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I am a 41 year old Dominant living in the Middle Tennessee area. I am originally from South Florida, where I was born and lived for 26 years. I then moved to the Columbia, TN area (Nashville is the closest major city that people seem to know). I have always had a Dominant personality, enjoyed assuming leadership roles and enjoyed helping others. I currently have a successful career in the private sector in automotive sales and finance management, own my own home on just over three acres and have my life together. Previous careers include law enforcement (yes, I still have the uniform) and movie theater management.
For those of you into personality typing, I am an ENFJ. Google that if you want to know what it means.
In my vanilla life, I work a lot of hours, but always manage time to have fun and spend time with those that are important to me. I enjoy spending time with friends and chosen family, am a movie buff (comedy is my favorite genre) and also a history buff. I have been married twice and divorced twice, but do not have any .
In my kink life, I have over a decade of experience in the lifestyle. I've been active in both the local scene and the national scene. My first interest in anything lifestyle related was spanking, which remains my primary fetish, but I am into so much more, and posses a dark kink side as well. I first realized this interest at a young age when I read a book that had a spanking story in it. This interest grew over the years and I found myself drawn to anything to do with spanking. Thanks to the internet, my interests grew to include other aspects of BDSM and when I turned 18, I began to explore these interests further, first through reading and educating myself, then by becoming involved in real life. I have been active in the lifestyle privately since then and began playing more publicly in 2010 when I was convinced to go to my first Crimson Moon party over the Halloween weekend. I now try to attend as many parties and get togethers as I can.
My style of Dominance falls mainly within the Domestic Discipline and 1950's Household styles with a sadistic twist, but I do not limit myself to these. I DO NOT believe in treating women like doormats and prefer to build them up rather than breaking them down in order to be the best they can be and help them reach their goals. That being said, within a scene or with a partner who needs/wants it, humiliation and degradation can be a major turn on as well. I believe that chivalry is still alive and just because someone is a Top, Dominant or Mentor, it does not give them a right to be abusive or treat others poorly just to make themselves feel better about themselves or more powerful. Being a Top/Dominant is a responsibility, not a right. I believe in teaching those involved with me to respect not only others, but themselves as well. With that, I expect anyone involved with the people I love and care about to treat them with that same level of respect. My friends and loved ones will not be used, mistreated or disrespected and will not be taken advantage of on my watch (Unless it is something that they fully consent to without force or coercion being used to gain said consent).
I believe in both punishment and positive re-enforcement. I have a sensually sadistic side (which can be dark with the right partner) and enjoy inflicting pain on a consenting sub, whether it is a simple spanking or a more severe session. I am not abusive however... all pain inflicted MUST be consensual and will never cross the lines agreed to.
I am poly. I am currently involved in one live in dynamic in a Daddy/babygirl dynamic and have a few people that are play partners.
I have my own play space in my home with a nice selection of toys, including wood and leather implements, bondage gear and other kinky tools. I always play safe and sane and believe in safe words.
Personality wise, I am both intense and laid back at the same time. I can be the most loving and generous person in the world, but also the most demanding and structured as well. I am intelligent, attractive, sarcastic and funny. I am disease/drug free, a non-smoker and a light/social drinker. The people in my life are very important to me and I am fiercely protective of my friends and loved ones. My pet peeves include being lied to, people not doing what they say they will, being intentionally ignored and friends and loved ones who put themselves down.
If you are interested in getting to know me, please feel free to contact me here. Those that make it to the close friend category will receive additional contact information. I am willing to chat with anyone and help anyone where I can, as well as offering advice/answering questions. I will answer all e-mails that I receive.
If you wish to know more, Alt has been kind enough to provide a means to contact me for your convenience.
WARNING: Institutions, individuals, and all associated entities therein DO NOT have permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum, both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications.
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My Ideal Person:
My ideal person is a female submissive/slave who is looking for their One. Someone that hopes to find not just a Dom, but also potentially a husband for a lifetime relationship. Someone that is totally submissive, not a switch, not dominant to anyone and no desire to be dominant. Someone who wants a family (one child, maybe two). Someone who matches me both in kink and vanilla terms. Someone attractive (I don't really have a type and find myself attracted to many body types and races, so all between 18-45 years old are welcome, but I will admit petite redheads are a personal favorite, but not a requirement. Someone with a personality that I desire to be around all the time. Someone disease and drug free. Someone that does not have any untreated/serious mental health issues. Someone that is accepting of poly dynamics and can be respectful of and not threatened by my other dynamics (relationships with my other partner(s) are not required, but are allowed if you also click, but respecting each other is not negotiable). Non-smokers and non-alcoholics/light/social drinkers are preferred, but not exclusive..
Finally, I would prefer someone apolitical or moderate leaning politically. If you are extreme liberal or extreme conservative, we probably will not match. Having been a former police officer, if you find yourself in the anti law enforcement crowd, support defunding the police or believe ACAB, you would probably also be served well to pass me by, as even though I am no longer active law enforcement, those men and women are still my family and I will always have their backs.
If you think this you and I might match, message me and let's see if we click... I have membership set so that anyone can e-mail me even as a standard member.
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