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Oct1st update: Was dating a Domme for the past several weeks and got to experience some things for real finally. Unfortunately it just wasn't the right fit as long term relationship. Hoping to meet other dominant women and to find one that I am truly compatible with. :)
Very polite, smart, laid-back guy. Minimal experience with bdsm. Turned on by intelligence so another sapiosexual person would be ideal. Looking for a relationship ultimately with lots of bdsm, but not 24/7. But short term I'd be willing to meet and play as long as there is connection, chemistry and developed trust. I'm open to all sorts of things, but what I'm at least initially curious about are things like being in bondage, taking a strap on, mild cbt, tease and denial, getting spanked, and of course I'd love to pamper my Domme whether that be cooking for her, bathing her, brushing hair, etc. I'll need to explore and learn more about limits, but I'm certain that the following are hard limits: scat, permanent marks, visible marks outside of clothing, blood, animals, , drugs. I'd also expect safety words. I'd love to give the gift of my submission to a woman who would dominate me, but in a caring way. Thanks for taking the time to read this. :)
Update: I just joined this site yesterday and have been inundated with messages from Dommes, or at least purported Dommes. If you are interested in me, please be prepared to demonstrate you are honest and real. It is readily apparent there are numerous fakes and scammers on here which is a shame since there are people like me who have a serious interest in exploring this. Trust is a two way street. Demanding I obey commands when we have not talked or met and established a connection is unfair. We are human beings first. Once a connection and chemistry is established, I have no issue with giving the gift of my submission, but I need to know I can trust first. So if you are a ProDomme seeking money or a guy posing as a woman, please divert your energies elsewhere. Serious people only please. Thank you for reading this :)
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My Ideal Person:
Smart, sarcastic, experience with bdsm but not consumed by it, with varied interests both in and out of the bedroom.
My ideal person also read this far into my profile. She is going to demand my attention but also allow for me to maintain my own hobbies, interests and friends. She is also going to understand that I am not sub to everyone or even all women. Just to the smart, strong women I am attracted to and crave to please. She will also understand the need to provide aftercare. I'm particularly emotionally vulnerable and I suspect coming down from subspace after sessions might be a large adjustment for me at first. Thanks for reading all of this! 
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