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Who am I? What am I? Hard questions. Seems to change on a daily basis, but I'll see if I can hit the basics. Male? Check. Dominant? Big Check. Straight? Double Check. Solidly grounded? Check. Content with where I am at? No. Having fun getting to wherever I'm going? Abso-freaking-lutely! Still here? Oh. Good. Moving forward then.
6', 230ish lbs. Strawberry blonde with blue eyes that are great for looking into. Never quite satisfied with what I look like, but haven't gotten too many complaints. Sense of humor. Oy vey do I have a sense of humor. See, not even jewish. It's one of those sarcastic, biting wits that can strip the flesh off a topic in seconds, and loves finding little twists in just about everything. And I love blue. Blue everything. Blue shirts, blue plates, blue speakers on my computer, blue toys in the BDSM bag, even the occassional blue hair (even when it leaves my skin blue afterwards LOL). If it's blue, I'll give it a look.
Yeeesh I hate these profile things. How do you sum up a person in two boxes? Oh well, onward and upward, please keep your hands inside and mind outside the box at all times..
I'm intelligent, but not so much that I can't have a normal conversation. I like the better things in life, but not to the exclusion of everything else. I cook, enjoy music in all it's forms, have a huge passion for fun and adventure, love games and puzzles and enjoy solving problems of just about any kind.
On the alt side, I'm Dominant with a passion for sensation. I love finding each and every way to bring that sensation level higher and higher and higher and higher. And then push it just a bit higher. Ice and wax, pain and pleasure, indulgence and denial. I'll tie someone down and find every way to tease and torture their body, sear every nerve ending with every pleasure I can bring, bring them to that edge, panting, moaning, screaming, begging. And then, I'll pull them to me, and show them that what they've seen so far is only the beginning. That there is always another level, another sensation, another pleasure, another point of satisfaction. From the sensual to the sadistic, I have practiced every possible method of sensation that appealed to me. I like to use ropes, chains, cuffs, blindfolds, and the ever popular "bind by command". Paddles, flogs, single tails, ice, wax, feathers, clamps and just about anything else I can get my hands on. Yes, I'm dangerous in home depot LOL!!
Still reading? Cool.
I can be now and then found in the North East room on the alt chat, and I'm always under this username. I also use most of the major messaging services, well the big three at least. If you want to talk, I'm sure there are several ways you can get in touch with me.
~Revenant_Deka
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My Ideal Person:
Ok, now this is the easy part. It even comes in two flavors, that we'll get into in a moment.
Basics -
Female. Physical age not so important, but mental age between 25 and 35. Submissive, without doubt, because around me, you will be. I've had switches and domme's try to turn me, and it just didn't work, so I'm really not looking to waste more time on that. Looks aren't the most important thing, but you should take a pride in the way you look. If you don't take care of yourself, how can you take care of anything else?
You have to have some intelligence. I don't care how educated you are, but I certainly don't want to have endless conversations about the weather. And you MUST be honest about things, not afraid to confront situations, and able to talk through things. Just about everything else, I can work with.
Passion is a key. If you have it, I want it. If you don't, go find it. You're only living half a life if you don't have passion in it.
You must be willing to experience adventure. Whether it's exploring the local bookstore, trying new foods, making new friends, or getting a little wild on the weekend, it's never a bad thing to find a little fun in an unexpected way.
Now apply all of that, to these differences.
Short term (play partners) - Someone who is looking for exploring, pushing limits,finding out how much fun they can have and be. I do not believe in one-time deals, so I'm a bit careful before agreeing to accept a new play partner. I want to make sure that each and every person who plays is going to have the best time possible. I prefer to host, offer good meals during your stay, and will even let you pick what you want to eat. I do not want people who have no imagintion, are uptight, or are unsure of what they want. If you can't make a decision when offered a choice, you aren't someone I want to offer choices to. I take limits very seriously, mine as well as yours, though sometimes they can be pushed.
Long Term - Thanks to a recent experience, I've woken to the realization that I want to find someone on a more permanent basis. Now this doesn't mean that I'm going to answer emails, or make dates with people who are seeking some immediate commitment. What it means is that I'm open to the idea that sooner or later I'll find the right person to fully share things with. She'll not only be submissive, but will be a free spirit, independant, creative, and passionate woman. Someone that I can express my desires with, and explore not only the possibilities in scene, but out in the rest of the world. Someone who can have her door opened, and her hand held, but also wants to have her wrists tied and her sensations teased.
So, if this fits what you are, and please, don't try to be something you aren't, then you know where to find me. Leave a message after the beep...
Waiting for you...
Revenant_Deka
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