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TIVofNJ  
'ya wanna play ... explore ... and grow together?
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Member Since: April 28, 2011

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Information:
Gender:   Man
Birthdate:   October 30, 1960
(63 years old)
Astrological Compatibility
Lives in:   Clifton, New Jersey, United States
Relocate?:   No
Height:   5 ft 9 in / 175-177 cm
Body Type:   Average
Smoking:   I'm a non-smoker
Drinking:   I'm a light/social drinker
Drugs:   I don't use drugs
Education:   BA/BS (4 years college)
Race:   Caucasian
Sexual Orientation:   Straight
Speaks:   English, German, someGermam
Hair Color:   Prefer not to say
Hair Length :   Medium
Eye Color :   Hazel
Glasses or Contacts :   Glasses


LifeStyle
I think about ALT lifestyle:   All the time
Role:   Dominant
Level of Experience:   Prefer not to say
Dress:   Casual
Social Orientation :   Conservative
Safe Sex:   Yes
Demeanor:   Average

Personal
Facial Hair: None
Body Hair: Little
Body Decorations : None
Male Endowment: Prefer not to say/
Prefer not to say
Circumcised: Prefer not to say
Marital Status: Single
Have Children: No
Want Children : Maybe
Occupation: Pain in Budget Dept.
Religion: Catholic




   
63 year old Man in Clifton, New Jersey, United States Looking For: Women

Profile for TIVofNJ
Hello young lady ... lend me your ... ... mind, spirit, and being as a whole. The journey is to share experiences of intimate fun and mutual inner fulfilment. (Please note - evidently ALT no longer lets me read a message unless I buy a membership. I have a number of messages now that I have not been able to read - I regret not being able to reply. IM or T_I_V on fetlife is probably the only way to get a message to me. Thank you.) You are a bright adventurous woman with a mind and spirit to appreciate (not just a butt and bosom with the customary unique to her in between) You desire to become a special friend and or confidant and or playmate, and or beyond, that innerly yearns for various experiences of e-scene and med. fet. themes in variation. I am a D&D free SWM with an intense fondness and interest in sharing journeys and exploration of varying degrees of such related challenges of your submission to intimate yearnings and inner release. My collection of a wide range of "toys" are waiting to be shared and explored. For no other reason than my core beliefs, any potential probing, exploring, and testing of you there, there, there, and yes there, would specifically exclude conventional forms of intercourse. Yet, we would not ignor the sensual and physical need to please and be pleased. Other little tidbits about me ... I like smiles and smiling ... I like wholesome ... don't think I can describe what that is, but I like it ... I'm fond of pets ... finding a stray dog/cat hair on whatever I'm wearing is more of a badge of honor than embarrassment ... I like thinking I will like my bike more ... at least be motivated to get on it more often ... I like the responsible appreciation of adult beverages ... I like food ... heck, can't live without it ... trying diverse types and varieties is fun, though admittedly more gourmand than gourmet ... I like the time of year when the morning sun shines through my bedroom window and creates a diamond shape on the opposite wall ... So young lady, let your desires be your adventures, your instincts be your guide, and those you meet along the way enrich your exploration & release of self. Warmest fulfilling wishes, TIV [if254 1]

My Ideal Person:
First and foremost, you and I will mutually be respectful, sincere, and discreet. Though innerly at ease with my fetish pursuits and need for dominant self expression, my private and personal most journeys are to enhance life, not complicate it. These journeys are to be shared and appreciated between us and not cause issues with our public or day to day lives.

Next, for the record ...
... simply put, I want you to lend me your unique to you body (and the individual mind and spirit as a whole that comes with it) (or if you are so inclined call it an abduction of you)
... I want to “probe and prod” you
... I want to “examine” you
... I want to “explore” you
... I want to "test" the triggers of your sexual release
... I want to use my vast collection in my toy boxes on you ... there, there, there, and yes, there …
... I want to potentially challenge and experiment with you limits and levels of your release
... I want you to be my special toy to stimulate creativity and imagination
... I want you to proudly submit the woman that is you as a playground
... and, each such occasion all the while, it would be my expectation, you are submitting to this freely, openly, uninhibitedly, and of your own free will ... perhaps even permit yourself journeys of self and inner release through me ...
... then, when I have satisfied my playtime and attention on you until the next time, I would return your being as a whole back to you, probably no worse the wear ... well, maybe a bit sore there, there, there, and or yes, there

Then, off the record ...
... simply put ... well, perhaps not possible for simply put ... beyond what I want from you on the record ... very likely more, but, maybe not ... the doors are open ...
... I want to own you ... no! ... Sure, as a pretense of a growing relationship. In reality of mine, as a valued possession, is your submission shared and given, since you have a spirit that is self sufficient and self motivated ... a unique spirit that cannot be owned.
... I want you as my slave ... no! ... My strength of any Mastery of your mind and being feeds on the freedom to gift that which dwells within you unrestricted by an attitude of forced servitude.
... I want to abuse or beat you ... no! ... Brutality is not in my nature, yet, conceivably -it my hurt a bit- when releasing yourself to endure my physical challenges , not for pain's sake, but as a part of the journey to a goal.
... I want a 24/7 D/s lifestyle commitment ... no! ... My ambition is a compliment to life, not be the life. Your natural inclusion enhances overall quality of mutual inner personal release unlimited by quantity actually identifying it.

However, in the journey of personal appreciation of life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness, there is an open seat next to me ...
... Along the way it would be whole heartedly welcome for an intelligent and adventuresome young woman heading in a complimentary direction in journeys seeking similar points of interests to join me …
... be it for just a special ongoing friendship or … beyond to whatever LTR might develop (as silly or ironic as it may sound in context, my core beliefs reserve conventional forms of intercourse for a h/w type commitment, so that “beyond” though not actively being sought, is by no means out of the question or undesired) ...
... My ideal destination ... my inner need for your submission will be an equal to bring out my dominance, to the place that will nurture mutual inner fulfillment and strengthen each other as equal counterparts while encouraging each other to achieve personal, or shared, goals.

Well, it is the best I can put into words at this time ...

... safe journeys and it would please me if you shared a point of interest where our paths cross along the way.


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