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socalsubm33  
sub/bottom swm seeks lifestyle Domme,Couple,Switch
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Last Visit: More than 3 months
Member Since: July 15, 2001

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Information:
Gender:   Man
Birthdate:   January 2, 1968
(56 years old)
Astrological Compatibility
Lives in:   Gardena, California, United States
Relocate?:   No
Height:   5 ft 10 in / 177-180 cm
Body Type:   Average
Smoking:   I'm a light/social smoker
Drinking:   I don't drink at all
Drugs:   Prefer not to say
Education:   High school graduate
Race:   Caucasian
Sexual Orientation:   Prefer not to say
Speaks:   English
Hair Color:   Brown
Hair Length :   Long
Eye Color :   Blue
Glasses or Contacts :   None


LifeStyle
Activities Enjoyed:   {"67":"Voyeurism|2|3","63":"Toys|2|2","90":"Cuckold|2|1","48":"Oral Fixation|2|1","1":"24/7 (Total Power Exchange)|2|1","30":"Dildos (Handheld & Strap-ons)|2|2","44":"Masks|2|4","82":"Massage|2|1","84":"Oral Sex|2|1","74":"Making Home \"Movies\"|2|6","85":"Anal Sex|2|6","57":"Role Playing|2|6","75":"Pantyhose/Stockings|2|5","83":"Mutual Masturbation|2|6","61":"Master/Slave|2|6","9":"Blindfolds|2|6","41":"Lace/Lingerie|2|6","52":"Power Exchange|2|1","38":"Handcuffs/Shackles|2|2","69":"Cross Dressing|2|4","8":"Masturbation|2|6","56":"Rimming|2|1","31":"Domination|2|2","5":"High Heels|2|6"}
I think about ALT lifestyle:   All the time
Role:   Submissive
Level of Experience:   Less than six months
Dress:   Casual
Social Orientation :   Liberal
Safe Sex:   Yes
Demeanor:   Passive

Personal
Facial Hair: Goatee
Body Hair: Prefer not to say
Body Decorations : None
Male Endowment: Average/
Average
Circumcised: Yes
Marital Status: Single
Have Children: No
Want Children : Maybe
Occupation: Prefer not to say
Religion: Agnostic




   
56 year old Man in Gardena, California, United States Looking For: Women, Couples (man/woman), Couples (2 women) or Trans

Profile for socalsubm33
Hello and welcome to my profile.Thuoght i'd rewrite my profile because it's been awhile but i'm leaving the cobwebs for atmosphere.Physical description is 5' 10" ,170 lbs,long brown hair,blue eyes.I live in Gardena which is about 15 to 20 minutes SE of LAX airport depending on lovely los angeles traffic.Wipes the smudge of sarcasm off the screen so i can continue.Basically i'm a down-to-earth,open-minded person with a naturally submissive demeanor.I've been haboring thoughts about this lifestyle for quite a long time and the need to act on them is consuming me.I believe the biggest sexual organ in the body is the mind and with proper use you can reach higher levels of desire and pleasure. My former experiences have mostly come from roleplaying with girlfriends i've had and various random meetings with Couples/Women.Each brought a different aspect of BDSM/fetish to the table so to speak and have shown me many activities that are enjoyable to me.It also makes me yearn for the things I haven't tried yet and to push my limits further.I have switched to a Dom role during play if I knew it would bring pleasure to the one(s) I was with although i'm a submissive always at heart.I haven't been collared by a Domme or been to a pro Mistress so i'm a novice in some areas but i'm a patient,quick learner. I'm a clean canvas awaiting your stroke you could say. Here's a list of some of the play i've experienced: hair pulling.....face slapping.....spanking....light rope bondage....light flogging....paddles.... asphyxia/breath play....smothering.....light cbt.... nipple play..... hot wax....MFM threesomes..... biting...strap-on.....plugs/toys.....light electro.... roleplay....rimming....shaving.....forced fem. Fetishes: Gothic look....long dark hair (hair fetish)..stockings/ thigh highs.....legs....hypnotic control....giving massages...oral....anal....fetish clothing The things that are definitely off limits for me are scat...animals.....All other things i'd like to at least try.The list of activities i'd like to try is very long but some of the ones that come to mind are: Bondage with rope and restraints/spreader bars ....gags.....collar/leash....flogging/paddles/whips.... suspension/sling bondage....role reversal....slut training...group play....cbt....humiliation....denial.... fisting....body worship....enemas/gs....play .... strap-on forced oral/anal....roleplay....being owned. This is not an exclusive list by any means as i'm enthusiastic to please you with your favorites. Losing control and my need to serve is very appealing to me in a deep way. On a personal note my interests include Music!!!!.....i have a very mixed taste in music Electronic/gothic/industrial/metal (death,thrash,speed)/older punk/some alternative/ some reggae......and an intermixing of other styles. Some bands i've listened too recently are Perfect Circle....The Mars Volta....Slipknot.....Clutch ....Kosheen....Lamb.....Meat Beat Manifesto....NIN ......Prodigy.....Beck....Agent Orange....Fiona Apple.. Celtic Frost......to name a few. If i've piqued Your interest please read on below [if254 1]

My Ideal Person:
What i'm ultimately in search of is a LTR with a
lifestyle Domme.Hopefully fate has someone
sinister in store for me.Someone playful,
sarcastic,intelligent,witty,sadistic,sensual,and
debaucherous.A Woman i can form a deep bond
and connection with for possible ownership.Until i've met this person i'm interested in meeting with
Dominant Women,Dominant Couples,and
switches for short or maybe longer term contact.
Always looking to broaden my experiences and
I crave to serve/give pleasure to others because
it also brings pleasure to me.So if You think we
might be suited for some fun contact me.
Thank You for Your time and have a good day.


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