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Man
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| Birthdate: |
July 22, 1967
(56 years old)
Astrological Compatibility
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| Lives in: |
Seabrook, Texas, United States
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| Relocate?: |
No |
| Height: |
6 ft 2 in / 187-190 cm |
| Body Type: |
Average |
| Smoking: |
I'm a non-smoker |
| Drinking: |
I'm a light/social drinker |
| Drugs: |
I don't use drugs |
| Education: |
BA/BS (4 years college) |
| Race: |
Caucasian |
| Sexual Orientation: |
Straight |
| Speaks: |
English |
| Hair Color: |
Brown |
| Hair Length : |
Short |
| Eye Color : |
Other |
| Glasses or Contacts : |
None |
| Activities Enjoyed: |
{"33":"Exhibitionism/Sex In Public|2|1","63":"Toys|2|1","68":"Whips|2|1","17":"Chastity Devices|2|1","18":"Chains|2|1","30":"Dildos (Handheld & Strap-ons)|2|1","44":"Masks|2|5","82":"Massage|2|1","84":"Oral Sex|2|1","74":"Making Home \"Movies\"|1|6","27":"Depilation/Shaving|2|1","57":"Role Playing|2|1","75":"Pantyhose/Stockings|2|5","83":"Mutual Masturbation|2|1","40":"Klismaphilia (Douching/Enema)|2|1","14":"Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc.|2|1","20":"Cling Film|2|1","59":"Sadism|2|1","49":"Spanking/Paddling|2|1","24":"Cupping (Suction of the Skin)|2|1","31":"Domination|2|1","35":"Feathers|2|1","53":"The Rack/Medieval Devices|3|6","78":"Sensory Deprivation|2|1","48":"Oral Fixation|2|1","42":"Latex|2|5","46":"Nipples|2|1","23":"Collar and Lead/Leash|2|1","29":"Sadism/Masochism|2|1","6":"Ass Play|2|1","85":"Anal Sex|2|1","39":"Hair Pulling|2|1","36":"Fisting|2|1","9":"Blindfolds|2|1","58":"Rubber|2|5","12":"Bondage|3|6","41":"Lace/Lingerie|2|5","47":"Doctor/Nurse Fetish|2|1","15":"Confinement/Caging|2|1","52":"Power Exchange|2|6","38":"Handcuffs/Shackles|2|1","8":"Masturbation|2|1","4":"Pain|2|1","34":"Electrotorture (EMS TENS units)|2|1","66":"Vibrators|2|1","45":"Masochism|2|1","86":"Talking Dirty|2|1","76":"Participating in Erotic Photography|1|1","19":"Chinese Balls/Ben Wa Balls/Anal Beads|2|1","43":"Leather|2|5","5":"High Heels|2|5"} |
| I think about ALT lifestyle: |
All the time |
| Role: |
Dominant |
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Level of Experience: |
More than five years |
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Dress: |
Casual |
| Social Orientation
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Moderate |
| Safe Sex: |
Yes |
| Demeanor: |
Average |
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Facial Hair | : |
None |
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Body Hair | : |
Prefer not to say |
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Body Decorations
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None
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| Male Endowment | : |
Prefer not to say/
Prefer not to say
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| Circumcised | : |
Prefer not to say |
| Marital Status | : |
Single |
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Have Children | : |
No |
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Want Children
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Maybe |
| Occupation | : |
engineer |
| Religion | : |
Catholic |
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56
year old
Man
in
Seabrook, Texas, United States
Looking For:
Women
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[COLOR darkred][SIZE 5]"Be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind". For those of you that might not recognize it, this is a quote from someone from our childhood, Dr. Suess, I originally saw this on a local members blog and decided to use it as the theme for my updated profile.[/SIZE][/COLOR]
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03/11-This revision has been in the making for awhile and long overdue. I do consider it to be a work in progress so please bare with me, I have alot of things to cover and at this stage no particular order to cover them in, so if something seems out of place that is why. I want to get everything up and let it 'forment' for awhile, hopefully any revisions or necessary rewrites will be obvious.
