I have spent a lot of time answering the questions on the profile here, so if, after reading this introduction of what I consider the most important issues, you would like to contact me, you may want to read that profile information also.
I believe that women and men are equals. At the same time, I believe that a Dominant/Submissive relationship, while not for everyone, is uniquely erotic, and the only possible relationship for some. It is not that we want a Dominant/Submissive relationship, it is that we NEED it.
Yet, while both are equal as human beings, they are not equal in power. The submissive must choose to obey, but once that choice is made, obedience must be a given. Everything in the relationship derives from obedience. Most especially the intense eroticism. Power (and submitting to it) is the ultimate aphrodisiac.
A real life Dominant / Submissive relationship is not what many fantasize. It can be fun, but it is not a game. It begins with the decision to obey, and is sustained by humility and submission.
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My Ideal Person:
Perfection is impossible, but the pursuit of perfection is not impossible.
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