   Prefer not to say


LifeStyle
I think about ALT lifestyle:   All the time
Role:   Submissive
Level of Experience:   I am new at this
Dress:   Casual
Social Orientation :   Conservative
Safe Sex:   Yes
Demeanor:   Assertive

Personal
Male Endowment: Average/
Average
Circumcised: Yes
Have Children: Prefer not to say
Want Children : Maybe
Occupation: Self-Employed
Religion: Christian




   
59 year old Man in Roseville, California, United States Looking For: Women

Profile for RelationshipSub
Tall, white, male business professional with curly, salt & pepper hair, blue eyes, reasonably attractive, healthy, clean, d/d free. I'm seeking a naturally dominant woman who enjoys being in control for a loyal, long-term, committed, monogamous, female-led relationship. I am not looking for a one-time hookup. I yearn to be masterfully dominated and controlled... mentally, emotionally, physically, and psychologically... by a strong-minded, willful woman into her confused, chastised, and submissive life partner. Once my male ego has been broken, I will revere you, obey you, and serve you for the rest of my life. At first, I may resist somewhat, insisting that I am a man, and that I should be treated like a man. However, my new mistress superior will gradually uncover my soft spots & sexual triggers and skillfully use them against me to slowly but surely wear me down, and break me to her will. Armed with an intimate knowledge of my passions and insecurities, she employs a creative, skillful suite of domination techniques with a firm, strict, consistent, but gentle hand to eventually reshape my psyche so that I willfully and joyfully submit to her commands. Over time, mistress will have my mind and emotions so completely under her control that I develop an almost obsessive need to please her. My life, my whole existence, becomes solely centered and focused on gaining the approval and praise of my mistress, fearful of her scorn or disappointment in me. Finally, even the concept of service itself will be twisted and manipulated by my mistress until she truly takes ownership of my mind. As such, I am initially taught to orally service mistress upon demand, and at her command. This is my job, my responsibility, my duty, my purpose in life and I am expected to perform it well. But over time, I am so well trained and conditioned by my mistress that I begin to see oral service of her as a privilege and a reward. I am expected to gratefully thank her each time for her gift to me. And the unmaking of the man will now be complete. A few final thoughts. Male Chastity) I'd like to be forced by you to wear a male chastity device most of the time, with you holding the key as a constant reminder of your superior status in our relationship. I'd like my orgasms to be infrequent and strictly controlled by you. Over time, you help me to see that I cannot be trusted with my own penis because only you know what is best for me. In the end, I'd like to be trained and taught to associate my own sexual pleasure with your orgasms. Oral Servitude) I am seeking a mistress with a strong sexual appetite who derives great pleasure from receiving oral sex, a woman who is a sexual taker, a sexual aggressor, who will take and use my face at her will. I'd like to find a woman who will force herself on me and demand oral service with no regard whatsoever for what I want, or whether I am in the mood. I imagine that I am sound asleep, warm and comfortably snug in bed. Suddenly, abruptly, I am awakened from my delicious slumber by the sensation of a weight on my chest and face, only to find that my mistress has mounted my face, trapped my mouth between her soft and creamy thighs, and commanded me to satisfy her. She takes her pleasure, smothering me in her girly juices, and climaxes, my every pore imprinted with her glorious scent. Afterwards, she rolls off of me and goes back to sleep, leaving me extremely excited, but sexually unfulfilled and frustrated, my male chastity device preventing me from any release. Since I am in that half awake, half asleep state of the subconscious mind, this "love-making" by my mistress is a strong, powerful subliminal reinforcement of her place of power in our relationship. When I awake the following morning, for reasons that I have no conscious awareness of, I am even more obedient and devoted than ever, desperate for her approval. Forced Feminization) I've intentionally saved this subject for last because from what I've read, many woman are not turned on by seeing a man dressed in woman's clothes. Hopefully, the right dominant woman might come to see things in a slightly broader context because there is a very real, impactful benefit to her that not all women are aware of. For most men, forced feminization is about more than just cross-dressing, it's about the complete transformation of the male psyche. The moment a man takes off his clothes and puts on feminine attire, he is stripped of his male ego and "attitude", his male pride is checked at the door, and he suddenly becomes extremely pliable, gentle, compliant, and easy to control. I know that for me personally it has an almost paralyzing, hypnotizing effect. It is no longer possible for me to behave in an assertive manner or muster any push-back. If you want a quick and easy path to complete obedience from me, the absence of any and all resistance, and the full acceptance of your authority, then force feminize me and witness the complete destruction of my self will. For what it's worth, I like being a man and I don't want to be a woman. But the transfer of power that takes place when a man is deprived of his maleness, shamed, humiliated, and fully feminized is enormous. For me, the effects are so strong that I am intoxicated by them. I would be powerless to ever say no to you. If you're at all open to learning more, I'd encourage you to check out Lady Alexa's blog on the role of forced feminization in a female-led relationship. This real life, lifestyle mistress from the United Kingdom truly gets it and has found a way to apply it to her advantage in her own, female-led marriage. To close, I am not a good fit for everyone. For some women, I am a lousy match. But for the right woman, I can be a path to everything you ever dreamed of... joy, happiness, devotion, security, complete control, pleasure... and more. [if254 1]

My Ideal Person:
I would love to meet an intelligent, creative, imaginative, sane, and stable woman who is emotionally fulfilled and sexually excited by being in control, a woman who instinctively understands the subtle and creative intricacies of power and knows exactly how to apply them to mold and shape a submissive man to her will.

My ideal woman would understand that any type of real, lasting change could not be effected overnight, or in a short period of time.

I long for a slow, subtle, gradual conditioning over a period of months or even years, so gradual and steady that it's almost imperceptible to me as it's happening.

But for a highly skillful dominant woman who is my clear superior I become helpless to resist her relentless and consistent training and eventually I am permanently remade from the inside out. I learn that there is no greater mission for me in life than to gain her approval and please her.

A confident, consistent style of domination, the indirect, subliminal reinforcement of power, imagery, symbolism, psychological conditioning, mental and emotional influencing , indoctrination, shame, humiliation, assumed superiority, and the sheer force of a woman's will are stronger, more foundationally altering, and more enduring than all the whips and chains in the world.

What's more, I will freely and openly share my exact and specific soft spots with you, where I am vulnerable to being cleverly manipulated, if you are open to hearing and willing to listen.

A woman who is capable of uncovering my trigger points and then skillfully pushing and manipulating the right buttons could literally own me for life.

I am not looking to connect with a professional mistress or dominatrix, either for a session or for a long-term relationship. I am 100% d/d free and I want to stay that way.

Nor am I looking to switch. If you're looking for a man to occasionally switch roles and jump your bones then I am not for you. I will also not try to top from the bottom.

Instead, I am seeking a naturally dominant woman who wants a loyal, long-term, devoted submissive male partner, a man who will adore her and put her needs first, wait on her, and serve her as his leader, superior, and true mistress.


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