I am intending this profile to be used merely as a guide, in other words it is written to benefit you in determining how good of a match we might be. Nothing is set in concrete, everything is negotiable to some degree unless it is something that I specify as being a hard limit. While it is written to convey my general thoughts, feelings and ideas on certain areas, they can be changed with a strong argument! Simply put, if you have a strong argument, I will listen, but please don't get upset with me if you cannot change my mind. I think everyone on this site has a pretty good idea of what they want long before they ever complete a profile. It is a pretty simple concept, as you read through this profile make an honest evaluation of how much you agree with, if at the end you don't agree with a majority of my ideas and feelings it should be pretty obvious that contacting me would be a total waste of each others time. On the other hand, if you agree with what I have written, like the pics of my leather and toys, and find yourself totally aroused to the point that you have to retrieve your vibrator and self pleasure, perhaps you should contact me!
I am here to communicate, interact, and exchange ideas with liked minded individuals. I hope that out of this I am able to meet a well balanced female sub/slave with long term potential. Finding something long term has always been a goal but finding real people on here has thus far proven very difficult. They are here, but often prove to be very ellusive and hard to find amongst all the clutter.
I have been on this site for close to 10 years now and practicing and pursuing this lifestyle pretty much my entire adult life. Based on my observations in some of the chatrooms I do want to give a piece of advice to those that are new to this, whether you are a true 'newbie' or have known about this for awhile and just now exploring, in this lifestyle knowledge is power, the more you know the better off you are. Read up!, I would suggest 'Screw The Roses, Send Me The Thorns-The Romance and Sexual Sorcery of Sadomasochism'. Others worth a read are 'SM101-A Realistic Introduction' and 'How to be Kinky-A Beginner's Guide to BDSM'. I make this recommendation based on the poor advice that I often see given to newcomers in the chatrooms. It is often tainted with information intended to persuade the newbie to agree to meet the advice giver in private for some one on one instruction. Would I consider any of these reads to be 'the' best authority on the pursuit and practice of this lifestyle?...NO!! But they will all cover the basics that are pretty much universal amongst all legitimate bdsm'ers, such as the safe, sane and consensual credo, safe words, safe calls as well as the all important power exchange. And yes, all of these reads will surely reflect the authors personal biases and opinions, but you don't have to worry about a book having an alterior motive...in other words it won't seduce you!
There are many self titled Doms and Masters who would try to convince someone that being submissive is a weakness, I strongly disagree! I have met many females that identify themselves as a submissive in this realm but in the vanilla world they are in positions of great power. To me submission is something that must be earned, never demanded, earned through trust and respect. Submission should never be given to anyone that has not earned it, even if demanded from a Dom or Master. Many will tell you that it is proper protocol to submit to any Dom or Master when requested, this is simply not true!
I recall taking part in a conversation in a chatroom on here a few years back in which a newbie was seeking answers, her questions pertained to proper protocol and accepted practices. Collectively we gave her a very good answer, you truly are free to pursue this lifestyle as you see fit, there is no one right way nor is there a wrong way, although I strongly advise you keep safety in mind at all times. Find someone that shares your interest in this and that you have some degree of natural chemistry with and play how you see fit. There is no BDSM board of governors that make rules, regulations, or policies on what is right or wrong, nor is there a BDSM police force that will come knocking on your door and cite you or arrest you for doing it your way! Just keep it safe, sane, and consensual!
