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UPDATE.....
I have let my gold elapse for the time being as well as standards able to contact.
The reason being is that I am currently in a relationship with sophie152. She has come a long way since last year.
We are currently entertaining the idea of having another submissive female join us at times. Would consider a couple as well.
First and Foremost...Please be real, Please no fakes or flakes . If we begin communicating and discussing, and we agree to a face to face meet or other...
Please be Honorable
Thank you
Erik
Fully vaxed and boosted.
I am a Dominant MWM, DDF, having the support of my wife, who knows she is a bit too vanilla for me. Alas, allowing me to pursue my desires, wants and yes needs.
Interested in and looking to meet others for play dates. To mutually enjoy the dynamics with-in D/s BDSM.
I have been in and out of the lifestyle since I was 26. So am not new to this in any way. Trust is paramount. Open communication, honesty, wants, desires and needs discussed. Again, building trust and building on that trust.
Learning of each other and knowing what the other is seeking, and craving.
Enjoy newbies who are wanting, desiring needing, to learn.. Enjoy teaching, educating and training...at their speed, with patience..
I am especially fond of Alpha submissive females... You know who you are...
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I am fully aware that the "sub" is giving of themselves. It is not to be taken lightly. It is a gift that will not be taken for granted. The "submissive" is putting themselves in a position that takes trust, honesty, and complete understanding.
I enjoy a variety of scenes, from soft to hard. Simple spanking to intense flogging, Impact play. Minor restraint to intense bondage. Blindfolds and gags.
I can be as much of a sadist as you are wanting desiring,. needing to achieve your pain threshold.. Or gentle and tender, yer Domineering. All in discussion, trust, learning...
. Those seeking ...... Breast, nipple, clit, pussy and ass play, to enlighten the potential. Limits discussed and talked about. Hard limits adhered too, soft limits pushed. Scenes can be free flowing, and/or scripted depending on what she is wanting, desiring or craving.
I have been with couples where he is Dominant as well, and ones where he is a cuckold and she wants a Dominant man for both.
Safe words used as needed. the stop light of red/yellow/green works well.
Discretion as needed on all sides.
Please read my questions and answers to find out more as well as my kinks below.
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My Ideal Person:
A lady, a woman, a...... who enjoys and responds, and receives enjoyment, and is excited by being a "willing" submissive. A woman who wants her limits pushed, and who desires to achieve blissful ecstacy through being dominated.
A woman who has been there and done that... and wants more...
Someone who wants to let their "inner slut" out..
A woman who has been unsure, has been apprehensive, yet deep down, a woman who has had thoughts, desires, wants to at least try once. To cross off the bucket list of being dominated sexually in one form or another. Mild or harsh...
A woman who may want an ongoing D/s relationship. A woman who has many years of experience and wants more..or just now taking the leap...
== Results from bdsmtest ==
0% Dominant
0% Dominant
98% Rigger
91% Degrader
90% Sadist
87% Brat tamer
86% Master/Mistress
78% Owner
72% /Mommy
71% Voyeur
70% Experimentalist
69% Primal (Hunter)
63% Non-monogamist
58% Exhibitionist
% Vanilla
5% Masochist
0% Brat
0% Pet
0% Primal (Prey)
0% Rope bunny
0% /
0% Slave
0% Submissive
0% Switch
0% Degradee
0% Ageplayer
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