Where does this kind of relationship begin?, to me it starts with TRUST and RESPECT. Without trust and respect we have nothing, something that goes hand in hand with trust and respect is TRUTH and HONESTY, all of which are many people on this site seem to know nothing about![/COLOR][/SIZE]
[COLOR blue][SIZE 5]04/09 Wow!...how time flies when your having fun. Hard to believe that I have been on ALT as long as I have now. Originally as a standard member to explore and learn, and eventually upgrading to gold when I decided that this was something that I needed in my life and relationship. Those of you that are standard members I know your frustration, limited in pretty much everyway. Hard to find what your looking for when the only way you can contact someone is by winking, catching them in a chatroom or posting on their blog.[/SIZE][/COLOR]
[COLOR red][SIZE 5]04/09 A few notes before you read on: First, all pictures in my profile are owned by me, they may not be copied or reproduced in anyway without permission. Any unauthorized reproduction or use of any of my pictures will be considered image theft and will be dealt with accordingly including legal action! If you see any of my images on any other profiles please let me know, I do not tolerate image theft to any degree[/SIZE][/COLOR]
[COLOR royalblue][SIZE 5]04/09 Second, if you are going to try to butter me up and request money don't bother contacting me. If you are going to refer me to any site that I have to use a credit card for don't bother contacting me.[/SIZE][/COLOR]
[COLOR darkblue][SIZE 5]04/09 Third, please understand that I am looking for something specific here please respect that. This profile is intended to to be used merely as a guide as far as what my preferences are. Even if you don't meet my criteria and you think we might be a good match, send me a wink, hotlist me, and send me an email if you can. [/SIZE][/COLOR]
[SIZE 5][COLOR red]04/09 Now that I have those notes behind me, grab yourself a beverage of your choice and read on. I feel that the more information I give you about me as well as what I am looking for the less likely we are to waste each others time. I am tired of keeping my BDSM interests a secret, while I am still not 'out' about my practice and interest in this lifestyle I want to be open about it to a certain degree. I am tired of trying to introduce this side of me into a 'vanilla' relationship. No matter what approach I took, the outcome was never what I wanted. I have evolved to the point that I can never exist in a pure 'vanilla' relationship ever again. I need BDSM in my life and in my relationship, it is who I am. Even with a few ladies agreeing to some light bondage, it never seemed to evolve to what i wanted or needed it to. I am way beyond vanilla and have done away with the neoprene novelty cuffs and have graduated up to sturdy leather cuffs. Needless to say I am tired of dating pure 'vanilla' women, I am seeking someone who is a lady in public, and a slave in the privacy of our home, and is willing to satisfy my seemingly insatiable appetite for sex. I am seeking someone that is a good fit for me in public as well as private, I am seeking a life partner, a lover, a sub, and a slave. I am seeking a lady with similar interests that enjoys similar activities but most importantly she must be open minded and willing to try new things.[/COLOR] [/SIZE]
[SIZE 5][COLOR darkred]04/09 Up until joining ALT I had never openly discussed my interest in the BDSM lifestyle nor had I aggressively pursued it. I pretty much just studied and learned what I could. When I finally realized and accepted this is who I am I upgraded with the intention of finding what I wanted. I have evolved to the point that I can no longer exist in a purely 'vanilla' relationship. I am seeking a long term 24/7 arrangement. Something between a 24/7 D/s relationship and a 24/7 M/s relationship, I have a very strong desire to collar a slave. [/COLOR] [/SIZE]
[COLOR firebrick] [SIZE 5]04/09 A little bit about me: I am native Texan born and raised in the heart of Dallas/Fort Worth. Job opportunities brought me to the Houston area but but I do hope that someday the opportunity will come up that will take me back to the metroplex area. I live on the Southeast side of Houston in the Clear Lake area, I have really enjoyed living here until we have a hurricane emergency...LOL, guess it's just part of Gulf Coast living. I have a good job which does require traveling and I usually spend a few nights a month out of town. I really enjoy being outdoors and with a few exceptions pretty much enjoy any outdoor activities, to stay in shape I enjoy bicycling and swimming. When my schedule permits I enjoy snow skiing in Colorado and camping/rafting trips to the Guadalupe River in New Braunfels. Being on the coast I enjoy going to the beach, while the beaches of Galveston and Boliver Peninsula are alight, I really prefer the white sand beaches of Florida with their cyrstal clear water. I enjoy watching football and follow the Dallas Cowboys and the Houston Texans in the pros as well as a few schools in the college ranks. I am a huge Dallas Stars hockey fan and watch every game that I can and even make the trip to American Airlines Center in Dallas a few times a year to see them in person. I enjoy bowling, billiards, and boating of any kind, I also follow the pro classes of NHRA drag racing. I enjoy listening to 80's and 90's rock as that was the music that I grew up on, I also enjoy country, nothing beats listening to it live at Billy Bob's in the stockyards, and have now started to listen to more alternative rock from bands like Breaking Benjamin, Hoobastank, Staind, Cold, Three Days Grace, 3 Doors Down, Chevelle and Seether. I enjoy a wide variety of foods with any kind of seafood always being a favorite, as well as a wide variety of restaurants with Pappadeaux's being one of my favorites, go figure! I have even acquired a taste for sushi! [/SIZE][/COLOR] [/COLOR]
[COLOR red]My interest in the BDSM lifestyle goes way back to my early college days when I dated a young lady whose knowledge of this lifestyle was beyond belief, needless to say she planted the seed of interest. Needless to say since that time I began to research and learn as much as I could, my searches often yielded plenty of BDSM related videos and dvds as well as plenty of online shops that sold BDSM related gear and apparel. However, I did notice an absence of any BDSM related books and magazines, I cannot help but think that this is a result of the existing attitude in american society regarding sex and sexuality, especially something as hardcore as BDSM, it is often viewed as a 'taboo' subject that is not to be discussed publicly, just look at the restrictions placed on television and radio regarding on air content. Only when I traveled abroad did I realize just how far behind the rest of the world american society is in terms of sex and sexuality, over there sex is an everyday topic with very few restrictions, it is nothing to see nudity on a daily basis. [/COLOR]
[COLOR red] After a lengthy search I finally found what I was looking for in the form of the canadian fetish magazine Whiplash, it contained several BDSM related articles and ads. I am not sure if this magazine is still in publication but if you are in the Houston area and want to obtain a back copy I would recommend trying Eros1207 in South Houston, if you make it by make sure to check out the leather room! I ultimately found what I was looking for when I obtained a copy of the UK fetish magazine Skin Two and the german fetish magazine Marquis, both are very high quality glossy magazines that also contain several BDSM related articles, ads, and erotic stories, if you are interested in obtaining a copy of either one you can find them at Dareware, if you stop by there make sure you shop awhile as there is plenty of HOT stuff in there for you ladies!![/COLOR]
[COLOR red]My level of involvement in BDSM activities could best be described as an activity incorporated into foreplay rather than a lifestyle. Please do not confuse what I am looking for to be a Master/Slave relationship as I would view anything that develops from this site as a 50/50 partnership with everything being subject to negotiation. If I had to stipulate one requirement it would have to be that you enjoy sex as much as I do. As far as activities I enjoy please refer to my fetish checklist, activities enjoyed are indicated, those that are on my 'NO' list are indicated as well, if it is not marked and it is something that you are interested we can discuss it and probably work it into out foreplay sessions. I consider myself to be a very caring and understanding dom and will always treat you with respect as you are first and foremost a lady, I will never subject you to any type of BDSM play that we have not discussed and I will never do anything to you that I would not allow you to do to me. [/COLOR]
[COLOR red]I am not approaching this search with the intent to find someone and marry them but I am searching for an exclusive relationship. Call me crazy but I do not feel that you can have a relationship based soley on sex but lack of it will end it in a hurry! I have been told by many ladies that I am old fashioned but I just like to think that my mother taught me how to treat a lady with respect, you can expect me to open doors for you and even send you roses on those special days. My approach to sex is simple, never allow each other to leave the bedroom unsatisfied. I accomplish this through communication with you about what you like or what you enjoy, I incorporate that into our foreplay and then ask for feedback. I give you the opportunity to tell me what you like or dislike and I use that to refine my technique. I do realize that a vast majority of women are like energizer bunnies, you keep going...and going...and going! With that in mind please understand why I like to incorporate various activites and toys into our foreplay. I like to start with you and finish with me.[/COLOR]
[COLOR red]I tend to have a very kinky mind and therefore really enjoy kinky sex, I also love to incorporate sex toys into our foreplay. Yes, I will probably work you up to an orgasm with a vibe but have you ever played with electro-stimulation??, if not ladies you don't know what your missing!! Your level of experience does not matter to me as I will teach you what you need to know, what is important is that we have the same sex drive and your open minded willingness to try new things. I don't expect you to be able to match my level of kinkiness but you need to be able to play at my level.[/COLOR][COLOR royalblue][/COLOR][COLOR royalblue][/COLOR][SIZE 5][/SIZE][SIZE 3][/SIZE][SIZE 3][/SIZE][SIZE 3][/SIZE][COLOR darkblue][/COLOR][SIZE 3][/SIZE][COLOR blue][/COLOR]
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My Ideal Person:
What am I looking for?? As stated above I am searching for a submissive lady for a long term relationship. Ideal ladies should be between the ages of 21 and 45, although the closer you are to my age the better as we tend to have more in common, should be either slim/petite; athletic; or average in build, should be drug and disease free and a non-smoker, however, social smoking of cigars is acceptable. I would prefer you be college educated with at least a bachelors degree, masters and doctorates are a plus. You must be financially stable as I don't want to be your sugar daddy as well as emotionally stable as I DO NOT WANT A DRAMA QUEEN, and I would prefer that you be single or divorced and not have children. Willingness to relocate to the Houston area is a plus.
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